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Two questions, contacts & uninvited guests
April 12 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh, uninvited is never okay. Eeek! Discretion and all that! Without knowing your situation Welove, maybe consider meeting away from home? No unpleasant, unexpected surprises for you. . I think you mean The hot list. When you hot list someone it lets you know when people sign in, or post in the forums, or post a date, or a few other things on your home stream. Up to you how you use it. . Nice pic :-)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Hi OP, If someone adds another to Hot List it means what Ms.Peach said. AND If someone invites them self over to my place unannounced, it's always a surprise to me. It just depends if they are in my inner circle of friends or not. My home is my sanctuary and safe haven. If I don't trust them, then Houston there is a HUGE problem! If it's someone from this site and was a one off thing, then it is rude turning up unannounced! People can't just "invite" their selves and turn up when they want. It's bad manners and I will ask them to leave. I've had that problem a lot lately, people inviting their selves over, just because I live by myself. *sighs* But I don't invite many into my home as I always meet them in a safe place first and have to trust them. OP have to ask... * Did this happen? * What did you do? Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Hi OP, If someone adds another to Hot List it means what Ms.Peach said. AND If someone invites them self over to my place unannounced, it's always a surprise to me. It just depends if they are in my inner circle of friends or not. My home is my sanctuary and safe haven. If I don't trust them, then Houston there is a HUGE problem! If it's someone from this site and was a one off thing, then it is rude turning up unannounced! People can't just "invite" their selves and turn up when they want. It's bad manners and I will ask them to leave. I've had that problem a lot lately, people inviting their selves over, just because I live by myself. *sighs* But I don't invite many into my home as I always meet them in a safe place first and have to trust them. OP have to ask... * Did this happen? * What did you do? Foxy
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Just last night... I'm in a dead end street so not a lot of traffic. Makes it kinda obvious when a noisy Harley cruises up and turns around in my driveway idling out the front for a few seconds... Or not could have just been a coincidence. I'm with you foxxxy I hate people just calling in unexpectedly, family, friends or RHPers it's a no no to me. OP did you have this happen? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' If it's someone from this site and was a one off thing, then it is rude turning up unannounced! People can't just "invite" their selves and turn up when they want. It's bad manners and I will ask them to leave. I will tell them that's not how I do things and won't let them in. (If I do, they'll know it worked and will try it again next time.)
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RHP User
12 years ago
If anyone comes to my house unexpectedly,they bark very loudly......all a bluff of course ,two are very small but the other is an old bull terrier cross.....if you have children OP,this his quite scary....Maybe consider meeting min a hotel room next time xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh is that what it's for.....lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was so embarrassed. Obviously when I have a "meet" or date, I go all out and try to look my best. One weekday morning, I took out some trash to the bin. I got sidetracked as I often do in my garden and started doing jobs. I was in my dressing gown. A while later a man walked up my driveway and scared the life out of me! It was a guy I had been out with one time whom I had never invited back. I gave him the cold shoulder but he took his time leaving. So freaky.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That comes under HELL NO!!!!! If it is not pre arranged then I will get the Police involved. Boundaries need to be respected. People in my circle of friends know my limits and boundaries and I expect them to respect that. I extend the same to theirs. I still would not show up unnonounced at Mr C place. Lol Ms S - Posted from rhpmobile
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' If someone invites them self over to my place unannounced, it's always a surprise to me. It just depends if they are in my inner circle of friends or not. Not even friends should do that, always best to call or txt first even if they are in the area.ET xox
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I've had a close GF, whom I trust, turn up unannounced before...only reason cause she was so upset crying, got in her car and just drove and ended up at my place...Of course I will welcome that - no way will I turn a friend away, especially when they just needed somewhere they felt safe. Just sayin.... As for others, yes agree...call or text first...I like my space and boundaries. As for strangers and people I do not know.....no way - go away! Foxy
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erotictouch4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'LaVelvetRouge' I was so embarrassed. Obviously when I have a "meet" or date, I go all out and try to look my best. One weekday morning, I took out some trash to the bin. I got sidetracked as I often do in my garden and started doing jobs. I was in my dressing gown. A while later a man walked up my driveway and scared the life out of me! It was a guy I had been out with one time whom I had never invited back. I gave him the cold shoulder but he took his time leaving. So freaky. How did he know where you lived unless he followed you after the first meet ?This definitely falls under the category of creepy and beware.ET xox
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have just worked out that when I hotlist myself, I can check back on my posts through my home stream!!! Peachy the ultimate in narcissism? ;-)
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' I have just worked out that when I hotlist myself, I can check back on my posts through my home stream!!! Peachy the ultimate in narcissism? ;-) Yer getting a bit behind the times Peachy, I've been telling you for months
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RHP User
12 years ago
I resemble that remark.
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madotara69
12 years ago
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