M64 F58
WHY????
December 31 2010
Comments
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Wether you are a couple or a single ... if you are game enough to be on this site ... be game enough to put up a pic ... UNLESS you are hiding from someone or dont want a partner to know you are here without their knowledge/permission ..
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I prefer to have my photo up. If you like what you see, all good by me. If you don't the same applies and noone's time gets wasted :-D
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'celebree'Wether you are a couple or a single ... if you are game enough to be on this site ... be game enough to put up a pic ... UNLESS you are hiding from someone or dont want a partner to know you are here without their knowledge/permission .. In my case I prefer not to show my face until I have decided I am happy for the person I am chatting to to see my face. If I like them and they turn out not to be an ex boyfriend or an ex colleague or local acquaintance (all of whom have emailed me on here) then I show my face quite happily. This is my personal choice for privacy reasons. I want to choose who knows I am on here. I live in a community where eveyone knows everyone. It's hard enough fielding daily RHP one liner emails from men thinking I'm fair game. I have no intention of fending them off face to face in the local pub because my presence on RHP has given them 'expectations'.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility' In my case I prefer not to show my face until I have decided I am happy for the person I am chatting to to see my face. This is my personal choice for privacy reasons. I want to choose who knows I am on here. I live in a community where eveyone knows everyone. It's hard enough fielding daily RHP one liner emails from men thinking I'm fair game. I have no intention of fending them off face to face in the local pub because my presence on RHP has given them 'expectations'. Thanks, "irresponsibility"...I think that says it all. Throw in a few others concerns like a business profile and public speaking across a number of venues in Australia and there you have it. I am in front of a lot of people every year and prefer to remain at least somewhat anonymous until privacy for all parties concerned can be maintained. Too...a bit of mystery is a good thing. Just like seduction...it can be a very nice part of the journey to unwrap one layer at a time. ♂♀ | Ḉħą§îƞģ ṂîđŊîģħŦ
-
RHP User
15 years ago
cause girls are prettier its that simple ... in our case mr sexcountrycpl is also very pretty so you can see both our faces !!! mrs sexycountrycpl
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Others depend on my discretion. If people see me and recognise me, some in my care could conceivably be put at risk. I have face pics in my private gallery and want to get to know someone a little first before I trust them with the full frontal. Ialso live in a tight community and hold a position of trust. I dont need every man and his dog knowing my business.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility' Quoting 'celebree'Wether you are a couple or a single ... if you are game enough to be on this site ... be game enough to put up a pic ... UNLESS you are hiding from someone or dont want a partner to know you are here without their knowledge/permission .. In my case I prefer not to show my face until I have decided I am happy for the person I am chatting to to see my face. If I like them and they turn out not to be an ex boyfriend or an ex colleague or local acquaintance (all of whom have emailed me on here) then I show my face quite happily. This is my personal choice for privacy reasons. I want to choose who knows I am on here. I live in a community where eveyone knows everyone. It's hard enough fielding daily RHP one liner emails from men thinking I'm fair game. I have no intention of fending them off face to face in the local pub because my presence on RHP has given them 'expectations'. My coment was not so much ... PUT A FULL FRONTAL FACIAL PIC UP ... and by all means .. have them in a private folder for just the above reasons ,,, which would be a majority of our situations, myself included ... its the ones who dont have ANY pics available ... or only have pics of the femail available (public or private) when they are a couple, who are my main concern ...
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I am learning to be proud and not give a damn about what others think, we will get to know someone first before we show our faces more because of the continual anonyminity. My DH and I have both decided that we would rather just keep it on the low for now.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Quoting 'irresponsibility' In my case I prefer not to show my face until I have decided I am happy for the person I am chatting to to see my face. This is my personal choice for privacy reasons. I want to choose who knows I am on here. I live in a community where eveyone knows everyone. It's hard enough fielding daily RHP one liner emails from men thinking I'm fair game. I have no intention of fending them off face to face in the local pub because my presence on RHP has given them 'expectations'. Thanks, "irresponsibility"...I think that says it all. Throw in a few others concerns like a business profile and public speaking across a number of venues in Australia and there you have it. I am in front of a lot of people every year and prefer to remain at least somewhat anonymous until privacy for all parties concerned can be maintained. Too...a bit of mystery is a good thing. Just like seduction...it can be a very nice part of the journey to unwrap one layer at a time. ♂♀ | Ḉħą§îƞģ ṂîđŊîģħŦ I can here agree with both of you ... for most of us would have some form of professionalism or such which we wish to keep seperate from our social lives ,..and by all means .. keep identification pics in a private folder for viewing only by those you feel comfortable with allowing them access .. .. but there are so many profiles on here .. WHICH HAVE NO PIC at all .. and a vast anumber of COUPLES with NO PICS of the male available .. I might ask .. why is it that ONLY the pics which are in a private folder screen capture protected .. and not the main profile pic ... ALL PICS ON HERE , should be encoded so that they CANNOT be collected and copied .. for everyone protection and to stop identy fraud or missuse of our pics to other sites.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe its because when your other half is sooo dammed attractive , it makes us males look like big boofheads lol , have some in the private gallery :)
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Step 1 2 3 to get our interest..would assume others as well..Step 1.Have decent pic in Gallery of both partners..torso full body (heads chopped off is fine) MAKE THEM RECENTStep 2. Have face shots in private gallery, understand privacy..yada yada yada MAKE THEM RECENTStep 3. Be prepared to cam!! Seriously a pic can lie online in real time.is harder to B/S!To answer your question honestly OP I reckon its, well in 40's age range, most- NOT ALL men have not looked after themselves. They use their women as honey to the bees. They Bull/s**t about there ages and a pic proves it.So if a couple doesn't have a pic of their man in there public gallery may get to step 2 dependent of style/class pique of interest of gallery shots.After that steps 2 and 3 culls it down quick smart..
-
RHP User
15 years ago
we always face that problem.ladies fine.but then u get the grief from the partners because u keep in good nick.ok we r a very sexy funky mature couple.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Or how is it when you get a flirt from a female only to read the profile and its a couple. If your a cpl then have a cpl profile
-
RHP User
15 years ago
i didnt have a pic for ages...but i put up a face pic because i got sick of finally showing my face and then the man vanishing...this way it he knows what i look like so he can message me or not lol but i have asked this question 100 times and i get..."for privacy reasons" but i think men should have a pic up too...if your a couple then be one there is no use just showing one...its all 4 of you that need to be compatable roxxy
-
DonnaBrett
15 years ago
......is something we don't understand in this scene. If someone you know sees you on here or sees you in a club..hey they are there too..or on this or other sites. That evens everything out...well..to us it does, they cannot judge you if they are doing the same thing. We know some folk say they have facial pics in PG, fair enough...but there is nothing worse than having msgs back & forth, everything seems fine, a lot in common and then..WHAMMO...you finally see their face and for whatever reason you are not attracted. Then comes the awkward moment of having to say oh ..we have changed our minds. Maybe we just don't like to hurt people's feelings but it must sting when someone rejects you solely based on your photo. If you have photos & all info up front and then you reject..it could be for any number of reasons and not just your rotten teeth or greasey hair or two heads (sorry just kidding). If you want your pics in a PG cool..but if you msg someone you should give access to those pics with the first message. Anyway..that's how we look at it.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett'......is something we don't understand in this scene. If someone you know sees you on here or sees you in a club..hey they are there too..or on this or other sites. That evens everything out...well..to us it does, they cannot judge you if they are doing the same thing. We know some folk say they have facial pics in PG, fair enough...but there is nothing worse than having msgs back & forth, everything seems fine, a lot in common and then..WHAMMO...you finally see their face and for whatever reason you are not attracted. Then comes the awkward moment of having to say oh ..we have changed our minds. Maybe we just don't like to hurt people's feelings but it must sting when someone rejects you solely based on your photo. If you have photos & all info up front and then you reject..it could be for any number of reasons and not just your rotten teeth or greasey hair or two heads (sorry just kidding). If you want your pics in a PG cool..but if you msg someone you should give access to those pics with the first message. Anyway..that's how we look at it.That about says it all ...
-
RHP User
15 years ago
It does raise the question of' what are they hiding' if there are no pics at all of the male partner, i really don't understand how it works for them, i mean if we like everything else about them we are going to see both of them at some stage right? and if we don't like what we see then that will be the end of the road right there so doesn't it make sense to get that all out of the way early?We have our face pics in PG (though i do think Donna & Brett have a point about the privacy thing to a point) and we have gotten some rejects just based on our face pics and at first it was a little hurtful but then you realize 'oh well we are not for them' and move on, heck we have done the same to others I am sure, We have been told before that we look much better in person than our picture (thank you to those lovely people) and we understand that not everyone takes a good pic but we allow for that we just want to see BOTH parties of a couple as previously said 'if you are a couple be a couple!' Thanks for the great post guys,Mrs GC
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Hi! I've wondered that myself I wish everyone would have manners , consideration and add a Pic it should be required,Not just an option as part of your joining...I've very Priveiledged I don't need a Pic to know someone because I've Spiritual Abilities that i use to Connect with their Innerselves..I sense their Personaity feel their emotions .A Pic just emphasizes what their energies have already conveyed to me...However before I meet a Guy I intend seeing his Pic too, because as I explain to them ..They doo't wear a bag over their head to meet and enjoy a date.So why do it on here when it's even more important to share who you are. Lol Lu :)
-
RHP User
15 years ago
someone has to hold the camera? but yea like others have said, its usually the gal half who is the most attractive one.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not sure who would do this but there's always someone out there that will save the images and use it for an ad on a porn site or another dating site. I've seen a profile here where it was verified but their display picture was one off a "porn site". It was of 2 girls like 18 or 19 with huge tits kissing each other. No idea how that got verified. and it's obviously a fake profile.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'markymarkk'I'm not sure who would do this but there's always someone out there that will save the images and use it for an ad on a porn site or another dating site. I've seen a profile here where it was verified but their display picture was one off a "porn site". It was of 2 girls like 18 or 19 with huge tits kissing each other. No idea how that got verified. and it's obviously a fake profile. I received a flirt today from a verified profile whose pic is Donald Draper in his office in Mad Men. I'd have thought he was very good looking and quite tempting if I'd never seen the show. What we see is not always what we get even when we do get a pic.
-
RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'markymarkk' I'm not sure who would do this but there's always someone out there that will save the images and use it for an ad on a porn site or another dating site. I've seen a profile here where it was verified but their display picture was one off a "porn site". It was of 2 girls like 18 or 19 with huge tits kissing each other. No idea how that got verified. and it's obviously a fake profile. omg thats my fear too! that i might buy a dvd and its me and my not very huge cock on the cover! or i turn the tv on at 12 and its us promoting some sex site! lol. no.........not gonna happen is it? lol. is it? ?
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15123 Comments: 88148
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1417 Comments: 10231
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2520 Comments: 11665
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2506 Comments: 9759
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1007 Comments: 5257
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1303 Comments: 5776
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 782 Comments: 1988
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 867
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share