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Voyeurism/clubs
December 08 2023
My partner and I are new to all of this and wondering about finding somewhere to explore watching other couples. We’re not ready to participate yet, (probably only engaging in some type of sexual activity with each other), but feeling a bit overwhelmed and intimidated by it all. We’re not sure if there’s unwritten rules or anything as far as participation/ expectations/ socialising/ etc. We’re based in Vic and would even love some recommendations- we don’t even know where to start!
Thanks 🙏
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Blueflamingo
a year ago
Between Friends winebar is a great place to start.
It's very relaxed and you can take your time easing into the lifestyle in your own pace. They have different themed events in the events section, and their website will also give you heaps of information on what to expect.
If you want to meet people in the lifestyle socially but not pressure to play, I can HIGHLY recommend attending a Mingle event. They are also listed in the event section on RHP. Its a non play, social event where you will meet heaps of super friendly and sexy couples and singles.
Happy exploring and good luck on your journey. X
Ourmalibu
a year ago
We found Between Friends bar in Melbourne a good starting point for us. You can just go there for a drink and socialise and talk with like minded people. You can watch without joining in, play just with each other or jump in the deep end! The have newcomers nights for people just starting out. Good Luck 😊
CuriousCpl200
a year ago
You should know that to go up stairs at Between Friends you do need to dress down, but once you do, you are free to walk around and watch or park yourself somewhere and play with yourselves where you will be watched, unless you are lucky to get one of the two private rooms where you can shut the door.
MrandMrsEss
a year ago
Is there any similar places in Sydney?
M_and_C
a year ago
Fun4two is a great club in Sydney.
happilymarried22
a year ago
We’ve only been to between friends and would highly recommend for first time. You can do as much and as little as you feel right. Just go with no expectations and let the night flow.
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