M41
Unsolicited dick pics
May 20 2024
Our perception of the collection of characteristics that defines us, and understanding that different people have different perceptions.
Turns out, one of the reasons (there are definitely more, like maybe that big one really is so amazing that you have to share) guys send them is because as us guys are such visual creatures, many of us simply assume without thinking that is what the ladies want as well.
There is also a direct correlation with our level of self-awareness and IQ.
I think I'll leave that one here and see what people think.
Shane
Comments
Opalrose
5 months ago
Yeah you’re visual and we aren’t. Whatever.
You all know it’s wrong but it still happens. The more risqué our photos are the more we get sent.
I never have, and never ever will, chat with someone who thinks shoving their dick into my online face is acceptable.
“Oh but it’s a sex site!” I don’t get dicks shoved in my face at a rhp event, or anywhere else but on here.
If you got your dick out in a bar or on the street to get some girls attention, you’d be arrested.
No doubt someone will say they love getting them randomly sent through. Cool. Get permission first.
Ourmalibu
5 months ago
If most men can keep it in their pants in the real world and not get it out to show people when chatting then they can do the same online.
As for assuming it’s what we want…
Umm…No, Don’t assume anything, ever!!
Kokoflamingo
5 months ago
We know you love your dicks 😊 However, receiving a pic of a complete strangers dick isnt a turn on for me. Even though I state on my profile I dont want dick pics, they still keep on coming. When I say, thanks but you are married/ a smoker/ younger than my prefered age, they send one anyway, It wont change my mind. I know some women do like to see them, but I prefer to wait. RHP actually tells guys not to send unsolicited dick pics, but it makes no difference. A classy shot of an outline in some jocks or shorts is far sexier.
MsSuperFoxy
5 months ago
I agree men are visual, doesn't mean it's OK to send women unsolicited dick pics without consent, does it?
It's like my cat bringing its hunt to my front door. I know he's proud and all that, but sometimes, I ain't touching that! My IQ and visual senses, just doesn't like the look of it. 🫣
Ms Foxy
RHP User
5 months ago
Research dopamine spike associations with anticipation rather than the reveal. It’ll answer some of the obvious questions as why it’s best to market the idea of something rather than just show it off up front.
FeistyFatty
5 months ago
Let me preface this by saying, I absolutely LOVE a good dick pic/wanking/cumming vid. However, if a man sends me an unsolicited dick pic I reconcile that he feels THAT is his best feature. So, in that case..... I'm completely turned off and already swiping onto the next prospective profile.
For the gorgeous men of RHP...... We ladies are also visual creatures...... But seeing your gorgeous face and smile will yield puddles more often than dicks, gym selfies and flexed six pack/bicep pics (cringe) ...... Just sayin' 🩷
AshAndPaul
5 months ago
Well Shane I think you hit the nail right on this one!
Dick pics are not something I would like to wake up to, I would much prefer a nice message about your self, a pic of your self and your face that is far more honest and it also makes me want to reply back to you. I know what a dick looks like, and I think when and if the time comes I’m happy to ask for that. But there is more to you then what hangs between your legs! I would rather know more about you and what gets you going 😉 I’m a talker so love the conversation, the dirty chat and the get to know you stage.
Hit my nail right and that’s how your winning m! 💋 💋💋Sawadee
5 months ago
You are talking about a % who feel the way you described.. There are just as many guys with a higher iQ who know better' yet get dragged along with these uninvited unthinking wankers...
I agree ' men are visual creatures ' but that doesnt give them the green light and do as they please..
CachelessSociety
5 months ago
There are probably 100s of topics/conversations on here that mention dick pics and that it’s not the best move to send them without warning or consent. Regardless of guys being more visual, it seems to be a constant issue for single female profiles on here and yet the constant and overwhelming response/opinion is DON’T SEND THEM! And as Kokoflamingo pointed out, RHP actually tells people not to.
To state the obvious, one of us has a dick, we have never felt the need to sent dick pics and we never will. This could be one of the reasons why so many single females on here seem to be guarded and reluctant to engage with genuine, fun couples, as they feel like they are going to receive more dick pics.MsSuperFoxy
5 months ago
Can we please acknowledge those who do accept unsolicited dic pics. They are also a problem.
Ms Foxy 🫣
countrytouch82
5 months ago
Just in relation to unsolicited dick pics...
Sing it with me please women, you know the words:
"Am I ever gonna see your dick again?
(No way, get f*cked, f*ck off!)"
Flirty2020
5 months ago
It is against RHP community guidelines, and the law, to send unsolicited messages containing penis photos. It is also poor etiquette.
So why do so many males on here do it? Do they think that because this is a “sex site” that it is acceptable and welcomed?
Do they think that their penis is their most valuable asset?
Do they walk up to others at the supermarket, bar, train station etc and whip out their penis and or show strangers photos of their penis? If not why not?
For us it is a turn off that results in the following :-
1. Report to admin
2. Block profile concernedRHP User
5 months ago
It's ignorance, desperation and disregard for others all wrapped up for the most part.
Ignorance that (in general, your mileage may vary) men are much more visual, especially for the parts usually covered up, so the assumption is women want to 'jump to seeing this' as much as they do.
Desperation, in that they aren't getting any attention from normal means here, so what could work? Most of them have at least enough self-awareness to look in the mirror and realise (for most) their hairy flabby body isn't going to appeal greatly (unless they are trying for that bear in the woods look to make themselves appear safe to female hikers🤔 ). They realise the rest of them (again in general), isn't going 'to sell themselves' so they latch onto the one part they figure still looks great - heck, they certainly have a high opinion of it! - and figure the ladies will as well.
Disregard. Well now they've 'solved' their desperation of what can I send to get some pussy? Especially if 'I paid for this site, they HAVE to respond' is in effect. Here the 'wouldn't do it in the real world' flies out the window. Dick pics are RHP spam emails. Spammers don't care if they send 1000 emails, if 1 or 2 get the desired response. Dick pic senders are the same. RHP guidelines or not, they know the chances of any detrimental outcome is minimal. So if they spam 100 or 200 women with pics, if they get just 1 or 2 positive outcomes from that, well that's big wins to them. They don't care if the other 98 think they are arseholes. They aren't the ones who responded so they don't care.curious_mind82
5 months ago
The very one person I have connected with on this site had ‘I will not send dick pics’ in his bio… that right there was the line that made me go ok, I feel comfortable responding to this guy.
53SexyandSingle
5 months ago
What astounds me the most is when I respond to a respectful intro message, after viewing the profile, with a ‘Thank you for your message, but you don’t match what I’m looking for. All the best in your search’ … And in return I get sent a dick pic. Like seriously guys, that is not going to change my mind and suddenly make me want to engage in a conversation with you. The only thing it makes me do is utilise the block button. But some guys just don’t get it … which in turn means they don’t get it ! 🤭
RachWandered
5 months ago
I’m very visual but this doesn’t stop me from seeking consent from people before any sexual contact (bonking, pics, vids etc)
Not sure what being visual has to do with the whole “getting consent” stuff
And low EQ or IQ basically says if you’re dumb or dumber you are excused!!RachWandered
5 months ago
Also convinced I have the EQ of a mushroom but I still get consent …
Because when you don’t get consent you don’t have any right to call what you’re doing anything other than a crime.
Yes. It’s that simple. We need to stop thinking up loopholes, justifications and victim blaming.RHP User
5 months ago
I've actually gotten unconsensual pussy pix a few times now. I guess most guys like it so they copy it.
No_probLlama68
5 months ago
Self awareness appears early in life for humans. So does learning that others can be aware of you, too. Yes we all have eyes and delight in the colours of the world. Not really sure what point you’re trying to make here with this post, to me it sounds like you’re trying to justify that it’s ok to send dick pics because men are apparently more visual and thought it would be ok, and then that there is a link toward self awareness and IQ…..
What is this direct correlation?
What does it have to do with the topic of dick pics?
Massage_Donor
5 months ago
"... assume without thinking ..." Yep, they're the key words. Is it really that hard to think before doing something? Y'know, maybe include the concept of consent in your thinking? Or to validate an assumption?
RHP User
4 months ago
Self confessed size queen here... I demand them.. above anything else haha, so many men get offended, be direct and to the point, life's to short
cheekyone9
4 months ago
What I don't understand is what the guy gets out of sending an unsolicited D Pic?
For me the best part of sending a D Pic is the fact that someone is curious enough or attracted to you enough to ask for it.
To me that adds another level of arousal and if they like what they see even better!
Each to their own I guess but respect is a big thing that needs to be shown to everyone.
I'm a bit of a exhibitionist and I love when I catch someone checking out my bulge or my body and I hope they get turned on and think sexual things about me, however I would never force that onto anyone by sending unsolicited pic's.
✌ ♥ 🏝
DevilUNo
4 months ago
My first visit here. That was some scientific in depth analysis👍Or agenda. i might be old school or naive but where in any area in the world is anything unsolicited appropriate? But I suppose I will leave here more worldly educated now. Any guy should be condemned if they do it. Other topics that would be suggested for discussion if they are politically correct could include constant requests for money for content, introductory vaginal masterbation videos, random approaches from unwanted preferences {which may or may not be relevant to this posting}. Anyway I know the fantastic sexy girls I know on here {Dee, T , 🍒💣} and many others I don't know wouldnt tar all men with one brush. Best wishes to all , I will crawl back into my hole now.👍
EroticPassion
4 months ago
There are many men in here who think it's ok to just send them without asking if it's we'd like to see them first. Not all of them are aware of the rules and some have even apologised and admitted afterwards that this is their first time in a chat site, where I've usually advised, if they wouldn't do it when meeting someone or with someone who hasn't indicated that they'd like to see it, then don't do it in chat because it's not ok. Usually, I just send the conversation to the ignore folder or block them.
But I would like to acknowledge the very many gentlemen in this site that admit to have them in their private gallery and advise, if I'd like to see them, I need to let them know or they just offer first, if we seem to be hitting it off. I keep coming back here because there are many of those in here.
EarthQueen
2 months ago
" Many of us simply assume without thinking" - The world would be a better place if we just added a tiny bit of thinking and less assuming.
I feel a large proportion of unsolicited dick pics are sent as an act of dominance/aggression. . I can, so I will. Lack of respect. Like an online form of flashing. I believe a number of men get off on it.
The majority of people with working senses are visual creatures. We use our senses to appreciate the world around us. If you can't control yourself from pushing a send button that's on you and your lack of ability to manage impulses and being a creep. Not being a visual creature.
fun2behere
a month ago
men who send unsolicited dick pics are likely to be the same people who not to return their shopping trolley to the bays in the car park
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