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Wealth! Does is make them more appealing?
February 27 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
networth statement each tax year says I am a millionaire. (Fact)I drive a 2003 Hilux, own a 2004 Harley and own a piece of shit trailer(fact)I am STILL a cunt.. (fact)And I STILL don't like many people at all.Last time scored on here was 6 months ago..and THAT was because she thought I was in a bikie gang (Fact)Last time I scored in real life was 10days ago, because she thought I could get her a job on the mine I STILL work at. (Fact)Both were wrong...and I am STILL a cunt (Don't give a shit)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Put it this way, money doesnt help his tongue, fingers or dick work so its a big no from me and just face it, heaps with shitloads of money a stuck up toffs which I cant stand being around. I go for personality and humour before anything else.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I could care less about someone's personal finances. It is none of my business. I am more interested in personality and if I am attracted to the person. Having said that, I wonder if those that are well off, maybe have more luck due to having the drive to actually make the wealth??? Possibly the personality and attitude are the actual turn ons and it is just attributed to the money??
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RHP User
8 years ago
In fact someone bragging about how much money they have would be a turn off as this would show me what kind of personality he has. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
But it won't make an appealing person more appealing. A few years ago I dated a vey, very wealthy man. Nice guy, looked good on paper, but just no spark. A girl Friend remarked that given his $$ I could try and feel Something lol. I truely couldn't. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...wealthy women. 🙃😉😆⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Welcome back .... not quite sure what this part is intended to mean though...... perhaps you could clarify albeit it from some who are probably pushing shit uphill otherwise in the dating stakes
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’ve never been materialistic or judgemental in regards to wealth or social standing. None of my business anyway. I’m more interested in whether you’re a good person, friendly, happy and respectful. I’ve always mixed well with people from all walks of life. I’m comfortable rubbing shoulders with millionaires and successful entrepreneurs just as I am with people living week to week. I am turned off by people who brag about their salaries or wealth. So what? Can still be an asshole. I’m equally annoyed at people who whinge about others who have more than them and a victim mentality. There’s way more to life than things. We all become dust in the ground regardless. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
I’m not materialistic, so for me it isn’t. On here it has no bearing in me deciding if I would meet someone. Unless, their photo or background in photos looked really dodgy. Regular dating, If someone likes to tell me about all their stuff I find it a turn off. But I think that sometimes men do it not to boast, just to try and show that they have themselves together. It’s like part of their dating resume because society identifies material wealth with success. The people I hang with are similar to me but I know lots of people where cash and impression are key. I try to avoid them. Not saying people don’t deserve their material success and great for them. It’s just not my scene when it becomes superficial. It’s always about the person and connection first, but money and people’s attitudes towards it has a big impact on relationships. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
While on the surface it's always the same, no it doesn't matter... There is a certain likable factor to it that does unwilling make people with money be given a better shot.... Not necessarily the ass that brags about it. But if you knew he was well off (and in turn successful), it immediately adds to their attractiveness... No doubt I'll get ripped apart for these comments.... All I can say is look at the studies... All involved said the same with their mouth, but voted differently when the rubber hit the road... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...but you can always rent a bitchin' substitute. ⚡️⚡️⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
I'm appealed to those who posess their own wealth from knowledge and life experiences. Someone who can enrich and stimulate my mind. I've dated a shitload of wealthy rich men. One thing that does turn me off, is when they think I can be brought or an apology is a prada handbag. I do love my handbags however I earn my own money to buy my own. I'm happy with that. As they say "The rich have lots of money, but the wealthy don't worry about money". Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
It's what you do with it, that counts. 😎 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Me Foxy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just to be clear, I respect and admire successful people, well most just not those who use it to try and get laid, just the same as I do any other area they may have succeeded, self drive is very appealing and success in any form, shows they have had the focus to get there. Not a gripe against success or wealth. Earthqueen I like when they tell us a bit about themselves within the profile and ideally first message, I know what you mean about having their life together. Definitely love them being open. What I meant more was would you have sex with someone filthy rich, who you wouldn't normally? I can't, I treat people equally reqardless and could never be intimate with someone I wasn't attracted to. I've had guys pull up in beaten up old bombs, and the opposite, but it makes zero difference. As many of you know, I'm a lover of cars, I don't begrudge people spending money on whatever they choose to, just I'd lean more towards a hilux dual cab 😀 than a convertible, even better if it came with a sexy driver 😍 @ Cavey - yes but would you trade all of that for half a lamborghini? 😉 😉 think we know the answer to that and good for you 👍 @ MrAandMrsE - yes the drive to get there, that is appealing to me @ Lionsdoll - yep nailed it. I'm also comfortable mixing with people from all walks of life but like you say, the person is what really matters and yes we all finish up in the same place. Couldn't agree more @ lovebitten - yes I haven't dated them but have been approached by wealthy men, at the time I was in a desperate financial situation, but it didn't make a scrap of difference to me either @ HappyGoLucky - the bragging hmm yeah, fine line between disclosing and bragging, the latter is a turn off to me also @ NortyNancy - I met someone the other day who is a people person, naturally witty and fun to be around, and found his actual looks became less important. Not a love interest, just an acquaintance, but noted to myself how appealing his personality was @ mischievouslad - thanks. I think it's pretty self explanatory, certainly what I've said above might clarify it more for you @ chasinmidnight - not a sexist post so interested to hear all opinions and no judgement to those who approach differently to how I do, including those who like sugar dating, please feel free to come in and comment. Just throwing it open for discussion Thanks for your replies. Have a great day 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was contacted only this week by a person Who I politely rejected for various reasons He returned my message stating that he was a multi millionaire and how it was refreshing for him to be rejected for who he was and I wasn’t like other women who sussed out his profile and saw straight away how wealthy he was Then He went on to list his stats, his assets and achievements, I thought I’d stumbled on a article in Forbes but re reading his message a few times, it indicated to me that what he professed to have, was not a reality. I could be wrong but I dont think so I have just spent the last 3 years living in some of the poorest and remotest areas of South America and although at times I struggled with my western ways and ideas there, I found the people I was seeing each day were richer in ways I at first struggled to comprehend. They showed me that true wealth is found within ourselves. And they were right So as much as having money I imagine would be nice to experience all that it could buy I don’t believe in the end it reflects the true value of a person and if you have to bleat about it, to me shows, a character of question
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry your post wasn't showing until now, yes couldn't agree more 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok so I have some wealth a bit more than others but still work hard, and only have a Porsche to drive. I holiday overseas and have a apartment in the city as well as some other properties. However my profile does not reflect this as its not important , its what you do with it that is. I have helped out a lady on this site who was enduring a hard time with her car and she was forever grateful but it was not bought with the intention of going to bed with her it was given because I could and we eventually went our separate ways. I always see if someone is on an equal footing and at least offers to buy a drink which then I would decline but the offer being made is good enough for me. So money just gives you choices but you are who you are and wealth shouldn't change that
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RHP User
8 years ago
It doesnt matter to anyone in what context. Its my business. If people need to brag though, then in my view it screams insecurities, which we all have in some way or form? As far as 'shameless' bragging, I like to think most people shamelessy brag about something. I've heard some woman in here brag about their incredible head job abilities. Maybe they are pushing shit up hill, so need to be great at something? Don't know, just a thought. My take anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Your right. If there were two identical people and the only difference was their pay check I think most would go for higher end rather than lower. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Money doesn't matter to me. It can't buy class or love. LC.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That's exactly how the studies I've seen were conducted. First impressions based purely on a set of data and an image.. and then they changed the data around through the group of images and interest followed the money. I'm certainly not suggesting wealth will get you laid... Unless you are straight up paying for it.. And I'm not suggesting people only chase money. If you're an ass then it will show and people will move on...if you try to buy love from your partner then will usually be happy for a little while then move on... It takes more then money to keep love.. but it certainly opens more doors and gives you more opportunities.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I may not be wealthy monetarily but I feel rich as a person. Materialistic people annoy the shit out of me. I'm happy to work hard and buy things I like but I do not need to prove anything to the world or anyone else. You can't take money with you, but you can leave a legacy. BB
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quote "Everyone has money It's what you do with it, that counts. 😎 Ms Foxy" Couldn't agree more.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
When all the clothes and accessories come off all the wealth you have does not matter. Money and wealth will not matter in the bedroom. Even expensive lingerie which is appreciated by us men. All that will come off. So it is the cheap ass birthday suit given to you free as a hand me down from ya parents at birth that will be working through a play session. Swinga...
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've always preferred a pinch of salt to a teaspoon of sugar... The fora is certainly the place for that! Peachy
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Ms Foxy
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Wealth or perceived wealth does not impact on whether or not we find someone attractive (mentally or physically ) or not. What we find attractive is : Intelligence Well travelled Worldly Wise Educated Articulate Well versed Well groomed Healthy & in good shape Good teeth & impeccable oral & personal hygiene Respectful Classy Sophisticated Well spoken Non smokers Disease free Relatively attractive ( not just physically but moreso mentally which encompasses all of the above ) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
if I sold my home that is ? Sounds impressive' but in reality I'd then have to buy somewhere else , so that effectively takes me back to where I was before I momentarily became that millionaire and that means I still need to work to maintain some sort of decent lifestyle. As foxy said , it's how you spend that counts.. If you save more than you spend , and spend wisely , you gotta be in front..
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Using wealth instead of natural attraction is just plain wrong. It's about the person , not their bank account.
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madotara69
8 years ago
We just want people being themselves and to feel comfortable being themselves. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
People wanting me for money?? Nahhh never experienced and no I’ve never sought it either... But... My problem is that they only want me for my cock!! And all I wanna do sometimes is cuddle and talk about feelings and shit 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
No I wouldn't rip you apart for that comment. I agree and find it appealing myself, minus the bragging lol All good, thanks for your input 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for your replies, all appreciated and some great points raised
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Money buys material possessions, that can be taken away at the drop of a hat. Money doesn’t make you a better person. So to answer your question no if someone has money it doesn’t make them anymore appealing to me. I go with my gut, it usually doesn’t let me down. 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
Money is one thing but power is something entirely different. Men value money and compare to other men. It’s much harder for divorced males to be alone than females. A woman’s ego cannot bear to tolerate a man using her for her money. She needs to know she is loved—rich or poor—flaws and all... the entire point of having money is that it gives you the freedom to have someone for love rather than security. Male millionaires don’t seek out female millionaires because, to them, it doesn’t matter what she makes or how he makes her feel. All that matters is how she makes him feel: appreciated, accepted, adored. But in all honesty does it give you fulfillment. It never could. There are many studies... of this and that and they often contradict. Some are done as true experiments and they have some credibility, but you need to know something to be able to judge. Interesting topic Op and I am curious to know why did you ask? (Ms)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Interesting post, different needs of men and women, so true, and I'd like to find some of the studies that have been done. I think they'd make interesting reading. My post was inspired by men who seem to think their material possessions and wealth make them more appealing. Maybe it does to some, hence my question. I certainly wouldn't judge anyone leaning that way. Interested to hear all opinions and the reasons behind our individual feelings about this. Thank you for your comment
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RHP User
8 years ago
😂😂 What else can you do except put the cuddles and feelings aside and give them what they want 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
get em tiger 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
The best way I heard it said was that it's not what you've got that's important, but what you do with with what you've got that makes the difference. A wealthy but self indulgent person will always be a lesser person than someone of modest means who makes a contribution to improving the the lives of others.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Breeds confidence, confidence is sexy. Now that I have money and I know I don't have to worry about purchases or budgets I can relax. That may seem like confidence and in a way it is. It's the confidence knowing that I will be ok and not the insecurity of university and pot noodles - Posted from rhpmobile
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blondes6365
8 years ago
Having a good income doesnt make you happy mite make life easier in the long run we guess but cant take it with you when your numbers up Our way of thinking is is we have our health and can enjoy getting out there camping and exploring spending time with family then were wealthy in our own way
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RHP User
8 years ago
It wouldn't push you higher up the list for me. Bragging about your wealth, however, would. I earn my own money thanks and whilst some luxury in life is nice it is not a necessity. So not high on my list. That said not working, living off Centrelink and having no intention of trying in your life would push you lower down the list, regardless of the positive aspects in a person. Been there, tried that, walked away.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree that it's what we do with our money that counts. Do you know that there are men who are worth 70 - 90 Billion? Who needs that much money???
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes indeed, that's insane. Might be just on paper of course, perhaps they grew up poor and constantly build wealth for fear of regressing back to that? But agree there's a limit to how much money we actually need
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'peachy Yes indeed, that's insane. Might be just on paper of course, perhaps they grew up poor and constantly build wealth for fear of regressing back to that? But agree there's a limit to how much money we actually need I did think about that potential fear, and got to the same place as you. Peachy, ain't we sweet
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RHP User
8 years ago
I called in to a market near Peppermint Grove, small supermarket within. Very nice, had it's own proper coffee shop inside 😛 Anyway, my daily routine when I'm not working is to get breakfast, coffee/banana/chocolate on my way out for exercise, so grabbed the coffee and set off around the shop looking for chocolate. Couldn't find any so asked, was told yes, heaps in one aisle. There was but nothing under $10 lol it was all fancy packets and boxes, most I'd never seen before. Ridiculous, what is it below them to eat a bloody Mars Bar? 😉 Needless to say, I went without, spent 30 cents on a nectarine and carried on 😀
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er_hotguy
8 years ago
I think we all gonna keep saying not for me but I think reality is different we all love money at the end, my opinion tho. - Posted from rhpmobile
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er_hotguy
8 years ago
Wealth makes life easier but definitely will not makes you happy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'jennifer102' It wouldn't push you higher up the list for me. Bragging about your wealth, however, would. I earn my own money thanks and whilst some luxury in life is nice it is not a necessity. So not high on my list. That said not working, living off Centrelink and having no intention of trying in your life would push you lower down the list, regardless of the positive aspects in a person. Been there, tried that, walked away. Haha, just re read this! Should be Bragging about your wealth would push you down my list!!! Must have been tired that night!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I assumed that's what you meant 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a FB, I won't even bother finding out because it's all about the physical attributes and the fuck. 😛 If it's for a potential mate, yes... it matters to me. I've spent many many desolate years living a hand-to-mouth existence, I've experienced the threat of homelessness and the worry about how I can pay my bills and feed myself. It was such a harrowing, gut wrenching, soul crushing experience, I never want to be that way again, ever! Now that I'm in a much better position, I don't wish to be anywhere near poverty because that scares the bejesus out of me, I'll be honest. I care about my financial well-being and I want my potential mate to have healthy finances as well. Those who say money isn't important probably never had to fret over the essential basics in life. Money is so important and I experience sheer joy, bliss and peace of mind if I have money for my basic needs and more! I unashamedly confess that I love my creature comforts! 😛 Right now, I can't enroll in yet another course after the one I'm doing now finishes because it's out of my budget and I'm not assured of any R.O.I. for that. And I've become so paranoid about living without that I aim for 0% debt now. I know that if I love someone and he is in financial hell, I'll help him out but at my own expense. That's why I'd rather the person be doing well. It's not for gold-digging... It's to preserve my own wealth and sanity!
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RHP User
8 years ago
...I have had men here flaunt their wealth to try and entice me and get me to meet them and hop into bed with them. 😝 Biiiiig mistake! I'm not for sale and if pussy isn't licking her pussy lips from the guy's appearance / charisma / personality / pheromones / whatever, then it's no-go! Pussy has absolute veto voting power! 🤣 They could wrap their wieners with a wad of $10,000 notes and I wouldn't even touch them if pussy says go-to! Damnit... if not for pussy, I'd be so much richer! 🤣🤣🤣
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RHP User
8 years ago
... wouldn't touch them if pussy says no-go. 😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
Told by a friend from here, where a guy from here took 2 women friends out for the day and offered to shout lunch. Lunch was a large chips to share between them. The fact someone has money means nothing till you get to the moment they have to spend some. 🍑y
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hahaha 😂 yes I understand all too well what you mean, just clawing my way back now and although not still great, at least I can afford to eat now and just managing to keep up with my bills. Onward and upward as they say, but being hungry and facing the same things you mentioned, it scares the hell out of me too. As for pussy making the final decision, yeah me too 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol was he financially able to afford more? If so the bowl of chips was a bit stingey 😁 One of the reasons I don't go out on dates much now is because I can't afford to eat out and don't like them having to pay. Having said that, there are cheap share options, a bit more than a bowl of chips I mean 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL'The fact someone has money means nothing till you get to the moment they have to spend some. 🍑y That's just how some people get to be wealthy and that's by not paying their dues. I think we've all seen someone with short arms and long pockets. They will scrimp and save and bludge off others just to get ahead financially, they remain miserable bastards for ever.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Too strange, and yes apparently he had money enough. It was his invitation... So, what the?... Ver' funny MrMojo, God bless the Scrooges of our world, may they learn the error of their ways. Peachy
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Dryphuz
8 years ago
I've been unemployed and basically broke for so long i don't remember the last time i had money that wasn't government issue (centrelink) and i gotta say i always felt like it wasn't worth trying at all during this period. And this period is not over although there is some light at the end of the tunnel. Honestly i just feel like its not the amount of money, but the access to enough to do what needs doing (your half of the bill, not living with parents etc.), which i haven't had. You do feel of lesser worth without money and the more you have the better you feel. Its probably got something to do with my age too. I think i could deal with being 20 and broke, but 36? In other people i don't give a damn one way or another.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Dryphuz' I've been unemployed and basically broke for so long i don't remember the last time i had money that wasn't government issue (centrelink) and i gotta say i always felt like it wasn't worth trying at all during this period. And this period is not over although there is some light at the end of the tunnel. Honestly i just feel like its not the amount of money, but the access to enough to do what needs doing (your half of the bill, not living with parents etc.), which i haven't had. You do feel of lesser worth without money and the more you have the better you feel. Its probably got something to do with my age too. I think i could deal with being 20 and broke, but 36? In other people i don't give a damn one way or another. People bang on about how they don't care about money at all and money doesn't make you happy, but try being long term on Centrelink... unemployed, disability pension etc., and see how tough life is and how happy you are when you don't have enough money for food and a roof over your head, let alone any luxuries. Plus it's not just the lack of money, it's the fact that in our society people's worth is judged largely by the jobs they do and the contribution they make to society in a purely economic sense. Which is bullshit but hey, yay capitalism. If we're talking about above average wealth then no, that isn't a point of attraction for me and whether it influences my perception of them would depend on factors such as whether they brag about it, whether they use some of their wealth for altruistic purposes, etc.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can’t wait to ditch the Mcmanasion I “had” to build to maintain status with my now X. The place is way outside what I feel comfortable with and in no reflects who I am. It’s pure look at me and what I’ve got. Doesn’t sit well. So, I’ve learnt now that giving others what they want in no way makes you happy. Ahh the journey of self discovery. BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your ex? Should I say congratulations lol Actually I do want to say that. I think you'll be a lot happier. Funniest thing, when people asked me if I had a husband at home or if I was married and I told them I was separated (and subsequently divorced), every single time they would say how sorry they were. I said don't be sorry, happiest I've ever been in my life. Do you get them saying that? I assumed it was an assumption that women have been dumped/cheated on or whatever. Age old stereotypes. Well then, you're starting life afresh. Good for you 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Truthfully i am already happier than I’ve been for years. Family, friends and work colleagues have all commented on my very exhuberant outlook right now. And yep, lots of “advice”, well meaning of course, but the only advice I am listening to is my Solicitor, I think she was flirting with me😜 Bring on the future. It’s bright and sunny in my world even if it’s pissing down rain outside. BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
A twitter story in my email caught my attention. Apparently, the world's 500 richest people lost $107 billion due to stock market fluctuations... Peachy, even chips aren't as cheap as they used to be...
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol what's the odd billion here or there? 😉 "How was your day dear?" "Yeah not too bad. I lost a billion today but not to worry" 😯
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RHP User
8 years ago
You might get a discount for services rendered 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wealth isn't attractive but someone who is financially stable is. I don't want to get myself involved with someone that can't save, or is drowning in debt. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
No way - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Usually get to know the person a little before you find out their financial status...to me anyway. So its the bits and pieces you get to know first that are appealing to me.
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