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Valentine's day 2010
January 25 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
well the best and worst presents i got was from my ex xmas 2006 (have never got a valentines present) i got a dildo (best) and an alarm clock (worst)....dont really know what he was thinking but at least he brought me something hahaha best present i could possible recieve would be two hunky men tied in a red ribbon....to do my housework in nothing but a g string ahhhhh roxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
having never received a Valentine's Day present....although I did once get a card...but Im pretty sure my Dad sent me that...god love him!Funny how its usually the men though that say they dont believe in it...wonder if they realise how devastating it is as a woman to hear your man say that???I bet if there was a day that women had to buy their men beer...they would be all for it.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe I should have asked who gets/does Valentine's Day...? Even when I was single I would send someone I liked flowers on Valentine's Day (anonymously of course and only to the single ones) just so we would both feel good. Nice idea Roxy... if the ribbon is long enough you can use it for more fun later...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Never got anything for Valentines...Well only flowers when I was married..and he would take me out to dinner..Then again we went out to dinner a lot..lol.. I have to agree about the 2 men......Butt naked...cleaning and then for champagne in the spa... awwww..crap..I don't have a spa.. ...ok that would be the valentines present I would most want....... huggies sweetpetite41
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've never received a Valentine's Day present or had a valentine come to think of it...hmmm duno whats going on there :S
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' I bet if there was a day that women had to buy their men beer...they would be all for it. Never truer words spoken Miss BJ *giggle* I generally always get something for Valentines day (1...2...3...awwwwwww) be it chocolate, flowers - hand picked or bought, a teddy bear, something sexy, music, jewellery, a romantic dinner.... I can't actually think of a bad valentines day present....but what I really love is that hubby buys a single rose for our daughter every year... and that is enough for me :) This year, however, I am hoping for the two naked men to come and clean my house too...as long as I can be naked too and cooking in the kitchen :D
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RHP User
16 years ago
so how many men are there on this site? there better be a few...all us girls want two for valentines day lol funny funny ;-) roxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
No Valentines pressie I can really remeber............ummm maybe a little pendant when I was in primary school. As for flowers I had to give birth before my ex bought me any..................really hard work for one bunch of flowers.Mind you that was the day before Valentines Day so maybe it was meant for both???? Now can we all share the 2 butt naked men Please That might be a good business idea for someone to start up. Just advertise on RHP.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Top of my list is jewelleryI have got everything from costume jewellery to gold to pearls hehe God bless men
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RHP User
16 years ago
now I too am comtemplating your navel *mmmmmmm* I say sell the wedding ring and buy heaps and heaps of chocolate! Dev...I must say that I am a big fan of jewellery too...a girl can never have too many diamonds! (spoken like a true materialistic snob which is sooooo not who I am LOL). I think the lovingly hand picked flowers from different gardens around the block would be my ultimate fave of all time....(and that is exactly who I am....but it doesn't mean I don't still love diamonds...oh dammit....can't I have both?? *giggle*)
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RHP User
16 years ago
My very favourite of course is the pearl necklace i get most years worst? nasty lingerie best? the slave for a dayDevine xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh, silly me, here was I thinking that someone just thought about you and sent a card or text was enough...............
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' I bet if there was a day that women had to buy their men beer...they would be all for it. we get March 14th - "Steak and Blowjob Day" http://www.steakandbjday.com/
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RHP User
16 years ago
i dont get anything, hubbys bday isthe 12th and he thinks it should go for a week so valentines kinda get sforgotten. i do remind him every year hoping he will see the light no luck yet 11 years later. wouldnt necessarily care what it was, because truly its the thought that counts.
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL... Steak and BJ day... I'll go the steak but pass on the BJ (not one for receiving oral). Is good to see at least some people get a Valentine's day, restores my faith in romance. Trish, I agree with Sonsie on the sell the ring idea... or you could have a jeweller melt it down and make something else of it, maybe a present for a loved one? (or sharp implement for an enemy)
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RHP User
16 years ago
OK Sydneyboy...but sorry...I dont believe in that...so you will just have to go without. (sucks huh?)What a fuckin load of crap....Blokes....pull ya farkin fingers out!!!I mean...really....theres maybe 3 days out of a year that you HAVE to spoil your woman....Her birthday....your anniversary...and valentines day.Surely you can manage that???Sheesh.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' OK Sydneyboy...but sorry...I dont believe in that...so you will just have to go without. (sucks huh?)What a fuckin load of crap....Blokes....pull ya farkin fingers out!!!I mean...really....theres maybe 3 days out of a year that you HAVE to spoil your woman....Her birthday....your anniversary...and valentines day.Surely you can manage that???Sheesh. With you all the way on that Miss BJ however its the whole 'no strings' disclaimer... I think we are on the wrong site if we want recognition on V day..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Myname....Im referring to men in general...not the ones on here per se...although the married and attached ones had better be spoiling their women on V day.I wouldnt expect anything from a casual bonk...but if we were friends and seeing each other regularly...even if its just to hook up...then how hard would it be to do a little something special???
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RHP User
16 years ago
Men in general....arent they the ones represented here? Or is there some truth to the rumour that RHP men are in a league of their own?...lol I get where ur coming from Miss BJ and wholeheartedly concur. Makes me laugh when I see the guys doing the last minute flower and choccy run on their way home after work....... Tho V-day isnt just for blokes to acknowledge their mate. Statistically speaking, I know more women who use this day to recognize the importance of their partner/lover/etc AND the ratio of my male mates far outweigh the femmes. How hard is it to do something special? More difficult than the cure for ignorance me thinks.......
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RHP User
16 years ago
In Japan.....system goes... Valentines is for the ladies to give to men. And in March is White Day which men give a gift to women. To me this sucks! Valentines should be a mutual day to show that extra LOVE. huggies sweetpetite41
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' Quoting 'MissBJ'I bet if there was a day that women had to buy their men beer...they would be all for it.we get March 14th - "Steak and Blowjob Day" http://www.steakandbjday.com/I'll pay that. Rib eye for me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
not fair this year will be my first single valentines day in over a decade, so no hope of flowers and dinner or anything nice fav pressie was a weekend away to see leonard cohen in the vineyards worst pressie gift certificate to buy lingerie both from the same person hmmm can you guess which came first, I think they ran out of imagination
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sweetpetite41'Valentines should be a mutual day to show that extra LOVE.this ^^^^ this right here. Well said. I'd always thought V day was supposed to be a two way street - not "shower me with riches, and if you fail to get it perfect I'll have a sulk" day. lol, that sounds a bit lilke WH (j/k ;) ) but thats "the vibe" of it it seems.(not to say I don't do anything for Valentines day if I have a Valentine, but there are valentines who think its another day to be a princess and others who think its mutual - the latter being the ones you WANT to be your princess)
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RHP User
16 years ago
both me and the boy have had sad valentines...nothing ever
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RHP User
16 years ago
God bless you all you married peoples! Showin ya love to the one ya love on Valentines Day even if it's just a kiss, flowers or something special For singles, the bloody NO STRINGS ATTACHED clause gets in the way every time!!! arrgghh What I would really like for Valentines day? A SURPRISE!!! Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ'Myname....Im referring to men in general...not the ones on here per se...although the married and attached ones had better be spoiling their women on V day.I wouldnt expect anything from a casual bonk...but if we were friends and seeing each other regularly...even if its just to hook up...then how hard would it be to do a little something special??? . Interesting point... as a casual boink I still send flowers, choccies, stuffed toys or sexy lingere for Valentines day (jewlery and the candle lit dinner are reserved for my Fiancee as per Rule 12, Subsections a and b.). As for only 3 days, don't forget Mothers day, Sunday mornings and the days on/around that time of the month. Myname, I agree whole heartedly, it is a day for 2 (or more) people to show affection and grattitude for the relationship they have. Now... what's this rumour about RHP men???
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RHP User
16 years ago
My darling has a thing against commercialisation... for the last 26 years on Valentine's Day every year I have gifted her something with love and every year she returns the gift to the shop for a refund. I know she would be very dissapointed if I forget... and hey.. one of the bonuses for this system is that I could spend lots of cash safe in teh knowldege that she'll get it back. :p One drawback is that she has never given me a Valentine's Day present. Do women give men Valentine's Day presents? IDK ! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have on numerous occasions bought gifts or made gifts for the special man in my life at that time...But having him then tell me vehemently that he doesn't believe in it deters me from giving it....Just sucks the goodness right out of the moment....sigh.BJxxxBTW...I dont expect anything but the recognition that he thinks Im special and a good part of his life...it's up to him to choose how he does it...maybe I expect too much??
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RHP User
16 years ago
BJ I am surprised by so many who have never received a card, gift...SOMETHING for Valentines Day. Thankfully I have not had that. *touch wood* The only hiccup was with my ex, who's birthday is on Valentines Day, but we either celebrated it a week earlier or later. I agree with ya, not that hard to show someone how much you mean to them...geesh. Hope the door didn't hit them on the way out BJ. xx Miss Honey xx <<
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RHP User
16 years ago
your first post realy touched me. fuck, i've been in aresole in the past. sorry to all those women. realy sorry.jean, what do you think and sell that fuckin datsun?happy Australia Day all, Earl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I rather a gift of something simple thats given from the heart...where its unexpected..a candle light dinner at home with music playing in the back ground.or taking time together to do something romantic that doesn't cost the earth..lolThere where times when i was out and about id see something that my ex might like or wanted..id buy it even though it wasnt a special occassion.or id do something extra special for him..just to say i was thinking of you.So to me it shouldn't be just one day of the year we should show our love and appreciation for our most treasured,spouse/partnerxoxoxheymummajust my thoughts..no offence intended...may all enjoy V day
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Majere75' Quoting 'MissBJ'Myname....Im referring to men in general...not the ones on here per se...although the married and attached ones had better be spoiling their women on V day.I wouldnt expect anything from a casual bonk...but if we were friends and seeing each other regularly...even if its just to hook up...then how hard would it be to do a little something special??? . Interesting point... as a casual boink I still send flowers, choccies, stuffed toys or sexy lingere for Valentines day (jewlery and the candle lit dinner are reserved for my Fiancee as per Rule 12, Subsections a and b.). As for only 3 days, don't forget Mothers day, Sunday mornings and the days on/around that time of the month. Myname, I agree whole heartedly, it is a day for 2 (or more) people to show affection and grattitude for the relationship they have. Now... what's this rumour about RHP men???Subject heading says it all my dear majere...lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'heymumma'I rather a gift of something simple thats given from the heart...where its unexpected..a candle light dinner at home with music playing in the back ground.or taking time together to do something romantic that doesn't cost the earth..lolThere where times when i was out and about id see something that my ex might like or wanted..id buy it even though it wasnt a special occassion.or id do something extra special for him..just to say i was thinking of you.So to me it shouldn't be just one day of the year we should show our love and appreciation for our most treasured,spouse/partnerxoxoxheymummajust my thoughts..no offence intended...may all enjoy V dayohh mumma....u r simply divine....(I echo ur sentiments exactly!) mwuah
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with you wholeheartedly.But if he cant do something on the one day reserved for showing how you feel...what chance do i have of getting something any other time??I admit...I am reserved and not excessively affectionate until I know Im "safe"but when someone gets into my heart...my demonstration of my love knows no bounds.I just like evidence that my feelings are reciprocated.BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
and it could be something as simple as a random text saying he misses me...even though hes only been gone an hour...cuddling me without trying to grope me as im washing dishes or getting dinner ready...rubbing my feet as we are sitting on the couch watching telly...sigh.....someday my prince will come....hopefully before all my eggs are dead.BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mynameisearl2'jean, what do you think and sell that fuckin datsun?happy Australia Day all, Earl. Sure will.... if you saw the state of the RHF corner you'll agree it'll be by the kg. But relax... she is being resurrected into Shell #3. PS - You can keep your Crapadore...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' One drawback is that she has never given me a Valentine's Day present. Do women give men Valentine's Day presents? IDK ! she is giving you the gift of free time, so its like yours to her PLUS more, cause you don't have to go to the shop and do that whole refund thing ;-) well, thats what I'd say :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'One drawback is that she has never given me a Valentine's Day present. Do women give men Valentine's Day presents? IDK !Look on the bright side, getting nothing is better than a "Dear John" or a blow up sheep (a.k.a da Love-Ewe). Yep, Women do give Valentine's Day pressies.My Fiancee gives something every year.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sweetpetite41' Valentines should be a mutual day to show that extra LOVE. huggies sweetpetite41 Further proof Sweet petite that you are by far and away the most amazing woman on this site. Down to earth and yet amazingly adventurous. The fact that nobody in Bunbury has snatched you up is criminal. Too many women think that valentines day is a one way street, expectation to recieve is high. The thought of what to give is low. I generally provided my ex every year with a unique stuffed toy along with flowers and generally went out for dinner. Come the end I recieved a bottle of spirits, I love a drink but really for Valentines Day. Then she wondered where the spark went in our relationship. It's like trying light a match with nothing to strike it against, it ain't gonna work. Hopefully all your Valentine's Day wishes come true
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RHP User
16 years ago
onya jean. will hand it down to the grankids, lol. what ya recon mate? valentines in the back seat of the datsun with a cask of plonk?could get the ladies going. might catch on. what ya recon buddy?ahahahahahaha Earl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Worst gift: One of those artificial roses in a plastic tube fingys wiv a horny devil soft toy...rolls eyes...when ya can tell ya then boyfriend that works at the airport has left it too late lol.Best Gift: The biggest bunch of roses that had buds the size of small apples..they were truely unbelievable..never seen anything like it anywhere. Even rang the florist to find out where they got them..apparently they were imported from Holland..not sure how or if she meant the plants and the roses grown here, but me felt very special and spoilt, and the gold bracelet was very nice too that came with it. Actually was spoilt a lot by that boyfriend, wasnt just Valentines day, so agree with some of the other comments. Ya don't need a day to be reminded, just some do lol!Hmmm what would I like for Valentines Day: Well me knows what I would like, but dont finkies me will get...dreams are free hehe. Just hope me is spoilt a little or some sort of appreciation anyway. Or me will get me ruler out!xx Miss Honey xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mumma I agree with ya 100%. It is nice to get those little acknowledgements on other days other then Valentines day. I myself dont reserve it for just that day,and like to pop a note in my partners bag, give a present, or plan a surprise. It's nice to make them smile and let them know ya is thinking about them. Just some are too busy, become complacent, take things for granted whatever, and need that reminder, shame really....it should be all the time..or one day they just may not be there anymore. A partnership is mutual, not one sided with one taking and one giving or it wont last. Am so with ya BJ, nice to receive as well. So for the ones that need a little inspiration on how to get those warm fuzzies happening on OTHER days of the year just to let ya partner know ya is special, me has put a little list together to start ya off.Ya can add ya own. They don't have to cost anything or be much effort, just as long as they show ya care. Scribble a note on the bathroom mirror if you are the first to leave for work A treaure hunt of notes leading to a surprise...which could be YOU! Breakfast in bed Make a compilation of your their favourite songs Let them sleep in and clean the house so you have the day together Take a norty piccie of yaself and put it in their lunchbox or coat pocket Write a poem and post it to them...EVEN if you live in the same house. Nice to get something other then a bill in the mail. Run a bubble bath with candles and champagne, if the bath is big enough get in too lol Plan a picnic even if it is on the lounge room floor Surprise them with a dinner, even if ya can't cook, at least try and arrange the take away on ya best china with candles and wine etc. Make something..a heart cake, a scrapbook, a knitted jumper A single flower A non sexual massage, that they didnt have to ask for. But best of all is the spoken word. Acknowledgements of affection, admiration and appreciation just out of the blue and not after sex lol. And no excuse if ya think ya will goof it up, then leave a note in the car, a book, on the pillow etc. So get to it and spread the lurve. It can be contagious if ya let it. xxMiss Honeyxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
the best valentines day present was when one of my love partners gave me a ticket to rotto and when arriving there at the lodge was surprised to see a lovely plaything waiting for me on my bed- mmmmmmmmmm surprised and exhausted :)
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