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The year of 2013!

December 10 2013

I thought I would get in early and ask this now! As the year is coming to an end and of course Christmas is upon us very soon.... What have been the high lights & of course the low times of 2013 for you? Of course this can be about anything or if you only want to mention the sexual part or both... Would love to hear your thoughts - Mrs C xx

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  • Taby_DK

    Taby_DK

    12 years ago

    For me my 24th Birthday was the highlight of my year for two reasons. Firstly I had an awesome birthday dinner with my closest family and friends, played a couple games of competitive pool (I'm totally addicted) before we all proceeded to get very drunk on free shots. We then headed to the closest nightclub and partied the night away until the small hours of the morning. I woke up the next morning with ripped stockings, feet so sore I couldn't walk, bruises and a massive hang over lol The second part of my awesome birthday was also the most romantic. As a Birthday present DK took me to Kingfisher Bay on Fraser Island for the weekend. On the first day we did a 20km walk to Lake Mackenzie and back (both into fitness) before having a 3 course dinner at a very posh 5 star authentic Australian bush food restaurant (food melted in your mouth). We stayed over night at the resort and had a very naughty night, were as the birthday girl I got every kinky naughty thing I wanted done to me fulfilled ;) The next morning we walked to the lookout and took in the amazing views before falling asleep on the picnic table for a few hours together as it was just so peaceful listening to the bush and the sounds and it just being the two of us there together. We then had a great lunch at the local hangout where we had to fight off the Kookaburra's to keep our food before travelling home. It was one of the best weekends of my life and I'm really lucky to have a partner who listens when I casually mentioned 6 month before hand I would love to go to Fraser Island for a weekend sometime. :D Taby xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've posted about the party we had before so I won't do it again. But that was definitely a highlight.Low light would have to me my weird, judgemental sister in law going atomic on me. Whatever!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Definitely turning 40. And Paintme's 40th sure was a highlight as well!.Another experience that really stood out was my first DP. There were some tears of utter overwhelmedness (for lack of an actual word) afterwards..My lowlights pale in comparison.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I had quite a lot of change this year. Some of it very upsetting at the time but I've come to realise it was a blessing. Half way through the year the relationship I was in ended. It had been a 5 year long relationship, lived together for four so I had many changes to endure. I had to deal with the grief of the loss of someone I thought I'd be with for a very long time, find a new place to live, end friendships I had formed as they could no longer work. It was a very painful experience and I thought I'd be lost for a very long time. With time however, I have come to realise that the experience has allowed me to see that the person I was with was demeaning toward me, overly critical, judgemental and sapped all of my self-confidence to the point where I felt too anxious to go out places or see friends. It has taken some months to get over the shock and shaken confidence. I only recently started to feel OK with my situation and have since become to embrace my new life. I grieved the loss of two people who have been important to me over my life: my grandmother and my old boss. Highlights have been reconnecting with my family and friends who I'd become isolated from, who helped pick me up and dust me off after my relationship breakdown. I met a very beautiful man who helped me to feel sexy once again and he has become a great friend. I rediscovered my confidence and independence and took a holiday tour of Kakadu. Travelling alone is great, you meet so many new people! I even took my first steps to further my career in recent weeks. So, lots of ups and downs for me. I'm hoping next year will be more stable but still as exciting. I look forward to reading others' responses.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Highlights (all sexual, go figure): First Saints & Sinners First MFM threesome First time playing with a woman Lowlights: Having to take a leave of absence from uni, and as a result losing a very helpful scholarship. That was shit. Actually, apart from the sexual exploration, 2013 was a crappy year and it can go fuck itself. Bring on 2014.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A number of my friends, myself included, have noticed (I chose that verb carefully) strings of bad luck in their lives this year. Random luck kind of stuff, car accidents, home invasions, and endless emotional turmoil. I've personally had my entire life flip upside down between the start of this year and now, the only thing that remains the same is where I live, not even WHO I live with, just the address. Sometimes I think I've changed significantly this year as a result, I mean, I'm here, aren't I? x CT

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It sounds like we have "enjoyed" pretty similar 2013's... Relationship bust to kick off the new year... Losing my three front teeth in a bicycle crash... My father dying... Selfish bastard 😎 Highlights... Definitely the friends I have made here and at the drinks nights... Being rescued by foxxy and Freya... My sweetsiren, my vanilla printer girl, you have done so much for me without even knowing it... To the beautiful people who have populated my life these past couple of months, thank you. Like luckdragon I too believe 2013 can fuck off, yes lessons leant... But don't let the door hit your arse on the way out... hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Sorry sold out...😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Highlights.....a beautiful relationship with a beautiful man, a year of studying full time which has been my dream for decades, time to reconnect with family and friends after working 90 hours a week for the past 3 years. Lowlights......closing my businesses, financial woes brought on by that decision. However none of the highlights would have happened without the lowlights. Oh yeah.....on a sexual note, discovered the beautiful man has a delicious kinky side, first Bi FFM, first experience with a woman, first group sex - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    High points: Clipsal 500 in Adelaide was a great experience, with awesome company that I now miss. 2 meet and greets. Visited a swingers club. Finally received a diagnosis that has changed my life for the better. Watching my daughter sing like a superstar. Changing jobs to a boss that probably cares too much. Lowlights:- Burning bridges Changing jobs I'm sure there are others that haven't acknowledged - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Gained a new business. Lost a great mother. Every day watching my besutiful daughter grow into the amazing young woman she is quickly becoming. Opportunities present... some taken, some passed up. As for the sexual milestones...... that would be telling....... But the three lovely ladies who treated my penis like a chuppa chup for my birthday are free to speak up lol :-D - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just saw a friend describe 2013 as "rough but transitional" I kinda like that, that sums it up well for me too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    20yr's in a ""normal" relationship and then we discovered that inviting others into our lives only brought us closer together, more honest and more open with ourselves and each other. Discovering RHP and the forums, much more interesting and educational than Face Book. Our band is getting regular gigs and Hubby played his first music festival. I had my second Art exhibition. Our girls are growing into beautiful, fun, independant and smart young women Low lights, cars stuffed, both of them and our family has outgrown our house. This is my fifth Christmas since my Mum passed, christmas since then has been really hard as it was her favourite time of year and always made it truely special, this year however I'm back on track and enjoying the season

  • precious142

    precious142

    12 years ago

    has been an awesome year in so many good and bad ways.....Welcoming another beautiful gorgeous niece into our male dominated family....Brilliant 4 week vacation in CanadaTime spent with the family over EastLoss of money through bad business decsions (lesson well learnt there!)Listening to too much bullshit from people who think they know what is best for me - see above!Sexual experiences thru meets on here and another site..woohoo!!!Spending Xmas and NY with my brothers and families in AdelaideBut most of all - learning soo much about myself and life!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Got new job (not easy for mining industry professionals such as geologists) watching Daughters growing and going to school etc. DownsideLost first job loved the travel (To Tanzania) flights in business calss and back Still chasing the threesum not there yet. Any takers ?? LOL All the best fellow Pie People

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...can suck my cock! 😀 I spent most of it in a man cave cradling my head & licking my wounds after a nightmarish life/relationship crisis. Divorce came through, and the relationship with my child's mother is as good as it gets now so happy ending there, but 2014 will be the year I re-establish myself with a new house and get my feet back on the ground and running! I'm looking forward to it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    High 5, brother. It gets better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' High 5, brother. It gets better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Cheers, big ears. Checking out a place tomorrow! 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Musn't have been important. 2013 can suck my cock too. If only I had one...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Only look forward TO WHAT IS YET TO BE DONE. But seeing we are looking , love my girlfriend and the November escapades we plan. Built on trust of the times we have had.TG Halloween 2014. Our next adventure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But 13 is definitely not my lucky number! I will be glad to see the back of 2013. Overall, a pretty crap year. Apart from the birth of another beautiful niece in April, this year has pretty much sucked. I plan to make 2014 bigger and better! Onwards and upwards!! And a Happy New Year to all!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lost my wife and dog.Gained great new friends. Kept my job and sanity. Pretty good balance I think One last fantastic experience on the very near horizon before blowing this weird yet wonderful year off. A huge thank you to all the lovely people who made this year so much better than it could have ended up and here's to 2014 being even better! SG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My year started of hard. Health issues with my kids, nothing harder than seeing your child sick and not being able to help. Marriage counselling, big expense, little outcome. Followed by decision to divorce after 23yrs Started on the paperwork then one day we were out with friends (hiding the pain from others as you do) I looked across and said the defining words "let's go to the couples club". This started a chain of positive events in our marriage, we started talking more, confiding, exploring. So divorce wasn't on the table anymore (no wasn't THAT easy). 2013 was my year of self exploration. Joined RHP which expanded my friendship base, helped me learn about myself (a lot I did not know) and helped me explore my sexual side and I realise I'm a kinky little bitch. Best thing was I dumped the doctors for my daughter and went to Chinese medicine and with acupuncture and herbs, it was like a magicians wand! I'm looking forward to 2014.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Travelling all over the place, the people I have met, getting signed, finishing one of my degrees, becoming a much more open and happier individual and... I would even put rhp and the friends + knowledge I've gained as a result up there. It's been a big year - I hope the next one will grow from it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Highlights 4 weeks travelling and climbing in USA Lots of great family moments with my kids Quite a few things ticked off the bucket list and loved every moment with still plenty more to go (roll around 2014) First meet and greet About to sign papers and keep moving forward with my life Lowlights (not too many) About to sign papers and ex n her man hating occasions making things difficult and trying to bring you down. Big shout out to people who had a shit 2013 - Unrushed, Misskay and others and hoping 2014 is much better

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Looking forward to 2014.... To all the incredible n inspirational ppl who crossed my path or who have stayed - it's been such a pleasure! Here is too new beginnings!!xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Unrushed - How was the place? Amicus - I bet you miss your dog BigMamma - So happy for you & your daughter, try a Chiro too xxx Araps - Thanks my Nova mate, me & big dog thank you x

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    12 years ago

    Has mostly been good. Some travel to new placesSome success in businessWatching the kids developSome new friendsand Starting out on RHP (made some new friends here too) I hope the new year brings wonderful things to those who need a dose of luck. xx Me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The highsAfter a few months of agonizing and soul searching I finally got my shit together and left my husband after being with him for 16 years. Found a job I love and working with great people.Realised I'm stronger than I ever thought.Having some of the best sex of my life The lowsPutting my kids through the pain of separation (but they are ok now)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'looking4quality' The lowsPutting my kids through the pain of separation (but they are ok now) As long as we get that bit right, everything falls into place. I just hope everyone dealing with this is having positive resolutions. This should be everyone's joy de vivre. As hard as it is for all involved, I hope everyone is being very grown up and putting their babies first. Luck and love to all who are struggling xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    with the one man and 18 years of marriage I finally gained the strength and accepted it was going no whereI took on sole custody of my daughters and a mortgage and .....I couldn't be bloody happier!!2013 has become my birth year...I feel like I have been reborn..I learnt to laugh again...and cry again...but I also learnt how to love againAs painful as the journey has been at times ...I wouldnt change a thing :)I met some amazing people that have had a huge influence on me.....and re connected with another who perhaps had the greatest impact on my life for a long time!! I discovered what and who is important to me and cherish them every day :)2013 has been both the saddest and happiest year for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mesmerised' Definitely turning 40. And Paintme's 40th sure was a highlight as well!.Another experience that really stood out was my first DP. There were some tears of utter overwhelmedness (for lack of an actual word) afterwards..My lowlights pale in comparison. I too experienced my first DP

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    12 years ago

    The lows make me appreciate just how sweet the highs are when they come along. Some of my highlights ... Holiday to Europe , amazing, should have done it years ago. Meeting some very special people on here who have made me sane again xx Watching my little girl grow into a confident young woman and completing a very successful first year at uni . God she makes me feel old . Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    She's Gorgeous, She Makes Me Laugh, She Makes me ... I think I make her laugh. I think she enojys having dinner with me. Sadly, I don't think I make her ..... Maybe ..... 2014

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    The ones that, if it can go wrong it will. Only a test to see how we have managed to rely on the friendship we got married for, and how we are in spirits for each other, even the little ones. We had to move house, so we moved further out of town to get closer to work. Then lost two shifts, $300 a week, kept us at home. (more time together) A car crashed, Son on way home with his new P licence, Car at scrappers. Other Car gave back to it's loan. (more time home) Blew head gasket on diesel hilux, Flat tire on crew cab firewood truck, $2000 inverter generator Knocked off. Short winter, less firewood sold, (more time home) Bad condition to dirt road , to work. Lost count of blown tires. And last week another flat on truck. Midnight 5 km down the dirt road Tara myself, our son and little nearly three yr girl, walked with some torches towards home. We had a fucking ball, looking at the stars on an old sandstone platform, that is a reserve for some aboriginal people that lived on it, so long they have worn some spots the size of a small pool, well when it rains it is. Shared some drinks, listened to the kangaroos follow in the bush aside, nearly all the way home. And we all took turns a carrying a tired but too excited girl on our shoulders. So there shows for Some great time in these forums with all you lot, Tara's happy, and our Son has been stuck with us, He is happy. I have a kilo of fresh cooked Hawkesbury Prawns, Tara is not so keen on, though if you all turned up here, we would shoot down the track and grab a few more kilos, look at the rock. Probably grab a couple of house boats and float somewhere in the Colo, tell a few stories, and whatever. It really would have to be one of the greatest years, considering that the old Leo sign keeps taking us to better places. Mado, Tara xx

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    12 years ago

    You guys have a great outlook on the important things in life , cheers - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'him_and_me' I hope the new year brings wonderful things to those who need a dose of luck. xx Me LOL I read that wrong, one letter makes so much difference... but I enjoyed my interpretation too ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lost an uncle who was more like a brother, another family friend terminally ill and health issues with both my parents. On the positive side, I'm back working, my health is improving, I'm losing weight, I've stopped drinking altogether, my daughter is happy, healthy and beautifu, i bought myself my first motorbike since my teensl. The good has been outweighed by loss this year. However, there are positives to look forward into the future so I use those to keep my chin up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We are all awaiting 2014, some as a closure, some looking forward to a new future and some as a continuation. Myself, I am waiting for the adventures of another year, I find that I am growing more as a person at this time. I found, as a lot of others have, that I am stronger than I imagined, that I can still blubber like a babe and roar like a lion, especially when fighting for those I love. A big thanks goes to my new RHP friends, for including me in their lives.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    wingman, It's those few things that are important, like your daughter, at the place she is in with you, successful for her achievements. Proud is a good place for the old man. It's true though they are always dads little girl, the kids grow up fast, but it only feels like yesterday, they were bouncing around and into everything. At least we can get old. More time for sport, fishing being as a top end game. Golf is a stranger sort of game. Played it for a while, started with a 28 handicap and later made it to a 32 in no time, so getting to a 36 handicap, was a good time to quit while I was ahead, it's more frustrating than fishing, and we can't go to lawn bowls, without fishing stories. It wouldn't make for good banter at darts. Thanks again Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    gettn the all clear from the oncologist.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lets start with the good always better I think Attended my first swingers party news years eve.Made some great friends and have a good social life now.Met not the perfect man but perfect for me or so I thought.Travelled overseas for the first time in 22 years.Realised that some of your friends will always stick by you no matter what. The bad now here goes Watched as my dad lost his short but aggressive battle with mesothelioma lung cancer (asbestos)4 weeks later broke up with my man the morning we got back from overseas. Experienced grief truly for the first time Every day trying to live life the best I can.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hasn't a planet been in retrograde forever, or some such thing? Perhaps that explains why everyone's had such a tough time. 2013 has been my coming out year. Coming out of an emotional fog and getting ready to be truly happy again. It's been a year of big decisions and laying the foundation for a different future. Along the way I've met some lovely men who've liked me just as I am, a little screwed-up and all. I've discovered that I have many more friends at work than I thought I did. And I've remembered that I really do prefer a simple, kind, peaceful life. 2014, here I come!!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Quoting Luckdragon "Actually, apart from the sexual exploration, 2013 was a crappy year and it can go fuck itself. Bring on 2014." Must say though my daughters have grown exponentially in the last 12mths and are truly beautiful young Ladies inside and out. Have come to realise love takes all forms, so do triumphs. Have learnt alot more resilience this year and that sometimes bad things can bring good things, it's all in your perspective. Learnt who my real friends are, met some new ones from here as well; and know that I truly AM Mistress of my own destiny. Also have a greater appreciation for those who don't have a home to go to ..... and how greedy some people can be. But I've also seen and been shown random kindness and generosity from the strangest and most unexpected of places. Yes Luckdragon. BRING ON 2014!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' Yes Luckdragon. BRING ON 2014!! I'm sure we'll get 2014 off to a wonderfully debaucherous start in Sydney

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel' gettn the all clear from the oncologist.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    after having my heart broken(i think) and time wasted in a relationship that failed, i was faced with 2 options...either wallow in self pity OR choose happiness. I chose to be happy, so I started doing things to make myself feel better. I joined yoga class, pole dancing, burlesque and signed up at the gym and started swimming more as well. I started eating right and felt good; lost 20kgs in the process. I made so many friends as well. Got a promotion at work, bought myself a new car and bought myself a nice 2 bed unit...... got my Oz citizenship as well. then just recently got head-hunted and got offered an amazing job by a French company based here..... these are all small highs but I'd say overall 2013 has been an amazing year for me. alas...I'm still single and sexually have no highs as yet...but there's still 17 more days to go before the year is over,hehe My motto is "I am convinced that life is 10% of what happens to me and 90% how I react to it"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel' gettn the all clear from the oncologist..... Nothing like it xxx Thanks for reminding me of things to be thankful for, I'd forgotten small mercies. Now that is a Dr chat I don't want to experience again for a very long time. I retract my earlier statement of 2013 sucking cock, I wish to celebrate 'it' and life instead. I dodged a bullet big time. How dare I forget... what a whingeing whining bitch. Very disappointed in myself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Where does one start? Wife and I decided to build a house on some acreage. Start of stressful year. Decided to go off grid. Second bad decision. Got harressed by supplier. Legal action ensued. Lived in a shed while house was built. Another bad decision. Found more people having hassles with supplier. Troubles get worse. Wife told me in July she wanted to separate. Moved to Melbourne in the hope of getting a job. Been out of work for six months. Haven't felt the intimacy of a woman for well over 6 months. Miss my kids, even though they are teenagers! Found out my mum has terminal cancer. I hate 2013.......... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well all I can say is that I hope 2014 will bring you much happiness. Well that is what I'm hoping for myself and others. Quoting 'acdc463' Where does one start? Wife and I decided to build a house on some acreage. Start of stressful year. Decided to go off grid. Second bad decision. Got harressed by supplier. Legal action ensued. Lived in a shed while house was built. Another bad decision. Found more people having hassles with supplier. Troubles get worse. Wife told me in July she wanted to separate. Moved to Melbourne in the hope of getting a job. Been out of work for six months. Haven't felt the intimacy of a woman for well over 6 months. Miss my kids, even though they are teenagers! Found out my mum has terminal cancer. I hate 2013.......... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ms_silk, thankyou. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    quite 'eventful' for everybody, both good and bad, sadly. The good part of it is easy to work with, just ROCK ON!When bad things happen, we need to pick ourselves up and see what went wrong and learn from it. 2013 has been a year of core decisions being made. Long-term relationship ended in Nov '12 and suddenly i found myself alone in a country where i didn't know anybody. I love Australia (WA as i haven't seen the rest of it yet) and i know i want to stay here. It was in April/May that i decided to join RHP and it has been very 'therapeutic'! All beginnings are hard, but this has been a very big step for me, being vanilla and all that but i was willing to see out of the box (or is it getting in the box in this situation? :-P ).My confidence has picked up tremendously, i am back again who i was before (and then some!). I feel secure in my life. I'm not having "tons of sex", but i am comfortable with that. I did achieve some milestones: MFF, MFM, even a fivesome (MMFFF) at one point in time!The people i have met through RHP and especially at the local swingers club have really opened my eyes. The most open friendships that you can imagine; to kiss, flirt, joke, even the more inappropriate jokes and it's all accepted! In the broadest sense, they are much better friends than the vanilla ones! It's just the double life that sometimes makes it awkward and difficult. Out of the sexual realm, i got my life pretty organized, have become fitter than ever before through proper food and exercise. And i'm ready to throw all chips in for the chance to double the winnings (cryptic, but it applies for anything you can think of in life). So, i would just like to say: 2013 has seen me change my life around and i couldn't have done it without RHP and the lovely people i've met on here. A

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bought a house 20 seconds from the beach Promotion to state manager at work Reached my pay level goals from when I was younger Reached my savings goals for the year Quit smoking Got a motorbike license and bought a big cruiser bike Traveled Went to cool events and concerts during the year Made some amazing contacts from RHP whom I meet with on a regular basis and have mind blowing sex All in all, I would say 2013 was a very kind one to me thus far... Knock on wood, the years not done yet!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My highlight is going to happen next week. I will have no teeth for when I need to give h js. I still wear dentures tho. And Ive lost over 10 kilos. Ive never look so good and ivr never felt so great. Despite all this I still cant get s decent guy to fuck me Merry xmas every

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I feel Like I started the year off a happy positive confident person. I did everything differently, left a job I was unhappy in, took a chance and let someone into my heart, studied and made new friends. So why is it that right now I feel worse than I have ever felt. At every hurdle I soldiered on ---------- I usually can see the light through the trees. Ofcourse its xmas and I feel alone....my children dont talk to me I dont see and I havent seen beloved dogs for so long..............theres that alone in your heart and soul that is just so bad right now. I have preached to many of better things over the years but god my head hurts so much right now.

  • Coops27M

    Coops27M

    12 years ago

    2013 has been difficult to say the least but enduring the struggle has been rewarding in ways and i have grown personally from it :) A year of problems snowballing crazily and pushing me all the way down to basically rock bottom as they say :). The so far 3.5 year struggle to continue to pay for the house i built on my means alone had me constantly fighting off repossession and had me struggling to feed myself, whilst at some points spending 90% of my income on mortgage. Met a girl whom i came to adore and lived with for 5 months then without warning in many cruel ways broke my heart. Difficulty working as the industries i've worked in have been quiet and my opportunities and ability to get to work severely reduced from gov. insisting i don't drive. Fighting court cases from aforementioned driving ban's where prison time was most likely but thankfully avoided by some miracle. Two people i was helping out stole car's i had lent them. Retrieved one after much headache. Basically describes 2013 for me personally, though haven't let it get me down, i'm an optimist. Once your at the bottom things can only get better right ;). Ok lets throw some positives in there. Met plenty of great new people resulting in some great new friends. Have been having great sex with great people and have been trying plenty of new things ;). Fisting and fucking a girl anally for first time is an example. Some MFM and FFM fun including DP has been loosely arranged for near future. Have made major ground improving myself physically and mentally Plenty of people out there worse off than i so not complaining. Looking forward to a smoother and more enjoyable 2014 but! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Great sex ! Shit year! Looking forward to getting it over and done with ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Plain280

    Plain280

    12 years ago

    Not really a superstitious person but number 13 year was not a good year all round. Work about to be shoved out the door, not having done anything wrong, ended up with a boss whos a tyrant, in my business I have always chosen my boss and half way through the year my old boss left and now have a guy I cant get on with and we have history.My partner in life, brain cancer and tumors, watching someone slowly deteriorate in front of you in subtle ways as the years progress is bad enough but 2013 has seen the biggest rate of decline yet. The optimist in her says, so long as she can nag, she is happy and so am I, but watching someone in contstant pain and you cant do anything is pretty frustrating, you soak up a lot of anger and frustration from your partner, that is to be expected as she is fighting for her life to be as normal as possible under the circumstances.The positives finally changing my shape through exercise and eating the right food, have not lost weight just some inches here and there around the body.I still have this wonderful Lady friend who understands my predicament, although not seeing each other as much these days for obvious reasons.Finally finding some intelligent loca (Australia)l people in forums where I can express an opinion about things and give back some life experiences that may or may not be of use to people, you are all gems too many to mention here.I sincerely wish you all a Merry Christmas and roll on 2014 for a Happy New Year and I might make it as a wallflower at one of your meet and greets.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And what a year it has been... every year just keeps getting better and better... . My highlights... A special wedding , my 50th birthday (I was totally spoilt) . Re/Gaining confidence. Friends . . It's hard to think of an ourstanding low moment... Friends could feature again I suppose, but only because I don't understand and that makes me sad.