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What Do you Call...The Partner /Boyfreind of a Cougar...?
November 29 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
a cub scout?
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RHP User
16 years ago
A lucky lucky bastard.
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RHP User
16 years ago
A very luck bloke!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lucky fukr Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lmfao nudie... everyone's thinking the same thing. Lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
the willing victim!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Toyboys.............mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..... Call him a very lucky boy..... sweetpetite41.....<<
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RHP User
16 years ago
Puma?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Cub Scout pmsl..........@ Blasphemer Ha ha Gaz......your so Biased lol......but thanks honey.. As For being Lucky ..i dunno how lucky it is to have your date referred to as what would you son like "..asked one Waiter May I see some Identification was Another....? Now ....Lemme give you a lil background info...on my question.. One sunday night was crusing rhp on lappy out on my entertainment deck my son and his mates ( son is almost 19 btw) Turnt up and said Hey ya Mummykins what ya up too....? Said im cruising RHP checking me messages...looking for a date this weekend.... Having no Luck....one of the boys asked.....? I said no its not that....... its just that most of the messages i get either havent read my profile.....or are from Men half my age.....and younger.....? they are like Go for it mummykins.....If your happy we dont care about their age...... just that they treat you right..... This led to me Being tagged a Cougar.....( not that i hunt them....they just find me lol) so i asked well what do you call the Husband/Partner/Boyfreind......? And Lucky dont count Lol.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
So what is the difference between these 2 creatures? Pardon my ignorance! I just thought Cougar was a more respectful term for an older/mature woman???
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes...Def ..1 Lucky man!!! mmmmmmmmm....toyboys......... sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fresh Meat!
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RHP User
16 years ago
A Cougar is Often Considered as an Indepndant / Single Woman Where as A MILF....(Mother I'd Like to F*&k) Is Often Considered as a Married Mother with Children.... Well so i thought..anyways.....lol..... Who knows.....names for things that happen keep changing The things that keep happening dont change ....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well I must be a CILF then lol I am single I am independant I also have children But I am divorced Hmm pls someone tell me what I am lol AND BE NICE!! hhahahhaha
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Nudes....xxxx...A cougar is a woman over 40 happy to date anyone younger...the minimum being 10 years younger (approx).......Milf is for a mum any age for anyone......I think he is the toyboy...the fuckbuddy...and usually a really nice guy who appreciates his COUGAR for who she is and always fun...... And it's one hell of a sexy title....lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I never could understand what attracts older women/ men to a younger partner. What does a 40 year old have in common with a 20 year old. What could you possibly discuss....... The latest PS3 games out? Anyway back to the question... But I'll rate this on the basis that the cougar is 40 years of age. 30 year old male or older --- A Toyboy 18 years old or less ---- A victim
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would consider 18 or younger illegal personally... but Mr P assures me he had a great time as a youngish teen when the cougar crept into his room in the middle of the night and spent several hrs with him discussing nothing lolol.Cheeeers... the Mrs PS: I wondered what happened to the MEN younger than 30 and older than 18, perhaps you were too focused on the point you really wanted to make
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RHP User
16 years ago
No getting past you. A victim is a result of an ............... illegal action by another. I have no problem with older people who require a much younger partner to be on the same mental or emotional level, just leave the kids out of it. As far as a name for a cougars pet for every age between 18 and 39 I'll leave that up to you ppl who have an interest in it. Happy hunting
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RHP User
16 years ago
Considering this an adult site with presumably an adult clientèle or at least a clientèle pretending to be adults, I would expect the charming lady who started the post to have been referring to those of legal age when she wrote her post.I do not agree with you that this thread has anything to do with older people who require a much younger partner to be on the same mental or emotional level. I have met very mature 19 yr olds and very immature men in their 40s... each to their own!With respect... pass it on lolYes it's me Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Okay this has been a topic of discussion amongst my Adult Children and myself at no time did i mention , infer or include in this discussion or topic anyone under the age of 18 . It had nothing to do with the mentality's, Or Emotional Levels That could be saved for a debateable post on the subject we all have different views, oppinions ,perceptions and realitys Anyhoo....back to the topic at hand....... Upon having this lengthy discussion we developed a formula that would help Called THE FREAKY FACTOR Halve your age then add 7 years.....that we deduced is then the safest age to date someone without it being freaky For me thats 26..... I dont hunt them...they hunt me......It is pretty clear on my profile what age bracket im seeking. this only became a topic for discussion when i received more messages from men aged 20 to 28 years of age Than i did from the age bracket i would of liked to have gotten them from And as for what they are called...upon further research.... I Think They Call them a Safarist
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RHP User
16 years ago
What do you call a cougar's partner/ boyfriend/ husband? So as you have clearly stated Peachy, you know of 19 year olds who are very mature. Thats all very well, but lets take one important element out of the equation that you seem to be hiding behind. "Your husband" who by your profile is 43. Now let's pretend you're the cougar, married to your very mature 19 year old pimple headed husband who is proudly displaying his P Plates as he drives you to Christmas Dinner with all your family and relatives. More power to you woman.
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RHP User
16 years ago
What could a 40 year old have in common with a 20 year old... hmmmm now let's see.... it's coming to me..... no prodding... oh.. yeah cumming and prodding. Of course.... they have a desire for sexual; intercourse in common. hmmm fancy that? It's a good start. This is an adult site and its fair enough that we all presume Nudie is talking about consentual sex between adults. Besides, she's an angel isn't she! Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Half my age and add 7 years... hmmmm.... that's 31... lolz... Is there another formula I can use Nudie? hehe... once a person gets to my age he should be able to adopt your calculation Nudie.. yeah .. 26.. thats a good start. :) Works for Hugh Heffener... and Bo Derek!! Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
oOOOOOOHhhh, slammed! A milf is a married mother i'd like to fuck? Back up the truck, Nudie lol, what ever happened to those hot, fuckable single mums ?? I read an article in some woman's magazine last week, an interview with Kim Cattrall, the woman generally given the honour of inventing the term 'cougar' (as Sam of Sex and the City fame).. and according to her, "Cougar is passe. I think we’re on to something else now. It’s not about kitten or cougar – we’re moving beyond those stereotypes. It’s about so much more than just being a woman on the prowl – there’s a lot more going on than that. We’ve done the work, let’s enjoy the party. Let’s not limit ourselves to labels. ‘Cougar’ makes it all feel one-dimensional. It’s not.” Hmmm. T.
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RHP User
16 years ago
doesn't mean he has pimples... and why would I want to marry him when I have a fine husband who loves the idea of letting me play with anyone of any age I desire As I said in the first place... and it was taken from your actual profile... keep it classy... and now I'm adding that there's no need to be nasty. I am incredibly sorry and respect that you had a bad experience as a youngster but you have made your point and it has been acknowledged by the poster of the thread and myself.Please have a good day everyone... and have lots of fun... Mrs P'z
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RHP User
16 years ago
by not actually mentioning single mothers of which i am one.... Some get all shitty about it some dont care.... I thought save yaself the greif Nudes and just dont go there.... Blam Backfired .....naturally....lol.....NO offence Ment to married Women.... If you like we can have a debate post ladies on maturity... as honestly i know 40 year old men that behave like they are less than half thier age and have just about as much experiance and maturity....as they did when they left home for the first time.... I know Young Men between the ages of 20 and 28 that are so switched on mentally emotional and finacially unlike their twice aged counterparts...... Well if there is any one label that sticks to me at the moment.....It would be Single...... Nudie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mine is simply called, My lover....other other white meat...lolHe is 32 and my hubby is 58 so i am on the extreme level of ages on both sides.SO i have a husband. and a lover...simply that.Not a toyboy, not a vicitm..lol, not a cougars playmate, just simply my other lover.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I really like this topic, as i struggle sometimes in what to introduce John as....I still havent come up with a word for it yet though, so we just say "my other partner"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just call me one lucky barstard
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RHP User
16 years ago
John.......How Bout Bastard Lucky....... Lucky .....Honoured.....Overjoyed.......Hypnotising..Enticing... ..Stunning....Erotic.... come to mind...... When i think Of Leesa........... Lucky Indeed you are John... And when you think about it Labels are only there/used etc to make someone else comfortable ...... Me im way to comfortable with myself sometimes..... Nudie..xxx he he...not that that seems to bother anyone ,.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
THe band Breaking Benjamin wrote a song called Polyamourous Freind.......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very funny to read people's reactions! Seems some people still get upset that women of any age can have an adventurous sex life, something I would be surprised to read on RHP.In the gay world, we've long combated this dilemma of older/younger appropriate/inappropriate. On RHP I regularly get flirts, messages and the occasional hook-up from men who to use NudieRudie's formula, I am hitting way below that level!! Seems younger men are attracted to older partners - even if that is just for sex - for the security (not financial) and actually able to be good at sex and show them all the tricks! So, I am totally attracted to younger dudes but I don't look for relationships with them unless there is something dead special about them and their maturity matches mine and my youthful outlook matches theirs. Sure, we can never be totally in sync, but, shit - it's fun while we work it out! (And blokes around my age are fun as well...)Oh - what names do we use in the gay community for an age differential relationship? "Dad" and "Son" (LOL) Good topic...thanks NudieRudie!
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RHP User
16 years ago
So here we have a few ladies who themselves are around the 40 year old age group. These ladies in all their wisdom (and who by the way want to fuck 20 year olds) state that any man in their 40s who disagrees with such an age difference is inmature? As far as these 20 year olds who are financially secure, more than these inmature 40 year old's? Well I guess they managed to save a lot of money from their long work history (or is that allowance). As far as inmature 40 year old men? I can't help who you associate with. Here are a few lines under COUGAR from the dictionary.......... Factors leading into a search for a significantly younger or older individual with whom to share an intimate relationship can vary wildly. A common perception is that younger mates serve the purpose of a "trophy" or object of status, while older mates are perceived to have greater resources, wisdom, or sexual knowledge. Many psychologists study the phenomenon of age disparity, and have observed certain extremes of this behavior. Cradle robber or cradle snatcher[11]—a person involved with a much younger individual.
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RHP User
16 years ago
For me age has nothing to do with it, its simple, im extremely attracted to Leesa and she is everything i look for in a woman. So i dont think of her as a couger, theres no games just love and thats a good change.
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RHP User
16 years ago
awww.....i feel humbled....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ifineeduillcallu..........Im pretty sure you have missed the mark on sevral occasions in this post..... The reason being I belive you have missed the point and generally gone of on a tangent and witch hunt is that WE DONT SEE THINGS AS THEY ARE WE SEE THINGS AS WE ARE.....! Anyhoo..... Wisdom dose not come with age...To My knowledge...It Comes By Experiance Its Quite possible and Even Done.....to have a long work history at 20 ... I myself worked from 14 years of age and amassed a sum close to $50.ooo In less than six years( and yes i still had a life a car i owned etc etc) No rich mommy and daddy at my place ..... No allowance...Ever..! You can do anything you think you can do.... You cannot do anything you think you cannot do.... So yet another theroy blown out the water.... They are just theroies and accepted models of society apparently,.... BUt societys perception is changing.... As i said one before.... names for things that happen keep changing The things that keep happening dont change .... Nudie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
he is a toyboy! that is he is more than 2 years younger than her.
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RHP User
16 years ago
he is a toyboy! that is he is more than 2 years younger than her.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Down, and lick harder! I would have thought that every coug likes to have her feet licked.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi all, when I was 17 (yes 20 odd yrs ago), I had a 26yr old (single MILF), she was smoking hot and enjoyed me for my youth, evryone knew I was her toy boy and I enjoyed every moment of it. I was a mentally older teenager so I coped with it well.I look back on it and wouldnt change a thing. So what Im saying here is, give the younger guys a go, you may be helping them in their sexual relationships later in life. Tis just a pity the Dads Id Like to F@% (DILF) isnt as popular lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lucky son of a bitch and good stock of meat? btw how does one spot a cougar and approach her?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Interesting how easy it is to guage the impact of ones life experiences, values, ethics..in fact the whole moral shebang...derived from minescule momentary glimpses forums such as this expose. Mrs P...just have to say..what a wonderful well balanced grown up you are!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'ifineeduillcallu' So here we have a few ladies who themselves are around the 40 year old age group. These ladies in all their wisdom (and who by the way want to fuck 20 year olds) state that any man in their 40s who disagrees with such an age difference is inmature? As far as these 20 year olds who are financially secure, more than these inmature 40 year old's? Well I guess they managed to save a lot of money from their long work history (or is that allowance). As far as inmature 40 year old men? I can't help who you associate with. Here are a few lines under COUGAR from the dictionary.......... Factors leading into a search for a significantly younger or older individual with whom to share an intimate relationship can vary wildly. A common perception is that younger mates serve the purpose of a "trophy" or object of status, while older mates are perceived to have greater resources, wisdom, or sexual knowledge. Many psychologists study the phenomenon of age disparity, and have observed certain extremes of this behavior. Cradle robber or cradle snatcher[11]—a person involved with a much younger individual. may I say how completely misinformed your comments have been on this issue. While you base your opinion on some pretty basic truths you come off as pretty ignorant. Age does not signify maturity level, experience does. So yes a 40-odd year old has more liffe experience than the average 20-pdd year old however there are plenty of people who fit outside this generalisation. To comment on a 20 year olds limited work experience or "'allowance" as you put it is ridiculously condescending.As a 20 year old male I myself find an older woman to be very attractive sexually however i wouldn't ever become romantically involved unless we were both at a similiar maturity/emotional level. I can understand completely the flipside of older woman wanting younger men sexually, which is esentially the whole point of this topic. you have gone off on some other tangent about young men being pimple faced kids with no standing in the adult world.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Pretty happy with husband myself, yes we have recieved all sorts of comments but hey, it works for us...
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