Verification Process for a Swingers club?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  dont know why you would have to.....what ever happened about the discrete lifestyle choice..we would never ask for that.!Leesa Couples International

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I have had organisers ask that I ring first and talk to them if it is a private venue. It's protection for them and they can assess to see if you are serious or that you are not just a nut bag. It is their right as often it is in a private venue or they stand to loose a bit of money out of it. So I would say its not that wierd... Give them your play address. :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I personally think that a face picture is sufficient, after all what sort of people do they think "swingers" are.....We are normal people and should not be treated like criminals with something to hideTthose that are having parties in private venues, maybe they should rethink having a party if they are worried about the sort of people that come to parties..cause in my experience of "swingers" they are the most trust worthy caring people that i have ever met!....and trust me i have met thousands of them.I dont want to know their names, where they live or anything about them , i am just happy for them to enjoy themselves away from the hassles of life at my venue and forget about all the other crap in their lives.I trust every patron that enters my venue , and respect them all and they give me the same respect back.It is not my right to ask for all that information about them, the lifestyle is one of grown adults, if people need to ask for that sort of information maybe they have been going to the wrong sort of parties to start with , if they think that people in the lifestyle are shifty and untrustworthy..That is NOT my experience EVER!Just my thoughts.Leesa xxx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I think calling and talking is fine, it is about making sure you are serious to attend and that they dont waste their time putting on a party when no one is gonna turn up.But Emailing ID...NFW.Identity fraud would be a concern for me if they only want id before you enter and when you enter to prove age..that is the only reason i would ever ask. To make sure they are over 18. and it would be at the door not via an email.Leesa

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  DonnaBrett

  13 years ago

  Never heard of that? Well, at least not in Qld

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  oops sorry Leesa I didn't read that properly, I thought they just required a message via email, I didn't realise they wanted ID. No I would never send anyone my ID....... why would I? Meeka xx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I have had guests turn up to my play parties in gimp hoods using their profile name. I don't ask for ID but do have to occasionally ask what they would like to be called. One example is when someone introduces themselves as Fred and I have a choice of "Sloppysub" or "Fearlessfister" on the guestlist. I tick off Fearless and show him into the dungeon whereupon he informs me that his real name is John. Or sometimes you get a gorgeous lady turn up who introduces herself as Darren but has been using 5 different girls names. Usually by this stage I suggest something risque, introduce her to the assembled company and find a quiet spot to bang my head against the wall.If these people are so worried about who is attending then they shouldn't be hosting. Or it's a scam. Either way I wouldn't send my ID.

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