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November 29 2009

I am writing to vent my anger about my 40th party last night.  What a joke!  I have spent months arranging a gang bang for myself, a fantasy I have had for a very long time.  I advertised, got heaps of responses, followed by confirmations, of which there were 12.  I thought that was a good number, and seeing as they were "definates" I stopped advertising.... One guy showed.  He was great, but one guy, what the hell, why tell me you are going to go, promise me the world and deliver shit.  I don't get it.  Anyway, to those reading this that were supposed to go, thanks, thanks for nothing!  To the one who came, thank you.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    How very disapointing for you, bebe. I hope you celebrated your birthday good and propper with the one dude who has a pair.   I go to some of the events ... and like you've found, at some of those around 200 people have registered an interest and from RHP less than 10 show up... fortunately those events are advertised elsewhere and a few of the regular faces usually show up to boost hte numbers. Next time you want a gang bang.... try one of the sex clubs... there should always be a ready parade of waiting and willing men... you take a punt on the quality but if you go with no expectations, you can't leave dissapointed.   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We agree, Look at nearly every profile that involves a guy be it by himself or as a couple. They are all looking for a lady They put their wives down as bi curious but they are straight. They want the girls to play guys watch. When you get the three above its a signal of "Male Insecurity"   KelieMaria How does the above shape up with the 11 that didnt show....bet the above proves greater than 70% right!   Thats our experiance!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    OMG  sweety....Hugs for you hun..Really stinks what happened to you babe.   XOXOXOXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX   sweetpetite 41 xxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sorry to hear about that Kell... but it happens no matter what ever it is... and honestly its not just guys that promise the world but women and couples do it as well. The excuses we have heard on why they cant make it we could write a book. Too many on this site and and others as well all say the same thing... 'I will be in that', 'fantastic, where and when', ' I can go all night' etc etc etc.... but in the end they are all talk and no action. Kell, maybe you could do a 40 & 1/2 birthday bash ... and as Gaz suggested, maybe find a party/club that hosts gangbang parties, tell them why you would like to attend and see what special treats they could come up with for you. And yes.. bravo to the one guy who had the decency to turn up... Kell I hope he gave you a lot of pleasure. P.S. If you are ever in this neck of the woods let us know... and maybe you would like to come to our parties.... Oh and a belated happy birthday to you as well. Partyinsatiable

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Welcome to the world of organising parties/meetings/events. You have to expect 20% upwards of confirmations will be no shows which to be mild is just plain laziness and bad mannered.When you consider that these things are arranged online there is not even a cost factor as an excuse for not letting the host/hostess know you are not going to turn up. Bothtogether6

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you poor thing thats jusy so wrong of those guys. letting someone down on a normal occasion is shameful at best but to screw up your birthday thats just below scum. i hope karms bites them on the ass hard core. hope ur birthday was great despite that disapointment xxxxxx Mrs B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    very dissapointing to hear ..adelaide guys let you down ... to many guys all talk no action ..give all the real ones a bad reputation... kelly if id seen you profile and known about it i would of gladly turned up ... especially your birthday .. that just suxs .. well let me know if you want to another one ... at least ill turn up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I had to give it a miss because of the garlic breath... mine not yours. Then my prescription for viagra ran out... Complicated by the fact that the black market variety they heavily promote in those prolific spam emails was so contaminated that it had the opposite effect and made my precious shrivel up. My humble apologies for being unable to perform on this occasion...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I just had one tonight, complete waste of time..I wish there was a thread just to name them.. kayjbee oh damn i just did!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Poor girl. Dont give up on your fantasy. I would have come if i had know about it. Maybe next time.

  • platinumblonde69

    platinumblonde69

    16 years ago

    Hmm...What a poor advertisement for the guys on this site...Though wonder some women have trouble taking you seriously...Some advice for the guys....NEVER SAY YES....SAY MAYBE...if you think you may even have second thoughts...A maybe is alittle easier to digest...if u decide not to show. To the 11 guys who let Kelle down, nice work..You have just made it even harder for the genuine guys on this site...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    That sucks, you go to the trouble of joining a site like this, you pay your money, organise a gangbang on your terms to ensure your safety and comfort with it all and the guys soft cock it. Maybe it was performance anxiety... Tough it out Kellemarie, if you try it again keep it on your terms and maybe contact an organised gangbang group. I think there's some registered on here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    yes it pisses me of 2, as a single male it give me a bad name if u put your hand to go & u get cold feet have the balls to ring to say i not coming in the long run all ill b happy yes gang bang are good fun but  only if they is a gang, in the long run guy lick me who are quiet no bullshit type of guy got label with at the big loud mouth one and the nice one get srewed as well

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thats terrible then again since i moved down here to SA in march and in my view i have to say that i been very disappointed myself with the people here too and how much changed in the past few years during my goldern Navy time. You offered a party out of kindnest to host at your expense that was special to you being both a birthday and a fantasy u wanted to fulfill only to get shat all over it, I am so ashamed of being both a decent honnest hard working social type male and living here in SA. Had i known about your party and had put my hand in the offer and been invited, I myself would have attended without hesitation and if i am hinded by work commitments i'll give a heads up but since i choose my roster with my current employer i tend to be reliable to make it over. Unfortunately I had an incident only just recently at a meet n greet drinks session organised from amm recently and found how shallow some people here in SA can be which i found rare at other places i have lived or visited in the past but that's going to be the next forum topic i will be posting up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I just want to say for the record that I have always turned up when I say I would be there, especially if there where a few people together going to have fun. For the record I am relaible. I wouldnt of let you down hun, I would of turned up Im a good reliable fuck LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    In my experience, basically out of 10 arrangements for me to meet someone, 8 or 9 do a no show or bail out on the 11th hour. Especially the ones that hassle you to meet asap, who don't take the time to allow you to get to know them.

  • floyd277

    floyd277

    16 years ago

    that's pretty bad form imho - can only speak for myself - I've never not shown if I have said yes to a meet - if I had to pull out a simple phone call explaining myself would ensue but alas people on this site are not always what they say they are and a meet is where they are exposed. I am very sorry for you and your spoilt birthday present to yourself - sounded like a lot of fun ((: xoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i wish i was closer to u to make it up for the idiots that didnt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I pride myself on being honest, regardless of the anomynity rhp creates. IF YOU SAY YOU ARE GOING TO DO SOMETHING............DO IT!! but there are wankers in this world... but 11/12, thats awful... Happy B'day kelle

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sadly...this is par for the course.Even with meet and greets we have a 90% no-show rate.I think you're better off arranging to meet at a club..then if they don't show...you will still have a great time.Oh...and the no-shows..put them all on the NEVER AGAIN list.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I would be a deffent show up before time you just say when and where Lol Mal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I really feel for you kelle I for one like to do as I say I am going to do and if for some case I cannot I would give plenty of notice where possible but for something like that which is pretty special and they knew that .......................................................not good enough in my books.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Email Me Kell, and lets catch up!! :)