Vanity Roots

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  In terms of people I've actually gone as far as meeting from here... it's the ones I can *talk* to that I want to meet, not the pretty faces.Get my imagination going and your chances of seeing my bed are *alot* higher than, well, being genetically blessed.It's kinda nice when the two align, though

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  And I disagree with your definition of a vanity root. A vanity root is having sex with someone because they make a good handbag or accessory, or worse still 'buy you stuff' but don't actually make your heart skip a beat when you smell or taste them. . You can't just choose to dictate what a list should look like and suggest physical attraction should sit second on it to something else. Physical attraction is one of the most basic requirements to set off 'chemistry' in your brain. The first time you look someone up and down your brain is assessing their attractiveness and suitability as a mate, that's what then makes you decide 'do I or don't I pursue them'. Then when you're close enough there's smell, taste and so many other things that you're assessing. You don't choose attraction, it chooses you. . The internet has probably caused some confusion to the brain, because people are now getting to 'know' each other before they see, smell and taste each other. So you are skipping the attraction bit (well, basing it on a 10 yr old picture) until later on. . Remember - The Europeans make scooters look sexy, Asians make them look practical, but here they remain the equivalent of wearing socks with sandals - there's no excuse really.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  "I think a lot of people are more concerned with what their mates think rather than letting loose and actually enjoying themselves." .. "We behave in a way society and peer group dictates." .. I think that these attributes are a reflection on someone's level of "sense of self", or lack thereof. If you have a healthy self esteem, make your decisions for yourself and are confident in your ability to make sound, healthy decisions and not be peer-pressured into socially acceptable ones, then you answer to yourself and you date accordingly. . "For me it is about chemestry, it that is right then very little else matter. I know that physical attraction is important for lots of people but lets try to make it secondary on the list." . Whilst I agree with you LC, that the level of chemistry should be paramount and when it is just right, little else matters, the unfortunate reality is that JG is correct. Brain chemistry kicks in first and if the factors he mentions aren't there, you cannot manufacture them, regardless of how well you get along. . However, I think the way someone formats their list depends largely on what it is they are seeking in an online experience, so for one person, physical attraction will not be quite as important as it may be to another. . Flirty x

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Love the BBW moped joke...its so true.     I will get at least 10 - 20 messages a day about how these men LOOOVE my body ect ect   but when I go out I never get approached...why? because Im larger so men are embaressed to approach me infront of thier mates!.   Guess im a good behind closed doors root!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  not true........i ride a big cruiser, and am looking for an even bigger one....but would love a moped to get to work on......it would be a hoot!....my mates would take the piss, but hey, i drove a pink mini for years lol......

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