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Trying to get someones attention...!!
November 17 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
no photo,sparse profile,perhaps the minimalist approach just aint working for you Miss Playboy.You have one message per week to send a man if you meet their seeking criteria,try that.Or put up some photos,that might help...
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RHP User
13 years ago
try being a single bloke i havent even had a look in yet
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why call yourself playboy if your a fem and your seeking another fem.Freudian slip ???If I was a fem and a fem with the handle Playboy wassniffing around I would be taking avoidance measures too.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
are we talking online? or In Real Life? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes , I can relate to your post in a number of ways, sometimes you can try to look for little signs and find a way of getting through to them in another way.Xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'VonDoom' try being a single bloke i havent even had a look in yet a face pic, a shot of something other than your modes of transport - we like to see whats on offer Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
But this I know about men (sorry guys..but ) Doesnt matter how interested you are in them...if they arent into you..then they AREN'T INTO YOU ......and thats that... Move on, thats all one can do.... ..7 billion people in the world (officially now) theres someone for everyone apparently ...she says as shes types..sitting home alone again on a Saturday nite !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' But this I know about men (sorry guys..but ) Doesnt matter how interested you are in them...if they arent into you..then they AREN'T INTO YOU ......and thats that... Move on, thats all one can do.... ..7 billion people in the world (officially now) theres someone for everyone apparently ...she says as shes types..sitting home alone again on a Saturday nite !!! I was stood up - whats your excuse? lol Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
lol, my excuse is I am in the middle of wop wop at work for the next few days lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'VonDoom' try being a single bloke i havent even had a look in yet a woman does not want to date your bike or your car they want to see your face its simple
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RHP User
13 years ago
See guys its not all that easy , and even at the meet and greets I went to one the other day , and there were tons of single women and hardly any men there was a great chance for men to meet women offline and nada so me thinks that they may talk the talk but not many walk the walk offine, unless its a a aquick dick park back on topic if they want you they let you know, if not then they dont, no need to bother to get attention from people that are not interested.
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RHP User
13 years ago
though I know for a fact I wont be home alone next Saturday night - woohoo!! About time I can put a voice to the faces.... Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah you can show in so many little different ways ...just a little hint may help to make them realiase that they are interested in them...xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I will be in Gin Gin in a few days, perhaps I can help with your attention issue ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
My saturday night is quiet borin an i have no one to have fun with.. :-(
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RHP User
13 years ago
It seems on here lots of people have a pre conceived bias unless you have some professional photographer and a website designer put your stuff together for you. Of course my screen name doesn't help. More of a joke but I just really don't care. In the real world it is all about chemistry I think. You can lock eyes with someone across the room, and you both know that moment that IT IS ON. Some times you are doing the bump and grind in the car in the parking lot, or it could be a long romance and the joy of looking in to that persons eyes before you rip shreds from each other. Personally, I have found the second to be better. You have been chomping at the but SO LONG to get this person in bed..... And even if it isn't 'the best sex' you ever had you were just glad you got a chance to be with that person.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Lost_Focus' though I know for a fact I wont be home alone next Saturday night - woohoo!! About time I can put a voice to the faces.... Kisses Focus I was out tonight for dinner and mentioned that is was Friday night more than once, and not once did i even realise that it was Saturaday! (BTW my dinner date was my Ma, so no need for any jealousy there lol)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mmm I reckon that you could help with my attention issues..they r bad need of help... :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
To wait around for something that may not happen, just get busy and life will take care of itself, as mentioned if this person isn't interested in you then no point in waiting around hoping it will, sometimes if you get busy and stop showing interest they may or may not pay attention as some do like to play mind games, then you will know if they were or not ie. if there is no response they just weren't interested, if you stop the attention and then there is a response from them then you know they were just playing games(sounds like too much hard work anywhich way) much better to find someone that is on the same wavelength that you totally click with.
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
why would you want someone who doesnt want you In my expereince if you have put yourself out there and let someone know you are interested and you dont have thier attention then they really aren't interested so why waste any more time on them when there are other people out there who will want you?It's not supposed be hard (ok well some parts are hard right? ) if it seems like hard work then it probably isnt worth it, so dont take it personally, just move on to the next one.Good luck
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RHP User
13 years ago
DONT TRY LET THEM KNOW PRIVATELY AND IF THERE NOT INTERESESTED YOU WANT SEE THEM DONT LET ANYONE ELES NO OR THEY WILL PLAY A SICK FUCKING GAME WITH YOUR HEAD AND KEEP YOUR MINE ON THAT PERSON IN THE INTENTION TO MAKE YOU MENTAL , HEY LOOK FOR WHATS REAL IN YOUR LIFE AND FUCK OFF OR THE PRETEND SHIT ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
It can be difficult sometimes to grab the attention of a man who has captured yours(while the ones you are not interested in seem to come in droves).I find one golden rule prevails no matter your Look ,Age etc.Have a life.I am not inferring that you don't have one...just saying pursue things that interest you and that you feel passionate about and get involved in them and talk about them. This makes you interesting and attractive, and provides opportunities to meet men who are like-minded.Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. ~~Eleanor Roosevelt ~~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'playboy071' Yeah you can show in so many little different ways ...just a little hint may help to make them realiase that they are interested in them...xxx Men don't get little hints, try a BIG one
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' See guys its not all that easy , and even at the meet and greets I went to one the other day , and there were tons of single women and hardly any men there was a great chance for men to meet women offline I've looked at the meet and greets "whose interested pages", always looks like a sausage fest to me.Obviously a huge percentage of no shows, gee who'd a thunk it !Maybe next time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Lost_Focus' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' But this I know about men (sorry guys..but ) Thats insane ! I was stood up - whats your excuse? lol Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
WTF ?I was stood up - whats your excuse? lol Kisses Focus Thats insane !thats more betterer !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well if the night life in Gin Gin is not cutting it; then I suggest coming to Rocky for the weekends and I will be happy to take you out and have done drinks a d how knows, maybe meet someone that can really excite your fancy
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Are you feeling neglected mate?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep Safari is to blame lol
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On_Safari
13 years ago
C'mon that's not fair!!! I always up for a chat with you and trying to offer pearls of wisdom to improve your success rate, you know; as mates do. Lol what next, you want me to be your "wingwoman" (as opposed to a wingman) on your next night out? Ppffft hahahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh dear !
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RHP User
13 years ago
a threesome to me,playboy,safari,cheeky...such fun and so far away x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
WTF - as a woman you should have the opposite problem... too many offers to choose from. Try to be a man on this site, and even if you are taking part in forums and making intelligent conversation with some on here nobody would get the handle - have I mentioned I am looking for a smart friend with benefits ;-) At least a friend request would be nice then..?!?
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RHP User
13 years ago
lol...evolution is one way traffic lol. Humans are naturally self centred and only see themselves and what they want. So when someone attractive comes along we think we should have it lol....but don't forget a highway runs in 2 directions, and we also think we have the right to not care, switch off, turn away and not give someone our attention if not interested. Welcome to basic humanity lol.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' lol...evolution is one way traffic lol. Humans are naturally self centred and only see themselves and what they want. So when someone attractive comes along we think we should have it lol....but don't forget a highway runs in 2 directions, and we also think we have the right to not care, switch off, turn away and not give someone our attention if not interested. Welcome to basic humanity lol. If I'm travelling in the opposite direction to you, how would you feel if I veered into YOUR lane hmmmmm? Now there's a head on I'd like to have.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' WTF ? I was stood up - whats your excuse? lol Kisses Focus Thats insane ! thats more betterer ! Was hard for em to believe also Oh well NEXT!! Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' lol...evolution is one way traffic lol. Humans are naturally self centred and only see themselves and what they want. So when someone attractive comes along we think we should have it lol....but don't forget a highway runs in 2 directions, and we also think we have the right to not care, switch off, turn away and not give someone our attention if not interested. Welcome to basic humanity lol. If I'm travelling in the opposite direction to you, how would you feel if I veered into YOUR lane hmmmmm? Now there's a head on I'd like to have....... pmsl...depends if you're a 4wd or an audi lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I tend to find the best policy is honesty.Its not hard to say "I like you,and would love to get to know you,but only if you want to"In saying that no one likes rejection ,but its good to know were you stand.If someone dose not want to know you,move along and try again.I dont think that people are out to hurt one another,but some people take a "no" in a hurtful way.Just keep your head up and keep looking,you never know what life has installed for you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
id love to help you out as im an hour away
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RHP User
13 years ago
i would like to meet up with u or talk to u on the phone to see if ur interested
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd do you, playboy girl! LOL...Nice pic!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'VonDoom' try being a single bloke i havent even had a look in yet I looked and couldn't see.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' if they arent into you..then they AREN'T INTO YOU ......and thats that... Move on, thats all one can do.... .. ...she says as shes types..sitting home alone again on a Saturday nite !!! Totally agree on this one...sorry but have to say it - it's true dear.They are just not that into you...Move on. There is someone out there for you - they just haven't found you yet....keep your chin up. :)BTW Closed thing I get to a 'DATE' on a Saturday night are the packets ones in the Pantry and even they are starting to get a little stale. :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
wear french lingerie and high heels and if that doesnt work hes not worth it
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'VonDoom' try being a single bloke i havent even had a look in yet I agree mate - although there are probably dozens of things I've done wrong on my profile that I don't know about! Continuing on....blissfully unaware.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I couldn't agree more I post face pic, no " body parts" or car pics I am since guy who believes in treating people with respect and am always polite I am here without deceit and lie to no one ? ( too honest for my own good) I'm lucky if someone looks at my profile Then to add injury to insult, any response is usually the " short answer is no the long answer is nooooooooooo! Which I don't feel I warrant such an insulting reply when I am always respectful- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
As has been said, if their not interested their not interested. I actually think starting a thread of he/she wont reply is a bit freaky, whats next tracking him/her down & parking across the street from their house or turning up at their work place? I can see why their have ran a mile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
When 99% of women say your not their type, only by looking at a blokes pic.. It's pretty shallow.. Looks aren't everything.. Women out there need to lower their standards.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'luvemcuddly29'I'm lucky if someone looks at my profile Then to add injury to insult, any response is usually the " short answer is no the long answer is nooooooooooo! Which I don't feel I warrant such an insulting reply when I am always respectful Fess up girls, who sends this as a reply? I've done it a handful of times, mostly after the third flirt, when I've politely declined the first two. But if someone's respectful, can't we all choose the "Planets not colliding" one or something?
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worlddelight
13 years ago
Hi all. These are some of our pet hates that relate also to.....Vondoom, I'd suggest you get a profile name that doesn't suggest your sex partner's choice of company may be her last, maybe in the 'Physical, Intimate and Lifestyle' sections change the answers to something other than 'ask me' and finally, put SOME kind of photo on your main profile pic.Am I being out of line here pointing out my opinion? I hope not, I don't want to be mean, condescending or anything, just kind of say it like I see it.... Being in a couple, we get a lot of offers so I thought I'd point out some of the things that make us pass without more than a second's perusal.When I was a single guy on this site, I actually started with a profile that was pretty tame, vanilla, not pushing boundaries etc with pretty much zero response. Then after a while I tried another profile putting in some pretty raunchy stuff, lots of fantasy erotic detail, some home 'arty' not too graphic pics, lots about what I wanted, a bit about who I am, and guess how that went for me. A lot more responses so I paid for an upgrade on that account and....I had my first 3sum AND 4sum in the same night. Moral of the story, put some EFFORT and DETAIL into your profile. I'm guessing people got a bit aroused and felt they knew me just a little bit when they read my profile. They also knew what they might be able to ask me to do with them.Best of luck everyone, hope this helps.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'luvemcuddly29' I couldn't agree more I post face pic, no " body parts" or car pics I am since guy who believes in treating people with respect and am always polite I am here without deceit and lie to no one ? ( too honest for my own good) I'm lucky if someone looks at my profile Then to add injury to insult, any response is usually the " short answer is no the long answer is nooooooooooo! Which I don't feel I warrant such an insulting reply when I am always respectful- Posted from rhpmobile Never had that one ! Tells you a lot about her though !Narrow escape !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox'BTW Closed thing I get to a 'DATE' on a Saturday night are the packets ones in the Pantry and even they are starting to get a little stale. :( A sexy woman like you, I would have thought that they would be knocking down your doorsRicky
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RHP User
13 years ago
What do people think - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'goodtimesricky' Quoting 'SuperFox'BTW Closed thing I get to a 'DATE' on a Saturday night are the packets ones in the Pantry and even they are starting to get a little stale. :( A sexy woman like you, I would have thought that they would be knocking down your doorsRicky No I am not kidding - Those packet DATES sure are the PITS!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Lost_Focus' Quoting 'VonDoom' try being a single bloke i havent even had a look in yet a face pic, a shot of something other than your modes of transport - we like to see whats on offer Kisses Focus Strange thing to say when you have your head under a bonnet on your main pic.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What about......you exactly?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'scottlmuir' What do people think - Posted from rhpmobile Hey "BILLY BOB THORNTON"...Re-read you past Forum Posts...in there you will find the answers you're looking for..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Letscreampie'When 99% of women say your not their type, only by looking at a blokes pic.. It's pretty shallow.. Looks aren't everything.. Women out there need to lower their standards.. - Posted from rhpmobile No. (And are you suggesting women would be lowering their standards if they said yes to you?)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Letscreampie'When 99% of women say your not their type, only by looking at a blokes pic.. It's pretty shallow.. Looks aren't everything.. Women out there need to lower their standards.. - Posted from rhpmobile No. (And are you suggesting women would be lowering their standards if they said yes to you?)Sorry but I am not willing to LOWER MY STANDARDS for no-one...Call me shallow "Lestscreampie"but I really don't care!!Backing you 100% Ms.Devious with this one :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I doubt that it is your pic they are saying no to.I just read your profile,I definitely think it is that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' I doubt that it is your pic they are saying no to.I just read your profile,I definitely think it is that. The username suggesting of a possible 'creampie' should you persevere didn't really do it for you!?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'I doubt that it is your pic they are saying no to.I just read your profile,I definitely think it is that. some of us old ducks, just want a root. Cause we are the bottom of the barrel for hot studs as for scottlimure, the fingers up say it all. I am 25 and still a child. those finger things like yo bro let me go with you ho ho, yearh right I am da rappa TR down and dirty with ya bro. Though your other picture of your face is rather nice. Says I am sweet and rather shy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had a full body photo up for sometime and got limited contact. I then stuck a breast shot up, no face, and I am completely inundated with contacts. I think you need to keep in mind the purpose of the site and paste pictures and write your profile with that in mind,
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL I agree. A tummy with a piercing does wonders as well. :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'luvemcuddly29'I'm lucky if someone looks at my profile Then to add injury to insult, any response is usually the " short answer is no the long answer is nooooooooooo! Which I don't feel I warrant such an insulting reply when I am always respectful Fess up girls, who sends this as a reply? I've done it a handful of times, mostly after the third flirt, when I've politely declined the first two. But if someone's respectful, can't we all choose the "Planets not colliding" one or something? If its not the hot or what auto flirt then Im sending the nasty flirt possible.....why? Because they really havent taken their time to read my profile otherwise they wouldnt send me a flirt in the first place. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Politemale' Quoting 'Lost_Focus' Quoting 'VonDoom' try being a single bloke i havent even had a look in yet a face pic, a shot of something other than your modes of transport - we like to see whats on offer Kisses Focus Strange thing to say when you have your head under a bonnet on your main pic. and if youre only seeing the car and not my arse then your eyes need testing. Considering Im not trying to get anyones attention it shouldnt matter what pic I have up....besides all that I do have a number of face pics in my public gallery if your want to check the whole profile out. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gosh, this is a juicy one to come back to....love it!Quoting 'Letscreampie' When 99% of women say your not their type, only by looking at a blokes pic.. It's pretty shallow.. Looks aren't everything.. Women out there need to lower their standards.. - Posted from rhpmobile You cannot be serious! No-one should EVER have to lower their standards ....of anything.If 99% of women are knocking you back, perhaps look at yourself and what you're projecting.(raises hand) Yes, I have used the short answer is noooo reply, but it has only been to the people who cannot accept that our planets will not collide.....over and over again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Theres so many people on this site that its hard for the average bloke like myself to get noticed!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi snowcrash,You have a point it all depends how you "package" yourself it is like we are all trying to sell ourselves on this iste. I am new to Hotpie so I just getting a feel for how it works.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have recently given up on a man with whom I've tried to get his attention for the past 6mths! It's just no longer happening! I tried everything n it hurts alot - I often wonder what is wrong with me? But I can't put my energy into someone who does not give back! Lucky for me he lives 4hrs away..... But some day - maybe
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