M54
The travelling man...
July 23 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
When a travelling man says hes is town, come grab my penis........I automatically assume he is married and being a bad boy out of the reach and ears of his missus ......... but maybe im too judgemental ... prior notice might help his cause........but then im not looking for a hook up so my interest might be all skewiff ps...luvin my emoticons
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well it annoys me intensely, but i can't speak for others. I prefer to meet someone in my home town and not just be the "Sydney" girl.
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wannabyummymummy
15 years ago
It is definitely the ones that send the 'I'm here NOW come get me' type messages that i take offense to they tend to assume that because i am genuine about meeting that i am 'easy' and don't have a life outside of RHP, they DO NOT get a positive response and for sure they don't get to meeting.I think if you are genuine in what you are saying about just wanting some company and if things go well a bit of fun then for sure send some messages out there, but don't just send a template message, be specific about what you are wanting and what you like about the profile of the person you are messaging take the time to message/chat a bit before you hit town and don't be put off if you get some 'no shows' ( I hear it happens lol).You may get the odd abusive response but most likely you will just get no reply from those that are not interested just dont take them personally and move on, those things happen under normally circumstances here lolBest of luck with it and i hope you find some company for your travels.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think it depends on 'the travelling man's ' approach to someone. If someone makes no effort and just messages you for a hook up, then I would pass......but thats just me, Im not desperate for one! But if someone makes a genuine effort to get to know you a little first, then thats fine....who knows you may make a new great regular friend when they come to town. From what I can see WantPeakExp, you dont come across as tactless and appear to have standards so i imagine you may find yourself successful with your approach. It wouldn't bother me if I was approached from a 'travelling man' but would prefer it if they were happy for a bit of socialising too to make it a little more fun. Goodluck.....I'm interested to see how things work out for you.....keep us informed! xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
call it as it is . Hello sassy .. Im in your town .. Id love to catch up .. have a great conversation .. dinner..yeah Im sure a woman such as you knows exactly how it is in a town on your own .. I dont expect anything else but some great female company... in fact any company that stimultes my mind. Let me know if you are interested. blahblah However on the night .. we connect we ignite ... mm who knows... just be real about what you really want I think we all know sex comes from making a connection ... well that is from a womans perspective
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am not in any hurry to have sex with just anyone but if someone wants to meet for a coffee or a drink with the aim of getting to know something about me and share something about them, apart from the fact they are horny and looking to hook up, then I am up for that. I am also happy to introduce people to Hobart's night life, which there is plenty of at the moment cos the comedy festival is on. If, on the other hand, you assume because I've agreed to meet I am going to have sex with you, I'd prefer it if you didn't waste my time. And if you are attached or married, I'm definitely not interested. Good luck on your travels. WTG
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have enough people here in Sydney to meet without meeting pple from interstate so basically i prefer to stick with the regulars sorry
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks all, GREAT replies and I'm glad to get so many different points of view!I want to comment on your comments though so here goes:missbowpeek: ABSOLUTELY! I agree that the chances of it being a guy using the time to play behind his wife's back is a definite possibility! I don't think you're being judgmental, I think that's a firm reality :) And I like your emoticons too LOLsquirtalicious and desserts: Yes, I can understand your point of view, there are enough locals without an interstater one-off trying his luck :)wannabyummymummy: Yes, I see the annoyance with the sudden messages, which is why I wouldn't do that, I think its crass and desperate :) I'm neither of those and I'd hate to appear that way! LOLSorcy1, sassyme and WildTassie: Thanks for your input. My attitude is definitely company first, no expectations :-) It sucks alone in hotels, the idea of meeting someone from here is far more palatable! LOL And only for a chat and drinks is fine by me! I totally agree that sex comes from making a connection so any expectations is kinda foolish LOLThank you all for your responses! I think I'll send out some messages in the next few days and see how I go :-) Interesting that no guys responded to this thread! LOLWP
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RHP User
15 years ago
Being one who travels a lot myself, when I first got onto RHP - I too would email ladies interstate seeking for some company when I was travelling - I was not neccessarrily interested in play every time, just someone to share a meal with and a drink and some good chat that would not talk to me about work all evening... if I wanted to talk about work all evening then I'd go to dinner with my freaking client :-). I found the lack of response from the ladies somewhat frustrating, so I just gave up. I sought instead to make friends with a few people that I conversed with in the forums and found a much better result. I've had some yummy dinners with gals and couples that I've met through the forums and some really great conversation. And yes dare I say it, the occassional bit of play as well. If you are travelling on a fairly frequent basis, it certainly makes for some great company and it is possible to have fun at the same time - it's all about how you engage with them to start with. Wayne
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'squirtalicious'I have enough people here in Sydney to meet without meeting pple from interstate so basically i prefer to stick with the regulars sorry You've not even met me yet... sheesh - I must be way down on the list somewhere there ;-) hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
it all depends how you write the message....iv had plenty of fella's message from out of town and say they are coming for work or play....yes i have met some and yes i have said no to some...it all depends what they said and how they said it Wayne.... why have i never got a message to say your coming to town???.... xxRxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Good information to have. I agree about chatting to people from forums, I think the more "real" people from RHP are the ones who are willing to take the time to express their opinions in here. And more likely to want to chat too! Like you I'm interested in that primarily, anything else is a bonus. :)So who wants dinner and a conversation? LOLI'm going to send out some emails, I've taken on the advice on here and I'll put on my thick skin to deal with those offended by the concept :)Thanks all!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068' Being one who travels a lot myself, when I first got onto RHP - I too would email ladies interstate seeking for some company when I was travelling - I was not neccessarrily interested in play every time, just someone to share a meal with and a drink and some good chat that would not talk to me about work all evening... if I wanted to talk about work all evening then I'd go to dinner with my freaking client :-). I found the lack of response from the ladies somewhat frustrating, so I just gave up. I sought instead to make friends with a few people that I conversed with in the forums and found a much better result. I've had some yummy dinners with gals and couples that I've met through the forums and some really great conversation. And yes dare I say it, the occassional bit of play as well. If you are travelling on a fairly frequent basis, it certainly makes for some great company and it is possible to have fun at the same time - it's all about how you engage with them to start with. Wayne For you to come to Perth...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi, I know we appreciate the chat first online when meeting new people. Have had a few travelling gents email us wanting to meet. We have an understanding that we chat first and see if we click. Don't want to waste time if you cannot even have a conversation. Dinner and drinks is always good and play is just an added benefit. Think if you approach it that way you would have more luck. Good luck and happy travels MRS SRFUN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Prefer men in "my own backyard" so to speak. Sweet
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RHP User
15 years ago
I lead a blessed life I travel alot nice hotels , fancy cars , everything arranged for me buuuuuuuut its kinda nice to meet some interesting people along the way ! I often look for people to meet on my travels not merely to "fuck" but often to chat to, have dinner ,a coffee with etc etc I genuinely like meeting people and I would say I often come away feeling that it is the other people I meet who come to dinner thinking we will play and often go away disappointed ........ not always but yes they do ! Yes yes I get the odd go away or no response thats life. Move on ! So yes people do meet and yes it can be both interesting and fun. Brae I am off to Adelaide this week ...... Dinner anyone ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think it's a great idea. Shame to waste a night in a lovely hotel all alone. I would love to meet up ,but would like to chat prior, to get to know each other a bit first.Then when you arrive in town meet for coffee and if we like what we see then continue on with dinner and see where it goes from there.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' it all depends how you write the message....iv had plenty of fella's message from out of town and say they are coming for work or play....yes i have met some and yes i have said no to some...it all depends what they said and how they said it Wayne.... why have i never got a message to say your coming to town???.... xxRxx I've not been to your neck of the woods on business before.. oh well hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'lilmissflirty75' Quoting 'niceguy0068' Being one who travels a lot myself, when I first got onto RHP - I too would email ladies interstate seeking for some company when I was travelling - I was not neccessarrily interested in play every time, just someone to share a meal with and a drink and some good chat that would not talk to me about work all evening... if I wanted to talk about work all evening then I'd go to dinner with my freaking client :-). I found the lack of response from the ladies somewhat frustrating, so I just gave up. I sought instead to make friends with a few people that I conversed with in the forums and found a much better result. I've had some yummy dinners with gals and couples that I've met through the forums and some really great conversation. And yes dare I say it, the occassional bit of play as well. If you are travelling on a fairly frequent basis, it certainly makes for some great company and it is possible to have fun at the same time - it's all about how you engage with them to start with. Wayne For you to come to Perth... I'll let you know MissFlirty ;-) hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'WantPeakExp'Good information to have. I agree about chatting to people from forums, I think the more "real" people from RHP are the ones who are willing to take the time to express their opinions in here. And more likely to want to chat too! Like you I'm interested in that primarily, anything else is a bonus. :)So who wants dinner and a conversation? LOLI'm going to send out some emails, I've taken on the advice on here and I'll put on my thick skin to deal with those offended by the concept :)Thanks all! Hope it helps mate - there are some incredible people here from all walks of life - and it's bloody great fun to get out there and meet them. As i said - the occassional bit of play is lots of fun too and can make an upcoming trip all that more exciting and fun. Take care Wayne
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'braedom' I lead a blessed life I travel alot nice hotels , fancy cars , everything arranged for me buuuuuuuut its kinda nice to meet some interesting people along the way ! I often look for people to meet on my travels not merely to "fuck" but often to chat to, have dinner ,a coffee with etc etc I genuinely like meeting people and I would say I often come away feeling that it is the other people I meet who come to dinner thinking we will play and often go away disappointed ........ not always but yes they do ! Yes yes I get the odd go away or no response thats life. Move on ! So yes people do meet and yes it can be both interesting and fun. Brae I am off to Adelaide this week ...... Dinner anyone ? You keep away from my Adelaide friends there Brae - they is my buddies ;-) Wayne PS - you owe me a coffee...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Intelligent men go far with me ... :) so if any of you visit my state.. I wont promise anything but fun company and a stimulating conversation ... beats eating on your own Id say .. and .. hey ... who knows :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I too am a travelling man and actually send more time on the road, in the air and at motels than at home. I agree with niceguy0068, you work all day and want to talk about something other than work. I do have to have dinner with clients but it would be nice to share a meal and conversation with someone different and play if all are happy or meet someone regularly in the places I travel. I have been lucky enough to meet a couple of people and have some great fun.
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RHP User
15 years ago
...for the different points of view. I'm sending out a few messages now and they will be along the lines of what sassyme and others here have suggested. It will be interesting to see the kind of responses I get! Thanks again all :-) WP
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sassyme' Intelligent men go far with me ... :) so if any of you visit my state.. I wont promise anything but fun company and a stimulating conversation ... beats eating on your own Id say .. and .. hey ... who knows :) Add Sassyme to the top of the list... ;-) hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Last time I was in Sydney (for the Top Gear Live show) I found myself alone and bored at 2am in my hotel room as my mates had passed out so I thought I'd check out RHP from a Sydney-siders point of view. (I have to say I was pleasantly surprised to find so many people still online at that time of morning compared to sleepy old Perth) So I figured why not send some messages to the people that were still awake and see if anyone local wants to show me around or at least could suggest some places to go and see? Well I sent about 15 messages and to cut a long story short I ended up hearing from 9 women and meeting up with 3 over the course of the weekend. I ended up seeing so much more of Sydney than I ever knew even existed and still to this day keep in contact with the lovely ladies who so graciously took some time out of their lives to show a random stranger around. The one thing they all said was that it was a nice change to receive a message from someone (local or otherwise) that didn't mention sex or the expectation of sex.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'TassieRose' it all depends how you write the message....iv had plenty of fella's message from out of town and say they are coming for work or play....yes i have met some and yes i have said no to some...it all depends what they said and how they said it Wayne.... why have i never got a message to say your coming to town???.... xxRxx I've not been to your neck of the woods on business before.. oh well hugs Wayne x well your loss...oh well xxRxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'TassieRose' it all depends how you write the message....iv had plenty of fella's message from out of town and say they are coming for work or play....yes i have met some and yes i have said no to some...it all depends what they said and how they said it Wayne.... why have i never got a message to say your coming to town???.... xxRxx I've not been to your neck of the woods on business before.. oh well hugs Wayne x well your loss...oh well xxRxx But wiBut But will make up for it when I meet you at Sydney drinks this week. hugs Wayne xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
love to meet you msdelish
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