Trusty old paper bag !

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  Beachlover1999

  12 years ago

  But....in the first instance there has to be some attraction......connection.......that is where online stuff gets screwed.....there has to be a way for us to say yesss or nooo and a pic is part of the first filter. Many times I have thought very cute but once the chats starts the attraction ends and occasionally it occurs the other way round.....

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Yes but it's the face and eyes which look into as you has sex. If I am I need to like someone's face, and I need to be able to read their eyes.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I have several male friends and they say to me they are NOT physically attracted to a particular body shape as in BBW/curvy, does not physically turn them on nor do they find it attractive to them.To them they say it is unattractive.But yet they will have sex with a BBW/curvy woman.They say it is the brain and the person that turns them on.I also have female friends and they will not have sex if someone who's body shape does not turn them all nor attracted to. All the women have different taste is shape and size of men what they want.I am turned on by a few things and physical looks is once important factor me.I need several connections, no connection (as in all three: mentally, physically, spiritually) = no sex.Call me judgmental I don't care - I know what I like and dislike, what I am/am not attracted to.I think we all, in some way or other are judgmental, as we have our own unique likes and dislikes.FOXY

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I would have thought that you would know better than anyone that that person "with a sexy body with an ugly head' just might have the bomb personality and blow your mind... ...as might 'the Barbie Doll.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You don't look at the mantlepiece when your stokin' the fire...I'm glad most don't live in the past but it helps if the mantlepiece is at least part decorative. Hang in there Warning, not everyone has 20/20 vision.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Just last Wednesday I was visiting a friend and she had another friend over (showing of her baby... oh so cute) and I over heard them talking about me.Friend of Friend: "Wow he's lost some weight"Friend: "Yeah, its a shame he's just not that good looking or I'd try him on for size"Friend of Friend: "But I thought you said he was a really nice guy and all"Friend: "Yeah, but still not that good looking"Suffice to say I'm still looking for the thick paper bag with the tie off string and a dust pan to pick my self esteem!But it goes to show that looks still do play a part, sometimes even after the person had gotten to know you really well.If you ever met my ex's you'll see that personality, not appearance, is key.Whilst I do love a pretty face, the mind behind that visage has to have substance.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Face, body size, income level or penis size have never been an issue with me. It is the chemistry. It works or it doesn't. I don't really care if you look like you have been chasing parked buses and caught a few, You do not look at the mantel piece when stoking the fire and I can always turn out the lights and go by feel alone then kick you out before morning! Even Quasimodo found love. There is a Princess Fiona for every Shrek!- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Whether it be a certain look or a comment made that first gets your attention & makes you want to look a little closer. There isn't just one certain thing that turns my head but a range of things. Looks aren't a high criteria but a physical attraction does need to be there. I can't be intimate with anybody I'm not physically attracted to or feel the same from them. Personality closes the deal, if I can't talk & laugh with them nothing is going to happen. We play as a couple & invite a third or fourth or more to add to our pleasure. We aren't being picky or unreasonable, we are looking for what we want at any particular time. We would also expect anybody we play with was equally being selective. Have done the nameless one night stands & now that we're older prefer to read the entire menu instead of randomly pointing. Quality over quantity ;) mrs funky- Posted from rhpmobile

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