playful4u

playful4u

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The touch up terminology

January 24 2013

What term is used (or the colloquialism) when someone rubs or brushes themselves against you?   We have just been discussing what had happened to Mr P this afternoon when he went for a normal massage. He was lying face down on the massage table with his arms by his side and palms open facing upwards, when the male masseur leaned over him to reach for the opposite shoulder and somehow managed to place his package into Mr P's open hand.   On another occassion some years ago Mr P was walking out of a very crowded auditorium through to the exit when a man pressed his erection against him from behind as the crowd pushed their way out of the door.   So is there a name for such an act? ....and why does he get all the attention!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Used to be a term to describe the act of brushing up against a stranger for sexual gratification...but I'm sure there are other more modern terms now...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    He's not homophobic and believes in equal rights for all, but he would be like most men "WTF???"   I've never heard the term Caitsidhe, off to google...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    on a crowded Melbourne tram,commuters engaging in frotting

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Funny how us blokes get flustered by unsolicited overtures, yet for some (many?) women it's a daily occurrence. Ms Playful, maybe you've got an untouchable air, it just unlucky ;) Thanks for enlightening me on the term.... "sorry, ma'am, for frotting you so blatantly ".- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If I ever get to Melbourne I think I will stick to driving! I used to work with an older gent who was a sleaze...used to grab his former collegues from behind and cuddle / rub up against them...one of the other older ladies called him "a dirty old Frotter"...Thank god for sexuall harrassment laws these days! Quoting 'Freya13'on a crowded Melbourne tram,commuters engaging in frotting

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I was on a completely empty tram one afternoon. A guy jumps on and proceeds to sit on my seat - in a completely empty tram. I'm thinking to myself 'the whole fucking tram is empty and you want to sit here????'. he proceeds to sit there with his legs wide apart so his leg is touching mine. I move my leg slightly so we are not touching (thinking to myself 'this guy is some creepy frottage freak'). He then moves his leg even further again so it rubs up against mine. This went on for 10 minutes and in the end, as I was not in the mood to be felt up by some freaky guy in a tram, I got off at the next stop and waited for the next tram.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... don't know of a name Mrs Playful but I just had a quick nifty of your profile pics and can understand why this might be happening ;-) Used to be a regular occurrence on Sydney trains. I remember a woman announcing (rather loudly) to a crowded carriage: "do that again and you'll get this knitting needle up ya!" :-) KK xx

  • Wild_Pagan_Love

    Wild_Pagan_Love

    13 years ago

    Whilst very low, predatory and disgusting when perpetrated towards women, gotta admit I love copping the ol ass grab in a crowded bar ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I had an incident a few weeks ago going up the escalator from perth underground station. I was walking up the escalator, arms flailing about awkwardly as is my style. A very hot looking girl ran up the escalator besides me, but as I was listening to music at the time I didn't hear or see her coming. Whack!! I managed to somehow hit her straight in the vajayjay. She turned her head and had a good laugh as I stammered an apology. a couple minutes later I got on the train and there she was again, we had a really good laugh about it and she handed me her phone number before I got off and said the least I could do is shout her to a coffee for the pain caused.. Damnit never did get to see her again as I lost her number somehow :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If that was me, it's very likely landing on his arse would be definitely be a option.. Not that I'm homophobic , I couldnt give a shit what a persons persuasion might be.. but not for me.... Equal respect as they say...Dont mind the occassional boob rubbing up against me specially when accompanied with a cheeky smile... but thats different..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ....freebie?

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    Frottage and Frotting, well thank you, that is the new word of the day for me:)   Saskia I googled "Caitsidhe" but could not find it, do I have the correct spelling?   Yes, I guess it would freak some guys out and may shock some, others are more lay back I guess and think "Oh really?".   I am sure most people are offended where others may enjoy. We do not commute by public transport, so I would imagine that would have the greater occurrence.   Thanks for the feedback so far

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can't seem to stop laughing to make an honest thought lmao but I'd say deliberate lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am a masseuse and have accidently brushed my boobs up against my clients as I massage them...male or female! Believe me it is embarrassing for us too!!! But what can I do? I am a GG cup after all and I can't strap them behind my back!! I have also had the odd palm brush against my pussy when I go to move around the table! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think Saskia meant she was going to google "Frotting" My name does not mean I am a Frotter lmao...It is a name my grandfather used to call me... Quoting 'playful4u' Frottage and Frotting, well thank you, that is the new word of the day for me:)   Saskia I googled "Caitsidhe" but could not find it, do I have the correct spelling?   Yes, I guess it would freak some guys out and may shock some, others are more lay back I guess and think "Oh really?".   I am sure most people are offended where others may enjoy. We do not commute by public transport, so I would imagine that would have the greater occurrence.   Thanks for the feedback so far

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    Thankyou KK Quoting 'keepingkarma'... don't know of a name Mrs Playful but I just had a quick nifty of your profile pics and can understand why this might be happening ;-) Used to be a regular occurrence on Sydney trains. I remember a woman announcing (rather loudly) to a crowded carriage: "do that again and you'll get this knitting needle up ya!" :-) KK xx

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    Thankyou for the cool story HDD, shame it did not have a happy ending Quoting 'Hotdiggettydamn'I had an incident a few weeks ago going up the escalator from perth underground station. I was walking up the escalator, arms flailing about awkwardly as is my style. A very hot looking girl ran up the escalator besides me, but as I was listening to music at the time I didn't hear or see her coming. Whack!! I managed to somehow hit her straight in the vajayjay. She turned her head and had a good laugh as I stammered an apology. a couple minutes later I got on the train and there she was again, we had a really good laugh about it and she handed me her phone number before I got off and said the least I could do is shout her to a coffee for the pain caused.. Damnit never did get to see her again as I lost her number somehow :(

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    Oh Funloving, would you please be my new masseuse? Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I am a masseuse and have accidently brushed my boobs up against my clients as I massage them...male or female! Believe me it is embarrassing for us too!!! But what can I do? I am a GG cup after all and I can't strap them behind my back!! I have also had the odd palm brush against my pussy when I go to move around the table! xFunlovingx

  • playful4u

    playful4u

    13 years ago

    Yes, silly me Quoting 'caitsidhe312' I think Saskia meant she was going to google "Frotting" My name does not mean I am a Frotter lmao...It is a name my grandfather used to call me... Quoting 'playful4u' Frottage and Frotting, well thank you, that is the new word of the day for me:)   Saskia I googled "Caitsidhe" but could not find it, do I have the correct spelling?   Yes, I guess it would freak some guys out and may shock some, others are more lay back I guess and think "Oh really?".   I am sure most people are offended where others may enjoy. We do not commute by public transport, so I would imagine that would have the greater occurrence.   Thanks for the feedback so far

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' on a crowded Melbourne tram,commuters engaging in frotting hi freya If this friend, let's say often was frotting, say in the kmart ladies area. Could that friend be called a frottalot, or a frottingfrottalotMado xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    He sounds like a frotting pest,frottalotting amongst the frocks and frocked.