RHP

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Virginity...

September 26 2010

Losing your virginity..These days it the first time we kiss or go down on a new lover..The first time you make her / him cum..I know we dont go through the same nerves, but do you still feel abit nervy before the first time with a newbie..And how good is it when you cant wait to do it again .. Geez we are kids at heart !

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes I must admit to few nervous flutter with a newbie. Am I gonna be good enough to please him, will he be able to please me. Is he gonna run screaming from the room when he veiws my naked body sort of thing. What if we really dont like each other, what if, what if, what if, the list is endless and in the end it really does not matter. If we dont click, then we simply do not meet again. I have bee known to look forward to my trips to Sydney the same way a kid looks forward to christmas. Fionabee.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Awwhh I really love that butterflies feeling. It doesn't happen often enough, though. I'm not sure that it has anything to do with virginity or experience. Maybe it's pheremones or sexual tension or a feeling of being overly lusty. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Mmmmm, yes I do understand those feelings. Im with you on this one Stalky, I think it is more anticipation and sexual tension. A bit of excitement thrown in. Fionabee

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I get totally nervous on first meets... red wine helps me to relax ... There are a cpl guys I would dearly love to see again... but guess I just to far away.. Not worth the drive? ppftt.. Hell yerr! I'm def worth the drive to have fun with! Only 2 men have shown their weight in gold to me... Pity one is in New Zealand now... Travelling around the world n working. The other guy has proven over n over he is a trusted friend. Whom I only played once with but known each other for over 6 months.. Gotta love real friends who talk and are eager to help with your fantasys... oohhh.. Can't wait for our next playdate! woohooo... huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    iam so looking forward to giving my virginity soon i no its going to happen just when and were and with whom ?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    the butterflies the nerves the tension alll adds up to hopefully being a good time...but being akin to losing my virginity...nope not that kind of nerves for me at all...i dont actually recall being as nervous for my first sexual experience as i am for each of my first times now... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Every first time with someone new is a first time..From the initial chatting to the face to face, body to body..Then Brekky !!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My favourite is when I meet a member of the opposite sex and I'm not thinking about how good it would be to fuck her.....but more how good it would be to have dinner or get a kiss and hold hands.....it's not often but when that makes you feel fuzzy it is really a pleasant feeling

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I promised you i would comment..so here is my two cents worth... I dont get nervous about first time things really...because i only go to the next step if i feel there is enough chemistry. Chemistry will bring out lust...which means it will be great...you just have to stop thinking...and start feeling. Sally xxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Oh Taipan....sweet as...always knew you to be a gentleman thru and thru.......thats the magic word................. BREKKY !!!!!.......if Im good enough to bonk all night long...then plan on spooning me till the morning light !! So There !! LOL thats a Miss B rule !! ....I hate sleeping alone after the event...... snuggling can be a first too !! But yeah ...love those butterflies.....havent felt them for a ages now...........but I .still get them with that special man.........mmmmmm just the thought of that first touch

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well delivered sally..chemistry is the key to getting brekky MissB ..lol !! shit thats right we have chemistry ..How would you like your eggs then?? Umm yes lust sexysexysal..what a rush..Truth be known i try to have a drink before my first meeting , yes even the Taipan gets nervvy !

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    You! Overly lusty? Never. :) xxJ (oh and happy birthday for whichever day it is big boy!!!)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I like my eggs just like my sex.........every which way LOL as long as they're hot and tasty ! :-) and shared

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes , wake up during the night snuggled into a nice warm body instant movement ! then she moves back into me abit more until i feel that nice wetness again like the night before.. I move inside her and ask...suger with your coffee !!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Mmmmm Taipan I am starting to think you are a little toey at the moment or that dirty mind of yours is running over time...lol....I do like to stay the night if it is with someone I have a connection that chemistry with but sometimes when they expect it and you dont want it then any excuse will do to get out of there no matter how good my breakfast choices are (thats definately when the nerves kick in especially if I ma the one who has travelled to them)...oh and for future refernce a good strong cup of tea in the morning for me please I dont like coffee no sugar... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The thrill of the chase & the butterflies & excitment mmmmm boy oh boy! a drink to settle the nerves! is always good, I like my coffee like my men dark! strong! & a little sweet! xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    You want me to drink hot coffee while having sleepy morning sex with you ?????? Thats not ONLY very kinky Taipan.....its dangerous.........but it would be a first on both counts......so still on topic....{:-) hehehehe and Ill have coffee........(call me uncouth..but I love instant)..... white and two.......unless we are having eggs and then I drink tea .........black and sweet

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'missbowpeek' You want me to drink hot coffee while having sleepy morning sex with you ?????? Thats not ONLY very kinky Taipan.....its dangerous.........but it would be a first on both counts......so still on topic....{:-) hehehehe and Ill have coffee........(call me uncouth..but I love instant)..... white and two.......unless we are having eggs and then I drink tea .........black and sweet I thought the quote was, 'coffee, tea or me', but I would love to be a fly on the wall that morning

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Umm yes i am abit toey Focus ..you know i like a good spooning ! Miss B how about i hold the coffee cup while your mouth is full?..eating your eggs .silly !! Jenstar..oh yes maybe a long weekend ,, do a John and Yoko..Why isnt Lust on the breakfast menus at Motels?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sleepy morning sex. Before the coffee please..... Oh and after.....Only not so sleepy then. This thread has gotten seriously off track!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    of course you like a good spooning Taipan...all snakes like to be curled up in a warm place..would be against your nature if you didint.... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Lust! yes please! Nothing better than enjoying time being passionate and intimate all night long even when sleeping love it so much skin to skin bodies entwined waking up to more hot lust..................yum....................jensta xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    hmmmm never really nervous by the time it gets to the sex...mmmm interesting I peak out more at the first meet n greet, so much gets achieved at the first meet....whether it's gonna be or not gonna be....that's the part I feel the intense and/or non intense.. When I get to the sex part omfg look out!!!!!! It's just fireworks and more...gotta love that...it's the big lead up that does it for me! Sitting there me all warm and talking my head off and him not going to the toilet coz it's difficult to walk in public with a hard on.... Am I weird? xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    How about our drinks in Melb waiting for focus to arrive..nice little pub that ..good company ,nice beer !! no nerves !

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' hmmmm never really nervous by the time it gets to the sex...mmmm interesting I peak out more at the first meet n greet, so much gets achieved at the first meet....whether it's gonna be or not gonna be....that's the part I feel the intense and/or non intense.. When I get to the sex part omfg look out!!!!!! It's just fireworks and more...gotta love that...it's the big lead up that does it for me! Sitting there me all warm and talking my head off and him not going to the toilet coz it's difficult to walk in public with a hard on.... Am I weird? xxx Then count me in the weird group too...its definately that inital contact..that intial meet..no matter how long i may have been chatting with them..how many messages sent, phone conversations have taken place..that first face to face meet the butterflies are running rampant, heart beats that little bit quicker, and yes i confess dependant on the lead up I probably have had a drink or two also to relax me a little.... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I gotta be different! if its good I will always get excited, and have more! keep it spicy and exciting! If you really attracted & turned on sex will always be hot hot hot! Hot Sex is like a drug! Its Addictive!......... Im a Sex Addict! Dont misunderstand its not about lots of partners for me! a selected few! Hope you all practising safe sex and getting regular checks! Miss Jensta xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes, i absolutely agree taipan...sex should take on its own identity..and never be the same the second time around...or third or fourth.. that is why my hubby and I have been married happily for so long...sex is always exciting between us...even after 18yrs Sally

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Taipan12'How about our drinks in Melb waiting for focus to arrive..nice little pub that ..good company ,nice beer !! no nerves ! Yes Yes Yes woops wrong forum, no seriously was wonderful to finally meet and the anticipation of MsFocus was 2nd to none......gr8 company, gr8 beer nope no nerves...nervous before hand must admit...was my first drinks night lol Was very cruisy, probably the nicest moody pub I have been in...nice nice nice...and the pub in Brisbane listening to the quaint band comes a very close second and the company I had was absolutely 2nd to none... And it gets back to my theory, you accept or reject straight up, lets face it, both knows. xxx ty Focus welcome to the weird group xxx luv you loads xxx fyi always enjoy Taipan's forums..always interesting