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November 10 2022
What do ladies want to see in well created profile regarding photos and description? What would grab your attention and motivate you to click Like?
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PlayfulPerv
a year ago
...which ladies?
Ex007
a year ago
Accuracy always helps, current pics are good, not those from 20yrs ago. Otherwise, be yourself, know what you’re looking for and have standards you maintain.
Flirty2020
a year ago
The problem with a forum post / question like this, is that it’s aiming to tell us women exactly what we want to hear, with the hopes that it will enable you to succeed at getting us into bed.
This could mean that you don’t write truthful things on your profile, that really apply to you, but instead simply write things that we like to see. For example if we did not like smokers, and you were told this, you might put “non smoker “ on your profile.
I can tell you what we don’t like to see : penis photos & an entitled attitude and also those lazy templates “ I am a sexual animal and can’t get enough sex” , “let’s be honest my main aim is sex , lots of sex “
My advice. Be honest about yourself .RHP User
a year ago
I hear dick picks go down REALLY WELL.
Sarcasm aside, just be yourself in your profile and not what anyone tells you to be. Just make sure of spelling and grammar as those things will not go unnoticed.
Kokoflamingo
a year ago
A glimpse of who you are, a bit of effort without the crudeness and photos.
Im in the process of uploading new pics, but to be honest, photos are really important when I view profiles.
teamaj2
a year ago
Everyone seeks something different from a profile .
We prefer , honesty , transparency, a profile that gives us an insight into the person writing it , a profile that is clear in what they seek. Just be yourself and like will find like . Writing a profile that’s not a true representation of yourself in the hope it’s what women want to read is a recipe for disaster . The truth quickly reveals itself . No one wants to put in time and effort for no reason .
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FeistyFatty
a year ago
I personally think your profile is fine👍.
MsSuperFoxy
a year ago
Very Rarely do I press the "like" on profiles.
When I look at a profile, read it and look at the photos, it's my intuition and gut that tells me, yay or nay.
Even with a well written profile and effort put in, my intuition will may not like it. It just depends.
YOU do YOU, OP. No amount of feedback can tell you how to write up your own profile. It's individually based and yours, yours alone.
Ms FoxyRHP User
a year ago
Over the years on here I've learnt that too much honesty brings unwanted attention.
Example: I don't list I'm bisexual anymore. As it tends to just bring forth people with a specific need for a extra lady just as a fuck toy.
nightingale8
a year ago
The ‘ultimate’ profile doesn’t depict a real person, it’s just an advertisement and few people like false ones. Sure, selling shonky models works for some and those people don’t have a problem with deceit and even feel righteous in doing so. This is part of why I don’t like to give up that kind of advice publicly. On the flip side there are those gems who just can’t piece a decent profile together to save their lives. The checklist?
Respect, sexiness (with current pics lol), interest, confidence in what you want. In that order.Flirty2020
a year ago
Here is a classic red flag profile wording, copied word for word :
“ Looking for the right preys ,,,, I do what’s take to make you mine … very dominant man, BBC for her”RHP User
a year ago
I love sexy seductive pics. Out of the shower, wet with a towel around the waist. On a bed but not fully naked. Thing is a dick pic is not going to do it when you see them in free porn. Some like it but I don’t. I love to be teased with just a glimpse
Rising_Phoenix
a year ago
There isn’t one, desires can change frequently and not everybody wants the same things from you or for you, so there’s no ultimate profile that’s going to please everyone, it may not even please the same person two days in a row, lol.
Obi1kenietzsche
a year ago
Profiles are interesting things.
I recall trying an exercise years ago where I used the “advanced search”function to meticulously select every single little detail in respect to what thought I wanted in a woman. Right down to eye colour!
Seemed that there were 4 women in the whole of Australia that fitted that particular description.
I’m pretty sure that 3 were fake and the other 4th blocked me within minutes after reading my opening message.Obi1kenietzsche
a year ago
This is not for anyone in particular of course, just some observations based on my time and experience here.
Yes. There are many things that “could” be done in respect to profiles that “might” lead to a more enjoyable experience for all parties on this site.
Yes. It’s a fact that guys do get frustrated over fake profiles, but so do women, and couples (just ask them!).
Perhaps mandatory verification on all sides could help (along with things such as requiring more than just one photo, and removing the luxury of selecting the generic profile wording feature), but if one expects women to have to do ANYTHING to facilitate the increased enjoyment level of men on here, one will be very disappointed.
Why?
Because they simply do not have to.
And really, why should they?
I’m not being disrespectful in any way here but let’s be real about this....
This is a site where, given the disproportionate ratio of men to women, men MUST take the initiative in most cases. And by initiative I mean be pro-active and engage.
One can put up photos and tweet one’s profile wording all one likes, but if you don’t actively engage, one will simply become lost in the background noise.
And if one thinks “engaging” consists of banal one-line messages, accumulating long lists of “friends”, and sending a plethora of “likes” to all and sundry (along with your cock), then one is ALSO likely to be disenchanted.
Profiles are, in essence, window dressing pics with some text attached, but they are also the very first qualifying step in a process of elimination.
(And yes... fact.. it’s an ELIMINATION process!)
Write what you want, be truthful, lie outrageously, be funny, be hard core, be open, be suggestive... change it every week if you wish ... whatever suits your fancy, it’s your profile after all.
But also realise that more often than not it’s not one’s profile that is the root-cause of men’s oft expressed frustration... it’s their pre-conceived expectations concerning the responses to their efforts (or lack thereof).
Therefore engage, but do it properly.
But be fucking realistic in who you try to engage with, use some common sense and intuition regarding the profiles that you find attractive. Look beyond the pics, READ the damn things, forget about the obvious fakes, discount the time wasters and “fans only” types, and then engage in a manner that represents the essence of you.
And once you have done all that, don’t get the shits when you get a “no thanks” (or absolutely nothing at all) in return, for despite all your efforts, this is also just part of the experience.
In summation:
“What’s wrong with my profile” in many instances is simply more a case of “what’s wrong with my expectations”
Adjust accordingly and you might be amazed at the outcome.
Obi1RHP User
a year ago
Well I see this as a double edge sword, profiles well both women and couples and men's profiles are misleading , we had someone and she was nothing like her profile, I see a profile as who you are, if you put age ranges or you say you do XYZ then do it, pictures that have been altered to smooth out wrinkles or what ever to give the youthful looks is rubbish, with your profile be you exactly who you are, what your looking for and truthful......and if you put all sorts of kinks in or you say you are Bi be that , there are also to many sites that have fake profiles it's crazy, this is a big industry let's keep it fun truthful and have fun as ultimately we are wanting as much sex as we can get.
RHP User
a year ago
Ahhh the age old dick pick photo, well ladies this goes both ways, there are ladies that put up pussy photos so what's the difference then to a bloke putting up a dick pick ....... No different so just enjoy what comes through it goes both ways
RHP User
a year ago
I can only comment on what I look for personally when looking at a profile, and I look to see information about the person, the less filled in on the profile, I will not bother with, and I also look at photos, I don’t like when u can’t put a face to the person I am talking to and makes me feel like they have more to hide then just their face.
Rayfit
a year ago
Stay chill and they’re coming to u!
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