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Time wasters
October 28 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Time wasters as we have found will wast your time every time..... We had a couple contact us and we went to town 4 times and 4 time they did not turn up, its 10km to town and 10km home was just a big wast of fuel..... If people do not turn up or try to play us off we do not have anymore to do with them....
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RHP User
13 years ago
"maybe""sometimes""I could...""perhaps""intrigued""curious"f--k off. If they're vague or it's like they're doing you a favor by ::GASP:: possibly going down on you, cut it off. I know it's maybe not standard protocol here, but if it's likely that we're not going to meet, I'm not going to continue emailing. Some guys seem to get off on this prolonged, endless b.s. I'm not going to waste my time talking someone into something I consider basic. If you're not into it, I don't want to do it with you anyway. If you schedule a time to meet and they cancel less than 24 hours before, cut it off. Harsh? Maybe.
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RHP User
13 years ago
* dont show up to a meet with no reason * never seems to be able to be tied down for a meet * weeks of constant messaging back and forth with it going nowhere (especially if theyre local) * first message reads - can I see your PG (voyuer only springs to mind) * says they had a great time after the first meet then you never hear from them again * a message every couple of days stalling in the meeting process Oh Im sure I will think of a few more things. Do they get a second chance? No. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
As my job is so unpredictable, but myhree seriously you need to define this yourself. You need to define what you ARE and ARE NOT prepared to accept from the people in your life. Playmates, friends etc. when you do that, those that don't need to be there won't be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
as much time, as they need!everyone works differently...and not everybody is ready to jump in bed, with a random stranger,ASAP...some people like to build a little connection, first...(me included)since you can't just catch up, and hang out with people from here, as you would with normal friends..(at least i don't see ourselves going out for drinks, with a single guy, for instance, 2-3 times, before we decide, that we like him...and are keen, to play)...the only avenue, for a little interaction, before hand, is on here...or through texts...add that to people's busy working/family/etc. schedule...and yes, it might take a little time...is that really so wrong?does it have to come down to the question, after two messages.."so do you wanna fuck me, or not?"but maybe i am just old fashioned...
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RHP User
13 years ago
who they are and how they are wasting my time.Quite frankly if someone messages me and then stops, they go out my mind.If they start again it depends what they have to say and how interesting they are. Sometimes life happens and I can't always meet someone either,I think you very quickly develop a sense of who is genuine and who is just playing a game of pretendx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe we need an extra box to tick, one that says, Yes, I am serious and WILL meet you. But, there does seem to be a whole hell of a lot of "tyre kickers", be they male, female or couples. Maybe simply having a profile on here is giving the relationship they have, that extra spark, even if the profile says "Single".
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is the Bakery... We come here to waste time. Just like most other places on the internet. It's what it's for ~shakes head~But it is a very fun way to waste time. Actually have you not noticed that most of the fun things in life are just wasting time ~grins~
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I work 5 to 6 days a week , and many messages are from guys with something like ." you free tonight lets meet up and Fuck" - they never stop and some guys if not most of them just dont get , for me receiving that message no thanks , but with other people , its all about timing , I need plenty of notice I just cant go out at the drop of a hat , I like to meet first , then decide whether ot not there is an attraction , then maybe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Approximately 17. 3 minutes... however I would add that there are some people who are more than welcome to waste as much of my time as they like!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We've had some people over to our place on six occasions since January 2011. We haven't been able to coordinate a playdate away yet. Our limited availability nevers seems to meet up with the availability of potential playmates so they often give up on waiting for us.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
I agree with senualtimestoo - we are all different and all have a different story to tell!! If you think someone is wasting your time, don't give them your time to waste!!
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boots_69
13 years ago
Despite our online wants of anytime, every time most of us have to juggle a physical world reality. Which for some of us can bite deeply into what we would like to do.Am a big believer in rain-checks and have cashed in one or two.Second chances are a personal thing and up to you. Some folks are worth the wait.Cheers Boots
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi , sorry but 800ks too far for us to travel, but you never know ;o))
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