F53
Was it me ??
May 08 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
You are a very sexy girl so I say screw him.. You sound like you did all the things right and left with dignity. Move on and find people worthy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It sounds to me like he doesnt like to use protection. He knew you were coming so should have been prepared. I always carry some myself so it is not an excuse. Good on you for standing your ground and leaving. It is not an easy thing to do when already aroused. I bet he was not too happy being left all horny and half way there. Next time he may be a little more prepared.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Was he married or attached maybe his conscience got the better of him maybe he is actually stupid enough to not bring a condom I've only seen your profile pic but u definitely look very hot to me it's best to not think to much about these things although I'm sure you would of been disappointed just maybe have another look who's out there and you never know he might come around again if you still want that in the meantime have fun I hOwever didn't even make it to the hotel room this morning because we both forgot to give our numbers to each other and msn is crap and the msg on here take to long to go through oh well it happens have a great day nicki bye
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Fiona...unfortunately us girls are the ones now that need to carry the condoms around in our bags! I would say easily around 98% of the men I have met for sex from these Sites..don't carry them or "forgot" them or "oh, they are in my other wallet"! This is where you can turn around and say "That is ok, I carry my own for excuses just like this"! Lol! < As for not hearing back from him...this is part and parcel of meeting men from these Sites! Most (not all) just want that once quick empty and you will never hear from them again .. Seriously, it is no loss at all! As your gf said...NEXT! < BUT...don't be surprised if you hear from him again when he can't get another root! That is how they work...they will try and yell NEXT and when noone answers their mating calls or takes their crap...they will want sex with you again! Be strong and tell him or any other guy that treats you in this manner to go and have a wank or pay a hooker! Or as Ted Bullpit used to say "Leave the money on the Fridge"!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes it could have been you....sure his body was responding but was his head???...he could have been going through the motions but his brain may have been saying - "nah Mate this isnt right she just doesnt really do anything for me" and used the no condoms as an excuse and if you hadnt of left he may have said to you that he doesnt like to play without them and things just got too hectic for him to get some...sorry. . I have had this happen to me - all of what I perceived to be the right signs...his body was responding but in the end it wasnt really what he wanted. . You stated that you were being more aggressive than you normally would be - this could have easily scared him off particularly after so much talk (as you have indicated) and this aspect of your personality hadnt been mentioned before. . Sometimes it is us - we just dont fit the image of what they expect . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason'. Sometimes it is us - we just dont fit the image of what they expect WTF?! hath hell frozen over? women admitting it might be them? *glances fearfully at the sky for frogs or fire and brimstone to begin raining down* 2012 people, end of times is nigh nickii: Assuming that he isn't just slow in getting back to your messages or had some other reason, then yes, he likely doesn't want to fuck you anymore - that could be you, or it could be that the reality of the situation didn't match with how he expected it all to be in his head.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' WTF?! hath hell frozen over? women admitting it might be them? *glances fearfully at the sky for frogs or fire and brimstone to begin raining down* 2012 people, end of times is nigh lmfao.... she is probably in a cum coma... you know... in that instant of satisfaction and relaxation.... ask a question and the truth slips out. HUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
That's terrible. Just say NEXT and forget him. But I do like the advice of carrying condoms ourselves.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can't believe that neither of you had condoms! In this day and age.I reckon the lovely Focus is on the money.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' WTF?! hath hell frozen over? women admitting it might be them? *glances fearfully at the sky for frogs or fire and brimstone to begin raining down* 2012 people, end of times is nigh lmfao.... she is probably in a cum coma... you know... in that instant of satisfaction and relaxation.... ask a question and the truth slips out. HUgsStalky Sheesh Syd (missed your sexy body by the way....mmmm....perving again) you are only up the road from me and should know that its freaking cold out there so am pretty sure Hell hath frozen over As for you young Stalky - that was last night tonight I am in a mood where I may admit to being wrong on the odd occassion and to recognise that sometimes it doesnt matter how many messages you exchange, nor how many pictures you see, or even how much you see of a a person on cam nothing quite beats seeing someone in person to determine whether that sexual spark is there and when faced with a straight up play meet some people feel that they have to perform regardless whether there is any sexual attraction there or not. Quoting 'xxticklishxx' That's terrible. Just say NEXT and forget him. But I do like the advice of carrying condoms ourselves. Ticklish - how could you not carry your own??? Its the only way to ensure that you have them....it isnt just up to one person to consider protection within a sexual relationship and really why would you rely on another to maintain your sexual health??? / Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
well: I have used a number of excuses in the past.. you get to meet..and there is no chemistry... or whatever... These days I can just say.. "Umm, I dont thinki this is going to happen... i dont get sparks" and, I have had it from a lot of women too... I feel sparks, and they dont.. yep.. it is me :) Next.... !! play the numbers.. life is maths!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
well thanks for the advise , made me feel extra secure about myself being lol. . you would think that if he didnt want to fuck me he could have had the balls to say it.. im an adult and can handle not being his type but if someone aint interested SAY IT , dont use excuses. No hard feelings to him .Was no real biggie , someone else is around the corner anyways.. n
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'GoodKinkyfun'You are a very sexy girl so I say screw him.. You sound like you did all the things right and left with dignity. Move on and find people worthy. Well that was my intention to 'screw him' but yeah his loss not mine. x N
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Nicki, . I've been in a similar situation multiple times ! Sooo many guys "forget" the condoms. In all of the cases I experienced it was because they were "hoping" I wouldn't want to use them ! (In my case I'm not on any contraception so they are compulsory AND I tell the guys this BEFORE we meet so they know how serious I am ! The "but I'll pull out" crap doesn't crack it either !) . Early on in my RHP days I didn't like the thought of carrying condoms but I do now. IN fact... I have a little box at home with various types and sizes just in case the guy tries the "but I'm too big, sensitive" line etc. They have their pick ! I do feel a little like a pharmacy but hey... better to be safe. Oh I also quite like the thought of which condom I should recommend for the guy.... I turn it into some fun. . Hugs Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
well its obvious he was after a quick easy fuck .. he will call back when he wants another! your call form there i guess
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think anyone who has that many excuses is not that serious... I have never come across a guy who forgets to get condoms when he knows full well he might be in with a chance!!! I think it was more a case of he thought you were so hot for him that you might throw caution to the wind!Nic, as you said, it has not happened before to you, and if I was a betting woman, the odds are that it was him, not you!NEXT! ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' . Early on in my RHP days I didn't like the thought of carrying condoms but I do now. IN fact... I have a little box at home with various types and sizes just in case the guy tries the "but I'm too big, sensitive" line etc. They have their pick ! I do feel a little like a pharmacy but hey... better to be safe. Oh I also quite like the thought of which condom I should recommend for the guy.... I turn it into some fun. I usually joke about the number, sorts and styles of condoms I carry too....though for me I ususally reference the scene in Pretty Woman where she pulls them out of her boot . No excsues for them here either because like you I carry a range of them for expressly that situation. . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Focus, . thanks for the Pretty Woman reminder... now my boots can serve double purpose. I've got a pair of those Pretty Woman CFMs !!! . I guess the inclusion on condoms in the boots really does explain the Come Fuck Me description. . Cheers, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'that he's Catholic??? Sorry to burst your bubble on this one Chilli.....but back in November of last year, the pope came out saying that he endorses the use of condoms to prevent the tranmission of STI's ....God only knows what he'll endorse next...lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sometimes it's a bit of fun to mess with their head...especially if they are a dickhead. Maybe about that time you could have tried the line "Oh, that's okay. I haven't asked any of the guys to use them for years...and the doctor says I'm not really contagious right now anyway". | Keep the camera handy. I'm not sure what the Grand Prize is on "Funniest Home Videos" but I have a feeling... | ...you could have been a contender. | | Why does the term "fater than a speeding bulllet" just to my mind?
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RHP User
15 years ago
so it was me , i get that. just hope the next one isnt a tool and wastes my time.. gotta have that bad experience to endure the good ones.. thanks for all your input. next time i'll stop to pick up a lil somethin , just in case....
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RHP User
15 years ago
well i dont think so if i was meeting someone and there is sexual tension you would be silly to go with nothing well nic you cum over to my house anytime call me any time adam mada
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RHP User
15 years ago
adam , im going to keep you to that x
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am at the stage where we need to start treating men like they treat us. At present everyman on this website is being a total dickhead, except for CM who seems to be the only decent male on this website. Shame you live in Victoria. I have been flirted with, messaged, texted, screwed and screwed over. If the men on this sight cant treat women right they dont deserve us. Sorry girls and guys but not happy at prsent with the way I am being treated, I need some TLC now. I dont need abuse or to be ignored.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok.. here's a game.. you walk in .... fully clothed... and say to him.... "I have a condom hidden on my person somewhere.. if you find it, you can fck me...." and, if he looks ok... you might reveal... "Actually, IF you use the first one you find well, I MIGHT encourage you to find to find the OTHER ones..." But, was he really worth even thinking about his crap?? *NEXT....!!!!* your caveman x
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RHP User
15 years ago
No caveman he wasnt worth it. I shouldnt have gone to him after twice before being stood up. But am sooo over it , and there are plenty of nice guys on here that if i did that again , wouldnt be put in the situation. I shouldnt have to take condoms as i always mention the need for them. I think i may have just found my Mr Next.. n xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
YEAH! Thats the way girl... :) Good luck, and good sex :) xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'nickii_7' Quoting 'GoodKinkyfun'You are a very sexy girl so I say screw him.. You sound like you did all the things right and left with dignity. Move on and find people worthy. Well that was my intention to 'screw him' but yeah his loss not mine. x N
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RHP User
15 years ago
wow Nic, i had no idea it was such a milestone in your journey...mr no condom tool! i think your expectations are reasonable about him having a condom or 4, especially as it would have taken him the whole of 10 minutes to get to a shop and back to is place.....but that aside...i think your expectations of a decent level of maturity on his part, thathe could be honest, and simply say, "hey I'm just not that into you", in a non hurtful and maybe even humorous way is unrealistic! given mr tools age and past 2 attempted meets.... i said it before and will say it again....NEXT xxx Lulu
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'lulu71' i said it before and will say it again....NEXT xxx LuluI know hun , ive said NEXT too many times too, i guess its too hard to expect a nice decent guy that wont fuck you round and be honest and have some maturity.. oh well.. I might pick up my bat and ball and go home lol xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
A nice guy isnt that hard to find , defenetly his loss , and why drive 45 mins after getting screwed around the first time ? oh well u should look a little harder for somewhere less of a drive , devon meadows near tooradin , yeah hehehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
well you would think that it wouldnt be hard to find one with the masses of males on here but alas seems not in my cards to find one. It is near tooradin , just down the road abit :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can only add to the chorus... defainately not you. Hey the worlds an imperfect place and things go wrong so I can understand perhaps not being able to meet the first time round, maybe, perhaps. But no condom the second time! Hell I would have brough a couple of boxes! Not because I would expect to use everyone of them (although I'd put in a gallant effort) but at least one out of 2 boxes WOULD work! I wouldn't want ot miss the oppurtunity. I guess cute's not all it's cracked up to be. :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well maybe we could have a chat since im quite close to u ?:P
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RHP User
15 years ago
Excuses are a plenty on here and you get used to it bob , but yeah when he had plenty of time to go down the street , as lulu said , before i got there.. Despite his cuteness , normally i dont go for looks , seems there wasnt much between the ears.. The bad experiences only make the good ones better. Quoting 'bob26354' I guess cute's not all it's cracked up to be. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Any guy over 50 who has had his kids should go to Doctor Snip and get himself fixed up "All it takes is a little prick"I did and it was worth the very short prick (the needle that is not me... the Good lord did me a favour in that department) and now we can both enjoy the sensations without any of the risks.I know a couple of mid 30's guys who have also done the same as they think their wives/girlfriends don't have to take pills or those horrible IUD's just because he wants some horizontal folk dancing without any risk.So nickii you tell those guys to get rooted 'cos they ain't rooting you girl until they get their act together.If it ain't on it ain't on
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