rupamohan

rupamohan

M56 F51

What is your final filter?

September 13 2011

We have 4 miles stones to apply filters. After reading a profile, after online follow up, after meeting for drinks and a final filter after playing once. What is your final filter for not to replay? Our final filter has been related to hygiene, self centred attitude and making efforts to mask it by gimmicks, female partner not much interested or just being pushed by husband.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You mean going back for more? Whether or not he is a dud root

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hygene, as described and respect for everyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    :) sustained erections , hard uncompromising cocksAfter all the other boxes are ticked, this one makes me go back for more

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    14 years ago

    I m bi very comfy if man is a dud root so long the girl is gr8.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...and think to yourself "That was nice...I would like to do that again". Do it...and be sure to freely express that with who you just shared the experience with, they are probably thinking the same thing too. | If you have that...all the other boxes have already been ticked.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    if he gets to the play stage hes passed the final filter. theres never going to be a second time, no matter how good, bad or indifferent the night has been....so for us its the face to face meet....once thats gone well and we all agree, its job done.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel'if he gets to the play stage hes passed the final filter. theres never going to be a second time, no matter how good, bad or indifferent the night has been....so for us its the face to face meet....once thats gone well and we all agree, its job done. We agree with you 100% in a singles situation joining a couple (MFM or FMF etc) we think just the once protects the primary relationship, that policy provides a safety net for sure. But we have experienced two couples forming a friendship and doing social activities outside swinging we think is nice and ideally a small group of long term married couples with no reason to go outside that group....ahhh Heaven

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quote " After reading a profile, - you filter the prospectsafter online follow up, you filter the prospectsafter meeting for drinks - you filter out the prospectsand a final filter after playing once." Unquote - if he gets to this stage .. he shouldn't need to be filtered - he has passed all levels ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We have learnt that everyones different. and try not to judge anyone by smoking habits/age/height/race etc   However...sometimes different to the norm is fun too :)   but yes, we have a 2 red flag rule..usually RUDENESS, location (lets be realistic here), looks and attitude come into play.   OR if she/ he is too rough , isnt into both of us, or no forplay.. usually there isnt a 2nd time for that guy/girl/cpl. :) Bernie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'justenough' Quoting 'mikeandshel'if he gets to the play stage hes passed the final filter. theres never going to be a second time, no matter how good, bad or indifferent the night has been....so for us its the face to face meet....once thats gone well and we all agree, its job done. We agree with you 100% in a singles situation joining a couple (MFM or FMF etc) we think just the once protects the primary relationship, that policy provides a safety net for sure. But we have experienced two couples forming a friendship and doing social activities outside swinging we think is nice and ideally a small group of long term married couples with no reason to go outside that group....ahhh Heaven we have not yet chosen to meet or play with couples. may happen, may not. so dont pretend to be able to comment on that one. we'll see how it goes if and when we decide to take the step............