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Very Attractive
June 22 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
So much so that I have to beat the women away with a stick. ...Well, ...at least they act like I'm beating them away with a stick.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always find it amusing when people have selected 'very attractive', and then when I peek at their photos.... Really?? Sure it's great that you have the confidence to put that, and with the right confidence, even average people come across as devilishly attractive, but to a degree.... Personally, I've just left it blank; beauty is in the eye of the beholder, after all.
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Innercircle
14 years ago
Listing yourself as very attractive, unless you are head and shoulders above the majority of the population, just makes you look like a tosser. Actually, maybe RHP can change the option so 'tosser' comes up automatically?Beauty IS in the eye of the beholder, so that means "see photo" is the ONLY answer to give :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
When I see guys who rate themselves as "attractive" or "very attractive" and then look at their photos... Seriously, who are they kidding? The really attractive men aren't that delusional!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Anyone who says very attractive is pretty much an automatic turn off for me. I'm attracted to a subtle blend of confidence and humility. I'm very average myself so no doubt I'd feel utterly inadequate around someone who was truly 'very attractive', but that's my hang up not theirs. However, if they class themselves as very attractive, I imagine it would be there ego that turned me off, not their looks.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am just a dew drop....my photo is there though....just average ol'me....I do find people who rate themselves highly mostly deulsional. The exceptions,jdex72,waterbabes,delicious etc are obvious....modesty, I find to be very attractivex Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Average is what I put , but it is about Perception....I am happy and comfortable with what I have , no matter what anyone else's perception is of Me ....be it positive or negative .. >: D~
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just average, even though I REALLY hate that word !Apollo you are stunning which I think comes under very attractive.
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Smilingwithfun
14 years ago
I have to say Apollo 13, if you wore that dress if i was to meet you don't even think i could tell you the colour of your eyes. Hesione haven spoken to you, you are much more than little ol me. Interesting that this site has certainly made me much more aware of the attractiveness of the mind before the body.Chemistry is so important, so it doesn't matter what people rate themselves its how they interest you
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RHP User
14 years ago
I consider myself Neither too hot nor not hot enough...just right...for some beholders at least. But without a public face pic, why would I under-rate myself as average if you know that some folks will find you very attractive and others won't look twice at you. But if YOU are rating yourself as very attractive...if you think you are, you are. At least you are very attractive to yourself which means you are less likely to be very attractive to me...despite your looks! Make sense? :) Silva
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think i'm attractive do you think i'm attractive....oh please please please oh begeezuz somebody please say l am......starts packing laptop for some forum R & R
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I think i'm attractive do you think i'm attractive....oh please please please oh begeezuz somebody please say l am......starts packing laptop for some forum R & R -smirks- You ARE the attractive >; P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Another damsel in distress ;) Just unpack that lappy right now missy....lolCheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
To be honest...I've always avoided those who have marked their profile as "Very Attractive" - even if they tick all my other boxes and even if by some chance that they contact me (it does happen every blue moon). I feel intimidated by great looks and beauty as Im not beautiful and fear that I will not live up to their expectations. I guess I will have to settle for the fact, that I have a very average bod, not too bad a face, a shitload of brains...and hopefully kindness of the heart... But Id trade it all for big perky tits, long legs, 5ft ft 11 tall , and a small waist...oh yes I would willingly kill for a body to die for.... Quirky, cute and nerdy doesnt cut it..no matter what spin is put on it... (Im so rocking my trackie dak look rite now)
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RHP User
14 years ago
l be needing it for the old stomping ground over there >>>>>> hey, l saw a few of the youngins in there....oh oh oh and some wealy big cocks ill come visit though....lol Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Another damsel in distress ;) Just unpack that lappy right now missy....lolCheers FeloniusYou'll hjave thr damn moral police out or worse WOW WOW
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RHP User
14 years ago
i think i'm pretty average...but i wrote the profile, and selected 'very attractive' for my wife....so far i've not seen a profile here that would make me change my mind, but then, that's exactly as it should be, in my mind........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Apollo, you definitely come under the very attractive category in my books, I have had the pleasure to see you PG files....I do appreciate the modesty and it talks lots about a person. I agree with most posts here, it is very much a personal opinion what do you find attractive.....Inspirit....hard to have a say....there is not much that can be seeing of you there.....But for me, attractiveness is more a state of mind, and attitude, body language, play with eyes, smells, flirts.....and so many other little things that can mostly be perceive in person....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I look at it another way. It makes no difference what people put down in the 'looks' section. They could write as attractive as a 'bore pig' or 'extremely attractive'.....fact is shallowness is in 99% of people on these sites. Makes no difference what is in their written profile for most...it's just the pics which i think is pretty sad.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Inspirit, Wow, of course you are attractive, your on here so we know you have an active mind and that you dont want to be Beige in life. Dont fold up the ??? keep em open You rock girl. XXOO
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Julie Zemiro (RocKwiz on SBS) spent years being knocked back by commercial television because she 'wasn't attractive enough' yet last year one of those mens magazines voted her the sexiest woman on television. Attractive to me is more than just physical beauty, even though we may be talking about a fleeting sexual relationship. Physical beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, but personality, presentation, and attitude all contribute to 'attractiveness'. Regardless of everything else if a profile that states safe sex 'never' 'rarely' or 'if required' then to me, its not very attractive.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I missed it because I cum in my pants while looking at your picture.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thats what I have writen in my profile..as I have a face pic up I think most people can tell what I look l;ike even though I ahve my eyes blocked.... never would I write "very attractive" its just nto me and I wouldn't feel comfortabel writing that. As others have said some profiles that have put "very attractive" are deluding themselves and others are just tossers as rockercouple ahve said. In saying that though when its a couple profile I realise most of the men of the half have written the profile and put thier partner down as "very attractive" which is quite sweet :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
thats what happens when I type fast and don't edit! Doh!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe the 'Looks' should be linked to your 'hot or not' rating... That could be fun. If you're rated anything lower than say a 4 out of 5, it shouldn't even give you the option of 'Very Attractive'. And if you're a 1 out of 5 - maybe it should only give you the 'See my Pic' option. If you're a 5 out of 5 and try to pick Average, it should also come up with an error. . I suspect the whole attractive thing is much like an argument about politics... 50% of people +/- a few percent think the current government is awesome and the remainder think it's absolute crap. How can half the population be so wrong?
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RHP User
14 years ago
... of modesty & confidence - me thinks. I tend to air on the side of caution lol. When it's all said and done though, the ultimate defining factor is definitely chemistry. If that's not going on, then it's just not gonna happen. KK xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think I am attractive to some women...Im not claiming to be "gods gift" but I think I do all right in the looks department.. Any coments ..supportive or not are more than welcome...please
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RHP User
14 years ago
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, i think im average, been told many times im gorgeous, beutiful, etc. I dont think i come close to those descriptions, but everyone see's something different.HOWEVER, my take on someone who RATES themselves very attractive is that person is concieted.But, whatever floats your boat.
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playful4u
14 years ago
WA men must be modest then :) We have rated our looks ourselves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Jensen, my mind is boggling at the 1000 words my picture said....don't suppose ATTRACTIVE old tart was in there Quoting 'jensman1903' I missed it because I cum in my pants while looking at your picture.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Why, bless your fishnet stockings funin50.....Keepin them open, not on here to collect cobwebs, l've heard that can be most UNATTRACTIVE beside did that for 10 years *shudders* Quoting 'funin50' Inspirit, Wow, of course you are attractive, your on here so we know you have an active mind and that you dont want to be Beige in life. Dont fold up the ??? keep em open You rock girl. XXOO
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
14 years ago
I find that there body is hot but omg how did you score that head to go with it. Muscles do not make the man..... funny sexy and smart are much more intresting.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ah Apollo, I too have often pondered this very question. Whilst there are some hihgly attractive members here, I am always pleased when I see their profile and note that they selected 'See my photo' - shows good character I think. Of course there are those that choose 'See my photo' who don't actually have a photo visible, tad confusing that! What gets me are those that do live in some fantasy world and actually do think they are not only 'Very Attractive' but the 'Very Attractive of the ALL' - going by their profile of course. I want their mirror, the one they look into to come to that conclusion. These mirrors must be around, I see people out and about every day that has them. You know the type, wandering around a shopping centre or the like, looking absolutely ridiculous. Surely they have a mirror that prior to leaving they look into, and think "Hell yes I look perfectly fine to be out in public wearing this'!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Has something very attractive about them...may be their smile, their eyes, their voice, their finger nail...anything! I always try to find something that is very attractive to someone no matter who they are! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Because it is opinion based, and we have yet to find people who in our opinion have selected the correct one... those listed as average are either smoking hot or at least attractive... very attractive usually means pig dog ugly... Hubby chose ours... I never checked what he chose though...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wasn't fishing, but thank you anyway. And yes, NoFuzz - you have seen what's on offer! But one man's trash is another man's treasure!It always makes me laugh when a (usually very young) guy messages me with "You are gorgeous". And I think - ummm, how can you say that when you haven't seen what I look like??For me the very, very start of anything has to come from physical attraction! Some guys (and I'm sure ladies too) have sexy - but no smarts. I need both! And I like to hope that I can be both in return.... (sans uggies and trackies - unless they're not mine!! )
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Smilingwithfun'..... it doesn't matter what people rate themselves its how they interest you But...you don't have a pic, so how will I know if you interest me?
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RHP User
14 years ago
"beauty is in the eye of the beholder" :)Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was actually thinking of this the other day when I found many profiles put themselves as 'Very attractive'.This is very subjective, and as you mentioned earlier 'one man's trash is another man's treasure' is always true. I put my profile as attractive only because it's the middle ground between average and attractive. Whether I actually am or not it's upto you to decide.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Perhaps that box should be populated by the votes of visitors. When they view your pics they get to score you? But that seems so superficial. I rated my wife as attractive, but for you to judge you need to get through to the "we think we would like to meet you" stage where you get our face pics in pg2. Till then you just get some saucy picsand my opinion. I'm a see my pic man, no oil painting in my own eyes but I get the odd complement ( although they generally seem to be followed by "for your age" But I accept them in good grace) Anyway what I loose in looks I make up for it with intelect, charm and killer wit. Oooops just lost those points on modesty
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wish I was more attractive!I get the "cute face" bit,or "you'd be hot if you lost some weight", which just confirms for me what I think about the rest of me.Ah well. Thems the brakes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Everyone has their own inner attractiveness. It's all about what we as humans believe is "Very" attractive, as we are all not the same, and al can't be in that category. What ever rocks your boat people.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hard to answer this at times. Men and women have told me I am stunning. Have been told by a good male friend that I am single because men are intimidated by me (presumably by my looks) yet really I am very ordinary and nothing to write home aBout in my own opinion. So yes, it is all subjective, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder plus I would believe it more if I were 20 years younger lol!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Choppy I think you are f----ing gorjus! Pity you don't live in the west
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RHP User
14 years ago
i am sexy come fuck me
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RHP User
14 years ago
because that's my subjective opinion and people who don't want to get in my pants or have reason to kiss my ass (i.e. elderly women in grocery stores) tell me that I'm beautiful, probably more often than my mother and people who want to get in my pants (catcalls = "I would f--- you" =/= "you're beautiful.") as attractiveness is so subjective, it's best to stick to "attractive" even if you're an Adonis as a gorgeous man who isn't fully aware of the extent of his gorgeousness becomes exponentially more attractive in my eyes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Spanke' I wish I was more attractive!I get the "cute face" bit,or "you'd be hot if you lost some weight", which just confirms for me what I think about the rest of me.Ah well. Thems the brakes. I think if they are commenting about your weight you're lucky not to have to be bothered with them... If they want a woman with the body of a ten year old boy why don't they just go for the ten year old boy... seriously. We are women, we have curves...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ms Minx you have a very very Attractive Arse... Quoting 'powerminxx' because that's my subjective opinion and people who don't want to get in my pants or have reason to kiss my ass (i.e. elderly women in grocery stores) tell me that I'm beautiful, probably more often than my mother and people who want to get in my pants (catcalls = "I would f--- you" =/= "you're beautiful.") as attractiveness is so subjective, it's best to stick to "attractive" even if you're an Adonis as a gorgeous man who isn't fully aware of the extent of his gorgeousness becomes exponentially more attractive in my eyes.
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Innercircle
14 years ago
They need another set of options:"My Mum Says I'm Beautiful"or "A Face Only A Mum Could Love"or, the maxxxxtreme version..."A Face Only A Mum Could Love - Ive Got Two Dads"
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'How is this fishing??? I even said not to bother looking because to make the judgement call as to my level of attractiveness or lack thereof, you would need my PG access.... So that makes it pretty clear not to bother trying! I'd think that the majority of people on the forums would have looked at my profile prior to this if they'd had any interest in doing so. He hasn't had much sleep lately.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Spanke'I wish I was more attractive!I get the "cute face" bit,or "you'd be hot if you lost some weight", which just confirms for me what I think about the rest of me.Ah well. Thems the brakes.You are a pretty girl, you come accross as sensitive and kind but you definitely lack in confidence. A confident woman can be attractive regardless of her size. Perhaps losing weight might give you some of that confidence but (and please don't think me harsh, I'm only speculating here so correct me if I'm wrong) you seem to talk about losing weight but you don't seem to be doing anything about it (or at least you haven't mentioned it in your posts). Maybe you need to find confidence from another source. Take control of your life and your emotions. I think you are a worthwhile lady and I expect there are many here who would agree. Start with that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have a theory that I'm guessing men outnumber women on here, the same as most of these sites , so some try to stand out from the crowd e.g. saying that they are very attractive and adding couple of inches to their cocks! they think as long as it gets the womans attention initially and they start chatting, then they can charm her in ways other than their looks! sometimes don't you really wish you could say what you really think instead of just being polite!!?? lolyours Cute xxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
After reading this I had better check what I said on my own profile! Personally I have been told I'm attractive, but I really do agree that confidence plays a big part. I can be shy and lack a little self confidence at time, and for this reason I'd never label myself as 'very attractive'. Although at the end of the day it is in the eye of the beholder - different strokes for different folks and all that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks! Or rather, thanks mom for the raw material and thanks to the strictly exercise-related masochism that has lead me to do countless squats and lunges of every variety. Quoting 'inspirit' Ms Minx you have a very very Attractive Arse... Quoting 'powerminxx' because that's my subjective opinion and people who don't want to get in my pants or have reason to kiss my ass (i.e. elderly women in grocery stores) tell me that I'm beautiful, probably more often than my mother and people who want to get in my pants (catcalls = "I would f--- you" =/= "you're beautiful.") as attractiveness is so subjective, it's best to stick to "attractive" even if you're an Adonis as a gorgeous man who isn't fully aware of the extent of his gorgeousness becomes exponentially more attractive in my eyes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Explain pleaseQuoting 'ApolloThirteen' Nah jensman - it's all good. I checked out his profile and see his issue.He's not one of WA boys we ladies were referring to.I'd be bitter too - it's hard when you're the turkey surrounded by eagles.
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RHP User
14 years ago
when i'm camping or trying to have a quiet evening beer. i'm uber attractive.. to mosquitoes..in days gone by i would drive around in my 1973, spray can black hilux ute. i was pretty attractive to cops.my friends tell me i'm quite attractive when i stop talking and listen for a bit.and my board game collection is very very attractive to lady geeks..all pretty strait forward..
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RHP User
14 years ago
I make up my own mind. I do have a giggle sometimes though To answer your question Apollo......we rated ourselves as attractive. We wrote our profile together and felt that this rating was appropriate. We are not supermodels but we scrub up pretty well. We have met up with a few singles and couples who have selected very attractive and we would have to agree with them. Their ratings were spot on. Mrs Waterbabes xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think there's a hot or not thing on here. On occasion, I get an alert on my live feed that says that someone has rated me as HOT. 1. Why can't we view our own? 2. Perhaps that should be the basis of this whole attractiveness rating. Sorry. Way too many messages.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmmm, we thought a fair bit before answering this question. Ultimately, we rated each other, which is daft really because of course we find each other attractive! It seemed a bit of an odd question to have at all...who's going to say they are ugly?We assess PG's as 'attractive' or otherwise based on a series of photo's. But we've learned to be wary of that. We've learned that pics do not capture the things that make people attractive beyond what you can see in a photograph. You know, the twinkle in the eye, the cheeky smile, the broad laugh that is so infectious that you find it swallows you whole. The 'fuck me now' look that's meant for you at a precise moment in time and that cannot be captured by a Canon.But hey, we each do things and see things a little different and isn't that half the fun!Kisses,J
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RHP User
14 years ago
It seems (from a variety of recent threads), that quite a few of the ladies think the WA men to be there creme of the crop!(The vast majority seem to be anyway)I know where I'll be taking my next holiday...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' I look at it another way. It makes no difference what people put down in the 'looks' section. They could write as attractive as a 'bore pig' or 'extremely attractive'.....fact is shallowness is in 99% of people on these sites. Makes no difference what is in their written profile for most...it's just the pics which i think is pretty sad. I agree....it doesn't make any difference how people rate their own looks. We offer our own opinion of self when creating our profiles and it's inevitable that others will disagree. I've come across some profiles of men, whom in my opinion, can own the 'very attractive' description they've given themselves. I've also come across some where I've felt they were over-confident and very ambitious. Having said that, I'm sure there are people who will find these ones attractive and the other ones not so attractive. Different strokes for different . I do have to disagree with the 'shallowness' of formulating an opinion, or making decisions, based on pics. We are all here for our own agenda whether it be a relationship, friendship, or n.s.f. For me, a physical atttraction is what determines a course of action. I'm not here for a relationship or friendships so, if in my eyes, you're butt ugly, I don't much care about your personality....I've already decided I'm not having sex with you. If I find you physically attractive, I will explore your personality as this contributes to the overall attraction. Not too different from buying a new lounge suite. Whilst gazing around the store, you go to the ones which caught your eye. You then consider suitability of needs and expectations.I have to also say that, for me, it doesn't make a lot of difference as to what is in someone's written profile. Some will offer a true reflection of self, some will provide a fairly deluded perception, and some will be written with the intent to convince others they're something they're not.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi there, I consider my wife to be very attractive and myself attractive, but there are some very delusional couples that consider both them selves very attractive and REALLY they need to take another look!!! The unfortunate thing is that even their profile pics and pg says it all!! If you have a pg its not about vaginas and penis, you cant classify that as attractive and very attractive. Why even have a pg when all you show is penis and vagina!!WTF!!! HELLO!!! Seriously guys and please clean your back ground when taking pics, get rid of pizza boxes,Mcdonald wrappers, dirty laundry and empty cans of drink!!. Take time in taking photos and this way you will have couples or singles hitting your profile, stop complaining about RHP. Its all about advertising, !!!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I totally agree with Scorpio64. Some pics of you and your partner in classy clothes or even regular clothes is more of a turn on than penis and vagina pics. Oh and how many times have I seen people post pics of themselves with crap back grounds showing what a slob they are in reall life. Also a good idea to remove pics of your children from the background. Don't worry if you list yourself as average because if your pictures tell us a different story we will be in touch.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm curious, that if 'below average' options were available, whether there would be anyone that selects them? I really think it's a bit ridiculous to rate yourself... I have days where I dress up and turn heads when I go down the street, and I also have days where I go out to get the post in my threadbare trackpants with bed hair. Similarly, on here I've had some people call me attractive when I open my PG, then others who don't contact me again after seeing my PG...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm very attractive - to my dog. It is so subjective that I have had girlfriends who have said that they didn't think I was good looking at all, but now they think I'm very nice, and vice-versa.Obviously the vice-versa comment was just as she was helping me to pack my shit into the car.I guess if I was asked if I was attractive, I would have to ask: "who's asking?"I trust my dog's judgement. "Who's a good boy, Max??"
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RHP User
14 years ago
... as for women. It's easy. We are guys, so if you were born with female genitals - you are attractive. If you only recently acquired female genitals, or are in the process of ... pour me another drink and ask me again in a half hour.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I pretty much upsold my profile from "average" to "attractive" in the hope that it might get me more search hits with attractive females. Then I realised I was deluded and that women don't search for men on here, they are too busy fending them off. There are some great looking guys and gals on here without doubt, and from what I've seen the creme de la creme aren't the ones advertising as "very attractive", the irony being that those who are doing said self promotion - well, I've got a newsflash for you, Walter Cronkite.... You aren't.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Am I the only one amazed at the number of people who tick attractive or very attractive and then don't put up a pic? For goodness sake don't go out in a breeze. I acknowlege the amount of life I have lived and no longer consider myself attractive in the conventional sense, ie: young, crease free. I have a reasonable representation of what I look like and believe I don't look like I am a gargoyle or need a bag. Mike
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brent3250
14 years ago
i consider myself average , but its what other people think when they see my pictures to some i'm more than average to others i'm less its truly in the eye of the beholder
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RHP User
14 years ago
You look like your in pretty decent shape pal. not bad for 52, not bad at all.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
i am super attractive on my profile it says 'just ask me'.... and now i'm telling youbesides, your only as attractive as you feel and i feel myself quite regularly...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cause "Perfect" isn't an option....fix that could you RHP!!! Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Having joined and checked out a few profiles... is the subjective 'attractive' thing the same as people who describe themselves as having 'a little extra padding' etc, when they are obviously overweight or 'large'? Just putting it out there...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissJupiter72' can v chat ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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