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Voyeur or Exhibitionist
June 15 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's the reason I'm here :) Let's be honest, I'm not likely to find the love of my life here (though I have once before so never say never!). I like the chat rooms because I like to watch, so sometimes I sit there for a while and just look at some scummy cams without chatting. I also like the chat rooms because I like to be watched, so from time to time I put on a little show. I enjoy the occasional strip club (if it's a bit classy) because it's titillating to watch, to watch others watch, and to see all the sexy interplay. I like swingers' clubs if I'm with a special partner, because I like having sex in public, to know people are watching and listening and getting turned on. It's my sexual proclivity, and I have to say I like it :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Almost zero interest in watching MAJOR exhibitionist MAJOR Wrote an erotic story about it ( on here) It's the ONLY thing 100% to get me off LOVE LOVE LOVE men watchIng me !!! MrsD
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RHP User
14 years ago
I ended up here ages ago because i like checking out pictures of real people. plastic looking women don't usually turn my head. I was only paid up for a while, but when i was, i checked a few cams in the chat room. it was fun..hmm.. if you only show off to one person at a time, is that exhibitionism?I've just realized i'm turned on by the word proclivity too.. what's the term for that?
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I had to choose, I'd say I prefer to watch rather than be watched. But I prefer to 'do' rather than watch - but the only person I like to be watched by is the person I'm giving my attention to at the time.I must confess to enjoying a little watch at the cams in the chat rooms every now and then - I like that they are real people, really enjoying themselves and living in the moment. That has to be a happy thing. It doesn't necessarily arouse me though - at least, not all the time Kisses,J
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RHP User
14 years ago
I can be outgoing and lively and extroverted, and love being the centre of attention - but when it comes to sex, for me it all stays behind closed doors. Now maybe there are 3 or 4 or 11 people behind those closed doors, but I'd want everyone to be participating!The whole voyeur/exhibitionist thing does absolutely nothing for me. To me, sex is a very personal and intimate thing - even if it's with a stranger. Happy to perform and put on a show for my partner(s), but nobody else.Same with watching porn, actually. I always found it strange that some guys watch porn with their mates. I couldn't imagine it being more awkward!
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Tart_Du_Jour
14 years ago
Watching is fun no doubt for some reason I get a kick out of being watched.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like both, but have a preference for being watched. I think the general anonymity of it is the key. If it were in 'public' I think it would be a different story.
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
Mrs Q certainly likes to be watched, I'm more shy. We both like to seek couples and groups enjoying themselves, but only when they are into being watched. We both prefer participation.
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RHP User
14 years ago
we can both be 'exhibitionists', but its on our terms, and at our choosing. showing off and being spied upon are two entirely seperate issues, so we like to be 'in control' of who sees what..............
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RHP User
14 years ago
I love to watch anytime but when I get really really turned on I love having people watch me. I have to be comfortable with the situation though...
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Smilingwithfun
14 years ago
Would definately be a watcher. To use an analogy if i was a diver then if i was being watched instead of a perfect entry it could end up a bellyflop
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RHP User
14 years ago
I enjoy been watched and I am not sure if that makes me an exhibitionist. Enjoy nude beaches and enjoy been watched while I get aroused. Leggo
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RHP User
14 years ago
I do burleque dancing, and that is all about the "Tease" ...and I so do love the "Tease" ....so in front of a appreciative audience, I adore being my MsVelvetBlue persona for a time... so thats the exhibitionist in me .....but like Neptune I do like to keep my own sex private, having said that...Im not adverse to doing the act in public...I do love the thrill, but if truth be told, Im a voyeur...nothing turns me on more than watching couples getting it on.....mmmmm
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' It's the reason I'm here :) Let's be honest, I'm not likely to find the love of my life here (though I have once before so never say never!). I like the chat rooms because I like to watch, so sometimes I sit there for a while and just look at some scummy cams without chatting. I also like the chat rooms because I like to be watched, so from time to time I put on a little show. I enjoy the occasional strip club (if it's a bit classy) because it's titillating to watch, to watch others watch, and to see all the sexy interplay. I like swingers' clubs if I'm with a special partner, because I like having sex in public, to know people are watching and listening and getting turned on. It's my sexual proclivity, and I have to say I like it :) either way it is exciting to see or be seen. I love to watch and be watched and i am so glad to hear others do too
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RHP User
14 years ago
Krissy_G you fibber. You are shy?? I remember a recent performance in the chat rooms young lady and there is no way you were being shy. LMfAO!
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RHP User
14 years ago
What do you get out of watching? Why does watching others get you so turned on? I must confess I have been to swingers clubs and watched lots of people and sometimes I hardly even get a pussy twinge.... Although, yes if it is peoole I know it's a different story.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Leggo... I have had sex in the water at a nude beach before.... And there were quite a few men who knew what we were doing too. Although my involuntary "oh god" probably was a give away. Well, it's a know beach for lots of extra activities. :))
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RHP User
14 years ago
Voyeurism-I find when swinging that I love to look.....especially my man pleasuring another woman- making her cum over and over. The whole thing is visually over stimulating lol! I am not into 'watch only/ hide in the cupboard' sort of thing lol!Exhibitionism-I love the attention of being noticed by people in general. I was a super self conscious teen/younger adult and now revel in the mental challenge of pushing my comfort zone. I am surprised at how comfortable I am with it in the sanctum of a stage with dark lighting... I love getting naked, dancing and being watched by people :) I like wearing underwear with a very see through dress ;) I am camera shy though which is my next thing to sort out... stick a lens in my face and I feel so awkward!Cass xxx
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Bubbaj
14 years ago
voyeur voyeur voyeur! lol! i dont like being watched really....i dont think i give a great performance as im a bit of a quiet rooter lol! watching doesnt really get me horny but i love watching the techniques :)
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Tart_Du_Jour
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What do you get out of watching? Why does watching others get you so turned on? I must confess I have been to swingers clubs and watched lots of people and sometimes I hardly even get a pussy twinge.... Although, yes if it is peoole I know it's a different story. Watching isn't something that always turns me on but something about seeing people REALLY in the moment and enjoying themselves is very pleasurable. But in terms of being watched I think it's a combination of it being somewhat risqué and more than that because I'm a show off knowing that my behaviour is turning people on is errrm, rather nice.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I started out as a voyeur, loved watching guys getting all worked up knowing that they were being watched. Then i started getting noticed. I had a six month old child at the time and had not felt sexual in a very long time. Them watching me made me feel like a sexual being again, and the rush was addictive. I used to go on a cam site where there would be a couple of thousand people in the chat room from all over the world. The buzz i would get from a over a thousand people watching me tease and them begging for more, was amazing. So in short, i am a cam whore
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RHP User
14 years ago
I also enjoy both watching and being watched. Whether this be here on cam, or in a public scenario. Have had a couple of interesting run-ins at Swanbourne beach. One particular situation springs to mind. The lady in question, you know who you are ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've watched porn but I don't think quiet the same as being in the same room and watching. I have an interest in trying the swinging scene because I think the exhibitionist in me would come out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
both.. why not i say..
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love being watched. I've masterbated in front of quite a few of my female friends. It's great to see them smile while I cum. I've also has someone watch me fuck. I am sure they had a good view of me sliding in. I would like to listen to some couples have sex on the phone I think. A new thing...
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JustForFun3350
13 years ago
Definitely both. Its the main reason I've joined this site.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think everyone has done that haven't they? I certainly have. Although, I do hope you mean your lovers sunshine man. Otherwise what? You whip it out over coffee as say watch this darlin! Hehehe
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