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The ups and downs of erections
March 11 2012
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
I don't go soft after ejaculation unless left alone for a while but if continually stimulated I will stay hard and ready to go again ... but after the first it usually takes about 30mins of sexual activity to make me ejaculate again. I also get hard very quickly and easily, most times just with suggestive text messages being enough to get the pre-cum started. In regards to alcohol affect ... it does not affect my erection but rather delays the time before ejaculation. Probably something about blocking the sensual receptors I think. Sometimes it is a good thing, other times it is a pain, depends on what the lady thinks is the reason for it (never because of her lol). ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mine can keep going after ejaculation and his erection is maintained until after the 2nd. For the 3rd fluffing may be required ;) After that depending on energy levels he can keep going but will less likely cum again.If he has had a lot to drink he will stay erect all night and not cum and still enjoys it.Subsequent orgasms sometimes do not involve ejaculation.Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
As for alcohol affecting him to get an erection (has only happened once or twice in 14 years)..... it would be all day/ all night heavy drinking. It's something I am cautious about as it could be classed as high range "Drink Riding" and be terribly irresponsible!!! ;) I am a bit more mature now I would seek out a designated rider :)Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey guys Never cum more than 3 times in one night, but my orgasm gets more intense every time, usaully takes me a few minutes to get hard again with little help. In fact I sometimes masturbate before so I can last longer the first time. Would love to try for more but will have to wait and find the right woman to try it with.
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Hey Cass, Sounds like your man and I could be twins ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find on a big night i can also ejaculate anything between 5-10 times and within a couple of minutes ill be hard and ready to go again!...I find its an attraction thing and how turned on i am if its someone thats really kinky/horny and i enjoy having sex with them then this will happen....If they arent really turning me on then ill usually just ejaculate once or twice and be over it! lol. Alcohol doesnt effect my hard ons one bit!...Just effects me when ejaculating will stay hard for hours before it happens! this only occurs when im really drunk though lol : P
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RHP User
14 years ago
On the first time, if I cum quickly I don't need a rest and can keep going until the second ejaculation. As for many time in a night 4 ,5 if fine. But me ... its the women who controls this. If she's keen and wanting more 4 or 5 times is easy. However, if she's expecting me to make the effort and keep getting up for more it starts to become a chore. Alcohol makes me last longer and does not necessarily equate to a bigger night. A little is good, and can make the night go well. Too much I've faked it after a few hours.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I Cum coma. Meah, cumming is hard work for me and it takes a lot of energy out of me so I may as well pack up my game and go home shagged. Cup of tea and lie down please.... oh and for fuck sake stop talking. Can't you see I'm delerious? Mind you, sometimes I have rooted ten people to get to that point... sometimes one. That's how it works these days most of the time. Oh... and as for taking Viagra... It takes forever for my erection to subside after cumming, but I can't move anyway, so I suppose I could just starfish if I had to.... but nobody likes a starfish... so get the hell of my dick will you... Can't you see I'm trying to sleep? Hehe Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
The best sex of my life had the guy cumming 8 times in a period of 8 hours (yep, we was completely drained by that last one, damn I miss that boy). He had been drinking too. Anoher friend of mine cums and then it's over, so I guess it's all relative to the fella. Also how new and exciting the shagging is maybe.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Was it always the same for you ? Does lifestyle or age change anything ? Has there ever been a night you have cum many many times? Sorry just curious
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RHP User
14 years ago
myself personally 10 to 12 minutes between capable of 5 or six times a night my remedy for it wilting is to go down on lady instant full hardon alcohol slows things down though
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RHP User
14 years ago
My partner can cum several times in a night but it takes longer to stimulate him between cumming.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Depends entirely on the circumstances really. If the sex is good and there's a serious amount of attraction, it'll keep happening. If not, then no. Obviously energy levels and mood come into it to (not if you're 70% testosterone). Personally, I've noticed over time that I've needed to be more and more attracted to a person to get off with them. It's now reached a point where I need to give myself a little help to get over the line if I'm not really really into to someone. Hence, encounters are becoming fewer and far between. I never thought I'd change in that way...these are the cards I've been dealt
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
I usually stay hard after cumming..actually this is when I'm hardest unless I really try & relax and take my mind off it. But if at a swingers' party once the action starts I can usually stay up, it's the legs that give in first LOL. However ...in a party situation I always hold off on ejaculation until the end of the night.. if I cum at all...and probably most times I don't. It's no big deal, no frustration, no blue balls or any such thing..BTW ladies..blue balls are a myth ..don't be fooled! LOLAll this being said though..every guy at some point has had a bad night where things just don't want to work for whatever reason and the worst thing any woman can do is make an issue out of it, cos to do that is just gonna sound the death toll for any action that night! Women have it easy..if worst comes to worst..just slap on some lube and away you go!!! LOL
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sure... that's a young man's game. It's a testosterone thing. From the age of around 30 our T counts slowly start to diminish to the point where by the time men are my age our T count is normally around 505 of what it once was. Of course, this impacts men in other ways.. it is now more difficult for me to put on muscle mass and much easier for me to get fatter, for instance. I get tired quicker... I am more cranky. My T count is not low for a man my age.. it's just a normal aging process. When I was younger I was also far more sensitive downstairs... so that means it was easier to climax. The loss of sensitivity is also a product of aging... which is accelerated by the fact that I am circumcised. Also, I dont know if here is anything in this... but you know how guys can get so used to porn that it's more difficult for them to get off... well... I'm very sexually experienced and sexually active.. my number must be in the thousands I guess, so my tastes in what really gets me off has become quite specific... and sometimes I find myself hunting around for just that thing to get off. Next! hehe. Incidently, viagra helps a man maintain an erection, but doesn't help him ejaculate, apart from the obvious benefit of being hard... On the question of T count... of course, there are supplements.. I find these raise the T levels but level out... and there is testosterone therapy by patches and so on.. these increase your risk of prostate cancer, which of course, if you get that, your sex life is pretty much guaranteed to come to an end... so I'm staying healthy as I can.. and aging as gracefully as possible. :))Anyway.... they're my thoughts.HugsStalky Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' Was it always the same for you ? Does lifestyle or age change anything ? Has there ever been a night you have cum many many times? Sorry just curious
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RHP User
14 years ago
I should add that Viagra not only helps old dudes obtain and sustain an erection, it enables a guy to repeat his performance... I mean... get hard again after he ejaculates. This is a product of improved vascular dilation in the presence of sexual stimulation. Cialis basically lasts all weekend... so even an old dude can get hard, cum, and get hard again... over and over... all weekend... or until the skin rubs off it. Just saying... although my previous advice that such chemicals do not help a guy reach a climax... that depends on other facts I guess.HUgsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
About 3 or 4 times would be my limit with about 15-20 min intervals between erections. But as said previously in the thread, it all depends who you are with. I have also found that sensitivity usually reduces after every orgasm and therefore it takes longer to cum again. Personally I prefer to have a longer session than cum multiple times as i find this builds the intensity of the orgasm to come. ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi all, My own experiences as follows: Arousal is a BIG factor in staying hard longer. It doesn't surprise me in the least DeliciousCplBris (Nice quote on Def Leppard by the way!!!) that hubby can come several times in a night. I had a very similar time with my ex, night after night of endless sessions of lovemaking and good hard sex. Another factor would be the level of certain chemicals in a womans "wetness". Some ladies excrete a lot more of the natural inhibitor that occurs when both he and she orgasm in a similar timeframe. As for alcohol. I had a bad experience, once and once only when i was with my wife and another woman. We had drunk quite a bit of red wine, and i simply could NOT get an erection. To my fortune though, we did try again the followong weekend, and this time i limited myself to only 2 glasses. With successful results. Since then, i will not tempt fate by consuming too much alcohol. I become far too relaxed and my pulse drops to roughly 45 bpm...probably explained that. Currently, I tend to favour my ex in Qld for sex. We can go all night, with or without "cumming" x Hope this assists in whatever way you need it to. Enzo
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd say i'm in the 5-15 minute group depending on who i'm with, but I find that i'm spending more time having sex now days rather than the rush to get to the end result when I was younger. Guess i'm over the shock that i'm actually having sex and just enjoy taking my time now.
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RHP User
14 years ago
However, the days are long gone when I could keep it up for four or five hours. Made for good memories though and that's something us dirty old men thrive on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I must be bad once i have cum thats pretty much it for me lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I'm really turned on, ejaculating 4 - 5 times in one sitting isn't unusual and it takes between 10 - 15 minutes for me to get erect again. I normally spend that time giving or receiving oral sex. On an average night with a long-term steady partner, ejaculating 2 - 3 times isn't unsual.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Aussie_beef'About 3 or 4 times would be my limit with about 15-20 min intervals between erections. But as said previously in the thread, it all depends who you are with. I have also found that sensitivity usually reduces after every orgasm and therefore it takes longer to cum again. Personally I prefer to have a longer session than cum multiple times as i find this builds the intensity of the orgasm to come. ;) ..... the wait is WELL worth it ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not entirely sure there is a norm.Personally, I need some time to 'regenerate', but certainly not hours, and can 'go to the well' multiple times in a night. Thankfully I love giving oral so those down times for me need not be down times for her also. :)Turning it round, I've encountered women who once they cum need less than 5 seconds before they're good to go, but I've also been with those who can't be touched for quite some time.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well that sound just fabulous and good for you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
These three things seem to matter. I found gradually the time between ejaculating and getting hard again has gone up to about an hour - it used to be as little as few minutes in my 20s ;-) But I can go all night with 4 or 5 ejaculations (and climaxing up to twice as many times) if I have a willing partner... The testosterone is dictated by the amount of attraction/foreplay/buildup to your playtime. The blood pressure is important also - but I play a few sports actively and have plenty of stamina so that's helping (Viagra could cover this part but if you have any heart condition or anything remotely troubling with it be VERY careful as these pills really work). The truth is your biggest sex organ is between your ears - if you are stimulated you'll get hard, climax and ejaculate, if not then nothing will work...Alcohol is not stimulant but for me it's hard to say if it has an effect as I drink very little and seldom.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was with my fuck bud at the time and best I did was cum 8 times in a night. Had had a few drinks too lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
So no one here can one cum once ? Or are they just not speaking out ? :) Thanks stalky for your response to my question very enlightening
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RHP User
14 years ago
You go into a cum coma too huh? I am most vulnerable at that point in time! My wife knows this and asks me questions I would ordinarily never answer but she knows my delerious mind is wandering off to la la land. Damn it! She takes advantage of the situation and it's like I've taken a truth syrum! Hehe. Talk about cunning! It doesn't help when she's dressed as a nun either just quietly. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would say some are plain liars and others just won't say as they perceive it as being a negative in the sales department...lol. I am very happy with the one shot if the situation calls for it. Lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Generally speaking, it's once then goodnight.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'newbrissypair' I must be bad once i have cum thats pretty much it for me lol I think this is more 'standard' than not...well that's my experience anyway!The most Mr has managed was three times in a night and that was when we were in our twenties...frankly, I prefer it this way...
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is one of those trick questions like how much guys really do enjoy giving oral and do so for hours and hours isnt it? If you can all go on like this and cum more than the once....... . . THEN WHY THE BLOODY HELL DONT YOU?????..In all my life and all my experience I have met two men who can do what you are all claiming to do. Only two. Telling little porkies will not make you any more popular you know guys.
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RHP User
14 years ago
One thing nobody has mentioned.... Once I cum, I don't really feel like having more sex... hehe. I mean .... I'm sure I'm not the only person who thinks that way. :) I'm quite happy watching someone else going at it at that point. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well lucky you have bonked 10 people by that point hey Stalkers :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
are people mistaking orgasm with ejaculation? males can orgasm repeatedly, while only experiencing one ejaculation. being able to orgasm repeatedly is no real trick, its actually something the vast majority of men are able to do, if they only took the time to learn about and understand their own bodies. there are though, physical limitations to how frequently we are able to ejaculate.
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