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The thrill of the chase.
April 08 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not a guy but that is exactly what I do. Get too close or comfortable and I'm gone. Would love to meet the "One" who doesnt make me want to run away but until then...... I'll keep chasing and running. xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
So ticklish - is it one of those things? You want what you can't have, and then once you've got it you don't want it anymore? I have thought about it and I also do it too in a way. I spend all my time trying to "catch" a boy and often once I have caught him I loose interest. Well only if the sex was so-so. Of course if the sex is great I want to see them again & again. Is the chase more thrilling then the catch? xx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
So, my friend, who no doubt will be reading this (join already why don't you?) I think . "Treat them mean and keep them keen" . ... Meeka oUo
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nup I just want Mr Wonderful and unfortuneatly (jeez I cant spell that bloody word) he just keeps changing in my mind. But Even with a FB if it gets too comfotable it's bye bye. I guess that sometimes our scars are deeper than we thought. Then we get frightened and run away. Life is just so bloody confusing sometimes. xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
when a man wants me (no matter how wonderful he is) and starts getting to close i pull away and dont want them when i have to chase and they dont want me, it makes me want them all the more. human nature is so annoying sometimes!! xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
well, some men were collectors. They probably collected bonkers when they were young.. and you know.. once a bonker... etc. Personally, I don't think there's a scrap of difference between the sexes in that respect. For example, I can readily say the same thing about women.... vis vis.... Women like to have a string of men on a leash because it makes them feel sexy and good about themselves.I also think that people who have had a relationship go sour tend to be a bit ... phobic.... about entering into a new long term relationship. It's safe to be single.... it's more difficult for someone to reach down your throat and rip your heart out, piss on it and kick it around the back yard like you just don't matter.... well, for example... hehe.So... that's life. I guess, as always, all you can do is chill. Imagine a room full of people, naked people, chilled.... I'm imagining that right now... but then, of course, it is Friday night.... and there's two hours to go before buck naked night starts. I haven't got any plans because I'm chilled... but a person can be a bit lucky and be in the right place at the right time. :plolz...HUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
lolz... The old catch and release? hehehe... sharking for a root... oh lord... all the fish metaphores.. it's enough to make a man horny! :pHugsSt Quoting 'xxticklishxx' Nup I just want Mr Wonderful and unfortuneatly (jeez I cant spell that bloody word) he just keeps changing in my mind. But Even with a FB if it gets too comfotable it's bye bye. I guess that sometimes our scars are deeper than we thought. Then we get frightened and run away. Life is just so bloody confusing sometimes. xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
not in Canberra. The lake is full of algae, so probably get some nasty germs. A lot like the pubs and clubs. But I dont mind skewering a worm onto the hook :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thats why I love the internet. This is what I look like This is what I like This is what I want Interested? Lets meet. Compare that to "the real world" This is what I look like with clothes on This is what I think you want to hear This is what I think you want Interested? Good, now i'll pretend im not so I dont scare you off. Lets meet after I have waited the mandatory 3 days and played a few more subtle mind games. My recent experiences have taught me im too honest for "the chase". No matter how much people say they want honesty, they dont. No matter how much they tell you they dont like head games, every minute is a game. Then again, maybe thats just townsville. God I cant wait to be back in NSW.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think in part it's thrill of the chase.. As at the start everything is knew, unknown, intriguing of sorts. But as it progresses, as you find out more, or spend more time with a person, you get to know them, and half the time realise they aren't really what you're looking for. Some are just out for fun, and never want anything more, and some are picky. There's a billion and one reasons if you sit back and think about it for a while, of which I'm not even going to attempt to list even a quarter of them here lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' Thats why I love the internet. This is what I look like This is what I like This is what I want Interested? Lets meet. Compare that to "the real world" This is what I look like with clothes on This is what I think you want to hear This is what I think you want Interested? Good, now i'll pretend im not so I dont scare you off. Lets meet after I have waited the mandatory 3 days and played a few more subtle mind games. My recent experiences have taught me im too honest for "the chase". No matter how much people say they want honesty, they dont. No matter how much they tell you they dont like head games, every minute is a game. This is why most girls still confuse the shit out of me. I can't tell if they're 'just being nice' or actually interested.The girls here are so much more deliciously direct and honest. :DAs for the topic, i prefer the "catch and study" to the catch and release. I want to take it home so I can explore and research it, push all its buttons so i can see it wriggle and squirm, then let it go safely on its way with a smile on its face when i'm done playing with it.xx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' well, some men were collectors. They probably collected bonkers when they were young.. and you know.. once a bonker... etc. Personally, I don't think there's a scrap of difference between the sexes in that respect. For example, I can readily say the same thing about women.... vis vis.... Women like to have a string of men on a leash because it makes them feel sexy and good about themselves. Not so sure I agree with that, but many women definitely measure they're self worth and assauge their low self esteem with men and sex. It goes some way to explain the whole "I always seem to find the bad boys" carry on.I also think that people who have had a relationship go sour tend to be a bit ... phobic.... about entering into a new long term relationship. It's safe to be single.... it's more difficult for someone to reach down your throat and rip your heart out, piss on it and kick it around the back yard like you just don't matter.... well, for example... hehe. Definitely agree with this, but then the whole "it's not the baggage you have, it's how you carry it" kicks in. So... that's life. And I for one prefer not to live it half-arsed. I think so long as you live with as little regret as possible and attempt to learn something and take a lesson away from every experience, it need not have been a waste of time.HUgsStalky We are all the sum of our experiences and I don't think it's fair of women (or men) to tar everyone with the same brush bu making such broad generalisations. . I prefer to believe people come into your life for a reason. Not everyone is supposed to stay. They serve their purpose and then they move on. People are people Meeks, it really comes down to that whole "falling in love with the highest potential of a man" stuff. Women tend to fall much more easily than men. That is simply because we are driven by emotions, men by cold hard logic (and their penis) LOL.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Flirty - do you really think women fall in love more easily than men? Or like Stalky says ... men just carry on and all of a sudden realise one day that they have fallen in love. I think he refers to it as a happy accident. Isn't more that men just don't think about the love stuff? Whereas women overthink this love stuff? xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
I guess I was trying to say that ... I think you just put it more succinctly
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' As for the topic, i prefer the "catch and study" to the catch and release. I want to take it home so I can explore and research it, push all its buttons so i can see it wriggle and squirm, then let it go safely on its way with a smile on its face when i'm done playing with it. xx Sarah My favourite bit...I think you've just made being a lab-rat sound the most attractive thing to be to date
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So, my friend, who no doubt will be reading this (join already why don't you?) I think . "Treat them mean and keep them keen" . ... Meeka oUo First time i had to quote more than once lol! I have thought about this (for a whole 2min hehe), and my take is from when i was a young thing vs now, and I believe there is no difference, no matter what age you are, or what you want, i think the default is somehow you ALL end up playing the game. And after pondering this just now, I think maybe it isn't such a bad thing necessarily...The reason why, is that 'falling in love' c'mon, that isn't gonna be with EVERYONE u meet, that is a pretty rare occurrence for most... So the rest of the peeps u meet, what are they for, instant, nope, u aren’t it? I think they are life’s enjoyable interludes, FUN, games, cheekiness, thrills, making life interesting? I know that I enjoy 3 month'rs if you play well it can be tonnes of fun, and you can finish as friends. If you were to fall in love then, in my experience, it just takes care of itself, with you as a chemically hopped up passenger lol! So I think maybe, this is how our human nature makes it fun? Fancy just having one date, nope no love....NEXT!!!! I like to stick around for a few cheeky times in the interim, there are many flavours of the good stuff? P.S. Meeks, what does oUo mean???? Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' Thats why I love the internet. This is what I look like This is what I like This is what I want Interested? Lets meet. Compare that to "the real world" This is what I look like with clothes on This is what I think you want to hear This is what I think you want Interested? Good, now i'll pretend im not so I dont scare you off. Lets meet after I have waited the mandatory 3 days and played a few more subtle mind games. My recent experiences have taught me im too honest for "the chase". No matter how much people say they want honesty, they dont. No matter how much they tell you they dont like head games, every minute is a game. Then again, maybe thats just townsville. God I cant wait to be back in NSW. You gorgeous young thing.....Are you ONLY looking for 'the one'? Life can be more fun than that, enjoy your time along the way, no need to be so serious (working in a night club could give you one sordid side, it isn’t the only one u know?) and it isn't about being DISHONEST, it is about enjoying your interludes as you look for love... I am sure you must do a tiny bit of marketing regarding your strengths when meeting peeps, yes? Well being cheeky and keeping them guessing, heating up the encounters, leaving them wanting... not dishonest, sexual/person discovery, mix of fun time experiences. Does everyone just wanna meet people with CV's stating me is this, me want this, you, good fit, let’s get married, end of search ZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz I think some people think that the thrill of the chase is a bad thing, IT CAN BE A FUN THING :) However, there are players and there are dishonest people that stomp all over your feelings (you can sniff players/liars out, there are usually tell tale signs. But an open player, then fair is fair I say)... that is not what I am talking about here. I have had many fun 3month'rs and none were nasty like that, i always managed to get enough honest communication thru it, and many, like me are happy to admit, not love, just norti, FUN, awesome times!!! Quoting 'Meeka100' Flirty - do you really think women fall in love more easily than men? Or like Stalky says ... men just carry on and all of a sudden realise one day that they have fallen in love. I think he refers to it as a happy accident. Isn't more that men just don't think about the love stuff? Whereas women overthink this love stuff? xx Meeks I totally think females think about feelings HEAPS more than your average guy, which does suck a fair bit, but i guess if we feel 'love' then we need to deal with that, ask target questions regarding their ideas on whether they want a gaggle of FWB's and FB's for the next 5 years, or if they are sorta hoping to ind ‘the one’ and are open to it.... You can pick up a sense of the reality of the situation. But if they are just general feelings, I find guys are really a lot more communicative in the non-verbal sense (coz they aren’t even thinking most of the time and just do wot they do... hehehe Roxxy’s comment that men are dumb arses just entered my head lol!! Love them regardless thou Mwah!! So much to love about men hehe)...FB's/FWB's I feel the way it roles is lots of hanging out, enjoying laughs and stuff, then SEX, but no cross over... I think if it is more than that, ie. they subconsciously have 'feelings' NOT LOVE, just 'err they like you lots?' then the non verbal is totally different... lots of touching, attentive to all your needs, increased frequency of catchups, slight change in the way you have sex... more eye contact, more sensual........ ANYWAY that could all be a load of SHITE?! Just what i am thinking in this 20min ponder?? I really feel like a few hours of slow sensual sex now.............. So nice to spend a WHOLE Sunday in bed......... *sigh*
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't know about what your experiences may be...but I enjoy the "chase" as a the art of seduction. It is a little lost here at times...we seem to know why we are here unless there are other reasons that should be made a bit more clear from the outset. | I wonder though...is that moment of truth when the hunter becomes the hunted? That part I truly enjoy and when that enters in to the rules of engagement, all I can say is "more". | Now of course if that means you are looking in my pockets for an engagement ring...there is more than a fair chance that I will climb out at 500 knots and hit 35.000 disappearing out across the horizon. It is different with each person I meet and the generalization is that... | ...anything is subject to change without notice.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Booba - my friend and I worked together for many years and that was our secret symbol that we used when we were talking about the dicks in the office via email or instant messaging. Typical email responses may have been.... He is such a (_i_)hole. What a oUo You would never know I was 40 would you. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'| ...anything is subject to change without notice. I want to know NOW... what are your intentions?? I think a lot of us girls find it hard to just let things develop naturally without trying to analyse everything to death aongl the way. Just the nature of our beauty to your beast. xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Booba - my friend and I worked together for many years and that was our secret symbol that we used when we were talking about the dicks in the office via email or instant messaging. Typical email responses may have been.... He is such a (_i_)hole. What a oUo You would never know I was 40 would you. Code in the office is smart hehe 40 years young luvvy xxxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' You gorgeous young thing.....Are you ONLY looking for 'the one'? Life can be more fun than that, enjoy your time along the way, no need to be so serious (working in a night club could give you one sordid side, it isn’t the only one u know?) and it isn't about being DISHONEST, it is about enjoying your interludes as you look for love... I am sure you must do a tiny bit of marketing regarding your strengths when meeting peeps, yes? Well being cheeky and keeping them guessing, heating up the encounters, leaving them wanting... not dishonest, sexual/person discovery, mix of fun time experiences. Does everyone just wanna meet people with CV's stating me is this, me want this, you, good fit, let’s get married, end of search ZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz I think some people think that the thrill of the chase is a bad thing, IT CAN BE A FUN THING :) However, there are players and there are dishonest people that stomp all over your feelings (you can sniff players/liars out, there are usually tell tale signs. But an open player, then fair is fair I say)... that is not what I am talking about here. I have had many fun 3month'rs and none were nasty like that, i always managed to get enough honest communication thru it, and many, like me are happy to admit, not love, just norti, FUN, awesome times!!! Until I modified my profile just a few days ago, I made it pretty clear I dont want anything serious. I guess I should have kept that bit. I think its just townsville, but the last few experiences went from fun to meaningless mind games pretty quickly, so I guess it has made me impatient and grumpy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You do know that "patience is a virtue" and of the few of mine that remain unscathed...oh forget it, if I were a hungry predatorial bird, I would not sit out on a limb waiting for roadkill. | Quoting 'Meeka100' I want to know NOW... what are your intentions?| Go on then...reach into my pocket and see what you find in there. Could be those tricked out Armani's and you will shake hands with the ananconda. Then again, it could be that I have worn the other tricked out pair and what you will find in there is a pocket full of good intentions....and a gift certificate to the Lelo Online shop. I read the other thread and can't imagine that you haven't played with toys much so, let's go shopping? | There...how much more detail do you need than that? Truth be told, I never go into anything with the blinders either on or off completely. What if by some wierd twist of fate after we put so much out in front and decided well in advance what all the rules are and the outcomes were going to be...did we just rule out completley that magic sometimes may just happen? | That would be pretty dull, huh? But always the gentleman...if you want a ring first, they have some really great ones on that Lelo site and with this ring... | ...I thee bed. | | We could talk about it if you like...I am in the air again this weekend.
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RHP User
15 years ago
CM - yes I am planning a shopping trip in the next few days. But alas I will not be in Sydney over the weekend. Going to the mountains with some friends. :P xx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' CM - yes I am planning a shopping trip in the next few days. But alas I will not be in Sydney over the weekend. Going to the mountains with some friends. :P xx Meeka Oh going to the mountains eh? Well.. you better take your banjo and buy yourself a bigger strap on as well as a long length of rope and a canoe might be useful.... those mountain guys are pretty difficult to .... errrmmm mount! Anyway... I can't wait to hear all about Meeka and Deliverance!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Oh going to the mountains eh? Well.. you better take your banjo and buy yourself a bigger strap on as well as a long length of rope and a canoe might be useful.... those mountain guys are pretty difficult to .... errrmmm mount! Anyway... I can't wait to hear all about Meeka and Deliverance!HugsStalky Shhh you're not supposed to know. hahaha. That's funny. If I get into trouble Stalky I will call you for some over the phone instructions. Do you think the mountain cabins will provide sauce bottles or should I bring my own? :P xx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
No more tears then... | Quoting 'Meeka100' Going to the mountains with some friends. :P| I am leaving late Friday for the Snowys too...how good is that? | Pick me up at the airport?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Oh going to the mountains eh? Well.. you better take your banjo and buy yourself a bigger strap on as well as a long length of rope and a canoe might be useful.... those mountain guys are pretty difficult to .... errrmmm mount! Anyway... I can't wait to hear all about Meeka and Deliverance!HugsStalky A bigger strap on?? PINEAPPLE!!!!!!! As for handling those mountain men, allow me to offer you a word of advice. Go to that website, and search "horse"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ah! Definitely treat them mean keep them keen...from experience, guys run mile when you get too close and comfortable but stick like glue when do the opposite!! But I agree with Stalky that chicks do the same too - hence why some of us love bad boys...So, what is the best way to keep a man then? Not that I want to, just curious to hear a man's view... As for the mountains, can I cum along Lickapop (o)(o)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry wrong mountains Chasing. I am going to the Blue Mountains. I will think of you as I sit in the spa with my glass of champers.xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Who is hung like a horse Flirty?? Wasn't there a movie about mountain men? I thought they mounted each other? Yee ha!xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well Stalky - I wasn't able to mount the Mountain man you were right there but I think he may have mounted me. Unfortunately there was no sauce bottles but it is amazing what you can find in cupboards. Yes glad wrap and thanks to Roxxy I knew exactly what to do with it. Yes that's right - that chocolate cake was wrapped up good an proper before I put it in the fridge.Oh and I will never look at a coat hanger the same way again - well the ones with the clips on them anyway. I know you have told me the evil things that can happen when you stay in the spa too long but I can't remember what you told me - but I think I am ok. xxMeeks
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