TM38
Transmale who is straight
March 11 2022
I consider myself straight as I am attracted to women only (also trans women) .
But being Trans would that confuse anyone out there?
I feel like sometimes I need a T&C's at the bottom of my page but I don't want to! All I seem to get is 'bi curious' guys who feel like "it's not gay if they don't have a dick" which is soul crushing...
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FeistyFatty
3 years ago
Confusing 🥴
Rising_Phoenix
3 years ago
Yes I find it confusing. You are what people have always called a lesbian but because you identify as male you also want to be considered straight, is that right?
You probably do need an explanation if you don’t want people to be confused.
Maybe something like “I identify as a straight male, looking for someone who identifies as a straight woman who doesn’t mind her man having a vagina”.
Something simple and straightforward that hopefully allows you to avoid awkward conversations.
AnnieWhichway
3 years ago
It does take the mere mortals a lot of effort to get there head around it let alone the males that follow their penis everywhere.
Fortunately I'm bi so nothing much to explainMrs_Deep_Love
3 years ago
Not me. But I'm an ally.
People who don't go out if their way to educate themselves on trans people . Probably.
73bandit
3 years ago
Yeah your confused.
2EssesExploring
3 years ago
As there seems to be more MTF than FTM trans I think it does take a few more seconds to work it out. I confess when I first saw your profile I was like “oh that’s a very masculine physique for a trans woman” but didn’t take long to work it out.
As far as T&Cs, well we all come with them and anyone who doesn’t want to take time getting to know them isn’t worth the effort. Conversely if people are to demand people know exactly what they are in for without giving the T&Cs, well that’s fraught with danger.
Discussion is always a good thing.
Ex007
3 years ago
Not confusing. But I would have questions.
Do you dress as female and live a female lifestyle 100%, casually or only at home?
People will go elsewhere if they find the information isn’t detailed enough.
You can not leave room for assumptions or people will make them. It’s a natural human behaviour.Rocklilly
3 years ago
No not confused at all
EarthQueen
3 years ago
It's not confusing and yeah, creepy messages can be par for the course on here. It seems like lots of people can't read profiles or preferences.
Sawadee
3 years ago
As someone who has only ever known life as a straight man, , It is confusing... But as they say , each to thier own...
FeistyFatty
3 years ago
Simple...
You're not "straight" when you "identify" as a male but have been born and are genetically a female.... It is confusing to most people...... Even the heightened enlightened ones of RHP (eye roll*"). Just be you, enjoy your own life. You're a lesbian. You should care less what we all think. And we should care less about what you do. Just live your life🤷RHP User
3 years ago
I don’t think it’s confusing at all! xo
Kt_Kcouple
3 years ago
In 2022 this should not be confusing. I am a cis bi female but would imagine as a trans male who is straight it would be somewhat offensive and just inaccurate to be called a lesbian!!
Fantasy80
3 years ago
I don't find that confusing at all, as I'm in the same boat as you. I don't consider meself as bi, as I'm not attracted to men. Having said that though, I have given oral to several transgenders and absolutely loved every minute of it
ItsMandT
3 years ago
I don’t find it confusing at all.
RHP User
2 years ago
Yeah that last bit is so hurtful, I get that too
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