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What is this friendship all about!!

October 19 2012

I have become friends with a man only over the last 2 weeks, but it feels as if we have known each other for years..... We chat everyday about anything! I think he is sexually attracted to me, but he won't come out and say it! I can't explain 'this thing we have', it feels so right, yet so naughty and I don't want to lose him!!! Can someone please tell me - what this is we have?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That's a start.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Don't try to label it girl.. If he isnt going to ask you.. you ask him..   Dont make your life harder CM.. just go and play.. Your profile is specific, he is still hanging around... so, he at least isnt scared of what you are offering..   Hell Girl.... I want to stat chatting to you after reading your profile..   *Good Luck* CM   caveman

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Don't try to label it girl.. If he isnt going to ask you.. you ask him..   Dont make your life harder CM.. just go and play.. Your profile is specific, he is still hanging around... so, he at least isnt scared of what you are offering..   Hell Girl.... I want to stat chatting to you after reading your profile..   *Good Luck* CM   caveman   Just a question ColourfulMagic..have you actually met or just chatted?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Don't try to label it girl.. If he isnt going to ask you.. you ask him..   Dont make your life harder CM.. just go and play.. Your profile is specific, he is still hanging around... so, he at least isnt scared of what you are offering..   Hell Girl.... I want to stat chatting to you after reading your profile..   *Good Luck* CM   caveman   Roll with this one doll, this screams fate; just enjoy the ride

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Why question something that you are both gaining something from. If the sex ever happens then that's great, but a good friend is worth so much more than one night in bed.However I would question becoming good friends over 2 weeks. Friendship takes time, effort and challanges to be called 'good'. Kind of like good hair, "it doesn't happen overnight..."I think you should just enjoy getting to know each other, that in itself can be an adventure with a lot of smiles thrown in. Good luck.Viking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sometime you have to just go with the flow, if something comes of it well and good if not then c'est la vie (that's life), but you won't know if you don't give it a go. Yes I know a lot of cliches there but all relevant. Go for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Have you met,spoken on the phone or are you just texting? If you have already met then definitely ask him.If you haven't met yet you really won't know how attracted you are to each other until you do.However as cavey said, you are very specific in what you are offering ,so I would imagine you have certainly captured his i sexual interest whether you have met or notx R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thankyou all so much! I miss him when I don't hear from him! We have met once for coffee and could talk about everything! He's very married though

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I wish you hadn't said that, Colorfulmagic. Watch out now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We thinkthat freinds before sex makes it so much more fun and enjoyable. You don't feel like your being used as a booty call or a one night stand. In this case it appears that he does want more but being married my be on his conscience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    One of you will crack and the other will say,"Your really nice but can we just be good friends"bahahahahahahah !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    reading your profile ,your just out for fun,now you seem to be having feeling for a guy by the way you put it..only draw back is he's married..at end of day this romance will not lead to more then a qucik romp if it gets that far,he could just be using you for the company.someone different to hang out with chat to.he may not see you as a sexual partner.you need to talk to him and find out how he see's things..over the years ive had many people come into my life how you discribe ,then over night their gone..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm meeting him again today for lunch! He's in town from gosford n I can get time off wk! The only thing is the age difference - I'm 44 n he is 58!!! But he is great for his age

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm only 43

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    havent changed my profile yet :S❀