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Wham bam thank you mam'?????
March 03 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss Spanky..I would normally like to joke around abit here and make light of the situation..But you need anwsers ..I guess it comes back to the screening process..Hey i am no saint here but if i like someone after meeting them, then you want to see them again.. If there was sex on the first meeting it is no different to hooking up after meeting them at a pub or the like. But this is not restricted to guys behavior i am sure it has happened in the reverse circumstance.Do you get a vibe from the guy in any way or is it cum time then good bye time.?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm so glad I'm not the only female that thinks like that. Good on you for saying it. If only the men out there would take notice.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Of course its not ok for you to ring him.....his wife might overhear! lol On a more serious note, sometimes you just have to spell it out for the boys. I have found it easiest to be very open and upfront. If you tell them from the start what you want and repeat it a few times it sinks in eventually. The problem as I see it is that when you say you want to get to know a guy first they see that as a possible step to a relationship. It works differently for them because their emotional involvement is only slight and therefore unimportant to them. It is very frustrating, I know, but hang in there. The messages and drinks etc are important for weeding out the guys you aren't sure of so stick with them. If a guy wants to skip the intro's then skip the guy! As for calling the guy, I used to send an sms asking if he was as horny as me and could he spare an hour or two before my boyfriend arrived. That worked for a while. Best of luck.
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RHP User
16 years ago
so spot on girl.......i have the same guidelines, and i think it is also for the issue of safety.....and getting that comfortable feeling before playing the horizontal rumba.......no matter whether is just for one night or a regular thing.... and spot on again spanky about the FB thing......it seams there is 2 sets of rules here.....one for them, one for us.... like me- stick with what you believe and feel comfortable about, if they dont like it, they not worth the effort and probably wont rock your world under the sheets too....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your drop dead gorg, 99% of guys are assholes, Invest in a quality vibe, and look for a guy that respects you.
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Frankiesgame
16 years ago
Funny thing i was talking to a few friends on the weekend... same topic.. !! the general consensis was that men are Dogs lol all they wanna do is hump!! I suppose that where do you draw the line? unless you set v strong rules at the start of the "relationship" men are going to expect that a FB is just that!! i would think that a bit of time getting to know each other is not unreasonable, so your steps are fine, just getting some guys to adhere to them is the problem!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its like the post "dont treat me like a hooker" Guys who do that are just too cheap to pay for it and figure we are here for freebies and will be grateful for anything we get. As for FB's.................. I dont think they understand that some women just want the benefit of a regular partner without all the responsibilty of a full on relationship. But there are some great guys out there so never give up and never lower your expectations xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey there spanksassy...ya gotta give a guy a break...littlejose always wants to take control of the reins from bigjose...and y'know...it's a real challenge ta let him know who's boss...and thanks, but occasionally he lets me be in control...*grins*i think it's important to chat and discover the person you are meeting up for the first time...because if you do "make sun while the hay rains"....*sorry, littlejose snuck in just then, he is a bit mixed up at times*then there's nothing better than lying in bed, getting your breath back, naked bodies touching...a breast here, a finger there, strokes and caresses...and then round 2....and round 3....and round 4...chatting...kissing...licking...asking, "do you like that?", answer, "oh fuck yes!"...i'm with you on this one...cheerstheSHERIFF (jose back soon, sheriff heading out to round up some rednecks)...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gawd I love it when you get angry~ you're so hawt spanky! I'm easily distracted, hehe. The question.... Not everybody drinks... in fact I don't usually drink... I tend to lose control and want to root everyone when I drink... so that's bad right? I need to be punished, don't I please. Some men have absolutely no respect for anything or anyone, but I think that's rare. Sexual tension is an important aspect of making the most of any kind of sexual relationship. Fact is unfortunately, I think that's where the problem resides. People get so worked up about each other, building sexual tension for the sole purpose of relieving it... and unwittingly raising expectations at the same time. And you.. well, how can any man.. any one, be around you for long without being seduced and mesmerised by your charming fun. You leave a trail of destruction wherever you go. You and that Jane girl creating broken hearted men all over Sydney. You intensely tease and then you run leaving behind nothing but a handprint and a warmed bottom. hehe. There should be a bulletin warning about you in Men's Secret Business... hehe. Hugs Stsalky
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Bubbaj
16 years ago
oh boohoo! who wants to be stuck being friends with a dud root?! lolalthough i like to talk to ppl first and then never meet...wats the harm eh?! :Pim completely off topic...why....coz i can be hehe.but back to it, although the song says "a lil less conversation and a lil more action" ahuh elvis, its hard to know whether there is some kind of attraction to the brainy side and not just physical attraction. Who knows, there is always the ppl out there who look hot but then end up having something annoying that you dont like in person. Is it good to say yes lets just meet and fuck when you saw their hot pics and then find out that they have something like a very strange voice (if you dont like that kind of thing) and then how do you say, nope its not going to happen and then the other person just gets shitty at ya? Although i did say brainy but there are other things that can play a part in you not wanting to just screw that person on the spot, everyone has lil quirks they dont like! I dont leave broken hearts.....i leave rock hard cocks feeling unwanted! so shoot me if i just dont have the courage to go all the way and leave u with a smile on ur dial!
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
Spankysassy Oh wish I lived in your area and we were FB's. Yes FB's can and do contact each other. One of my mates sons had such a relationship for a number of years. They both had their separate lives but when they were out and feeling a bit frisky and didn't like what was on the menu, they would ring each other and bonk each others brains out!!!!! Yeh I suppose you could almost say it was a relationship, it propably was in a way, but they didn't live together or have much to do with each other other than the obvious and they were both free to do whatever they wanted, they just got it on when the weather suited. Anyway, this is what I would have referred to as a FB - perhaps FWB?????? So when I'm next in Sydney I will have to buy you a drink, we will make Stalky sit by us and watch us.....not too closely though.....lol.......but then again.......... Cheers Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
Far out Spanky... you could hardly blame the bloke for being in a rush as you do look amazing...Like a kid at Christmas tearing of the wrapping in a rush to get at the gift
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think half the problem is guys thinking this site is an interactive porn movie. How many porn movies show a guy treating a woman with respect and dignity? Not many.Listen up guys. This is a sex site, but that doesn't mean manners and human decency go out the window. A girl still likes a bit of fore-foreplay. Guys might be very visual and get turned on by a pair of tits but they have to realise to a woman the brain is the primary erogenous zone. Stimulate her mind and she'll return the favour 5 fold.Or you could just wear a name tag?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just wanted to say thanks to all of you beautiful people who took the time to answer, and thanks for the sweet comments. I feel better today, after i got it off my chest. So, many thanks once again, you guys and girlies ROCK!!!!!!! xoxoxoxoxox
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'spankysassy' Just wanted to say thanks to all of you beautiful people who took the time to answer, and thanks for the sweet comments. I feel better today, after i got it off my chest. So, many thanks once again, you guys and girlies ROCK!!!!!!! xoxoxoxoxox wheres Stanmore? can see a sinbin road trip a happening.ya need some rescuing,ahahahahaahhahaahhahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
I prefer to exchange a couple of messages, have a couple of phone calls then just go for it. Coffee never really achieves anything at all, and just cos you like someone over coffee doesn't mean you will have great sex. If i really like someone after I have played with them a few times i might do coffee or drinks, but i would prefer to play first.
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