M68 F39
WOW the discrimination
August 25 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Can you please tell me how having a personal preference in the type of partner you are looking for..whether it be long term or for casual fling.. be discriminatory? I feel you need to be attracted to a person physically as well if any kind of sexual encounter is going to be fun for all involved. Kisses Focus Oh and welcome to the ooze pond...enjoy...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Talk about pot calling kettle here! Just had a peek at the OP's profile: only after women or couples aged between 20 and 50 - isn't that discriminatory? What about those under 20 or over 50, single men, do you decline if one of the members in a couple is above or below that age criteria? A lot of people are here for more than just a 'casual fling' and/or have personal standards on whom they will sleep with. Anyone can seek what they desire, if they are after a 6'5" blonde cigar smoker with big boobs between the ages of 30 and 35, GOOD BLOODY LUCK TO THEM. It is their choice, it is their preference on whom they want to meet - no one has a right to criticise what they want. Not everyone here is willing to jump into bed with whoever says yes (or just hints broadly). Someone could be the most perfect speciman of their gender and there will still be people who want find them attractive, will not find them fuckable - it is human nature.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all have preferences....some people are more obvious about than others.. Have fun and enjoy this site...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I didn't mean it in a negative light but thanks for the broadness of your responses. I'm obviously just down to earth and no dont just have "casual flings"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' Talk about pot calling kettle here! Just had a peek at the OP's profile: only after women or couples aged between 20 and 50 - isn't that discriminatory? What about those under 20 or over 50, single men, do you decline if one of the members in a couple is above or below that age criteria? A lot of people are here for more than just a 'casual fling' and/or have personal standards on whom they will sleep with. Anyone can seek what they desire, if they are after a 6'5" blonde cigar smoker with big boobs between the ages of 30 and 35, GOOD BLOODY LUCK TO THEM. It is their choice, it is their preference on whom they want to meet - no one has a right to criticise what they want. Not everyone here is willing to jump into bed with whoever says yes (or just hints broadly). Someone could be the most perfect speciman of their gender and there will still be people who want find them attractive, will not find them fuckable - it is human nature.I think you'll also find that we haven't counted out single males, and obviously if you look at the ages on our p/file that isnt an issue either.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't expect everyone to be attracted to me, just as i am only attracted to a certain type of woman.Its not discrimination at all. I do not want to invest my time in someone i am not attracted to, and i would expect no less of anyone else (even though the knock backs may not be all that pleasant).Just think, the people that are into you are into you for a reason. That makes things all the more passionate, exciting, and intense. Be thankful for those who love short women, and not upset at those who don't.All the best!
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RHP User
15 years ago
thing that pulled me here WoW = World of Warcraft!! *sigh* im hopeless!!more on topic.. you think short is bad.. try a day im my shoes.. Evolution made a list of all the things people find attractive... then.. it made the EXACT opposite.. then that opposite took a shit .. and that shit is me!But its peoples personal opinion.. I'm sure you have your own personal preferences... Most people seem to prefer taller skinnier mates.. i personally prefer average height girls!! But at the end of the day... World of Warcraft is my preciousness!!
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
We all have personal likes & dislikes....it's the nature of the beast. It's not discrimination at all. For example, We find smokers unappealing so we don't seek them out ...our choice. Others don't like facial hair, so we're off their list...it's no big deal ! The key to all this is being honest to others & yourselves.,,,just be upfront! BTW...you're a couple but you only have photos of the girlie half on your profile, that's not being upfront. All couple's profiles should have BOTH parties photos available.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'shanmyster7'thing that pulled me here WoW = World of Warcraft!! *sigh* im hopeless!!more on topic.. you think short is bad.. try a day im my shoes.. Evolution made a list of all the things people find attractive... then.. it made the EXACT opposite.. then that opposite took a shit .. and that shit is me!But its peoples personal opinion.. I'm sure you have your own personal preferences... Most people seem to prefer taller skinnier mates.. i personally prefer average height girls!! But at the end of the day... World of Warcraft is my preciousness!! W on each cheek and when she bent over WOW ahahahahahahahahahahahaha Earl
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for the input. I can see that I was probably a bit narrow minded when I posted this. Spare of the moment and didn't engage brain before typing
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RHP User
15 years ago
yes "easy going swingers" seem very hung up on some things..cpl4u girls have been negitive to short guys for years...so its funny to see guys saying no to short girls ;) as Brett says, everyone likes different things...thats GOOD. for us its about vaiety...try someone new...not a mirror image of your partner? Neo
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeh we thought it was about World of Warcraft too.So dissapointed.Damo and GA
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RHP User
15 years ago
Agree its about variety, and yes this site is not about finding marrage partners its a swing site. Generally people on here think they are looking for that special click / spark, How often are we all told "no thank" when everything lines up in the profiles. After all we are looking sex....the criteria is: Does it move? Lets swing! Quoting 'NeoAndTrinity' yes "easy going swingers" seem very hung up on some things..cpl4u girls have been negitive to short guys for years...so its funny to see guys saying no to short girls ;) as Brett says, everyone likes different things...thats GOOD. for us its about vaiety...try someone new...not a mirror image of your partner? Neo
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RHP User
15 years ago
hahaha world of warcraft? no wonder you dont get a root!! ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Seeing the age difference between your extra cute self and your luck husband indicates there's no age discrimination on your behalf. This is heartening in light of the popular trend towards the cougar culture. Some native cultures married young partners to older partners so that the senior one could impart knowledge and experience in both sex and survival skills. It was not unusual for each to have three marriages. The first to learn, the second to enjoy (same age partners) and the last to teach. Obviously life expectancy then was not as it is now.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You now what I find excruciating? The OP made a comment on the now closed "Lists" thread suggesting my remarks were vindictive and nasty and like nearly everyone else has walked in either half blind, not so bright or selectively reading the thread. Someone in chat blocks discriminately against people of certain sex over a certain age etc, makes rude comments to others and is a known source of chatroom fights and you bunch of wowsers scream blue murder because someone compares looks to a smacked arse? Gimme a break and HTFU. Tell me how this is different to blocking someone based on race? Tell me how this is different to blocking someone based on a disability? Would you defend someone who said "You're blocked because you're black"? You do gooders and wowsers are bloody quick to jump on my comments but you must have double standards or are too dim to understand the reasoning. If you went for a job interview and were declined the job based on your age, sex or marital status it would be lawyers at 10 paces. Don't waste your time trying to tell me my comments are unfair because I no longer care if I upset people in here. I no longer care because I think too many don't have the level of comprehension needed or are just looking for the easy soap box to stand on. I've been discriminated against most of my life in many ways and not then or now will I ever tolerate it simple as that. I don't care that people call me a wog, I don't care what other names people call me or what comments they make about the way I look, that's just teasing. Real discrimination most of you will never know, it's a damn site darker and more dangerous than a few nasty names. And as for your comments Myname, if I was bullying nobody would be unsure, it would be emphatic as I don't do halfway. I'm not an ass, I just treat others how I am treated. I understand that people have tastes, we are all turned on by something different to the next person and nobody has the right to question peoples preferences but when you treat people in a lesser manner because of it then it becomes discrimination. You are ALL welcome in my life, I just wouldn't sleep with all of you.. If anyone wants to change the way or comment on the way I deal with people you're welcome to do so on November 7 during the MS Sydney to the Gong charity ride, join up and raise $250 sponsorship and I'll let you bend my ear for a whole 90km or 180km if you're fit enough to ride back with me, I'll even wash and service your bike afterwards. At least my 90km of suffering your moaning will be raising money for a good cause and making you live longer.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged' If anyone wants to change the way or comment on the way I deal with people you're welcome to do so on November 7 during the MS Sydney to the Gong charity ride, join up and raise $250 sponsorship and I'll let you bend my ear for a whole 90km or 180km if you're fit enough to ride back with me, I'll even wash and service your bike afterwards. At least my 90km of suffering your moaning will be raising money for a good cause and making you live longer. Can you give me a dink? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
....I still loves you and that yummy chest and your oh so cute bum...mmmmm....can I play with it again???? Please?????? Oh and best of luck on the ride..... Kisses Focus
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
This topic or variants of it has been 'done' so many times. I was musing over it (I really need a life!!) and had a bit of an epiphany. Ask yourself the question. "Would I have sex with the next person I lay eyes on provided they are not a direct relative?" Then ask yourself "Why?" Perhaps IF you can answer that for yourself you might have an inkling into what makes people 'discriminate' Agreed some people overthink things and seem to be looking for the perfect person. But really do you want to play with the type of people who just take anything and everything???? Swingers pride themselves on being open more open minded and honest than 'muggles' so why can't we be honest enough to say what we think and prefer and open minded (and adults) enough to accept what other people say and think even if it means that they are being negative about you. Quoting 'Donna_Brett'We all have personal likes & dislikes....The key to all this is being honest to others & yourselves.,,,just be upfront! For us it is about the experience so variety is important but we still reserve the right to choose for ourselves who hops in our bed.
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RHP User
15 years ago
In my experience ' I have found you can probally miss out on some choice cuts by being too picky. One of the best ppl I ever had sex with was a girl who although fairly plain on the cover was a absolute prize in the cot.. She always wore unflattering clothes that did nothing for her' but once stripped naked' she had a amazing figure with the best perky breasts in the world. But in saying that' here on RHP we have a criteria we stick too mainly to attract those who we consider would be most suitable. Hell' we probally passed up the opportunity to some really compatible people in doing this. So who really knows ? Mr JJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
Weren't you just being discriminatory against World of Warcraft NeoAnd Trinity? Surely you can't get away with that??? From the 5'2" Mrs W xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Actually, I find RHP folk to be remarkably tempered in their comments. Childish at times, ego centric at worst however in my experience, I see more discrimination at the local shopping centre than around here. Oh & Rugged, interesting you took my comments regarding bullying personally, I certainly do not recall allaying blame on anyone in particular. Looks like someone needs to take a trip to Bunnings....lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'NeoAndTrinity' hahaha world of warcraft? no wonder you dont get a root!! ;-) Bwhahahaa - the irony of this comment, with a profile pic dressed up as Lara Croft, made me giggle... a lot! :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
cheeky Wilko we only play with girls over 5'1" ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
But lots of girls play WoW!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lucky I just scrape in then! ;) Mrs W
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm banned from Bunnings, Repco, Supercheap Auto and Clarence St Cyclery.... Too many shiny things to tempt me, if you go to any of these stores in Sydney you'll see a picture of me on a flyer saying ''do not serve this man''.
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RHP User
15 years ago
....are you listening...or just waiting to speak??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Or... Goes into transmit with no receive.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I too find all the shiny things in Bunnings a great temptation. Only problem is I have no idea what they are and drive the assistants crazy with my incessant interrogations. I'm already heavily featured on lifetime banned lists for confectionary outlets, that really sucks.
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RHP User
15 years ago
"I am thoroughly amazed by the discrimination on this site"....So am I cpl4u2njoy10.One of you tried to put me down in a post by saying "at least I'm not a middle aged man"Girls if you want to sledge you have to try harder than that!RegardsMr. SR.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I see that I am going to have to completely change my profile, yet again, so as to not discriminate against anyone, lo & behold, that I have any desires, tastes, beliefs, needs or wants for a certain person, I mean, that just doesn't cut it anymore, obviously....so that new ad should read....... I like coffee and sex (not necessarily in that order, as I might offend) & I don't give a shit what you're into, as long as you are any race, any age, any sex, any body type, any weight or height, live anywhere, any eye colour, smoker or non smoker, don't drink or if you are a piss head, recreational drug user/abuser, or clean, exhibitionist or voyeur, blah, blah, blah....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Female Alive I will get back to you with other thoughts Oh and how is vertically challenged a problem in the cot
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RHP User
15 years ago
to cpl4u2njoy10, that I read your original post, and thought like many here, that short, tall, big, small, young, old...it is not discrimination, just personal tastes. Then, I saw your second post thanking everyone for their thoughts and how you now see you were maybe a little narrow minded in your op but kudos to you for putting your thoughts out there, listening to the feed back and taking it on board. Keep sharing. Oh umm your thoughts,I mean :Pxx Salina
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ORBITRON'Oh and how is vertically challenged a problem in the cot if you can't climb up into the cot?
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