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What Turns You On/Off?
July 31 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
Well some profile names actually turn me off before even getting to read the profile. Turn offs. 1. Badly written profiles with errors etc that a grade one wouldn't even have. 2. Profiles written as if it was a text msg. 3. As with Peachy, I'm horny etc etc 4. Pics with more then one person in there eg. party pic so you don't know which one they are. 5. Arrogance Turn ons 1. A well thought out and honest or realistic profile. xxMiss_Honeyxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
The biggest turn-off is any profile that looks like nobody cared. The one with no picture, generic text and no personal details filled in. Even more of a turn off is the first message with e-mail, phone number etc in it, and content that makes it clear that they never bothered reading our profile. Whereas Master's pet hate is any profile that states something different to the "personal info" boxes. Like the Womens profile which states "will not play without man", or the couple's profile listing, looking for other couples - then have the text state want women only. Whereas a turn on for us is any well written profile that entertains and some horny prictures (not naughty bits close ups though). Oh - and for us the jackpot is the entertaining well written profile, with the BDSM box ticked - lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
there are some phrases that make me stop and think... what do they realy mean??? 'bring it on'.. obviously a base ball cap wearing 16 year old looking for a fight 'my freinds say i'm atractive'.. that's nice, but does this mean you think your a smashed crab? 'i'm not afraid to say what i want'.. who are you trying to convince here?? 'i don't like liars'.. well that's a shame as the reat of us do.. LOL 'no time wasters'.. ummm.. we are on the internet dear... it's where we come to waste time.. 'no druggies'.. you dont want anyone stealing your stash... 'i'm really horny'.. you are afraid of chineese herbalists who help ppl with libido problems.. 'i'm shy at first'.. but i'm sneeky enough to steal second if your arms crap.. LRE (ducks off to check he's used none of those in his profile)
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RHP User
17 years ago
'nuff said lolz
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RHP User
17 years ago
I agree with all the above. A persons writing says alot about who they are. Properly constructed sentences and with meaning. Attention all you adoring males, please use full stops ffs.
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RHP User
17 years ago
excellent question mrsPeachy and fully agree on all your points. cheers, mr inquisitive...
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RHP User
17 years ago
I agree with mrs peachy - ill thought out profiles with loads of spelling errors really irritate me! I like to think most people want to make a good first impression so you'll keep reading instead of assuming they don't really care. I also dislike the blatantly 'i'm so horny' headings or numbers or email addresses supplied for anyone and everyone - i kinda like someone who has some wants/desires of their own instead of being open to anything that walks along. As for turn on's - a quirky sense of humour, intelligence and the ability to be different always make me have a second look. Pics are great as long as they're not close up naughty pics - I have a great imagination and like to use it ;)
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RHP User
17 years ago
We agree with most of the above,The one that is really a turn off,is a couples profile,where there is only a male picture,Also pictures with dick shots.
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RHP User
17 years ago
or in an email: i know i'm not what your looking for BUT
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RHP User
17 years ago
Male profiles that read.....'Horny and in need of attention NOW'. Drives me insane.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Sheep when they are blissfully grazing in a lush wind swept field , with a scattering of dandelions , Butterflies a plenty , and the sheeps wool and green pasture growth gently dance in unison to the gentle summer breeze. Unfortunately farmers are a possessive breed , and night time activity can be some what risky , especially when there is the odd goat in the Fukkin paddock , Ive had my buzz ruined a few times . Always take a spray can of paint , coz if you fall in love ,, you can put an X on her back , If she rejoins the flock of 1000 , then she is lost forever . "OH" you mean with peoples profiles ?? mmmm "dunno" ~~~Horrible~~~
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RHP User
17 years ago
Thank you everyone for your responses so far...I really enjoy reading them and agree with most! xxMiss_Honeyxx made a few excellent points, all of which I agreed with especially about arrogance being a turn off... so did masterandwench and I'd like to add the man's profile listing that ticks the looking for couples box but the text only refers to women, my jackpot tho is having the kissing box ticked :-P lol... LRE very funny :-D I reckon you have the beginning of an excellent post there!... ItsAllGeekToMe Are you one of those people who respond to profiles without reading them lol...Oh and don't think you said 'nuff' cos we all don't know if headjobs (giving or receiving?) are a turn on or off for you lolz :-D... recharging I agreed with you too and wanted to add commas along with the full stops please lol... inquisitivecple thank you! :-)... lotus23 While I deliberately misspell occasional words like tho and gotta for a casual impression I don't understand why more people don't use spell check, it's so convenient after all, and gotta agree that we prefer the idea of people being more selective too instead of us possibly being regarded as that anything that walks along :-( There are some great profile pics for the imagination on this post ;-)... totorosanna it was a real turn around to me about your turn off being a couples profile with only a male pic cos I have so often seen and heard the opposite... B_Swan succinct as always ;-) That line worked with us once BUT never again :-(... tigress505 makes you wonder what else they got for Christmas lol... gazpacho40 we feel the same about badly formed sentences providing more information about a person's personality than using the pro-forma profile wording on it's own and it's even worse when they use the, 'I'll come back and update this later'. Adding to the pro-forma wording with your own personality, which I have seen on a few profiles, can be much more inspirational ;-) We don't mind if someone has their face pic in the public or private gallery but find it annoying when people send us their addy for us to look at pics. Nothing quite like being in the middle of a chat, swap pics, big pause from other end...then :-(... hagarthehorrible hagar you are horrible, nicely written tho lol. Who'd you plagiarise??? :-D... A couple more of my turn offs include being called babe or hon and when a guy has straight on his profile but says he wouldn't mind sucking MrPeachy's head... I luv it when people take the trouble to change the message heading specially when it's something witty lol. Would love to hear more turn ons!!! Ciao 4 now...MrsPeachy :-Deb xox
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RHP User
17 years ago
1-Profiles that say "Ask me" As far as im aware, the point of your profile, is too portray too "interested members" a basic summary of who you are, what you are seeking, and what you are not. When I see the "Ask me" answer I feel this person/s, are "on the sly" hence, that makes me feel ill. 2-Couples who NEVER introduce the FEMALE partner....again, im thinking they are on the sly...... TURN ON'S Honest, D.T.E profiles, pictures, and a sense of humor.
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RHP User
17 years ago
On: Sexy smiles with a hint of naughtyness in the eyes A sense of humour Sensual areas (ie kneck, small of the back/shoulders) exposed, especially if there is not a lot of T n A exposed. Soft lighting is always nice too. Intelligence and modesty combined. There are many intelligently written profiles out there, however not many remain modest or appear to be sharing in nature. Nice rack with a bustier or corset supporting Offs: Attitude (whether directed at me or someone else) and arrogance, particularly if it a brainless individual who thinks "Like what-ever.. is an insightful witty comment. Sigh... no shortage out there. Bad manners and judgmental comments. Are you attempting to show the world you are a selfish narrow-minded pain in the butt? Lazy grammar. We all make spullin mysteaks, but if you can't put a sentence together on a keyboard, then it's not likely you will verbally either. Materialism and greed... eeyyyuuuww.. I do not crave possessions and am totally turned off by those than need to compare/display their wealth or material possesions... I do not give a flying frijole about your jacuzzi, SUV and 20 bedroom house with landscaping etc unless (unlikely) you are nice and I am about to eat your pink bits in it or on it!
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RHP User
17 years ago
In response to couples who never introduce the female? We are one of those couples. I (Mr Lips) is always the one chatting on here as Mrs Lips does not like chatting online. We have been on cam together a couple of times, so we are for real. For those who know Mr Lips, they have met Mrs Lips and know we are real. You can't always judge a book by its cover. You may not know the reason if you do. Turn offs: 1. People who do not read your profile. 2. People who reply positively but can not go the distance to meet. Makes us believe they are fakers or on the sly. 3. People who have fake pics. What they looked like 20 years ago. Lol. 4. Fowl mouthed people on first impressions. Turn Ons: 1. Naughty but nice pics. 2. Honest, genuine profiles. 3. Have to say. We both love breasts. Lol. 4. People who actually meet. 5. People who can have a laugh, joke around and have fun.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Turn Offs: 1. Guys using stupid boring pick up lines that makes the world thinks they are thick 2. Guys comes into chat.. spot a chick wif a hot pick, and ask immediately for MSN chat. Pfft, if ya cant handle being in public, wtf you doing in RHP then? 3. Chicks tho looks at profile, and again looked, and again looked, where i messaged to enquire what her interests in my profile is? .. her reply is to look again at my profile. This leads me to write "FAKE" in teh notes section of every chicks that did that.. and my god, there's alot of those.. lmao 4. bitter pple about their own personal issues 5. plain, boring profile that says absolutely fuck all 6. Time Wasters, filled with promises they never keep. Why bother? Turn Ons: 1. All my dear chat room friends i have known in the last 2-3 years 2. Clean, but teasing Pictures of females!. I dont need to see tits, i know what they look like ffs lol 3. Good solid full on fun chat, whether in chat room, or at parties 4. Intelligent people. I just cannot lower myself to these thupid thwats just to try understand them lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
Hmm turn ons; 1) A woman who is intelligent, dominant and decisive 2) Beautiful eyes and salacious smiles with licentious leanings 3) A woman who is more than 2-d 4) A woman who engages me on more than just one level 5) A woman who is herself 6) Role play and out fits Turn offs 1) Guys messaging me even though I am listed as straight, that is not going to change 2) Chat speak profiles, erk! 3) profiles that tell me nothing about the person 4) girls kissing (yep really, I don't really get and I will never understand why other guys like it) 5) A woman who just wants to have sex and not take the time to build up a relationship that would make the sex that much better 6) emotionally distant women That's about it for now
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RHP User
17 years ago
People who dont read your profile before contacting you... they just see the photo then contact you right away!!! People will no pictures... People who right messages like a horny 13yr old boy like "ur hot im hard r u wet?" GROSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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RHP User
17 years ago
TIMEWASTERS
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RHP User
17 years ago
Lack of passion and imagination is a big zeppelin. Lingerie, confidence, and those steamy kisses that end in a sharp breath or velvety moan....mmm-yeah. And i'd be doing myself a disservice if i said a cheeky smile n razor wit are well handy tools for disarming your partner(s).
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RHP User
16 years ago
Girls painting.I have no idea why.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was looking at this thread in the last couple of days... it's one I posted under our old profile from a better time in the forums, in my opinion. Interesting turn on you have there, somehow I can imagine the idea of girls painting to be a turn on. Something to do with body language perhaps... tho it might have to do with what they're wearing, or not, in my imagination These days my turn offs include profiles that go on about what they DON'T want, particularly the ones that seem to feel they need to use CAPs to get their point across. Judging by profiles I've looked at after reading threads and posts asking if anyone reads profiles, it doesn't seem to help lolol.Turn ons include profiles that have a face pic in the pg at the very least and gives an idea of personality and a sense of confidence.Hehehe... ciao 4 now, I decided I WILL be back! MrsP'
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RHP User
16 years ago
How funny I was going to post that as my turn on but you beat me to it lol Turn ons include profiles that have a face pic in the pg at the very least and gives an idea of personality and a sense of confidence.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for that, I do luv me 'coincidences'... it is a 'funny' world we live in. Hehe and dare I say... great minds think alike lol... Hugs... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
I must say I delete every contact that says " I am a sexual animal and just can't get enough! " even though this is primarily a sex site I was looking for an ongoing relationship. Meaning the person I am looking for is someone I am able to talk to otherwise a line of endless encounters with anonymous randoms would be fine but not for me. It excites me when I have mail (and not flirts) that are polite, introduce themselves, point out our potential common interests which indicates to me that my profile has been read. It is even better when the person tells me a little bit about what they do, what they have done and what they still want to do. It doesn't matter to me that there isn't a pic as I also need to be very discreet but in the text it is nice to hear that one will be provided should we continue to chat further. To me the path to the bedroom goes directly past the attic which for me is a mans mind. Miss K
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with you Miss Kitty..I think when you connect with someone and you share some things about yourself with someone you can start to get not just a picture and an element of excitemnet too..Your sexual appeal will shine through stronger than writing something stupid about being an animal in bed or being hung like Tiger !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me Turn off is the like most the Horny needing attention, or the messages saying "Your Hot want to Fuck" then the flirts saying I noticed you noticed me yet you never even noticed them to begin with or the other kinds that make it sound you sent them a flirt Yet you DIDN'T. Also in Profiles I look into backgrounds see where they were taken are they clean or messy people etc some people are taking these profile shots yet forget that they haven't washed a year supply of clothes in bedroom etc HA!I do also get annoyed with ones making out they are the good guys and will treat a woman well etc and how they are not into other women's profiles as they are selling themselves cheap then you look at their friends list and they are full of just women showing off all their bits. Yet your meant to be believing what they are trying to tell you. Also personally for me I'm using this more as dating site possibilities of find dare I say it a sincere man who is right for me, yetthis is also used as a Booty Call site which is fine so why is ones just after booty call trying to waste someones time like mine by making profile sound they are looking for someone to share life with I do think they should show it as I am here for a good time or FBuddy and still yet introduce yourself as we all have our preferences but let it be seen why your on here Don't bull shit about.BUBBLY
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RHP User
16 years ago
Turn ons 1. A kind face 2. A great sense of humour 3. A balanced attitude to life 4. Intelligence, or at least thoughtfulness 5. A sexy mind, with rude and adventurous thoughts going through it! 6. Whatever your body type, confidence and happiness with your womanly beauty. Turn offs 1. Breasts tattooed with cartoons (ladies, WHY do you deface them? Do you think you can improve on perfection?) 2. Arrogance. 3. Failing to reply to messages, even those that are obviously thoughtful and have had genuine effort put into them! 4. Women who end every sentence with “.. and yeah.”
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platinumblonde69
16 years ago
At the risk of being shot down in flames, I really HATE validations that read "Had a hot ans teamy night with ***** and he made me cum and cum and cum. Dont pass up an opportunity to meet this sex machine." or validations that imply how great someone was sexually. Validations stating character of person are great, but i certainly dont want to read who has fucked who. I know this is a sex site but if its a turn off to me, especially when you see the same peoples names on everyones profile. I have no problems with vaildations when written tactfully, but Im sorry, just because someone is good in bed with someone, doesnt mean they are a good shag with someone else. It sounds like an advertising campain how some are written. On saying that, what I like about a profile is one that reads from the heart, and with a sense of humour, and with some degree of intelligence. But, in saying that, I can appreciate we are all on here looking for something different and I know each to their own. Just my opinion. Plat xoxox
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Profiles that only show close up pics of 'bits'... or couples profiles who only show pics of her...what is he hiding??We'd rather see one decent fully clothed pic showing faces rather than a dozen photos of pussies, dicks & boobs.Oh..also profiles that don't give info are of no interest...if you just leave everything as ASK ME ...well you eithercan't string two words together or you have something to hide!
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platinumblonde69
16 years ago
Thanks SWEETPIE2010. Its refreshing to know at least one other person feels similar. Like i said, I know we are wll different. I know its possible to meet people and not to have sex so I know validations arent always about sex. I just hate knowing all the juicy details before i even know the person. Its a real turn off for me. Like I said in room chat the other day, I wonder what the people of RHP would think of me if every guy I met and fucked wrote on my profile indicating we had sex???? Id hate knowing a guy only wanted to meet me cause someone said i was a good shag. lol. On another site I have 30 validations on my profile from guys I havent even met, let alone slept with. lol. I like reading ones saying "Ive had the pleasure of meeting ***** and can verify they are genuine. Great sense of humour, look forward to meeting again." Maybe guys like the idea of a woman knowing he made a woman cum and cum and maybe he relies on that to get future meets. I personally like to meet a guy cause they are genuine, not cause of their ability to meet and makes lots of women cum. Plat xox
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most of those validations....you just tick a box...like the flirts.There is the option to write your own...which i always do...coz I reckon the ones that are there are just tacky!As for what i find a turn on...brains behind the profile...pretty much.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Turn OffsAll the profiles that just use the profile builder stating the same old garbageProfiles that hardly fill in parts leaving them as prefer not to sayPictures that are taken at obscure angles (what are you trying to hide?)Profiles of women or couples with men in their seeking but saying they don't want single males in the textProfiles that you fit their preferences but then they don't bother responding to your message at all Profiles that state all the 'must haves' to be allowed to consider them. Turn Ons Profiles that actually respondGood pics of the whole body, not just the head or genitals or suchProfiles that want men (there are so few out there)Local profiles (even better)Profiles where it is obvious they are not stuck up and seem to be legit and willing to meet
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'RudeLove' Turn ons 1. A kind face 2. A great sense of humour 3. A balanced attitude to life 4. Intelligence, or at least thoughtfulness 5. A sexy mind, with rude and adventurous thoughts going through it! 6. Whatever your body type, confidence and happiness with your womanly beauty. Turn offs 1. Breasts tattooed with cartoons (ladies, WHY do you deface them? Do you think you can improve on perfection?) 2. Arrogance. 3. Failing to reply to messages, even those that are obviously thoughtful and have had genuine effort put into them! 4. Women who end every sentence with “.. and yeah.” I like ur check list! I am little confused on number 4 turn off is that a common thing to say ....and yeah???? I will reply to emails always whether interested or not as I see it as polite thing to do as they did take time to take notice as for flirts I don't always and I tend to ignore ones that don't fit my age preference.Bubbles xxxx
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