DonnaBrett

DonnaBrett

M64 F58

WHY???????????????????????

May 12 2011

Have just seen yet another profile that says "Woman" and only has stats for her but when you read the info it's actually a couple!!! WTF?? Will someone who has a profile like that please explain to the rest of us mere mortals why you do this?It's misleading & deceitful . Yes yes..people will say just ignore it or delete/block etc...but just call me curious cos I'd really like to know how these people think?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    maybe he is her imaginary friend

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm agreeing with Wowwow. But I'm really sick of the "Ask me" answer as well There are alot of things that need a please explain

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Speaking for myself........ I have been in and out of "relationships" and it keeps things simpler to keep the same profile and just update the info as it changes. As long as all is revealed in the info I fail to see how this is deceitful or misleading unless you are one of those tiresome members who messages/flirts before reading a profile first?????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Don't understand either,My 2 cents is because most guy's think two woman together is the ultimate fantasyand they have to lie to get their wish to come true.All in or all out I say.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its annoying when I go seeking a woman to play with...I search woman seeking woman (not couple seeking a woman) find a profile I like the look of...to read the profile and find that its actually a couple - if I wanted to play with a couple thats what I would search for....and when you come across a number of profiles in the one night you start to wonder why bother at all.... . DonnaBrett - I asked one profile the same question once and was told well as the female of the couple is doing all the looking I think it is only a females profile - yeah didnt make sense to me either.. . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    lets put this in perspective: I put into the search what I want, and get 20 pages of couples, OR females: I always add "show only those looking for me" what do I get? couples who say in thier profile Looking for: Man, woman, couple, couple (mm) couple (ff) etc etc... then I read the profile and what am i told in "NO UNCERTAIN TERMS" *READ THIS...; NO SINGLE MALES NO SINGLE MALES" ONE COUPLE HAVE THIS ON THEIR PROFILE 8 TIMES!!!! IF I dare make a comment of any sort on their profile, I cop total crap!! and in a couple of instances, reported to RHP GOD... Go figure... *shrug*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Can go in chatroom and tout in there as well!Also perhaps if not a "guest" for some reason only want female on female play and dont want another guy in the picture..?? Im unsure how it works myself when they ask for female play but IF you are ok their guy can join in...like WT?? if thats the case YES agree join as a couple, pay and try your luck!!

  • WeRhere4Fun

    WeRhere4Fun

    15 years ago

    Well it happend to us. Wife started as woman then we became a couple. We tried so many times to change the profile to couple as we had quite a lot of friends already in the woman profile my wife didnt want to loose and we also already paid for the year. We just could not get it changed. i eventually had to upgrade to a higher level and only then could we change it to Couple but that was after a fery long time strugling to get it changed. We hower changed our profile description and our name to include the word couple. It was just scary to discouver that about nobody reads the content of a profile and are so suprized to still discouver that you a couple although the profile says Woman. Well luckely after many months we were able to change it and no more frustration. I just still experience that very few people read the profile. It is sometimes not on purpose.

  • usnow

    usnow

    15 years ago

    The one that really irks us is the " ask me " when it comes to smoking .Are the smokers that have that on their profile that embarrassed by their filthy habit they cant bring themselves to admit to it .Just wastes a message from the genuine people on here to find out . Swingnew .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'swingnew' The one that really irks us is the " ask me " when it comes to smoking .Are the smokers that have that on their profile that embarrassed by their filthy habit they cant bring themselves to admit to it .Just wastes a message from the genuine people on here to find out . Swingnew .Are you embarrassed about your hair and eye colour?????

  • usnow

    usnow

    15 years ago

    xxticklishxx, Hardly a major issue to most normal people . Didnt think a committed " fagger " could resist .Guess you had to scan up and down our profile to find something , sad hey !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'swingnew' xxticklishxx, Hardly a major issue to most normal people . Didnt think a committed " fagger " could resist .Guess you had to scan up and down our profile to find something , sad hey ! Wondered if I would get a nasty reply and you didnt dissapoint. So be it.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    How does this work as I have tried to send emails but keep getting an upgrade message?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If it wasn't a major issue why isn't your eye colour and hair colour on your profile, can't be a privacy issue, nobody could possibly recognise anyone from having those listed unless you have really odd colours.....is that it? You do seem to have a nasty streak going there Swingnew.....Tick is a lovely lady from what I have seen and read.Cheers Nev

  • usnow

    usnow

    15 years ago

    Nasty reply , hardly darling ,little precious arent we ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I personally dont think "Ask Me" should be an option for any of the questions. While everything is not black or white these little questions really just an over view. I have only ever bothered to email and "Ask" once and it was a waste of time. Another silly one is the "See my photo" and they dont have any photos uploaded, not even in their PG's. (or its a cock shot lol) Thanks Nev........I miss you when your away. MWAH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I was single. I paid for a membership. I became a couple. I figure we wait until the paid membership has run out, then re-join as a couple. I can understand the frustration with women searching for single women and my profile coming up. But then when I search for people, I get a lot of crap that I wouldn`t touch with a 10 foot barge pole. Unfortunately there`s no way to filter out people `hu typ lik diz on da prfl` etc etc, so I guess it`s a matter of putting up with it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Shakes head and walks away from swingnew's comments.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MadameHeather' I'm agreeing with Wowwow. But I'm really sick of the "Ask me" answer as well There are alot of things that need a please explain we agree also.... and with the 'ask me' bit....we just ignore these people, as we feel we shouldnt need to ask.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Meow!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You shit stirrer Jenna.....bahahahahahaha Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Good question DonnaBrett. I've often been annoyed to find a woman's profile to find out it's a couple's one. . I used to think it was a fake or they were too tight to pay for a couple's profile but I'm a little more enlightened from reading the responses here. I can understand that there may be hassles in changing a profile over and not wanting to waste the money already spent on an upgraded membership. Kudios to you HowToHaveFun as it sounds like you did everything you could and let people know. Unfortunately I'm sure that some couples use the free female profiles and spoil it for the genuine people. . As for the Ask Me response. I can see both sides to it as sometimes the real answer sits inbetween the available choices. I myself say that about my eyes as they can change between blue, green and hazel. I used to say it about my smoking whilst I was quitting but it was pointed out to me (and I now agree) that you either are or you aren't a smoker. If you're quitting then say so in the about me section. I guess the ask me response can still apply to weed but perhaps there should be separate choices for "light" and "on occasion when I'm drunk/social". . Seeing Ask Me to one or two fields can give me something to go on when I message someone. Seeing a profile where every response says that (and then they've got nothing but profile builder responses further on) just annoys me and makes me click NEXT! . I guess it all comes down to different peoples views on the limited available responses. . The "See My Photo" and no photo (or just boobs) combo just leaves me shaking my head too. . Cheers . Rusty I'm with Nev too swingnew, xxticklishxx's post was a valid observation to a perceived hypocrisy (some people might not want to meet blue eyed blondes for example) and didn't warrent the response given. JMO.