Too Beautiful to Be Polite?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  For some people around here its like high school all over again. I hope they get pimples. :p Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  but how many Hello's is a person expected when they give on entering a room? A standard "Hi all" should suffice. How much time of yours are they really wasting if they're not talking to you? And how valuable is your time if you're sitting in a chat room and posting about not being chatted to on an internet forum?The internet = serious business.Seriously, I have enough trouble having one MSN chat open and a RHPprivate chat (why RHP chat doesn't flash or something when you get a message is beyond me), and I've been chatting on the internet since IRC was all the rage and the messenger of choice for the cool kids was ICQ.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hey.... I must be blind ! I rarely see any beautiful people in the chat room ! Guess I'm just too busy looking at myself! Seriously... it's bloody rude. I do occasionally miss replying IF my hands are busy or if I'm camming with someone !!! Sometimes I'm not even looking at the screen and I'm distracted by my own pleasure. But, I haven't cammed for weeks, I'm over it.... gets boring after awhile. A bit like watching the same DVD over and over. xx Miss Saturn

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  its time to get off chat and meet this handsome bugger:):)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hey cumly, you are on the right track about politeness. Your handle was familiar to me so I did a quick check. Yes our contact history confirms I sent you a mail and did I get any reply NO. Re the chat rooms, many may be listed as in the room but not looking at the screen all the time. Cheers Wayne.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Wayne, I just checked and yes, I did overlook responding to your mail. I have since rectified this and wish to apologise. It was unintentional but you made a very good point, our msg and flirt system on rhp is equally as deserving of polite behaviour as the chat room environment. It makes for a far more enjoyable social network experience. Thank you for your post.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  well, that's gunna score you a lot of brownie points...like NOT...so what if she didn't reply to your email...some women don;t reply to mine...doesn't make them rude...they have their preferences and their wants...and clearly i don;t fit their bill...just as you don;t fit hers...and another thing...are people really in chat and not looking at their screen...???i don;t think so...jose...

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  meet the nicest people on a Honda.its not a big motorcycle, just a groovy little motor bike,ahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaEarl, prefers British or American but has a coupla Yammy'sahahahahaahahahhahahahahaha

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Beautiful or not, some people have attitude. It's the way they 'Turn-Up' to others. They arrive like that, but usually underneath they're just ordinary unsure typical people like anyone else. It must be awkward being attractive as you'd get too much unwanted attention from many directions and maybe this harsh reaction is a learned response that works for them, however inappropriate. That's what a beautiful woman told me once when I queried her bitterness. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I think that in a chat room, on MSN or even in simple contacts here...people do tend to form their own groups, perhaps a clique' if you would like to call them that, and often overlook someone new or different from the norm. This is not just something that happens here or in any other venue similarly...but within our culture broadly. It provides people with a "comfort zone" and many choose not to step out of that...regardless of what they may be missing.\I rarely visit the chatrooms here as I find them less than interesting and difficult to keep up with the number of cross-conversations that are occuring simultaneously but that is perhaps just me. Yes, I am highly capable of multi-tasking and in my own social environment...keeping up with several conversations in different groups at one time, just simply not on multi-coloured screens and often in "chat room jargon" that I find inane. Too, I take no offence at all if I do send a stranger a note and hear nothing back...I assume that they are either too busy or that I simply am not of interest. And fair enough...we can't be all things to all people and I accept that.\What is interesting is that in this, it is easy to find a false bravado or develop a persona that may not be the person? I find that in either talking to someone on the phone or on occassion actually meeting someone from a chatroom unmasks a much different person than the one behind the safety of a computer screen.\Then again...I have always been one to find delight in the journey of discovery of someone or something new rather than just accepting the norm or assuming that I know someone from a few pictures or clever words? That said, I believe you can sort out the wheat from the chaff by a few ill chosen words...written or spoken, and perhaps by the nature a few pictures which are indeed revealing of the self perceived character of that person. An interesting paradox, no?\We may never know what we are missing until we are willing to step outside of our own confines and see what awaits us on our own journey. I wish you well on yours...enjoy life and don't take anything too seriously. Just have fun along the way!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi Cummlymaiden, I'm not sure about "to beautifull", I think it's their ego that needs working on. We average Joe Bloggs need all the help we can get and are usually better conversationalists. Drop me a line privately. Love to chat.....

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