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What do women want?
January 10 2011
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Tart_Du_Jour
15 years ago
So far it's - a puppy - a unicorn - as many sunny days as possible to picnic in the park. In terms of men (and I am talking casually, not long term) I like well mannered men with a smutty side who don't take things too seriously. But I'm just one person, what others like and what I like in various situations varies a lot.
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RHP User
15 years ago
honesty, respect, an open and circumspect mind, a sense of humour, a moral compass, a filthy sex drive, a healthy attitude to keeping healthy, courage, drive, a capacity for love, no victim mentality towards life in general and true, gentlemanly courtesy and manners.
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RHP User
15 years ago
A man who is interested in me and wants to spend time with me. A man who is warm, open, caring, loving. A man who is not afraid of emotions, his or mine. A man who understands that love does not control you, it sets you free. A man who wants to be in a committed relationship. A man who will encourage and support me to be the best person I can be and I will support him. A man who is interested in social justice would be a real bonus. Easy on the eye is good though personality is more important. Financial independence is also good. Someone who engages my mind is a must. Skillful and adventurous lover is a desired criteria and someone who can cook and who is house broken is definitely well regarded. Creative, compassionate, kind communicator sums it up. WTG
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RHP User
15 years ago
Other than the obvious... I like men who floss and who understand irony and sarcasm. Intelligent. Good natured but with a wicked streak. A fondness for food that isn't Maccas or HJ. Extrovert. Is able to chit chat as well as converse. Respect their own bodies. | What do you want in a woman? It's very likely your ideal girl will have a similar tick list to yourself
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RHP User
15 years ago
Pity you are so far away.I dont see anything wrong with your profile.I would snap you up in a minute!
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RHP User
15 years ago
But they usually end up liking something else.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think you have asked am etherial question to which there is no straight forward answer. Women just like guys differ, their must haves, wants and needs vary a great deal. . . Just take sexual attitude some like dominant men, other like submissive and most like an equal. That is one simple aspect that has three outcomes as a minimum. . . The reality I think is that women want us to just be ourselves. Don't be false, be open about who and what you are. Lets face it you have to have a good memory to be good at lieing. You can't make yourself something you are not so really don't try. . . There is no reason why you can not date that 18 year old you mentioned...you just have to find the one that is actually looking for you. . . Just decide what you are looking for in a woman and go looking for her, it has always worked for me :) . . LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
......but then I wasn't sure. So I took some time away from this crazy site. Worked out what I dont want. Now I am back here again believing I know what I want..... ......at least I think I do....
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RHP User
15 years ago
My "ideal" man would be: intelligent, employed, physically active, into playing sport and the outdoors, good physical shape, enjoys cooking and good wine, has a passion for life, and takes initiative. Of course I also want great sex, preferably at spotaneous times and in various positions and on a daily basis. I'm not asking too much am I ? Cheers, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's a tricky question you ask! I've found that what I want in a man and a relationship has changed dramatically over the years. Some women in that dating scene you mention will be harder nuts to crack now than since you were last there, most will have come out of relationships with little notes attached to their criteria LOL. And from experience , they may even come out still not knowing what they want, but sure as hell knowing what they don't want..... The nice guy coming last part, well gotta say as long as you have a little bit of bad boy in you, it shouldn't be an issue. But for me personally these days I actually surprise myself by having less notes attached to my criteria, I'm comfortable with myself and the differences between men and women, and enjoy them as they're meant to be enjoyed. The most attractive quality to me is natural, sexy confidence. So maybe just enjoy yourself for who you are, don't worry about trying too hard to be the perfect catch and see what happens for a while. Good luck x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Someone who is mentaly strong but not that bloody stubborn I need to beat him over the head with the cast iron pan to get my point across. Intelligent and able to converse knowledgeably on a variety of subjects from finance and economics to what makes grass grow. Articulate but also knows and appreciates the value of silence. Versatile and can adapt to rapid changes in plans with out thier whole day/week being totally stuffed up. Sophisticated enough for the city but down to earth enough to rough it in the bush. Decisive but not a standover, patient but not a pushover Tolerant of others failings and foibles. Must like small children and small animals. Must have a wicked, off beat sense of humour. Sarcasm is NOT the lowest form of wit...it is an artform to be appreciated. Adult enough to be in touch with the inner child and knows when the time is to play. Active, not a total fitness freak but no couch potato. Financially and physically independent. Not an alcoholic, a social drink is acceptable but too much is not pleasant for anyone. Partially housetrained, remembers to put the toilet seat down and smelly socks in the laundry basket, knows that the microwave is not a selfcleaning device and understands how the dishwasher works. Clean. I dont mind the smell of clean sweat but not stale body odours. Personal hygeine is important along with oral hygeine. Dragon breath is not fun to kiss. It would be nice if they were fantastic sexually as well but hey, A girl cant have everything and quite happy to train the successful applicant if all other requirements check out. l This list is subject to change without notification.
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RHP User
15 years ago
all of the above roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe you should ask, "what are girls attracted to?". Women want the world.. then when you give it to them.. they want more or are bored by the time they have it. I think chicks dig guys with a social life. I mean yeah it's good to have a house, career and all that stuff, but if you're a boring as a brick wall then no woman is really going to want you, (unless she too is boring as bat poo and who wants that). Work on attraction first. Be positive, confident and fun. If shes worthy, then bring out Mr Nice guy, at least for a while :D - Jose
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RHP User
15 years ago
So to sum up so far....a guy that can recite the the Boy Scout Oath and mean most of it (besides, they did learn to tie some really cool knots) a porn star that is no longer in the busniess but did some of the more exotic movies (you have to buy these online) and one of the winners or at least top runner up guys from Master Chef! | Hmmm...wonder if Jamie Oliver in a boy scout uniform and a wicked glint in his eyes would pass muster? Pity that on another thread his countrymen were rated as lazy and boring. Oh well. | Good whiskey, fine cigars and fast women!
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RHP User
15 years ago
What Women Want..Good question....All I know isWhat We Need is not always the same as What We WantWe Need What We Want thats pretty much a givenWe Will Always Want somthing that We dont NeedBut when we are told What We Need We Dont Want ItOh No Im caught in a paradox.....Bangs..on the Window....Let Me Out..!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Of course...just as I decide to take myself "off" the market-whilst crossing the bridge to something else-someone that captures my attention (well he sounds good so far) appears, although 1000kms away-no less... If I were a city I'd be Venice-reknown for accommodating Casanova's good times and the bridge of *sighs*. I certainly feel at times like the deep murky waters surround and threaten to eventually engulf me. Looking at Allenstown it appears be surrounded with waters that potentially threaten its destruction. I do hope if the waters rise further you do have an ark for yourself-engel.... I believe we need to ensure the truly heavenly ones survive and thrive, for when I emerge from the arena weary of its challengless pursuits and temporary delights and am looking for someone to share something on-going-I will seek someone that not only can take me to the great heights, but also has his feet firmly planted on the ground and is looking to move forward-and explore more than just the bedroom. Sex is great and it is important however there is more to my life that makes it wonderful, I'd want to be with someone that views the world in the same way or would at least be open to exploring it with me. I find that to walk around in circles aimlessly for too long is boring, makes me dizzy and is too much like the journey of the damned (they didn't have that many songs I liked-although I always thought Mr Vanian's hair was quite cool). Not sure how much my opinion counts...but as far as I'm concerned you're looking good from here. Remember some people often can't see what they can have and some people can-yet they prefer to play love games...often believing if they can succeed in making you feel like a loser as you've been open enough to show them what you've got-and they actually have nothing for you in return it means they are some kind of winner. Nothing could be further from the truth, it just means you understand role playing is fun and playing people for gain is to be a purposeful nuisance. It doesn't resolve any of one's earlier pain, disappointment or deprivation it just broadcasts at maximum volume how much pain you do have that you would purposely attempt to bring it to others...quite sad actually and not attractive at all-I'd call it beastly however that would insult the animals-more like the actions of a leech that need to draw on you to nurture themselves and become bigger than they would ever have been without you. Relationship highwaymen-BonkIt and McLame stuff eg "Stand and deliver! Yes your heart madam! (So I can feel better about myself as my mum never loved me/the pervert in the park hurt me)" then they leave...you're kind of excited at the encounter yet disappointed-someone that had it all going for them once had now allowed themselves to sink so low to have to roam afar from their home, and steal whatever they can to survive when you would gladly donate your affection to someone so clearly desperate and needy for it. Attention seeking through bad behaviour-theirs and that of their companions sad, childish and pitiful really people and things best avoided and ignored. arkengel you deserve someone real and genuine as we all do-they're more fun to play with (even short term) as they can be dark and filthy too-yet would never make you feel dirty...for having known them... and they won't ever leave you all alone to clean up the mess of their fun. Mind sex is one thing-trying to f*** with someone's mind is another and amateurish. They say everytime a bell rings an angel gets their wings-personally I've rang a few bells yet not yet found an angel standing behind the door... Although I have seen a wolf in sheep's clothing...well it was pvc. And then there were the times he answered the door naked... No wings...but God was mentioned soon after-repeatedly-maybe that's what confused me about him? Good things come to those who wait...well what other choice do I have really? Maybe a good man if not an angel will arrive at some time with a new address... Apparently 15% of the population have angel blood...now that's good odds for any lonely engel or an alien female that has a busy life and fond of wild experiments! Take care and stay safe in the floods x NymphetamineDrm "I have always loved truth so passionately that I have often resorted to lying as a way of introducing it into the minds which were ignorant of its charms".- Casanova YOU'RE PITIFUL - WEIRD AL YANKOVIC My life is brilliant What, was I too early?Oh, sorry... Should I - do you wanna start over, or... Keep going? Okay... now? Now? My life is brilliantYour life's a jokeYou're just patheticYou're always brokeYour homemade Star Trek uniformReally ain't impressin' meYou're sufferin' from delusions ofAddequecyYou're pitifulYou're pitifulYou're pitiful, it's trueNever had a dateThat you couldn't inflateAnd you smell repulsive tooWhat a bummer bein' youWell, you just can't dance And forget romanceEverybody you know still calls you...Farty-Pants But you'll always have a job - well, I mean...As long as you still can work that Slurpee machineYou're pitifulYou're pitifulYou're pitiful, it's trueYou're half-undressedEatin' chips off your chestWhile youre playin' Halo 2No one's classier than youLa la la la, la la la laLa la la la loserYou're pitifulYou're pitifulYou're pitiful, it's trueYour dog would much rather play fetch by itselfYou still live with your mom and you're 42Guess you'll never grow a clueWell, it just sucks to be you
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RHP User
15 years ago
thanks for the input to all. Still doesnt really help me but i guess i just have to keep it real, be the best i can be and hope someone see's some value in that and wants to take advantage of it sooner than laters always good =)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Make me Feel! Like Im the only Girl! in the World! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well I could say what women want..... Good looking. Sensitive. Caring. Fit. Good body. Financially secure. Good in bed. Good kisser. Intelligent. Conversationalist. Don't do drugs. Well dressed. Clean. House trained. Confident. Independent. Respectful. Good sense of humor. No baggage. Emotionally mature. Generous . Caring. Nice smile. Infectious laugh. Disease free. Well hung. Sociable. Romantic. Loves animals. Adventurous. Experienced. Articulate. Cultured. Good cook. Sensitive. Emphatic. Well thats me LOL but god, who else is like that???. Just be your self and honest guys. Thats all women really want.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It changes by the minute.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Man X who is my friend At work, there's this BEAUTIFUL girl. 100% his "type" She's got a nice body, cute face and she has a "sexuality" that most girls just don't have. The problem is: She ALSO has a BOYFRIEND. And her boyfriend is JERK. Even worse, she tells my friend about him CONSTANTLY. Complaining that he ditched her the other night... Whining about how he treats her... She even tells my friend about how awesome their sex life is. And all my friend can do is smile, be polite and be a "friend" to her. Even though he's OBVIOUSLY the better choice for her. He's got a great job, he's a NICE guy (who would treat her AWESOME) and he'd pay attention to her in bed. But... Frankly... She doesn't Care! Don't get me wrong - She WANTS a guy who will treat her well. Who will pay attention to her in bed. Who will make her feel GOOD about herself. However, at a biological level, she NEEDS a guy who will make her feel an animal MAGNETISM. We call this magnetism "attraction" which means 'the sexual desire a woman has for a man' And "nice" guys just don't make her "attracted" Here's why: Thousands of years ago, men and women lived in TRIBES. And there was one man who LED each tribe. He was called the "alpha male" or "leader", whichever term you want to use is fine. And he was the alpha male because he was the most DOMINANT. Which means he took charge, made decisions and was socially 'savvy' Now the alpha male had a ton of responsibility, including keeping the tribe alive, and defending them from intruders. Because he was the leader, though, he also got the PERKS. Including the most 'beautiful' and valuable women as his mates. Fast-forward a few thousand years, and nearly the same mechanics still work PERFECTLY. Beautiful, intelligent, funny women need STRONG, DOMINANT men to become attracted. And 'nice' is usually a politically correct way of saying "pushover" But the jerks take what they want. They tell her how to please him. And on a biological level, they ATTRACT her. so Heres how you can do it Be DOMINANT. Be NICE - And still have the 'in control' mentality that turns her on. She'll QUICKLY leave her loser boyfriend, and come crawling to you. In fact, one of my girlfriends said this to me, earlier today: "I don't get it. My friend J is BEAUTIFUL. Throw a camera at her, and it would be a cover-shot for Vogue or something. But she hasn't been on a date in THREE YEARS. She says she's hard to date. But when we talk, she let me know she just can't find a decent guy who's still dominant enough to take control of the relationship. She's too strong. Too beautiful. And most guys just can't handle it" Surprising, right? It shocked me too, for a second. But I've gotten used to this sad fact: Most BEAUTIFUL women are either single or in MISERABLE relationships. And almost always it's because either A) No guy has the guts to approach her. She'll be dressed up and at the bar, yet no one talks to her. Guys stare at her from across the bar. And girls shoot her jealous, evil looks. But nearly NO ONE walks up to her and starts a conversation. Except... B) And the guys that DO are complete LOSERS. This may ruffle a few feathers, but I've come to the conclusion that you don't have to be SMART to be BOLD. Or confident, for that matter. You just have to get a lot of liqour in you. So the guys who DO talk to her are usually drunk or pompous. They either stumble over, whisper dirty things in her ear and then try to grind on her... ... Until she politely excuses herself. Or they walk up to her and brag about their muscles, money and fame. They BORE her, and only want her for her body. Unfortunately, she has to pick SOMEONE to sleep with. And that's why you see so many hot girls with complete LOSERS: She Has To Have Sex With SOMEBODY... ... And She Has Almost NO Good Choices. So next time you see a beautiful girl at the bar, walk right up to her and start talking. Just be friendly. Be social. Say: "I saw you hanging out, and you look like a really fun girl. I had to come talk to you" One of two things will happen: 1) She'll reject you immediately, or ignore you. This isn't a big deal. And it's almost ALWAYS because her night has ALREADY been too much to handle. She's jaded. She's overloaded. And she wants to go home. Don't feel bad - You simply met her at the wrong time. Walk away with your head held HIGH, because you had the courage to talk to a woman most men WET themselves, even thinking about. That 'confidence high' will make meeting women MUCH easier, for the rest of your night. And on a good night... 2) She's HAPPY to meet someone who doesn't reek of booze or flashy money. A normal guy. Who wants to have a normal conversation. And you stay in control of yourself the entire time. Make some jokes. Have some fun. Get her phone number and mingle with the crowd. Trust me - You'll stand out when you call her the next day. Because when it comes to meeting BEAUTIFUL women, all you need to do is be NORMAL, NICE and DOMINANT.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I asked a male friend what it was that women wanted and he came back with this one liner..... l MORE!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' | Hmmm...wonder if Jamie Oliver in a boy scout uniform and a wicked glint in his eyes would pass muster? Pity that on another thread his countrymen were rated as lazy and boring. Oh well. |OMG.........you had me at 'boy scout uniform' **droools**
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Aiming2PlzU
15 years ago
Impossible........... some of us guys can do but unfortunately miracles take a little longer. What do us guys want? Well a lot of us would just like a chance to try and make those miracles happen
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RHP User
15 years ago
O.K. i am a boy. I am slightly less endowed than your average porn star. Stlill way above average and as driven as hell.I do not have quite as much money as heff. I am smart , funny, clean and I might say I am as HOt as fuck. BUT I am over 45, my dick and my knuckles do not drag on the ground when I walk upright so I am wasting my time on this site. Any other m.m(mere males) agree with with my point view. Please .
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RHP User
15 years ago
But for me personally these days I actually surprise myself by having less notes attached to my criteria, I'm comfortable with myself and the differences between men and women, and enjoy them as they're meant to be enjoyed. The most attractive quality to me is natural, sexy confidence. So maybe just enjoy yourself for who you are, don't worry about trying too hard to be the perfect catch and see what happens for a while. Perfectly said... I agree whole heartedly... Congratulations for articulating this so eloquently!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Capital, Cash and Credit. Start with them anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Fucked if I know. Okay...since you've asked nicely, but you have to feed me first then we can figure it out?
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