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What have you gotten out of internet sexing besides sex?

May 30 2011

I was on Facebook this evening reading the Alastair Reynolds fan group when it dawned on me I probably wouldn't even know who Alastair Reynolds was if it wasn't for a boy I met on the internet. He raved about his novels and I thought I'd give it a go. Our fling lasted for a month... 7 years ago, however during that time Alastair Reynolds has kept on writing and I have become a great fan.Other things I've picked up due to lovers and kept long after they've been gone: backgammon, The Herd, Neil Gaiman, PJ O'Rourke. (Err, there is that other one thing that I try not to bang on about that wasn't so good).What things have you picked up from your random lovers?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Umm lots of nice wine! And P J O'Rourke rocks! Pusscat xx (oh and some very interesting conversations over the years)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well, help moving is an awesome pickup Chilli! I was more thinking along the lines of music recommendations, authors, food, ideas...Often with the randomness of internet dating/sexing we're exposed to people we normally wouldn't be exposed to. Personally I think it helps to make us more rounded individuals when we kix with others from different social strata to our own.I have friends I would never have met, and I've met people who just do the most amazing things, day in and day out, for no reward, or recognition, but because that's who they are.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hmmm lets see.... . a sad love of Eurovision . twice now I have been lucky enough to have a place to stay offerred to me when I most needed it - one for a few months after my relationship ended and I was kicked out (until his new GF decided I was obviously the competition) and one for 6 weeks while I got sorted in my new state/city/job - great guys those ones (and am still in contact with both) !! . nasty habits - like cleaning, dishes, etc (trust me I am still not a neat freak but heaps better than I was) . the need to use carpet deodorising powder every week - whether I have undertaken an activity that requires the use of it or not (that reminds me must get some more) . the ability to squirt & enjoy anal (very patient one that one) . the concept that my enjoyment of the cane and BDSM is NOT an unsusual thing . the cane itself - must thank him one day , Am sure I will add more to this as I think of it . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Music: A Perfect Circle, Childish Gambino, Does It Offend You Yeah?, SublimeVarious things: A business card for a golf tutor, a black T-shirt, a black belt with a black buckle. I'm thinking of de-buckling it and using it to strap naughty butts ;)Intangible things: Confidence, friendships, a broader mind and a realisation that strapping naughty butts can be lots of fun and only as 'mean' as i feel comfortable with. LOLxx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I always suspected it...and now I am sure......all men are wankers....as with most women! l A deeper friendship with Focus. I am the one person in the family to fully share and support her in her on line life and all her naughtiness. RHP gave me back my daughter. l I have met and made some very wonderful friendships. l The confidence to be me...and if others are not okay with that? Well then, I guess it is thier problem and I am not gonna take it on board.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh I honestly wouldn't know where to begin to answer this question! I have learnt SO much from both friends and lovers ... . Off the top of my head, I'd say lots of good music, authors, comedians, fly fishing techniques, sex toys and weird websites, dodgy porn, a love of Maccas Cheesecake, an appreciation for fortnightly cheap domestic airfares to Melbourne. . I've learnt a lot of lessons, learnt a lot about other people and myself and gained a fair bit of wisdom along the way too (and you'd probably say the same PBG in terms of the thing you don't bang on about very much). . I have definitely found a whole world of people out there I wouldn't generally come across in my normal day to day

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A damn keyboard that has sticky keys, in particular the keys : m, y, e, s, h o, t