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Vanilla & Spice and all things exciting!

March 19 2012

So, I need lots more spice in my life as I find every day life can be mundane and oh so boring. Being a "sensible" adult isn't all it's cracked up to be. But I am trying. I have a mortgage and a good job and I limited my overseas trips as I love nothing better than going somewhere I have never been before. My family suggested to me I should have a child... Become a first time single mum at 41. Oh my god that is not for me!! Eek! So my question is, what do you do to spice up your every day life... From the sexual to the non-sexual, from vanilla to spice?? xx Meeka

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Children are so over-rated that people are giving them away. However, I highly recommend that you get a puppy! They're not quite as demanding and don't give as much cheek. Also, join an amateur theatre company or something, learn karate, pole dancing, basket weaving, knitting booties for all those nieces, the local soccer club... regular social events and generating a sociable routine. Leave opportunity in there for travel and change. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I think we need to enjoy the now more..Tomorrow will look after itself..An Anthony Robbins or Baskin Robbins will give a different flavor to vanilla..but does it fix your state of mind or want..or does it just make you want more?   Watch shows like Sex in the City , Californication ,three and a half men with Charlie .. you will see the funny side of life and drugs alcohol and sex !!   sorry did i go off subject there ..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Dogs are great,all individual personalities and just enough responsibiilty.You mention you have a good job but still every day life is mundane.....perhaps a change of job or even career..where are your passions.....perhaps a passion could lead to a new direction. Are you someone who loves to be constantly doing things?Step out of your comfort zone and do something completely different,be proactive and invite a friend to join you.Salsa , zumba ,belly dancing etc can all be great fun and you might meet some likeminded and interesting people. And if you do decide to get that dog, take it to the local dog park,never know who might be walking their pooch!!   Finally love your own company,spend time with you,enjoy that time alone ,any thing else is then just a bonus.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Well exactly... I am bored today and I have itchy feet. I want to change my whole life over night. Just because. Not into drugs or alcohol that is just boring to me, I want real excitement! I can barely sit in my seat here at work without wanting to do something crazy! Maybe the sex part I can do Taipan. Hmm go to Aarows and go totally nuts or something. Now to find a willing accomplice! xx Meeka

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    I find cooking, especially for friends always brightens my day. There is the whole process of menu ideas, ingredient selection, wine selection and preparation. It's the main reason we dine out, to get meal and menu ideas. Food is so sensual. On the sex front, whilst we enjoy the company of others, there a a couple of things we only do with each other, so there is always something special to look forward to. John

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Well. I want a puppy! Soft cuddly licky cute naughty lil puppy. Awwwwhh! I can walk it every afternoon and it can sit curled up under my desk keeping my tootsies warm in winter. I'm trading in the bloody cat. Rotten lil heat sponge, hates dogs. Hides in the long grass out near the front door waiting for people walking their dogs on leashes, then he leaps out and attacks them. Crazy bloody cat. Nope. Gotta get a puppy. Aarows? You feeling like a dirty girl Meeks? Better wear your Dunlop volleys. I wanna see you sleaziness around the halls of Aarows wearing bought but your corset and strap on. Hehe. Let's go fuck some dudes! Hehe Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I WANNA BE A DIRTY GIRL!! Not sure if my dunlops will match that out fit Stalky! Now where is my cockbait collar :p

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    lol... trust me you'll need the dunlop volleys. hehe.... Wear your strap on and lets go spit roast some men Meeks. Bring your kitchen steps so we can do the high fives. I'll bring the sauce bottle. hehe.HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Oh yeah?... well let me know and I can drive you straight there from the airport. :)StalkyPS... drink lots of water... I think this could get messy and you wouldn't wanna be dehydrated. :p Quoting 'Krissy_G'   I need to get myself to Sydney to find out what this Aaarows is all about.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    My Puppy is a 6'4" painfully shy guy on two feet, but get him on all fours and he's a cute, confident, happy snuggly thing. Truly delightful, even before you get to the best part...Puppies LOVE to lick ;)xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Undress me with your teeth, find me with your tongue, press against my thighs, push on the floor, drag your lips across my hips, taste my curves, bite me and talk very very very dirty to me......now thats sensible

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Now is a good time to have/make a range of diverse friends (bit late for most to have children), make plans with them & then you have something to dream about doing after work - sex related or whatever.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Lots of good ideas :-)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'k_man1982' Lots of good ideas :-) Ever considered puppy play? ;)xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hit your local Riot Art & Craft store and pick up a * hot glue gun* metal studsand bedazzle the hell out your Dunlop Volleys to match your outfit for Aarows Meeka....You could start a whole new business with Cockbait shoes

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    If you've read the book "The Dice Man" you'll know what I mean if not choose six things to do, give each a number and roll the dice. Whatever comes up do it. OR Join a cult or take one over. Whichever seems more fulfilling to you. As for myself I usually strip naked, rub Dencorub ALL over my body and listed to Johnny Cash. I find it helps focus my attention nicely.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'k_man1982' Lots of good ideas :-) Yes there is, so tell me sweetpie, do you like roasts?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    So in the last 12 months I have done the following "firsts"Hang-glidingPole dancing classKettle bell classHelicopter rideFeed baby tigers & sat next to a full grown tigerRode an elephantQuad biking through Thailand forest (first time in Thailand) Met a number of RHP forum contributorsFisted a girl MMF bi threesome Shared a cock with another girl Shared a cock with another boyBeen spit roastedI SQUIRTED!!! hmmm not sure if I like that though. Sex in the water on a crowed nudie beach :p First private sex party where anything goes. Went to Couples Club and played with boys & girlsWent to Aarows and played with boys who played with other boysUsed a strapon on a boy (very poorly too. oops)Had sex whilst lots of men watched. Can't remember the other things, but you get the idea. It's true my social life has been a little quite the last 6 months... I need to get back into the "swing". xxMeeks

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Not sure about the puppy talk? Anyway I am not home enough to have a puppy it wouldn't be fair plus dogs are hard work. But I like Ruby's craft idea. I could put diamonites on my PVC corset... saying Stalky's Master or something. hehehe xxMeeka

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Sounds good to me Miss Curious :-)Xx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    jzujjing up your lil steppy stool Meeks whack some strip lighting on that baby, so you don't have to try and look down and around your big strapon before stepping up to the plate.......or should I say the gate things can be quite dark and steamy where that stool is needed, or even dress it up like a star's dressing room mirror, with lots of little bulbs around the top. "Come on boys, who's ready for their close up"? . Role call you are about to be Bedazzled !!!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ..is very sensual and sexy. It gives you a workout and feminine confidence about your body and the power we have over men!

  • 2andmore4fun

    2andmore4fun

    14 years ago

    Meeks,   How about a holiday in the Top End when things get cold in the South? You could take a dive in "The Cage of Death" in the water with a 5 metre crocodile, Eat stuff from all over the world at the Mindil Beach Markets, including crocodile burgers and kangaroo burgers, and just enjoy the balmy, non humid 28 to 30 degree days throughout June, July and August   Oh, and then the two of us plus you can enjoy some time in a hotel room by the waterfront or at the casino hotel... of course you will want to get your gear off in this climate!   Rick and Gina

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    14 years ago

    Non sexual   Something i can imagine you doing Meeka   Have a go at pistol shooting at an indoor range Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Male/Female it doesn't matter.. Why? Build up the sexual tension, feel them "feel" you ;) Not only you will feel fitter ( regardless of your current fitness level ) the tension will start to build up to the point that you'll want to get down and dirty *wink* If not try Latin dancing "sex with your clothes on" ;) td&h

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...just get a black floor length leather coat, some polar flash sunnies and a black wide brim hat. Then walk into your nearest 7-11 and don't talk a a lot. Just point to things with your finger from under your coat and kind of grunt out..."Gimme one of them". | You'll be surprised how quickly they actually can speak perfect English and make change properly. So if you spend $15 and give them a $20...it's not unusual to get two $50 notes back..right? | With a little practice, you'll have enough for an extra holiday.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Chilli, that is a good idea. Something I have been thinking about. xx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    You have found my ultimate weak spot.... Holiday/travelling! And that sounds like a great holiday too. I suspect that an email I received from a travel buddy of mine may have started this. "Meeka, let's fly away somewhere... Have you done Sth America?" she knows I can never say no to a question like that!!! Meeka

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'It sounds like you've got the fun highlights all sorted, but what about giving back...? Perhaps you already do volunteer work but there are countless ways to enrich the lives of others in both a formal capacity (look out for not for profit organisations) but also in your local neighbourhood where there may be migrant families needing support, disabled kids, elderly people just needing a cup of tea and a listening ear... Chilli xx Or do a favour to local dogs and sort out Stalky's rogue cat well done chilli!   being a divorced male of nearly 5 years now, and having seen first hand the mental struggles men go through at this time of their lives, especially when kids are involved, i am an ambassador for beyond blue and contribute both as a councellor and as simply as helping with fundraising etc.   one of the highest rates of male suicide is for this specific demographic so by contributing to beyond blue and similar types of organisations, the experience is both cathartic, engrossing and rewarding.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...just get married, and make sure you really don't like the bastard all that well right from the start. No pre-nups and you can fix him up properly with all those appalling things you have or haven't done already...maybe even that strap-on sideways? | Now comes the good part...divorce the bastard and nail him a beauty for half of what he's worth. I am assuming that you can trick a rich guy as easily as you can a lesser endowed male...this should keep you off the streets and busy for what, maybe 6 months? | Seriously...forget puppies and go for the cash.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    That's some bucket list Meeka, may I suggest travelling somewhere remote where not only can you satisfy your travel urges, but you can travel somewhere and do some charity work, god knows there are so many people in far flung destinations worthy of a little assistance, very noble mission, may just give you the buzz you are looking for....................otherwise you should contact me and i will teach you to surf!!!..........most amazing feeling, like the waves are a canvass and you get to paint the picture you want, no wave is ever the same and best of all its free, not to mention you can do it all over the world in some pretty amazing places....happy to advise on suitable destinations!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    we cram our everyday lives with so much spice that we forget the simple things in life that give us pleasure. Sometimes we try so many things that our taste for more and more turn us into an adrenalin junky and nothing is good enough any more. We become quite jaded in our search for better, greater more kinky sex, bigger thrills and more adrenaline rush. I agree with HotSexyChilly. Maybe it is time to realise what we have in life and how very very lucky we are by giving something back. Find a teen mothers group and see what support they need. Check out an old folks home and see about visiting some. Many never get visits from family at all. Brighten thier day.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    And you want MORE spice...lordy miss meeka I feel a little weak at the thought of all that activity.....I just looked in my bucket but I think I have lost mah list......thank goodness.....must go back to couch....have a lil nap......still feel vicariously exhausted....just think I will pat the dog....no walkies today

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Im hearing ya meeks... I was kinda hoping moving back to melbourne would be a new leaf... something exciting and interesting... new people and places... turns out its actually been pretty dull.   I keep hoping I'll stumble across some new awesome people or whatever.. but it just doesnt seem to be happening... Ive come to the conclusion that australian's are actually quite hard to "meet" in other countries I have had pretty good social scene happening within a few months of landing... here, Ive been treading the boards for a year and 3 months now and I feel like nothing is changing.   then again Ive always been one to have a few very close friends as opposed to 400 people on facebook who I kinda know... I guess that takes a little time to develop in good old melbs... but I do still wonder sometimes if moving back to canada or germany might be the way to go. maybe sydney? :P LS

  • 2andmore4fun

    2andmore4fun

    14 years ago

    Meeks,   (Re- Top End Holiday option) Don't be too concerned about "The Cage of Death"... with the crocodiles, it's just a name...   (Yeah, it's not really a cage - it's a big perspex box)... can't vouch for the "Death" part of the name though LOL!   Cheers,   Rick & Gina

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'LeoSteve' Im hearing ya meeks... I was kinda hoping moving back to melbourne would be a new leaf... something exciting and interesting... new people and places... turns out its actually been pretty dull.   I keep hoping I'll stumble across some new awesome people or whatever.. but it just doesnt seem to be happening... Ive come to the conclusion that australian's are actually quite hard to "meet" in other countries I have had pretty good social scene happening within a few months of landing... here, Ive been treading the boards for a year and 3 months now and I feel like nothing is changing.   then again Ive always been one to have a few very close friends as opposed to 400 people on facebook who I kinda know... I guess that takes a little time to develop in good old melbs... but I do still wonder sometimes if moving back to canada or germany might be the way to go. maybe sydney? :P LS .Sydney! Sydney! Sydney! . . Sorry Meeks, I have nothing to contribute here, in fact, I'm taking notes for my own sparkless life right now LOL. . But, if you go for belly dancing, lemme know. I'll be in that one for sure! . Flirty x