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Venues for Play Dates
March 15 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
i too am like you and dont live alone therefore it is difficult to host at my place, also Im not keen on people knowing where I live. If he is a single guy (lol) I ask if he can host that way if he's not what you expected you can leave. If he says he cant host he may be attached . Other guys are more than happy to pay for a hotel room. I have yet to share the cost of a hotel room although would certainly be willing to if need be. I have paid for hotel rooms before when I felt like I needed some pampering and invited a friend along to join me. Couples and groups are different, my experience with them has been at hosted parties. I hope that may help somewhat.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A hotel I have paid when I wanted it in a hotel,so fair enough, the guy had invited me to his house. Other than that coffee first, then say to him, please book a hotel for our next meeting If they want your house its a simple NO and no explaination you do not have to give a reason put it in your profile as well , exactly what you want ie if a play date is set,they it is expected you will book and pay for hotel yes guys its so unfair,not equal but hey she is holding the pussy card.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Behind the woodshed? Under the bridge? Down by the wharf? Bonnet of a red Ferrari? Behind a tree in the park? The Chinese gardens at Darling Harbour? Back of a ute? On the beach? Under a picnic blanket? People have been shagging out of their homes since before humanity had homes. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
And I just got my place.... to myself after 6 years of sharing !!!!!!!! YEAH! Dinner over the sink, salt & vinegar chip sandwiches for dinner, sitting watching porn in my underwear in the living room... may as well flick the bean while I am here, watch what I want, do want I want, fuck who I want, wash all my saucy naughty clothes with out raised eyebrows. Oh yeah!!! Now I need to christen the lounge, the shower, my bed, the kitchen, my balcony, etc etc etc. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
I look forward to hearing the christening stories Btw- I tried sending you a message and it won't go through... are you allergic to me ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sydneyvaka, sorry I am not allergic just not taking any new messages at the moment from anyone. Sorry, I should update my profile to let interested people know. Meeka xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry almost impossible to see on my iPhone but is your profile pic of your girlfriend giving you a blowjob? Oops I am only interested in single dudes :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Whats with the women expecting the men to pay for everything? I don't get it an I don't like it either. I may have all the pussy cards but they have the cock... So fairs fair. What century are we living in after all?
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RHP User
14 years ago
"ingenerous men are ingenerous lovers"?? Wait.... You mean you actually think a dude who hasn't got a couple hundred bucks to flick at a hotel room must be a bad lover?? What does that say about women who sponge the room of said dudes?? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have never let a guy pay for a room. I like the control of "entertaining" in my own space. I think it is very hypocritical to expect a guy to pay for the room. Why should he?? We are equal participants in the adult activity of indulging in pleasure so I think it should at least be shared.Im in a position that I have rooms when I stay in the city but should that not be the case I would definitely expect to foot 1/2 the bill.yeah Stalky Im with you though...how can you possibly match someones cashflow with their bedroom prowess?? I remember one of my earliest plays was with a cleaner....boy ,did he know how to polish ...and I bet he wouldnt have been able to afford a hotel room.There have also been a couple of times when I havent had a room and we have answered the call of the wild at the beach with a lingerie swim after *sigh* Get creative if you dont have the budget - make it fun (but dont get caught) Minxy xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
when we go to meet other people i book a nice hotel and arrange everything. i like to treat my wife that night to something specia,l like to feel good myself and if the others are nice people too we take them back to the hotel with us. if they are a no go, then we enjoy the pleasant surroundings ourselfs what results into a hot steamy night too, so no regrets in spending the money. its all about getting out and having a good time, if you cant do it that way it should be mentioned in the beginning, no uneasy moments then. i think with single guys dating single women, do it the old way, treat her like a lady and it will take you long ways. worked for me before i remarried. before we take people home we want to get to know them first, people we dont click with, dont need to know where we live. don't waste your time with people that are to complicated cheers
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'msminx3' I have never let a guy pay for a room. I like the control of "entertaining" in my own space. I think it is very hypocritical to expect a guy to pay for the room. Why should he?? We are equal participants in the adult activity of indulging in pleasure so I think it should at least be shared.Im in a position that I have rooms when I stay in the city but should that not be the case I would definitely expect to foot 1/2 the bill.yeah Stalky Im with you though...how can you possibly match someones cashflow with their bedroom prowess?? I remember one of my earliest plays was with a cleaner....boy ,did he know how to polish ...and I bet he wouldnt have been able to afford a hotel room.There have also been a couple of times when I havent had a room and we have answered the call of the wild at the beach with a lingerie swim after *sigh* Get creative if you dont have the budget - make it fun (but dont get caught) Minxy xx you go girl.....great to hear from a independent and well adjusted woman.....btw just checked your profile and I read it too quickly ..I came away thinking you liked young guys in high heeels.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We will only play Dinner out first and a 4 plus star apartment. Not a motel!Something with class!But we are thinking there is some merit in dinner at the apartment...tasty finger food...more time for play, seconds anyone?All-ways the Guys split the costs of dinner and apartment.IE: Two couples the two guys pay for everything 50/50. One couple and a extra guy....same the two guys pay 50/50 One couple extra girl ...the one guy pays 100%.Never the lady / ladies share the costs, It just would not be right.Guys not paying we consider tight arses.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have no need for a high maintenance princess. Meah. A hooker is far more accommodating and when she gets old I can simply get a pretty young model that looks better swinging off the back of my sports bike. Personally, I prefer the challenge of a truly independent woman. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I do understand what you mean... But it just doesn't sit well with me personally. I like to pay my own way and also it means that I don't feel obligated to the other person in any way. Sex in the ocean! Hmm yes I have been trying to organize that for this afternoon but some people put work before shagging! It's an outrage! Hehe xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Good for you Stalkers! I also like it how men of a let's just say certain generation, do find it hard to let a woman pay... They don't want me to pay but I insist. Well I let them pay the first time ... Then I pay for them the next time. They don't like it but fair's fair. :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
a woman, who I knew casually as she was a regular, asked if I'd like to join her after I knoced off. I said, "I'd love to but my girlfriend is in the next room and, if she caught on, she might tell my wife." Now anyone would expect an answer like that to cool her adour, I know I did, but iit was not the case. She just responded, "Can't you lose the girlfriend?" Now how could a gent disapoint a lady that determined. I drove my girlfriend home and left her with an excuse that I wasn't well and would head off home to bed then I returned to the RSL to meet the new lady. We went to a nightclub for a while until it too closed then she asked where we could go. I told her we could'nt go to my place as my wife was there. She said we couldn't go to her place, her husband was away but his parents were staying with them. Well that explained why my marital status didn't dissuade her. She suggested a motel but I said I couldn't afford one. She said simply, "I can". Well, .....
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RHP User
14 years ago
In my experiences it has all worked out quite well, I have paid for rooms, he has paid for food and drinks it works out in the end, no need to be rigid when it's a weekend of fun planned. I've also split the cost of a room or apartment before as well..........I just adapt it to whatever has been organised prior in regards to fairness of costs.....I've even shouted someone their fuel as they were coming a long way to see me, time is money as well and theirs is just as precious as mine
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RHP User
14 years ago
Expecting a man to pay just because he contacted the woman is a ridiculous view. Basically you might as well just call it prostitution...lol. If you both want sex then you should be splitting the bill. Equality goes both ways ladies, not just when it suits you. A salute to the ladies here that like to take control ;) And that's my 2 cents...lol. Any complaints just send to mensrights at yourplace dot com. ;)
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MegaSin
14 years ago
The few times I have entertained, it was either at my place... or at a hotel where we both paid 1/2.Think if we are both after mutual fun, then we should all be equal in how we play and pay
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kink....we are not talking about first dates...we are talking about getting a room to have sex between two consenting adults. They are two entirely different things. And you are right...I have never paid for a prostitute and never will. That's just my choice. And don't start me on the play parties charging men ridiculous prices to attend a party where they may just be spectators all night due to the sausage fest that is already there. Now that is discrimination. But we are getting off topic with my rant...lol. Women who expect everything to be given to them because they have a vagina are a major turn off for most men.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Then if things go wrong, I have somewhere to go. I tend to travel for play and I want no unexpected incidences. I am also fiercely independant. Once a man friend went halves and I just didnt feel right taking money from him.
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'MegaSin' Think if we are both after mutual fun, then we should all be equal in how we play and pay First time play, whoever makes the initial contact and asks to play might be the one to pay but usually I have to agree that mutual pleasure in play should also entail sharing of costs and that goes a long way to mutual RESPECT for each other. ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
it really is up to the individual man or woman what they feel comfortable with.. i have kids so i dont want to bring someone to my place even if my kids aren't home.. its just not a turn on lol.. its also about the individual meet, who invited who, is the man happy to pay, does the woman feel comfortable with that. i do know alot of women who feel like a prostitute letting the guy pay but hang on, that don't sit well with me? isnt it the deed not the amount payed making her feel like that? i personally prefer taking turns buying drinks, going halves in dinner then the man paying for a room or going back to his place. if i want to see the man again i definately want to go to his place as its a sure fire way of knowing if he really is single. it depends on income too, if a man asks me to suggest a motel i will always suggest a mid range, if he wants flash then no probs either. if its a one night stand why not go all out, let the guy spoil me? but u know what, i have dated a man who was in a tough time of his life, had no money and he once invited me out for an icecream, his shout, it meant alot to me and yes i did let him pay. we ladies are proud of our independence and rightly so but sometimes its important to let the man be a man also even if its his last dollar on an icecream ;) i totally respect the choices some women have on this thread about never letting a guy pay, but dont judge a woman who just as independantly chooses a guy to pay. if we want to put the prostitute tag on this scenario then im a high class escort and you are providing a cheap in house call to the fella's.. and that is ridiculous f*k that stupid moral dilema and just have fun and do only what u as an individual feel comfortable with. women seem so much worse then men with labelling each other with the slut/whore tag..
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have no expectations girls should pay their way when invited out to play.If girls wish to pay their way we have no problems with that either.We do have problem and refused dates where we might say split the costs and the guy has said three ways and we say no two ways!He will argue three are getting enjoyment!We will think, we are a married couple one unit, with a joint bank account, joint income stream everything is both.Then the real tight guys who dont want to help with sharing the expenses for accommodation or a meal, just drop in for 10 minutes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you everyone who took the time to respond,,,,has given me lots to ponder upon including a list of al fresco venues for when the weather is a little less inclement in so called sunny Qland xx H
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RHP User
14 years ago
its easy...guys......you dont want to pay? then have a venue you can play at. single guys need to be able to entertain or host, or we look elsewhere...single women should be doing the same....if the guys attached, and cant host....even at a hotel/motel...........why would you waste your time? guys... what you seek doesnt fall from trees, nor does it come free or easy...if theres an expense to be incurred.....its absolutely fair you should foot the bill...ffs, we have to arrange sitters etc, what do you have to do, other than shower and shave?? if you are serious, and a gentleman, you should absolutely step up and be the 'man', and take charge of things like the bill...and ffs you should be covering drinks and meals for these single women as well..............
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'realtease' you go girl.....great to hear from a independent and well adjusted woman.....btw just checked your profile and I read it too quickly ..I came away thinking you liked young guys in high heeels.ROFL, no realtease, the only thing I like my young boys wearing is meYes Meeka I am with you... guys have a cock that I want just as much as what I am offering, so it is an equal "gain" for a meet as far as I am concerned. I do not view our meeting as a one sided benefit, you can be damn sure I will be wanting both of us to roll out of that room with a huge smile on both of our faces and bodies still twitching for hours afterwards.I would be way to scared to have anyone at my home from a security and privacy point of view. I love the anonymity and open ground that a hotel room offers. Room service anyone;)Minxy x
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