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What is LOVE?
March 14 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Love is when you feel that the happiness and welfare of the object of your affection is more important to you than your own. That's how I feel for Jenny Lee. A decade later (give or take) and I still think about her all the time and can't wait for the end of the day to return to her. HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR NEXT MONDAY, MY SWEET LOVE.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Love is when you feel that the happiness and welfare of the object of your affection is more important to you than your own. That's how I feel for Jenny Lee. A decade later (give or take) and I still think about her all the time and can't wait for the end of the day to return to her. HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR NEXT MONDAY, MY SWEET LOVE. Nice Mate how did you go with working out a gift for her?
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RHP User
14 years ago
...it means you never have to say your sorry. | Try that on in a relationship for a few years and it might also mean you'll want your car and house back. | The dog..make sure it's registered in your name.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh god ..didnt we all love that movie CM - a classic chick flick Well I disagree...I think love means saying your sorry....you fuck up...you say sorry and your partner forgives.....its endless compromise and forgiveness, rolled in with fun, laughter, deep and meaningful chats, common gaols, great sex, sharing your deepest thoughts, ideas and dreams, its building something together (a future perhaps) - its allowing the other person to be who ever they are and accepting them accordingly... My brother once told me he loved his wife so much, that he missed her when she got up and went into the next room.....is that love or what ? For those currently in love...well there is no way to really describe it, you will see it in their yes......they are just happy !!!...and for those of us currently not in that state of bliss...lets be honest, we crave it....I sure as hell hope to experience it again... But ulitmately the person you have to love is yourself....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Apparently one of the most googled topics,and I think jensman probably summed it up.I think sometimes it's a forever thing and sometimes like everything else it changes.....because we change....it is certainly not an instant thing, that is a rush of feel good hormones ....love is a deepening of those initial feelings...sometimes we get addicted to just that initial rush and when it goes we search for it again....in a new partner.....that is romantic love....but the deeper love initially a roll of the dice....luck....and then hard work.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry I just read your post..(I hate delayed posting.) .that is the most awesome thing to say, write and feel and so very true....Jenny Lee is a lucky gal
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RHP User
14 years ago
Warm Summer Evening Maggies Singing in the morning Crackle of an open Fire Fucking the arse off a Hot Chick Scorching Mid Day Sun Crystal Clear Oceans Blowing my load down that same hot chicks Throat That for me is LOVE
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RHP User
14 years ago
6ft 2" - 7 - 8" - European complexion Through my own words of wisdom i think true love comes with maturity. I believe you can not really love someone or let them love you back untill you love yourself. When you do, there are no conditions it just is.........you dont have to 109 to be mature.........
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playfulminx
14 years ago
Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more...*goes off to download some 90s dance tunes*
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'playfulminx' Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more...*goes off to download some 90s dance tunes* My reaction exactly LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
Love is a brand new chocolate colored labrador puppy. So cute!HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Who I was to married to for 18 years and divorced ten years ago Who is the best father to my girls Who is a great friend to me and who would walk over ten thousand yards of broken glass to hear me fart in a tin dish My kids say I am the only person who really loves him without wanting anything from him. Hard work, has a lot to do with it. There are a ton of ways to love As a divorced couple we got to realise we do not own each other, and that the love we have is not a chain to hold each other in an unhappy place. Love is like plastic, it can bend twist break, make good shapes and bad shapes, it can be toxic as well You cant control where the heart flies. We can love and hate the same person at the same time Love makes us crazy, makes us sane, makes us happy , makes us sad, makes us commit acts of bravery and acts of cruelty Defining love is like trying to hold smoke in your hands.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I dont really think LOVE can be summed up into just one or two words. Love is a range of several emotions. To try and explai it all would be impossible for me.. It is about caring for that person, wanting to be with them, admiring them, respecting them, wanting to be in there life, sharing their sex together, and also the invisible bond they share through mutual respect and admiration. Wanting to be a part of their life and vice versa.. There are so many more emotions that are involved. Love is a connection that we feel with the other. And yes the aqdrenalin we feel in the early days is awesome, but in time as they grow together...... comes a sense of belonging and fulfillment. ( yes im a romantic) but shhhh dont tell anyone :P Or should i take my rose coloured glasses off now?? lol xxTRIPSxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quite simply something not to be taken for granted, to be treasured every day in every way.I have been lucky enough to be in love with the same man for almost 18 years and I still get butterflies every time I see him.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Got a few nic nacs to wrap up for the kiddies to give her but still haven't found that special something. Guess I'll just have to tie a bow around my dick again (sigh).
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RHP User
14 years ago
And yes I agree that it hasto be worked at by both people, But if only ones heart is in it... it wont work. To deny it is to fool yourself, To love is nothing... To love and be loved is everything....... xxTRIPSxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
You are talking about being in love jokerza? I think I am slowly coming to the conclusion that there is no such thing as being "in love". You love people and you lust people. If you start to love someone you are in lust with you are "in love" until the lust disappears then you just love each other or get to the point were you want to smash each others face in. What ever come first. Or maybe it's just me? Maybe some people are never meant to find "true" love? xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
thought I knew, but somehow it got lost along the way with the person I thought I loved the the most, he didn't feel the same about me, so for me now the only people I love is my family!!!! true love, they love and respect me, they accept me for the person I am, for my mistakes in life.... god there have been a few I realise that now. Now I love "life" and the simplicity of coming to accept me for who I am thats important to me, what I want and what I can do with my life from now on..... There is no true love for me anymore just brings heartache and pain dont want to go there again...nothing lasts forever, thats why I'm on here, enjoy meeting so many different people they all have a story to tell and "WE" all listen to them with open hearts and love in a different way !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You are talking about being in love jokerza? I think I am slowly coming to the conclusion that there is no such thing as being "in love". You love people and you lust people. If you start to love someone you are in lust with you are "in love" until the lust disappears then you just love each other or get to the point were you want to smash each others face in. What ever come first. Or maybe it's just me? Maybe some people are never meant to find "true" love? xxMeeka Okay who was he/she? And what did they do? Sorry to hear that your search has been a hard and arduous one.......I hope you do one day find that one person that brings out the best and worst in you, but sticks by your side no matter what and keeps working to improving the bond between the two of you. At the moment that person is my dog Rocky and loves me unconditionally, no matter what my mood is. My question was simply what in your opinion is love and is just open to interpretation.........take care
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is my niece and nephew running out the door screaming my name at the top of their lungs when I pull up at the front of their house because they are so pleased to see me... It is having parents that will be there for you and support you, no matter what unfortunate decisions you have made on the path to adulthood... It is having friends that you can confide your deepest, darkest secrets to and be safe in the knowledge that they will never utter a word to others... It is in the eyes of your secret love, the way he can not take his eyes of you, across a crowded room, even when he is talking to others, never takes his eyes off you... It is a precious pet, who still wants to curl up on your lap and purr when you are on a low...best anti-depressant ever...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey Jokerza, Nah I have given you the wrong impression. I have never been in love, I don't think I have had my heart broken, never had a serious relationship and to be honest I haven't gone looking for those things either. Which is why I am here and not on a vanilla dating site. And no I don't feel incomplete or what ever else you want to say. So in fairness I am not qualified to make a comment about what being in love is, it was more my observations. I know, all the romantics will say I have not met the right person yet. Maybe... But I am hoping for more than one. =D
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RHP User
14 years ago
That one passionate love The love I have for my x is different from that one time, with that one person in that moment in time. I was in love once, and it was all that heart stopping mind blowing, sexy passionate amazing time of my life. Never thought it would happen to me either Meeka. I kept a box with all his love letters, and there were many. I sometimes used to go to the hotel we used to be in, and lay in those sheets alone And I think of him as I bury my face in the pillow as if some magic will make it smell of him. But not for too long When it was over, I took the box full of our memories, the letters the photographs the jelewery the dried flower and I burnt them all. I wanted to keep just the memory in my mind and not be opening up that box time and time again. Anyone who has had this kind of passion and love is lucky, its rare but its also unforgetable.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Let's try a boy version...I like this one. | | Look into my eyes, you will seeWhat you mean to meSearch your heart, search your soulAnd when you find me there you'll search no more | Don't tell me it's not worth tryin' forYou can't tell me it's not worth dyin' forYou know it's trueEverything I do, I do it for you |Look into your heart, you will findThere's nothin' there to hideTake me as I am, take my lifeI would give it all, I would sacrifice |Don't tell me it's not worth fightin' forI can't help it, there's nothin' I want moreYou know it's trueEverything I do, I do it for you|There's no love, like your loveAnd no other, could give more loveThere's nowhere, unless you're thereAll the time, all the way, yeah |Look into your heart, baby |Oh, you can't tell me it's not worth tryin' forI can't help it, there's nothin' I want moreYeah, I would fight for you, I'd lie for youWalk the wire for you, yeah I'd die for you|You know it's trueEverything I do, oh, I do it for you | | It's the most powerful force in the universe...
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RHP User
14 years ago
A weekend away without the kids is always a great gift mate.... at least, I always enjoy giving them as I get a weekend away without the kids too... Shhhhh. Select accommodation with a decent restaurant, have an intimate evening meal and order the desserts to be delivered to your room. Make sure you pick sticky date pudding or runny chocolate or caramel style desserts... Something smear able. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
but we'd settle for an evening out. Hey, are you offering your services as a babysitter?
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RHP User
14 years ago
love is being able to be yourself with someone. love is letting someone be themselves with you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
When you feel a cold hand slap you on the arse & hear them say "Your in Love" :) Dazi
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RHP User
14 years ago
No one can tell you you're not in love, you just know it through and through ~ The Matrix. . Perhaps Love can be described as - Loving someone for all they are, and all they are not.
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