Too Nice?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I can seriously not think of a single situation where being 'too nice' would be a let down. I probably have entirely the wrong idea, but it feels like they're trying to let you down easily.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  to most women involves many things and varying levels are applied to everything from icecream to a partner to a favourite lipstick. Sadly I think men hear the word love and run screaming thinking it means wedding bells. One guy I used to date was so scared of the L word he devised the term BOGFU ( bursts of good feeling for you) I mean ffs???But aside from that just keep being true to you and who you are, while it wont please all the people it will keep you happy, on track and unpsychotic.Cheers gourmet xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It's got nothing to do with you being nice, they just aren't that keen on you and it's an easy thing to say. In the same pile as "It's not you, it's me", "This hurts me as much as it hurts you" and "Yes I'll respect you in the morning".

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hmmm maybe your right and they are trying to let me down.. it's strange tho how none of them no each other and they all used the same excuse lol! not sure I'll ever understand men lol.. I guess dats why I enjoy their company so much lol

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi there,Um yeah thee is such a thing as too nice, I got told that all the time as well, apparently am not enough of a bad boy lol.Also I tend to think its because I don't have a six pack lol but I do get told I am cute alot but I thought cute meant ugly but interesting lol.PK !!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Don't you ever EVER second guess yourself. Do not change who you are for anyone or anything! I read your post and it brought such a smile to my face that there are still some people out there that "love" the world and everything in it! I admire you so much for that! As for the men you have met...don't feel down and out about what they say...they just had to find some excuse and maybe the fact that you are so nice is something they are not used to. Always remember that you do deserve honesty and respect for who you are. This is their problem...not yours. Don't give up hun...your time for happiness is coming soon. Lots of Love and Hugs xoxox xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i dont wanna sound rude, mean, nasty or a bitch (even tho i am a bitch :P ) but yes u can be too nice they are pushovers... not everyone is gonna like what you say or do and you cant always please everyone and please dont try to cause if you do u'll end up feeling bad when you shouldnt... just be yourself, if you upset someone then oh well shit happens cos not everyone likes the same stuff.... keep yourself happy & be yourself you dont need to worry what some strangers online think and if your friends dont like what you say or think then thats their problem... Mrs tastytreatz xxxxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ...well aint life confusin.. ? .. i can see where most peoples replies on here are coming from, and really its all just a guessing game.. but we arent all attracted everyone,( now that would be exhausting !! ) and even if we are for a moment, or an evening... sometimes there isnt enough to sustain that initial excitement and to keep up long term connection.. .. that sounds like no help whatsoever... ...but i will say , that if you are the kind of person that you described in your post, and i believe you are, then you will be at your most happiest living your life just the way you are. .... and really at the end of the day if you try to be someone you are not ....then you are then called 'Fake' a 'Phoney' , a 'Player' and any other name people come up with....and from the posts on here we all know how well that goes down.... .. so enjoy your life as the only way , and person , you know how to be ! as YOU... have a lovely evening... msC x

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Just want to thank everyone so very much for your honesty and thoughts.. I'm glad you are all saying to be myself because I cant really be anyone eles *laughs* you are all such wonderful people!! *hugs* I truely am so very greatful for your input.. lol lets just hope I figure all dis out sooner rather than later hahaha.. take care Vi XX

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  "people are frightened by love" sorry "Men mostly are keen to avoid love" coz it rhymes with commitment! Give them nasty love, give them naughty love, give them all kinds of love coz thats who you are.... Lovely by nature. Don't stop believing, hold on to that feeling....

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