~" What does a lady look for when seeking out a couple to meet & get intimate with? "~

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If i was to look for a couple to play with , apart from the obvious initial connection , first thing for me is location and availabilty. Never having had a 3sum , i would look for a couple that are not pushy and dont mind taking it slowly at first and wouldnt be annoyed with any clumsiness that comes from a first timer.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Clumsiness............how nice would it be tho, if the 3 people involved got along so well, that instead of any clumsiness being an awkward thing, it could instead be sumthing all could share a laugh over. After all...........isnt the whole experience meant to be fun for all?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Of course it would be great for that to happen , The clumsiness , well i was just using myself in that position for a first timer :) Good luck with finding what you are looking for :) n

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  My biggest concern was with first-timer couples. Had they had a frank and honest discussion with each other about their expectations, limits, wants and reasons for doing it. If I asked them and they just kinda looked at each other and shrugged that told me that there was a big potential for misstep and it became my 'dealbreaker'Other than that, I looked at them as a couple and the connection they had with each other, if they spoke of and to each other with respect and obvious love and seemed to be a strong pairing and also separately if these were both people I liked as individuals and was attracted to both of them. I especially had to feel like I could get along with the girl and feel like she liked and accepted me rather than just putting up with me because the guy wanted it, and i'd never play with couples where the guy would push for a private meeting no matter what his reason might be, I like everything to be upfront and honest and everything to be open for both of them to see and no going behind anyone's backs.it seems like a lot of big things but they're all pretty evident in the first conversation, usuallyxx Sarah

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  What a great response....Completely agree.:DQuoting 'curiousnewgirl78' My biggest concern was with first-timer couples. Had they had a frank and honest discussion with each other about their expectations, limits, wants and reasons for doing it. If I asked them and they just kinda looked at each other and shrugged that told me that there was a big potential for misstep and it became my 'dealbreaker'Other than that, I looked at them as a couple and the connection they had with each other, if they spoke of and to each other with respect and obvious love and seemed to be a strong pairing and also separately if these were both people I liked as individuals and was attracted to both of them. I especially had to feel like I could get along with the girl and feel like she liked and accepted me rather than just putting up with me because the guy wanted it, and i'd never play with couples where the guy would push for a private meeting no matter what his reason might be, I like everything to be upfront and honest and everything to be open for both of them to see and no going behind anyone's backs.it seems like a lot of big things but they're all pretty evident in the first conversation, usuallyxx Sarah

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I guess for a couple who didnt have their feet firmly planted on the ground they would seem like a lot of "big things", as u say. Its a good thing on ur behalf that u have ur own "deal breakers" too, i mean after all, no1 wants to b the cause of any ill feelings between a couple, either in person or after the fact. For us also its about the connection, we are looking more for quality as opposed to quantity, we have an amazing relationship that started off as friends 3yrs ago & have grown into wot we believe to be soulmates, (yes yes, sounds corny we kno, but we love it!), we dont "need" to do this.....we "want" to do this, but we can also wait, we are in no hurry, if it hapens, it hapens, if it dont, it dont, we still have eachother & that in itself is prety bloody HOT! So Thankyou Sarah for ur P.O.V, it made for sum interesting reading.

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