Ultimate Sexual fantasy: let’s talk about it

June 17 2026

If you could strip everything back, rules, expectations, hesitations, boundaries, what would your ultimate sexual fantasy, if you could bring to real life look like? Not just physical, but the whole vibe, the scenario, the tension, the energy, the dynamic. The one that makes your imagination run wild, but youre not bold enough to tell anyone. Are you game enough to follow it through? Or are you holding back on it? Ms Foxy

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  • PandaAndBri

    PandaAndBri

    13 days ago

    So many things come to mind but some I don’t even know if they are logistically possible for a woman in her 40’s who is not very flexible anymore. I guess the biggest thing would be MFM where I am reverse cowgirl, with the other male going down on me….. I am only a short torso’d lady, is there even room for a face down there at the same time????? Would they be able to get to the important bit even with the closeness of the bodies…. And maybe to be licked and kissed all over by multiple parties, just there for my pleasure alone. The sensory of that thought does short circuit my brain a little. That’s probably the 2 I can articulate…. There are others but I don’t think I can put them in words yet and some others are more people specific not situational. I am not going to name names. They will just be my dirty little fantasies…

  • PartnersnCrime

    PartnersnCrime

    13 days ago

    Just discussed this with my hubby today, funnily enough, right before I saw this post. If I could strip everything back, rules, expectations, hesitations, boundaries, my ultimate fantasy isn't really one scenario. It's a whole world where sex isn't something to be ashamed of, where we can enjoy our nudity and all things love freely. For some reason it's acceptable in our society to say you drink a glass of wine every week, or even that you take drugs, but say you have orgies as your weekend activity and watch how fast the room changes. We were once at a tantra workshop with thirty or forty people learning body, yoni and lingam massage. Couples didn't interact with each other, everyone stayed within their own pair, but we were all in the same room, naked and very intimate. Watching people of different backgrounds and shapes enjoying their bodies, sharing love and connection, no self-consciousness about any of it. The energy in that room was on a different level and I looked around and thought I wish it was our world - beautiful, open, full of love and pleasure. I wish ways of loving, of enjoying the body, of learning about women's pleasure, weren't such a taboo topic. We should be learning this young, not stumbling into it decades later through trial and error and shame. Personally, I've sent some good books about pleasuring women and information on tantra workshops to my son. He's an adult making his own choices, and I'd rather he learn from thoughtful resources than from porn or guesswork. But I know that if I mentioned that to most people, I'd get a look. That's my ultimate fantasy and the world I want to live in. One where pleasure isn't something to hide, where curiosity isn't dirty, and where the most natural thing about being human gets treated exactly that, as natural. The world is full of wars, and I wish it was full of love. Thats my fantasy.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    13 days ago

    Mine would be coliving with seven different men. Not because I need saving but because each brings something different and together they create the perfect week, in a perfect world. The Charmer: knows exactly what to say and always leaves me smiling. The Protector: calm, grounded, makes me feel completely looked after. The Tease: playful, cheeky, always creating tension and anticipation. The Gentleman: attentive, thoughtful, notices everything. The Adventurer: spontaneous, pushes me out of routine. The Quiet One: says less, but his attention feels intense. *SIGH* Now if anyone knows where to find man number seven let me know!!! And then there’s the Den. Hints of a BDSM aesthetic woven through it with statement furniture, leather details, decorative restraints, chains used as design features, soft textures against darker finishes. The den would be somewhere to escape, unwind, talk, laugh, flirt and just exist in that atmosphere. Not a bedroom as such, but a whole space with low lighting, plush/velvet lounges and soft throws and pillows. There would be music in the background and lots of candles for ambulance. The paint colours would be warm reds with a dark feature wall. A full bar to make cocktails and enough snacks to last 7+ days No pressure. No competition, just us. Just seven different energies, one shared world, and enough chemistry to keep our lives interesting. Ms Foxy

  • Mrnyceguy

    Mrnyceguy

    11 days ago

    I’ve done the threesomes, foursomes and moresomes in all sorts of locations with really cool people and at one stage I dated and and used to have hot sex with a certain lady before she went on MAFS…. My only claim to fame💪🏼but my ultimate fantasy comes from when I once had to do some work on a prominent Sydney DJs house, when I arrived at his home he said just go upstairs to the master bedroom to see the problem, when I got to the top of the stairs and the double bed, his wife’s clothes were set out with some really sexy underwear, I turned around and went straight back down stairs to tell I located the problem. His wife was in another part of the house with the children thank goodness…. his wife is 👄Hot 🔥BTW. My ultimate fantasy that I know would never EVER happen would be me at home ploughing his wife up stairs in their bedroom with the radio on listening to him while he’s doing his radio show and me finishing with a cream pie in his wife💦

  • OlderRavers

    OlderRavers

    9 days ago

    Not a sexual fantasy so much, more of a situationship. To find/connect with a couple around our age to attend the occasional rave or bushd00f with. Enjoy the music. Then enjoy the "messy" adventures after.

  • Hungchris

    Hungchris

    9 days ago

    I would love to watch another man pleasure my partner, seeing her with another man and in ecstasy really does it for me.

  • Timetoshine

    Timetoshine

    2 days ago

    No such thing,. One fantasy that is fullfilled always leads to the next.. it’s a journey. Doors open.. anyone with one pure fantasy doesn’t yet realise that it’s just a door.