What exactly is bi-curious or bi-comfortable

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  that RHPers have a wide variety of perceptions towards labelling sexuality lol. In my case, I tick experimental or bi-curious cos while I enjoy a little play with girls, I def prefer men and am not actively seeking women, thus don't consider myself as bi-sexual...Cheers MrsP

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  playfulminx

  16 years ago

  I think a similar post is getting a lot of replies there so check it out.Every woman probably has her own timeframe for when she is no longer just curious and is out and out bisexual. I think there are a lot of women who probably feel safer listing themselves as bi-curious so as to not disappoint openly bisexual women.Some women just enjoy kissing/fooling around with other women so may not feel bisexual is correct for them? Perhaps experimental would be more correct then?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We think you will find that a lot that list Bi Curious  really means the girls must play together, we get heaps of responces saying "No thanks the lady here is really looking for another lady to play with" or the guys. And others say thats fine we really prefer the opposite sex. To change their profile to Bi sexual especially with the guys would certainly limit contact from a lot of couples. No way of really telling till you talk with couples, We think there is a perception out there that straight couples are unsure about playing and just looking for a straight swap and will jump a mile if there is any same contact. We have had good times with Straight Bi curious and Bi Sexual couples its just a matter of talking.   Bi comfortable we would think means a straight couple that is comfortable with the same sex in the same bed but not at all curious about same sex play. Unless the profiles specifically request same sex play we will make contact ...nothing is lost Cheers Tastietwo

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  hi, i'm definitely a bi-sexual woman which means i love being with other girls for sexual play (i like the intimacy as well - kissing, touching etc) and i think bi-curious means women who havent been with another women before but harbour those desires (or curiousity). i have been with lots of "first time girls" now, mainly at clubs like Lotus and the experience is fantastic if the connection is right (like anything else) and many of those girls (or women) are now much more comfortable in accepting their bi-sexuality and exploring further.  I'm very much in love with my male partner and get weak in the knees when i think of him sexually yet I also desire to be with another woman on a regular basis. i think we are lucky we are able to express our sexuality so freely.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I definitely agree with citysex. It is a difficult thing: bi-curious or bisexual. Some women are curious because they haven't tried the delights of a woman. I'm very bisexual but my husband only has to kiss me and I go weak at the knees and moist below.  The thing is, if you are a bisexual woman exploring that part of your sexuality, it does not mean you are attracted to all women.  Some women do it for me, and some women don't.I have had a few experiences where the lady has labelled herself bi-curious, and has indicated she is experienced and enjoys being with other women.  However, when it came to the bedroom, she was far more interested in my man than me.  That just does not work for me.  I would say she is more straight than bi-curious, and would better describe herself as experimental.I also think there are some women that don't want to put a label on themselves even after they have tried the girl on girl experience a few times and liked it. ("I kissed a girl and I liked it...")These are just my personal observations and experiences since my man and I joined this scene.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  glad you asked just looked at my profile to see what I had listed? I don't consider myself Bi but in saying that I have had fem fem experiences. so now you've got me thinking. I haven't gone looking for girl girl but in the right situation it just seemed right. Can any of us really say that given the right circumstances we wouldn't. Maybe we all have some tendencies to appreciate the same sex in the right atmosphere. We are all human and can any of us say that given the right time right place that we would naturally let those inhibitions crumble. I for one know I would. Lets not label but do what feels good at the time. Labelling puts on too many restrictions

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