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What do you think Bi- curious & Mostly str8 will have same meaning for RHP members?
May 04 2012
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
Guys list as staight but under interests have MMF(bi). Can you be straight and suck cock? Orientation probably doesn't capture sexual practice well. Where is the line between sexual activity and orientation.Maybe RHP needs more options in the intrests, oral giving MM, oral giving FF, oral giving MF etc etc. I notice there is no category girls watch guys play?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah it is abit confusing for sure. I consider myself str8 but also a bit BI curious as well but am not sure i am ready to be sucking a cock but i know i like to watch hehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
Orientation is less relevant than what you want to do? Does it matter what you 'are'? To me, not so much, I'm not a fan of labels at the best of times. I'm more interested in finding out what you want to do or don't want to do, and seeing if we match in that way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
there is no such thing as 'mostly straight'.... you are bi or not...end of story....you arent 'mostly vegetarian' if you eat a bit of chicken now n then, and you arent 'mostly a non drinker' if you only drink on the weekend..... bi is bi....thats ANY sexual contact with another person of the same sex.... doing things with mirrors and telling half truths is deceptive and misleading..to everyone involved.......people should just 'man' up and tell the truth..... 'i suck guys cocks.....so I'm bi'......its so easy........
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm NOT bi-curious. Mostly straight would suit me as generally I'm all about the cock, but circumstances, and my innate opportunism, have led me to be with women in the past, and probably will again.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...are for peel and stick people, postage stamps that you might just want to lick then stick then send them on their way. I think most of us are experimental, or at least I would hope so...and will be or do or react differently with different people. | The tick boxes are far too limiting and maybe only indicate what you would rule in and if they aren't ticked...may not be what you would rule out, just something you haven't tried or know about yourself. Again, a simple model of the Four Windows of Self Discovery psychometric. | Life is an adventure....live it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I consider myself mostly straight and I have a rich and varied fantasy world where men never appear at all. However I have been involved in MMF threesomes and when the passion and lust and sensuality are at there peak , I have surprised myself where couriostiy and lust have taken me. So given the right circumstance and arousal I would rule nothing out as possible or pleasurable.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We do not have a problem with the labels straight or Bi Curious.The meaning is sooo obvious.We both after 35 years plus of marriage have no thoughts of Bi sexuality but like the lifestyle because we both can play together occasionally with other couples being intimate with the opposite sex.We find the opposite sex is great fun quite content and a huge turn on 4 in the same bed.
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RHP User
14 years ago
being either 'straight' or 'gay' and declaring yourself as such, is very limiting.... why not just be flexible? its much more exciting when you explore all 'options'...... and why feel so uncomfortable with a 'label'.... if all they are doing is saying good things about you......like you're actually both adventurous and exciting, rather than boring and staid?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Me ,I am curiously straight.....in the moment...who knows....labels are limiting.....sexuality is a continuum x Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mike and Shel said......like you're actually both adventurous and exciting, rather than boring and staid?Thanks for bringing that up Mike, we have had a lot of Bi couples tell us straight / opposite sex play with others only is as you say "boring and staid" or the other way of putting it "Bi couples" like more options than just the opposite sex.We see labels important, so we fulfill others fantasies and they have a good time as well as us. We cannot do that unless they tell us they want some Bi play or attach the Bi label. We really don't want others to reflect back and think of us as "boring" so best to get it sorted from the moment we read profiles......and simply say next.We smile with others saying labels are restrictive! How Bi means 2 sexes that covers 98% of whats out there.Curious = maybe and Sexual = a must!I fail to see the limiting factor, unless they are greedy or desperate? and know that some straight couples wont play with Bi males! / females.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hesione - oh to get caught in a continuum vortex with you then :) It could become like a sexual black hole.. sucking everyone around into it... cavey.. (thinking too much)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Think you cavey,think you,....my vortex is yours to be caught in x Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Who's sucking who now???
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RHP User
14 years ago
why impose 'limits' or 'boundaries'....we tend to explore a little every time we play...and discover something new to enjoy, more often than not...... by keeping both our minds, and our options open..... works for us........'flexible' is a huge concept.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you are comfortable with your own sexuality there are no need for labels.
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