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Wanting A Suprise

October 19 2024

I've been fantasizing about being "taken" by a hot stranger and being roughed up (hair pulled) (choked) (slapped a little) for almost 13 years now. The fantasy started about 5/6 years before I met my husband. He's an adventures lover who doesn't get jealous easily.. his fantasy is actually a 3 way in either direction.. and has had experience with MFM. Should I try and control the situation by getting to know the third? Or should I let him find someone to switch out without me knowing? He knows exactly what I like.. so I'm leaning towards trusting him.. I'm just nervous.. and excited.

Any advice from people with experience?

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MsSuperFoxy
a month ago
I'm sure you'll find someone over there in Washington. ;)
You're seeking someone on the same level. Best both of you, met the 3rd prior.
Ninja Fucks still require Trust.

Ms Foxy
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gazpacho
a month ago
Batman jumps out of the wardrobe, plugs him in the butt, then.takes it out of his bum straight into yours.

There’s nothing either of you can do about it.

Then, just like that, he leaves. No words. Lots of grunting.
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Apples_N_Oranges
a month ago
So, doing the math . . . . 6 + 9 . . . . 2 x 12 . . . 🤔no . . . . Ah got it!. . . . So you met your husband about 7 years ago, he has had experiences being the other male/adding another male and it sounds like he is willing to help make your fantasy come true.

If you trust your husband to choose the right ‘stranger’, situation, location etc relying on experience and knowing what you are attracted to - go for it!

As Ms Foxy said, best for both of you to meet him before. Another option is for your husband to meet him, to get a feel for the guy and go from there.

How much control are you willing to relinquish to fulfil your fantasy?
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Primal_Curiosity
a month ago
Abs and have this constant conversation about implied non-consent levels in a long-term d/s dynamic. And we've (I've) played this card numerous times with fun effect. I'd give examples but I don't wish to offend with some of the ideas I had in the heat of the moment.

What I'm getting at is if you let your husband take control of this, is there a deeper layer of submission attached to this in your psyche that provides a bigger thrill or opens a new door for you both?

In open relationships of any kind, there has to be a stronger sense of accountability, transparency etc... for it to work effectively. Is this one of those moments he can display that level of responsibility in choosing the right guy and thus strengthening your bond further?
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Cozee
a month ago
We've decided to find someone more local for my 1st MFM. Get to know someone and feel out the experience.

But I am more turned on by the idea of traveling to Australia for a few weeks.. mainly why we chose RHP. 🤭
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nightingale8
a month ago
Consensual nonconsent is way up there in experience levels to do it right. I haven’t done what you’ve described, though it’s a nice fantasy. Nonetheless I don’t feel like I’ve missed out and have plenty other things I’d like to try first! I have taken my time in various things to work out what I like, mostly on the premise that I can’t take back a bad lasting experience. I’ve had average experiences, sure, and that’s fine I’m not looking for perfection (when I’ve found it though - omg 🤯)

There’s lots of different components you’ve mentioned. Perhaps start ‘smaller’ with just one or two components and build up?

I agree with Primal. Hubby needs to be able to take control of the situation and you need to know what and how you’re relinquishing control, safe word etc
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Funhonesttreats
18 days ago
That sounds so hot 🔥🔥🔥
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