M45
What is wrong with my profile?Is it the words or that i dont hav as much muscles as the other guys?:)
November 23 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lose the beard ;)The rest is pretty good, but I do worry about anyone who describes themselves as 'very attractive' may be up themselves.No offence meant, just giving friendly advice :)Mrs NTN
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think the bottom half of the profile the descriptive love making bit...I would not have that in there. Perhaps a little more about you what sort of sense of humor do you have... What do you enjoy...Are you a little kinky...I think you made a good effort. Certainly you have given it some thought. Rember the profile is to tweak interest. More Important is what you say in your first message that is almost always the deal breaker.
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RHP User
15 years ago
There is a whole list of things that make me stop reading it Firstly the name of your profile does not tell me anything other then the fact you are just a man, seeing you love Holden so much make that part of your name. Next I avoid men who list themselves as very attractive - i have always found that they are up themselves and also atrraction is in the eye of the beholder. You might be very attractive to some but you are not what I find very attractive. That said I list myself as very attractive ...maybe I should change that.... no I am up myself so I will leave it. Next - I don't care what you drive or if you have pets ...and I'm a dog lover Next: All that stuff about trantic sex does not tell me anything about you as a person or what you are looking for. However I found the section - "what you are looking for" more clear and to the point. Couples and ladies get a lot of messages and flirts, so to the point and clear is best.
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RHP User
15 years ago
...not a boy. Therefore he has a beard. I feel the need to stand up for the facially hirsute around here. Why are there so many negative opinions regarding beards? @imjustaman: some women love them, and it feels quite nice to have such a woman run her hands through it. You keep it, and good luck finding the right kind of people!
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RHP User
15 years ago
How come the people that always want to know whats wrong with their profiles have friends and validations? Obviously you must be doing something right! And I agree with the other girls - I would not put very attractive, get rid of the beard and get rid of the terrible bit in the profile about the love making - that is just way over the top and put me right off! Pusscat xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey there..just my opinion, but I don't think ur profile probably represents u in the best light. Try hard and sleaze actually both sprang to mind as I read it. I'm sure u are neither of these things but..yeah..u asked so..I'm telling. And um, rating attractiveness (especially when it is one's self doing it), I think u are better off erring on the side of caution. Really Attractive to my mind..movie star good looks. Attractive..better than the average yogi bear, Average...hey, I could see myself with this one pushing my shopping trolley, enjoying a coffee, etc and so forth. It's all terribly subjective, but when u rate yourself highly, it's a bit like the much touted 'Australia'..when u finally see it after all the hype..it's all a bit of a let down.
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RHP User
15 years ago
you ask....Why are there so many negative opinions regarding beards? Have you ever stopped to consider that some females have very delicate facial skin and strongly dislike looking like they have been sandblasted for a week or so after an amourous encounter. My poor little lips, the facial ones, have been know to nearly triple in size within minutes of a kiss. They may look like Angelina Jolies but hurt like hell. After a few days of swelling ( and copious amounts of double strength cortisone cream) they begin to peel as if they have been left in the sun with no protection for a couple of days. So its a big NO to facial hair for me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
change the story .. that always bores me ... rather something unfold as it goes along... also the second beard pic is better than the first .. with your hair spiky ... use it :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'blonde7915' I avoid men who list themselves as very attractive - i have always found that they are up themselves and also atrraction is in the eye of the beholder. You might be very attractive to some but you are not what I find very attractive. That said I list myself as very attractive ...maybe I should change that.... no I am up myself so I will leave it. Hilarious! I'm in total agreement. I've described myself as attractive but since I'm up myself too maybe I should kick that up to very attractive? ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Id say your profiles working for u just fine u have 2 validations! many guys dont! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'mjustaman, Shave-once we've known you-it may grow on us as you do...however it's presently doing you no favours... Lose the Lonsdale t-shirt-burn it...if it's not being worn in the gym or to or from the gym don't wear it or display it...perhaps post a photo of this event on your profile? The short haircut is too...look just trust me when I say the longer hair suits you better-it's timeless clasic-I could say it's something else but I'll say it's too Miami Vice ...is your name Sonny Crockett? Is there a reason you feel we need to see your ears? The sensual discovery of someone's ears should be private...stop flashing them to the world! If you're going to wear that chain and cross-frankly I want the shirt off and some pvc pants on...or maybe over with some fetching black shirt...nice jacket (I know I have a thing for jackets ok) Realistically unless you're in a band, in the clergy or trying to keep me back as you are tired or fearful or a bit of both-you have no business with such religious relics...hang it over your bed head...or on the wall.. The man bangle has to go...I'm sorry but it does...immediately-just wear it when your mum comes over if she bought it... You have absolutley lovely eyes...fabulous cheekbones and you like animals-what's not too like? If you do like intelligent women-why then have you written a profile for the remedial class explaining everything? Just say I like Tantra-that will sort the wheat from the chaff-if she's got a brain and any education she'll know...if they're on here even if they're only a Gamma or a Delta they can surely Google... The dog and cat thing-leave that...that's nice-a man that likes animals-means you've avoided that triad that usually proves problematic.... Don't have to be all detailed and put the model of your car-just say you like cars-so she knows what religion you are...and likely you'll worship it on a Sunday... From your post I understand you're looking for a woman not an insurance quote from Shannons..so if she's into cars she'll ask you what you have, what month it was made, what mod's you've done to the engine and tell you her tales of meeting Peter Brock...or her first Torana...or the crate engine she's bringing in from the states to drop in her hobby car... Don't give up all your secrets...it's making you seem needy...which I don't think you are-I think you're quite earnest and sincere which puts you at immediate disadvantage in a place like this or anywhere...plus you lose the element of surprise.. Make the changes...don't take the pictures yourself in the bathroom... Bad lighting, bad angle, bad photo...bad results.. Now...do all that...and sit back and listen for the rumble as they make their way to your door... Let's face it you only need one....well to start... I always think it interesting that the ones with the most to offer are the most often neglected.. Here's an obviously great guy being passed over whilst some a**hole out there is getting sex in abundance and some great girl if not several great girls are crying over him. Ladies what are you waiting for? NymphetamineDrm
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RHP User
15 years ago
I recently did a profile search for someone around my age and got three pages of results. Then did the same thing for the opposite sex and had 18 pages of hits. If I excluded the photo requirement there were 18 pages of females, and 128 pages of males. Nothing wrong with your profile, it’s just that the females on this site know that they can be extremely choosey, rude, and boring, and still know that they will have males lapping at their feet.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Great to see people open enough to ask for some advice.. from a mans view.. and yes ive read 100's of guys profiles...for research of course ;) beards mo's and goaties are fine...but id probably start with a freshly trimmed pic. or girls label you as a biker/druggy/scummbag etc. the profile is ok...bit fluffy, but many girls like to read guys erotic side too...so if thats you.. leave it in. i guess the trick is to attract those into you. so dont worry if some dont like the words or beard or whatever...plenty of others will :) be yourself...and dont feel you have to shave your face/balls/whole body because a couple of women like men who look like girls... B
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RHP User
15 years ago
why would you give a fuck ... Be yourself and that is all you need to be
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RHP User
15 years ago
i wanted to see what everyone was on about lol PLEASE KEEP THE STUBBLE....ITS HOT AND SEXY not all women hate a beard only some...if you like it keep it cause some of us prefer them but i am confused about one thing in your profile...you say your single but then you write about being with a couple and him undressing your woman so are you single or taken?? the girls around here dont like to be lied to in that way...we like honesty so in my opinion that should be fixed but you look fine to me roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
All your comments are well received thank you.:)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have also specified that my second picture is the most recent. (where my beard is short and neat). it should be approved soon, thanks again.:)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'AdventureTime' so dont worry if some dont like the words or beard or whatever...plenty of others will :) be yourself...and dont feel you have to shave your face/balls/whole body because a couple of women like men who look like girls... Bnicely said roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
fer a government engage ment, lol. never again man, looked like a wrinkly 14 yr old. my 12 yr old daughter screamed an ran next door ta call the cops, the ex pissed her self an nearly broke a rib rollin on the floor. never ever again man, i say never. ahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaha ahahahahahahahahhahaahahahhahahahaha Earl
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' i wanted to see what everyone was on about lol PLEASE KEEP THE STUBBLE....ITS HOT AND SEXY not all women hate a beard only some...if you like it keep it cause some of us prefer them but i am confused about one thing in your profile...you say your single but then you write about being with a couple and him undressing your woman so are you single or taken?? the girls around here dont like to be lied to in that way...we like honesty so in my opinion that should be fixed but you look fine to me roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'imjustaman' Quoting 'TassieRose' i wanted to see what everyone was on about lol PLEASE KEEP THE STUBBLE....ITS HOT AND SEXY not all women hate a beard only some...if you like it keep it cause some of us prefer them but i am confused about one thing in your profile...you say your single but then you write about being with a couple and him undressing your woman so are you single or taken?? the girls around here dont like to be lied to in that way...we like honesty so in my opinion that should be fixed but you look fine to me roxxy maybe you should put that for us dumb single girls that will only go for single men roxxy
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
If you want & feel comfortable with the beard, keep it..beards might not be to all girl's tastes but if you like it don't change for others. It's no different to a girl wearing her hair a certain way, we as a rule aren't attracted to women with short hair (a few exceptions, but they're rare) but we're sure these women wouldn't appreciate being told to grow their hair just to please others....we all can't please everyone all the time.
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RHP User
15 years ago
There's a big difference between a full beard and three day growth as far as the sandpaper effect is concerned. No sharp pointy ends on short stiff bristles, after it has been growing for a while.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I like clean shaven! better for kissing! better for me while pussy being licked! lol I guess it could be like a clit tickler! hehehe! lol I still love clean shaven or trimmed goaty! & fine line on the jaw line Hot! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi! I Checked out your Profile as you requested . I do have some experinece in giving advice to My Guy Friends everyone increased their attraction and Hits hook ups.after doing as I suggested but this is entirely your decision ...This is what I've noticed .. 1.The Bi Line ..I get it but it's a very Lame Joke .... Change it to" Wanting to Taste You...Try Me!!!"Or something like that. otherwise it makes you seem like a needy wimp, apologizing for taking up space.You ID ".imjustaman" is an apology nothing Positive in that .Your Pic show;s you wih Puppy dog eyes when it's begging.Your Beard looks like it's eating your face ..Make Pic 2 or another similar one your Main Pic. 2 The Profile. a.Be Specific don't waffle. ie b.Mention you share your Home with 2 pets a Cat and Dog.nothing more req; c. Beef up about your Commodore if you like Modifications so on it's a Guy thing Females not that interested over all..No reason to say you drive a UTE at all. d. Expand on your description of the Tantra Sex Technique People have heard of it, but not proficient in it's use or really Familiar with it Mention what it's supposed to accomplish the Goddess bit isn't required that's false anyway e. The section concerning Connecting with others in a Spiritul Way energies flowing etc. The little story about kissing her neck etc isn't relevent to you. eg. Just say you enjoy the anticiption of meeting new People who'll ultimately share themselves with you in Sexual Play for the night is something Special. Fun to be had by all. Watching your Partner Being pleasured to a climax by a Stranger ,you find very arousing .You love to pleasure a woman until she Orgasms multiple times......Keep it simple . f. Describe what you enjoy for your Pleasure, so Women can identify with your wants needs. I hope these Sggestions will give you an idea how you can streamline Your Profile makin it Specific, Clear, to the point ,but keeping your Personality too. GoodLuck! Lu :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Since when is there anything wrong with choosey???? Nothing wrong with being choosy, if you have a lot of choice. We all accept what we can get away with, and their is a different playing field for males and females, (not just hear but every pub, club and continent) Of course the flip side is that if a male is choosy, he needs to be hot, or will spend a lot of the time being rejected. There may not be a great deal wrong with the guys profile, however he has to realise that he is competing against a lot of other males for the attention of a small pool of females. NB: Run a search and have a look at the guys in your area to test the market. Must be a lot of people doing this. My last ten viewers are all males, even though I don't swing that way. It's the rude bitches that do not respond to polite requests that piss me off.
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RHP User
15 years ago
"@petticoats...There's a big difference between a full beard and three day growth as far as the sandpaper effect is concerned. No sharp pointy ends on short stiff bristles, after it has been growing for a while. " I can see you point totally....it would seem my facial lips and skin do not react rationally, they have a mind of their own with how they respond to facial hair.
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