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Travelling for sex love or goodtimes
August 14 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sydney, Australia to Holmetrand in Norway! Met a guy when I went over there 6 years ago and we spent the next twelve months getting to know each other by phone and email when I returned home. He then traveled over here for a month and we got engaged. A few weeks later I upped stumps and moved to Norway. Sadly, the relationship ended three months later and I returned to Oz. So for me the answer would have to be about half way around the planet!!Kisses all,L
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RHP User
14 years ago
to Sydney all the time. It is 550 ks away from me but it gives me time out from my kids and all the responsibilities that go with the job. I also get to cachup with Focus. I know people who have met on line being in different countries and have eventually met. One couple I know have been married now for 12 years. They met on line. She is Austrsalian and he is American so it can and does happen. Dont ever discount long distance in these days when we have all the communication mod cons at our fingertips.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I travelled from the Gold Coast to Melbourne for what was supposed to be a once off wekened...best thing I ever did!!! . I then spent some time travelling between the Gold Coast and Sydney every fortnight before deciding to move here (now though of course I see Fionabee all the time...lol..) . I do have a lovely friend (who was once a regular on the forums here) who's GF is in America and he sees her as often as possible with her coming over in a couple of months - hehe its our turn to meet her...and there relationship does not appear to be suffering . Any way, with communication the way it is and flights so much cheaper and much more accessible its not hard to have LDR's that are successful....distance should not be a barrier when looking for fun...besides its a great reason for a break away to somewhere new. . Kisses Focus quietly awaiting the arrival of one (or both) of a lovely couple that is in a LDR to comment...surely they wont disappoint...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not only do you get the enjoyment of skin on skin but there is an opportunity to relax and have a break by doing something different from the hustle and bustle of your own life. I have meet a very nice man on here and we regularly travel across the Tasman and enjoy each others company. Agree with Focus, with technology the way it is and the ability to secure good deals with airfares ....... Well ..... What's to stop you!! ........... The possibilities are endless!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
...of a relationship can work if you both know and understand the ground rules then are committed to making it work on that basis. I travel all the time for work and pleasure...sometimes both and sometimes just for one or the other. Personally...anything over about 2 hour drive and I just fly, it's not that expensive any more. It's up to you to decided the value of the adventure. | Bigger question is...why not?
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RHP User
14 years ago
too great when it comes to love, but then I am just a silly ol' romantic - *sigh 'n' swoon* I have had some beautiful LDR's BW - the anticipation of the next meet can be soooo exciting. And casual meetings, well emmm I would consider that too - it's all part of life's little journey. Now let me see what state are you in BW?
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know Focus, I'd love to agree with you but I just can't do it. I'm yet to meet anyone who is even willing to travel to meet me for that oh-so-special evening. Every time I've gone to Brisbane or the Gold Coast or god forbid even Sydney, I've made 14 dates safe in the knolwedge that only 2 will turn up, and thats if I'm lucky. Supposedly I live in fucking paradise but do you think it helps my chances? Fuck no it don't.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You have to have a relationship for this to work Nick, not a business transaction or one night stand.And yes, they can work very well!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm going to ignore that last remark T, for the obvious reasons that what you just said is a line from my profile. I don't know whether to be insulted or flattered, but I will get back to you when I figure it out.
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RHP User
14 years ago
"for any kind of ongoing relationship between us to have any hope in hell of working; you’re going to have to visit me too." Not that I have anything against conducting business either... but I'm just sick as fuck of women of all people, demonizing me for my profession. I mean come the fuck on... you honestly can't have it both ways. As far as I can tell no woman is worth THAT much pain and suffering unless she's making me money. Then and only then I might have to give it some serious thought. I will re-iterate for all the condescenders who have tried to crawl up my ass lately. I do not want sympathy, I do not want a shoulder to cry on. I am not looking for a soulmate or someone to grow wretched and diseased with.... I Just want a FUCK. Is that simple enough, in plain freaking english because its the only language I know.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Any way, with communication the way it is and flights so much cheaper and much more accessible its not hard to have LDR's that are successful....distance should not be a barrier when looking for fun...besides its a great reason for a break away to somewhere new. . Kisses Focus Met an American online in 2006 , chatted and emailed extensively, Met in 2007 in Sydney , and he wanted more .... ME SAID NO .mainly because of the distance and the 17 hrs time difference .. but would be friends ..we met again in 2008 again here in sydney , and after one meeting and 16 months online chatting .. he asked for marriage... AGAIN i said NO .. he waited 4 months .. took me to europe and asked again in PARIS .. thi s time i said yes and we worked out the stratagy and the time frame for different meetings around the world .. and wether I would move to the states or he would move here .. FInal decision was to be here .. WE SET AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP based on our trust, communication, needs and that would be .. we could both play seperately to satisfy our needs while we were apart, PROVIDED we told each other and didnt catch any nasty bugs .. this seemed to work ... with intermitent further meeting at various places around the world .. until 2009, When he didnt turn up to meet with me in VEGAS ..excuse was that he was in hospital .. something i founf out later was a lie .... ... then WAM ... i find a profile of his on another channel on the net and all these womens coments about how good last night , last week , last month was ... WHICH you might say .. so what .. it was an open relationship .. i had given him permission to play .. which I had .. PROVIDED HE TOLD ME >> the problem here was .. he NEVER MENTIONED ANY OF THESE ENCOUNTERS .. so after 3.75 yrs .. that relationship went by the wayside .. all because of his lack of honesty and communication .. Did I give back the angagement ring ... hell NO ... Maybe in another lifetime LDR might work .. but at the moment .. I dont think I want to be burnt twice ..
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know part is attitude. I can ...and have...spent one week in Sydney. Had people lined up for every night but one and managed to fill in that night with a dear friend while down there. (Bonus that it was my birthday as well) Organised to meet another two for lunch. Not all sexual meetings mainly friendship. They all turned up. Each and every one. Great birthday week. So Nick, it can be done. Just try a little sugar sweetie.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting the OP: . Just about everyone would agree that LDR dont work (Long Distance Relationships). But are people willing to travel for sex love or goodtimes or even Love? How far? How far have u gone? . . I disagree with your assertion that LDRs do not work. Yes, I'm biased because I've been involved in one for a year and a half, but as CM says, any sort of a relationship can work if you both know and understand the ground rules then are committed to making it work on that basis. . And so I travel 800km, mostly fortnightly, for love, sex and very good times. . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' I'm going to ignore that last remark T, for the obvious reasons that what you just said is a line from my profile. I don't know whether to be insulted or flattered, but I will get back to you when I figure it out. Make of it what you will Nick but I was merely pointing out that Bingowow asked about a long distance relationship and not just a fuck. There is nothing wrong with wanting a fuck but do try to remember that women need to be attracted to want to fuck. Be nice, be charming and you might get what you want.And who is demonizing you for your profession? Or are you the head of some satanic cult?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think if you happen to be in the area its worth dropping in. You never know your luck! *wink*You can meet people you really connect with on line... Ive got three LDR's I've had for many years. I don't think sex is important at all for that. What I do appreciate is that despite meeting of minds, sexual attraction is more primal than that. I think it has to do with the other senses, like smell and touch for instance... Anyway... at my age :p I am enjoying serendipity.. the lucky break... stumbling upon someone with whom a sexual connection is intense... tag and release. Just drop teh inhibitions and spread the love as it comes bebe. The world needs more of that! HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'I think if you happen to be in the area its worth dropping in. You never know your luck! *wink*You can meet people you really connect with on line... Ive got three LDR's I've had for many years. I don't think sex is important at all for that. What I do appreciate is that despite meeting of minds, sexual attraction is more primal than that. I think it has to do with the other senses, like smell and touch for instance... Anyway... at my age :p I am enjoying serendipity.. the lucky break... stumbling upon someone with whom a sexual connection is intense... tag and release. Just drop teh inhibitions and spread the love as it comes bebe. The world needs more of that! HugsStalky Just when I could see puffy dark clouds and little lightening bolts crackling above Nick's head ... Right you are Stalky! I agree that serendipity is a very big part of making a connection, regardless of where in the world that person might be. . Fortunate discoveries by accident are some of the nicest and if they smell great and are great to touch, well, all the better methinks!
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RHP User
14 years ago
give me convenience or give me death.....LOL!! Kidding!it takes me 10 minutes to get to the nearest pizza, so longer than than.... maybe 20.... bahahah!
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RHP User
14 years ago
There's something to be said for having the No.2 spot and then just being shafted for some other guy who didn't even play by the fucking rules in the first place, aye flirty? Serendipity sounds like a spice used in cooking if you asked me... then again I'm a cynic and the words " I didn't mean to fall this hard" kinda reek of total bullshit but I guess, someone's serendipity is someone else's severe middle finger to 'friendship' aye? And honestly, who said long term relationships or even long distance relationships can't be exclusively sexual, isn't that the whole point? Or are LDR's all what women like... long talks about feelings and all that mushy piddly crap with no real physical intimacy... in other words... an Online Relationship that goes nowhere and stays there? Am I in the right ball park? And you know, I could be charming and witty and erudite and I have been for the most part... but much to my own bemusement it hasn't gotten me anywhere and I figure I'm not going to waste my breath on a woman who will probably just change the rules mid-game as let's face it, the majority of them have the habit of doing exactly that. When someone has been promising themselves to you for 'what feels like forever" and then they throw in a real game changer like " I need your friendship to fulfill a different role right now" you become more than a little bit fucked off with the the positively fucked up situation you find yourself in, hypothetically speaking. I tell you what... fuck the rules. Whoever she is, she can crawl naked through broken glass just to prove how much she cares. You say ain't love grand... I say, ain't love a selfish bitch that will seduce you and then kick you to the curb like a common whore and I'm not exactly sure I can go through that again, because she found someone she liked better. Its a real shame too, I used to be such a nice guy, but yesterday's nice guys are tomorrow's rapists. Oh well, I guess thats what they call the cycle of life right? I don't know how much more of this meretricious serendipitous bullshit I can put up with before I literally choke the absolute life out of someone and then fuck the corpse out of spite. Then again... maybe I'm just the victim of one too many broken promises or one too many failed LDR's... ON TOPIC, what do you reckon?
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