M61
What gives
May 22 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Spinafex65, I always answer even if Im not interested, thats the way my mother brought me up, to be polite. However, it appears that there are some people on here who havent learn any manners, they are a small minority and not worth worrying about. If someone does not reply to your message or flirt, then you probably dont want to know them anyway. Good luck in your search for some fun.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's not just you making this gripe, but you're obviously writing to all the wrong kinds of women! You've got to pick a strategy that works for you. Obviously sending messages to introduce yourself isn't working for you, so perhaps you could try the chat room.... or maybe some of the events are your best chance.... maybe hanging out here in the forum will draw attention to your charms.... I mean, the only thing this site provides is opportunity and the rest is up to you.And, there are some really rude cows around here. :PHugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Someone wants his arse kicked Just wait till the pocket rocket catches up with you
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Spinafex, . Do you write directly to each woman, making comment on something they've written in their profile ? Or do you write a generic message to everyone ? . Most women can tell the difference. . I have one guy who has sent me the SAME message 9 times even though I've responded each time saying I'm not interested. I've now blocked him as I'm thinking he has a few screws loose or a severe memory defiicit ! . There is a skill to getting a woman's attention on here. Happy to give you some pointers. . Cheers, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi again, . I just checked your profile.... sorry but you wouldn't get very far with me simply because your profile doesn't set you apart from all the other guys who message women on here. . I suggest you check out some of the guys profiles (such as the guys who write in the forums)..... some of them have the winning formula worked out. . Seriously... if there's a 100 guys all saying the same things then your chances are very slim. . x Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Perk up your profile, let me see why I would want to go out with you. Type what you want to say in word and do a spell check, I know it sounds picky but some of us prefer men who can spell. Have more pictures of you having a fun time. Do the other things suggested as well and I'm sure you'll improve your chances of getting a response. WILDly cheerful today
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RHP User
15 years ago
When sending a message, take the time to browse their profile and find a couple of interesting points that stand out. Then bring up those points in the message. It's common knowledge that women do love to talk about themselves, so get it happening, and you'll be a sure hit! If that doesn't work, you could always pretend to be serenading them in written form...singing "Old Time Rock N' Roll" whilst in white socks and undies. It's never worked for me...but fuck it would be funny if it did! But atleast you would stand out...
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RHP User
15 years ago
On whether I think you've actually read my profile, or just checked out my boobs ;) Usually, I do reply to all ... it may, however, not be immediately. Sometimes I just won't have time to reply straight away, sometimes I don't want to reply straight away... sometimes I get distracted and just forget to reply! However, I only reply to messages that are directed to me, not just generic template messages, or messages with just a phone number...
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RHP User
15 years ago
You're the pocket rocket maybe???? I'm confused :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just read profiles and tap into us females! It's not about you, it's about us. Make us feel special. Get our attention. and CD for the record, not all women are sickos nor demented. xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
You know what gets to me? When you have intereacted a few times, looked at eachothers pics, and they have said ''Yes I would like to meet you' then they dont reply to your msgs I mean what the F@*&%$#@
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'AmazingPleasures' You know what gets to me? When you have intereacted a few times, looked at eachothers pics, and they have said ''Yes I would like to meet you' then they dont reply to your msgs I mean what the F@*&%$#@ I got hooked in the forums, went crazy and so did my messages, my head was spinning, so it was one or the other and i went forum for a couple months. Now i am back in message land, i spent ages deleting out any handles that had more than one message in my inbox, i still have nearly 20 pages of messages, i intended to answer them, esp after getting it down to one message per handle. Then on the latest page i opened the best message i ever received, and he had actually sent one a month prior, it was there but because he sent a second wonderful email i picked him up earlier, and that is as far as i have got as we are now hooked writing to each other! B4 that i had an FWB so when we had our fun i was going to try and meet up with one of a few guys i have been chatting on and off to for 6 months, but in this instance the man with the platinum messages caught me! So the numbers are very unfair for guys, so i would believe what most girls say to you they mean, but due to the sheer numbers of beautiful men, it comes down to timing and how lucky u are at getting that contact just when the lady is free. I hope you guys can understand, that if you already have a FWB or few and you chat, cam or do forums as well, something has to give?! I myself can only see one person at a time as i have very time poor, plus i think it would be strange juggling all the time?! dunno There are a lot of other ladies here in a similar position to me and also have only a small amount of time for meeting people. Kids cannot look after themselves!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Move on Next .. I wouldn’t even bother asking or thinking why !!
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RHP User
15 years ago
hahhahaahahaha more bad luck hey !!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow opened up a can of worms with this one J Thanks for all the replies and suggestions I will look at doing a revamp of my profile.
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RHP User
15 years ago
we get so many messages from guys who are so far away from what we seek that its at the point where we no longer bother....people complain that they get no response for the message theyve taken soooo long to write, while we complain that these writers obviously havent read our profile.... kinda works both ways......
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