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Well I Never would have Thought...

December 21 2010

I got the surprise of my life to day when a woman stated that my profile was insulting to "smaller" women. My profile makes a historical referance to a period in time when women were basically larger. It is clearly an historical referance stating that it was a sign of good breeding, health and wealth. Now the person who sent me the message said I was by implication saying "smaller" women were pooly bred and not real women I quote her : "If you dont think it is an insult to call a smaller woman not real or of poor breeding then I wish you the best of luck" Do you think at times people over read a profile... LC

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    All the time the "fat chicks" get bagged and the "skinny girls (and guys )" say fat is unattractive and you get complained at for wanting someone with curves? Obviously it was a skinny chick reading your profile and she took umbrage. I know someone who just cannot gain weight and gets sick of people critising her for being anhorexic, which is far from the truth. Maybe this woman is one of those people. There is a topic active at the moment critising people for putting up a little extra padding when they should be ticking the fat collumn. Well there is a spot for petite/slim but nowhere does it say skinny/scrawny either. There is a world of difference between petite/ slim and skinny/ scrawny. Just as there is between slim and athletic. If you like curves...then you have the right to say so on your profile. I like non-smokers, I am aloud to say that. Sometimes people do get a little to analytical yes. If they dont like your profile, they may feel free to move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just move on and forget it - she has problem, you have your tastes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It def wasn't me....i lurve my food, and it show's

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    And here we go again.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It sounds like a woman that has nothing better to do than find fault with everything. Its a shame people like this can't just keep to themselves. Im sure if confronted with different shaped men she would exclude people on size.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It didnt worry me at all I was just so surprised...Other funny message we get from time to time are expected. I dont really see this being a can of worms since it is not a debate about anything other than the unusual. I just had to share the info with you since it was actually quite funny. If she actually read all the profile she would have read that I find beauty in most women... Be Good :) LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    its funny how someone thought that was a good enough reason to message you about it so many people when they contact and you say no thanks, sometimes give a reason why and they will come back with "well that should be in your profile" you have put it in your profile what you want and you still cop it hahaha some people are never happy roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Isn't it hard enough to keep track of all the profiles that are a match? I guess it is nice to give an explanation, but geez, I just don't have the time (or enough daily messages) to explain to every profile we view why they were not what we were looking for. If it's not a match then just move on.Mrs NTN

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    LC have you considered that she might fancy you and got affended that (in her mind ) she didnt come up to scratch to interest you ??? i think she has the hots for you mate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'ritmofish' So if you say fat chicks... the fat pack attacks... If you say skinny chicks....the skinny pack attacks... I wonder if i start a skinny chick forum thread, i get some nasty email from skinny chicks its been done hahaha...Easy started it and boy was it a doosie you should look it up hehe hun it doesnt matter what you say...some will attack, its the way of humans roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Your profile is definately much more inclusive than the majority of womend (mine included) on here and YOU get hate mail...oh the humour in it....I could point you in the direction of men who have 'skinny girls only' on them or the most memorable one which is ll about his foot fetish, couples that only want other couples, not looking for single guys, ruling out smookers (oops thats me).....and You get hate mail....ROFLMAO Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It's just yet another indicator that people: a) Waste their messages (which they usually whinge about having to pay for) b) Don't bother reading a profile properly c) come in all different shapes and sizes with different tastes and preferences. According to an article in The Age today, 2010 was the year that saw "a big obsession with the natural body beautiful". It noted that many "slim women" took offense to the usage of the term "real women". Meh. Horses for courses I say! My body is alllll mine and I love it! I have no trouble acknowledging this when I look in the mirror. Perhaps it is this point that women of ALL sizes should consider before getting all narky and sending useless messages the likes of which you received.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You know I like people...most people...every one has a story to tell. I am not one to judge on appearances. Some of my best friends have been people you would not walk across a bar to meet. Being lucky I have been lucky & still met these people. One on the reasons I like the internet is you get to know people with out meeting them. By the time you do meet face to face you already like them & you are hooked on a friendship. There are lots of RHP people I would love to meet and share a few drinks with I know we would already be great friends just from the banter on the forums. LC