We find it hard to find our first couple.

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  On_Safari

  12 years ago

  http://redhotpie.com.au/Mobile/Forum/Thread.aspx?topicID=43082#p=thread - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  And relax. Be confident and comfortable with each other, and your playmates will be too. Don't rush... And don't drink excessively... And remember to communicate... All of you. Remember to have fun... 😈 hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Apply within.

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  Paradisepair

  12 years ago

  For us to make our first connection... Performance issues are common in this scene as is the use of Viagra and Cialis, personally I prefer it when a guy takes them because it turns them into ever ready bunnies and I prefer a marathon encounter... In fact I wish the younger guys would understand it's not a blight on their manhood to take one... especially when they really do have issues...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Wouldn't it be better if the guys learned the skills of self confidence ? Besides... If the young boys weren't there it might improve my chances of a call up... 😜 Err... I mean I'm interested in helping young men build a healthy self esteem... 😄 hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Apply within.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I don't think it is totally a self esteem thing... I think lots of guys get stage freight because they have to perform while someone is watching. Meh happens the first time and occasionally I am sure.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  But it does still cum 😎 back to confidence and self esteem, that's why they call it stage fright... And it usually happens when you're expected to perform before you've settled. I don't really feel comfortable with this culture of shoving drugs down our throats/up our arms/up our nose... Are there any I've missed ? Especially when little blue pills are taken as "precautions" it just seems to be creating a dependence where none may be required... If you gave a medical condition, well to me that's different. But that's just me... It's no secret that I'm no fan of silicone and cosmetic surgery either. But I do like waxing... 😄 hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Apply within.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Yeh we are to! We are really keen to meet people but things really haver gone our way :( - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I don't think being watched is tough part. I fucked a mans wife while he watched and it was fine. Being able to satisfy her makes me a little nervous. What if I fail? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Is simple isn't it?? You meet people when you pay for groceries at the supermarket, etc... While I realise we don't all fuck the check out chick etc. the principle should be the same right?? Relax and go with the flow..... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Lurk. It's exactly the same principal... I'm going shopping... 😈 hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Apply within.

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  rupamohan

  12 years ago

  As a swinger you will have first time two new experience. Planned sex...this is not as easy as it sounds..sex was never supposed to be planned it was all about spontaneous mood. Most swinger sex is planned and rarely is booty call. The second new experience is unless you have picked casual dates before, to pick up casual partner with limited information. So yes it is tough. We all want first experience to be best. My suggestion is that don't compromise but don't expect over the top from others and yourself. Being realistic is the first step to enjoy most. Our regulars are Aussie born experienced members. Many of our first timers have been overseas born from sub-continent. The anxiety they face is quite different from locals. I don't think it will apply to you if you are local first timers but I can still share our exp. Unless the couple is very young, hubby gets very conscious of his performance, has never used condom..and simply can't get up...and when he sees his reluctant wife suddenly having fun of her life time...it makes him even more uncomfortable..

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Dear all, Thank you for your message and your advises. We are doing baby steps but the lifestyle is a journey. - Posted from rhpmobile

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