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To cum or not to cum

March 22 2018

My Question is, Do Men need to cum during sex to feel fully satisfied and if a Man doesn't cum but the woman hashad number of orgasms, does the woman view this as a let down that he hasn't finished. I ask this because sometimes my Husband goes for days without ejaculating but still has orgasms and insists its not a bad thing for him. What do others think?. Mrs Gamer

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    However, as long as he’s happy and having a good time, that’s all that matters! Better than he shoots inside ten seconds and then rolls over to sleep! Invite your chicky friends round to share the wealth, it may help him ejeculate and be a more fulfilling experience for you all. M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Orgasm without ejaculation.. err. I did that with my ex gd when I wasn't turned ON enough that i couldn't ejaculate and I was getting tired to focus on but was loosing erection..so I faked it. She believe I had an ejaculation..but there was no cum. It's either something like this ... or health issue. He needs to get a good diet n exercise.. not ejaculate often.. or hold the ejaculation level style for 3 or 4 times..then shoot. Once it went above my head to the wall behind.lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nope. It’s not a goal or benchmark for me - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Gamers

    Gamers

    8 years ago

    I must admit I enjoy the fact that we can go at it multiple times a day and we are having an awesome time. I agree with you M_D4 I want to bring as many women in for him though I just don't want them to feel that they are doing something wrong even though he is having orgasms he will just keep going till they need a break. Also, does it worry men if they cum while the other guy in the room is still going. I guess woman wouldn't want to be pleasured to exhaustion. And yes M_D4 anything is better than a quick 10 sec job where your then looking for your toys to finish the job off. Mrs Gamer

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But if I see my partner enjoying it, that's enough for me.. Cumming is not the be all and end all of sexual encounters. It a good ending but certainly not essential, and if he's happy I wouldn't worry... I just had lunch and my first ever face to face meet up with an rhp'er and this was actually something we discussed... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • try1ngit

    try1ngit

    8 years ago

    It does not really worry me if I don't cum, (at my age it is exciting to just get it up) Mrs T doesn't mind when I tell her that I still enjoyed the play but did not cum. My main concern is that she is satisfied and happy when we finish, if I do then it is a bonus. Plus if I don't cum I can usually just keep going for longer, which she obviously enjoys.Don't stress about it, if he is happy about it, all good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Control is key. I know for me in group play I'm not happy to finish until all the ladies have what they need and desire.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It makes me happy to know other guys are like me, and younger ones too! To give others more information, I’m vasectomised, so I don’t know what difference that makes! I would be curious as to what a session would be like, with a group of similar aged men and women. I wouldn’t be bothered by others cumming before or after me. The firmness of their erections or anything. Along as it was all fun and natural! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sensualplay

    sensualplay

    8 years ago

    Mr here is multi-orgasmic and does not need to ejaculate to have an orgasm. I can have many orgasms ... as many as I am willing to have. When I choose to ejaculate I like to have several orgasms first or else I kind of feel tired and a bit depleted if I ejactulate on the first orgasm. I love building up orgasmic energy .... not for just myself either, but expanding play partners orgasmicness .... I guess you could say I am a pleasure hedonist hahahahhaa

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Had a ffm a few years back. Played for a good 3hrs till our new friend couldnt take anymore. So we all fell asleep quite happily. Dropped her back to her car the next morning, went back to our room and fucked my wife while we reminisced about the previous night till we both came and collapsed on the bed. Short answer? Yes! - Posted from rhpmobile