Trying BDSM for the first time

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I guess we're the same but our knowledge is rather limited and google can only give so much advice. We have experimented with restraints etc We are reluctant to go to clubs or parties as we're still in the exploratory stage. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Folks, all we can say is go with the flow! We have been playing this way for some time and we love it. Not every time of course, but often times we will use restraints or floggers, clamps, plugs or role play Dom sub. It takes trust and a shedding of inhibitions and worries. You must trust and revel in each other. The intimacy explodes with passion. If you think that being a Dom is to demand submission, then you are a bully. Submission is given, not taken, and, the more willingly it is given, then the lesser need for restraints! Have fun, use the safe words and let go.

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