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Tips, Tricks & Hints to giving a blow job
December 29 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know you want to DG. What makes a good blow job in your opinion. I am all ears!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Miss myhree, every guy is different and each might like a different way of being blown - some slow and deliberate, some hard and fast, some a full length sucking, some just tip sucking, some more sucking, some more licking. Personally, there are three things I remember when I blow:1. be sensitive of your partner's response2. enjoy what you're doing3. just worship that cock and give it some lovingSurely that cock will love you back and reward you for it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
altho i have never had any complaints, so I must do a reasonably decent job ;) , i think the best person to get advice from is the person receiving....but if u dont want to ask body language is a good indicator if u are doing a good job, just be clear of his moans make sure its yeah baby and not ouch baby.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not talking your bottle lube, talking saliva. Dont make a point of constantly swallowing during oral, if your mouth is dry it will be uncomfortable for you and him, drooling is acceptable ;) Gagging is another good thing, cant say I think its sexy, yet some men may think it is, but reason I say gagging is good, that is because when you gag you produce a much thicker saliva and its excellent for lubrication of the throat. I generally aim for 2 gags during oral to give me that lubrication I find works well for me when giving head, and makes everything slide easier where its going. Love what your doing. I hate when men want to thrust and just fuck my mouth, I find it a turn off and will tend to stop giving them oral when they start that. Oral is one of my favourite things so its my way or not at all, and my way is loving what I am doing, in a sense, making love to it with my mouth. Licking it slowly, from base to head. Swirling the tongue. Nibbling down the sides. Definately need to give the testicles attention, suck them one at a time into your mouth, flick your tongue over them, you can also pull back a little (depends on the mans scrotum, some are saggier than others... sorry guys dont mean that to sound awful) pull the skin taut and keep lips firm, then let the testicle slide through your lips, be careful with teeth, dont bite it unless asked LOL Remember to use your hands as well, if sucking testicles, then use your hand to stroke the penis and vice versa. Some guys like it when you form suction with your mouth and when your lips are near the head, your cheeks suck in sorta and then you suck him hard into your mouth, can vary it slowly and then one stroke fast, keep it interesting. You can vary the feel of your mouth by pressing your tongue underneath the cock and rub the head on the roof of your mouth to give it a different sensation. If you take your time and he is good enough to lay and enjoy without thrusting or wanting to quickly pound your mouth (some just cant control themselves LOL) you can slowly work at taking it deeper in your mouth/throat. If you want to deep throat, position is important and same with lubrication and gagging. I find that if laying on our sides, sorta 69 for oral, and if he bends his bottom leg so I can rest my head/cheek on his inner thigh, I can take him deeper, its easier to open my mouth and because no strain on my neck, its easier to relax my jaw, and overall deep throat is easier and can happen for a longer period of time than other awkward positions. I find that this position lets me relax and I can go into my own headspace where after having me enjoy his cock my way, we change to this position and he can cum down my throat and he gets the final pleasure from getting oral from me. So I hope that helps. Remember to enjoy it, its not just for his pleasure, take your time, keep your mouth moist/lubricated, relax and dont forget, all men are different and like to get head differently, but after a while you will master your technique and you will be able to take control and get them to enjoy it 'your way' too :) Good luck and hope the lucky fella appreciates you asking for technique ideas for his pleasure!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
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wingman2014
13 years ago
As others have said , everyone is different , blow jobs are like music , some days you want to listen to something that builds gently like Ravells "bolero" other times it might be wild and vigorous .Always remember that guys are so into the visual aspect as much as the physical sensation There is NOTHING sexier in my opinion than looking down and seeing your gorgeous lover staring into your eyes as she teases your throbbing cock, tips me over the edge every time. I think I need a cold shower!
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RHP User
13 years ago
One thing I personally do when giving a good BJ is to go down on ball sacks The Figure 8 motion from one ball sack to another at the same time pressing and sucking hard and gentle on the perineum - and playing with anus with fingers is great too.:)SOME guys like RIMMING (oral anal-play) as part of BJ.These are just some of my little tips and tricks...LOL A woman has to keep some secrets to a great B.J up her sleeve.. Also ask MEN they know best what they want - they'll tell you for sure...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Every now and then look up at them man with 'COME FUCK ME EYES" works every time....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013'As others have said , everyone is different , blow jobs are like music , some days you want to listen to something that builds gently like Ravells "bolero" other times it might be wild and vigorous .Always remember that guys are so into the visual aspect as much as the physical sensation There is NOTHING sexier in my opinion than looking down and seeing your gorgeous lover staring into your eyes as she teases your throbbing cock, tips me over the edge every time. I think I need a cold shower! funny you should say that a guy said that to me the other day and it was a first " You have cock sucking eyes" Just do it if you like it , no need to impress every woman has her own way and every man will tell you, one hopes, that its working or not working for them. cupp the balls and also suck in the balls, finger in the bum sometimes if the guy wants that, rimming all the other things that go with a head job. boobs , are also good to help if you have big ones you can lay on your back as they tit fuck you and suck the tip as it comes through the valley of tits. Just prop your head up with pillows. If you swallow do it in one gulp, its not wine you do not have to swish it around your mouth before you swallow but to do that is not safe sex.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wingman2013' As others have said , everyone is different , blow jobs are like music , some days you want to listen to something that builds gently like Ravells "bolero" other times it might be wild and vigorous .Always remember that guys are so into the visual aspect as much as the physical sensation There is NOTHING sexier in my opinion than looking down and seeing your gorgeous lover staring into your eyes as she teases your throbbing cock, tips me over the edge every time. I think I need a cold shower!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just don't crunch down on it
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RHP User
13 years ago
You'll be happy to hear I've just posted a forum on male opinions then! You better make it worth my time and effort. Details! And more details!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've been told more than once by men that a woman looking up at them while going down on them, is the sexiest thing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well...do what you love...love what do. Your partner will guide you into specifics if they want you to do something specific....that is, if he's not presumptuous butt head :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh some men like doing this...love it to death if done CORRECTLY.On the other hand if a man held my head WITH BRUTE PHYSICAL FORCE and shoved his cock into my mouth to the point where I vomited out my mouth - NO FRIGGIN WAY would they ever get another BJ from me!! Huge turn off and very unpleasant."A man who did that would not have NO penis left cause that's when I will turn BARBARIC!!!! I'd bite the effin thing off and hold their arss so tight that my nails would break skin and draw blood to the point where they couldn't sit down for a year"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Here's what I like. Slow and firm with lots of ball sucking. Don't assume your lips ar all that's needed, keep as much of your tongue against the shaft for as long as possible. I like having teeth dragged across my ball sack, but no biting. No teeth on the cock at any time. When you work the sack use the fleshy part of your palm under your thumb to rub the head of the cock. I do not understand why people actually spit on a cock. I don't like the sound or sight of someone spitting. Just let your saliva lubricate the blowy. The guys G-Spot is just behind the sack so always rube it with your hand and give it a good hard lick, suck, kiss and a nibble. Use your hands to keep pressure on the sack and shaft but don't feel the need to give a simultaneous blowy and hand job. Fingernails dragged across the sack are also fantstic, but not on the shaft. Hope this helps. Feel free to contact me to arrange some trainng.
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RHP User
13 years ago
wow... What ever happened to asking mum for advice?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr cns here you can think of me as your test dummy if you like. You can do it to me as much as you like. And when you have all the practice you need, go of and enjoy the world. And you will know when your getting better, because it will take less and less time before I blow,,,, hope this helps you out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
for a woman, lie on your back on a bed, head hanging back over the side...
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x2ForU
13 years ago
heaps of saliva, heaps of noise , look like your enjoying it (even if your not...lololol) dont be afraid to ask what he likes as everyman is different, and NEVER use teeth...lolol... just some tips iv'e learnt along the way..
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